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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm arranging my first gangbang and I've not been short of offers. It got me thinking, if it was the other way around, no matter how hot the guy, I wouldn't want to be one of many to have sex with just the one guy. Why do men enjoy it so much? (Also, i'm aware that there probably are women who would enjoy it but it seems the majority are men). I don't think it's a case of it being the only way of them getting any, so what do they get from it? Is it a visual spectacle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite orderly one gets on the other gets off and so on depends how many are there

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality."

Yes that's just it, I can obviously see what I get out of it but just wondering what the guys get from it. x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Yes that's just it, I can obviously see what I get out of it but just wondering what the guys get from it. x"

If I'm with a woman, I want to feel I have her attention and I'm busy all the time, as it were. Any more than a couple of guys and I'd just begin to feel left out. And as much as I'd probably like to watch a woman with a load a blokes, being on the sidelines does nothing for me. I may as well be at home having a wank. I'm kind of curious now myself to know what guys do get out of participating in such events.

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By *adeSummersTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

How is the planning going for your big day?

Do you have an age limit? How many do you want to attend? Is it being held at a hotel or your home?

Good Luck!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not going too badly thanks. I'm looking at 4 guys plus hubby as it's my first one. I wanted to hire a cottage but think I might just do a chain hotel for my first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not going too badly thanks. I'm looking at 4 guys plus hubby as it's my first one. I wanted to hire a cottage but think I might just do a chain hotel for my first. "

Oh can i be on the standby list

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By *adeSummersTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

Interesting, from prior experience I know that some chain hotels can be tricky when it comes to getting everyone to the room without raising suspicion. Plus with that many people the rooms aren't actually big enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was invited to a meet once, got there turns out was a gangbang lol 2 got ladies & 6 guys.

Had to turn them down, just don't find GB appealing. Having to wait in a Que with naked dudes jerking of next to me naa! But each to their own I suppose, I'm just to greedy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was invited to a meet once, got there turns out was a gangbang lol 2 got ladies & 6 guys.

Had to turn them down, just don't find GB appealing. Having to wait in a Que with naked dudes jerking of next to me naa! But each to their own I suppose, I'm just to greedy "

I understand completely, if I'm meeting somebody I want all of their attention on me. Just so happens in this case that I will have the attention of 5 men all to myself (as far as I know, none of them are bi so it's all about me, me, me!) I may be selfish but I'm honest !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not going too badly thanks. I'm looking at 4 guys plus hubby as it's my first one. I wanted to hire a cottage but think I might just do a chain hotel for my first.

Oh can i be on the standby list "

Get yourself on Skype then so we can chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want 5 guys. Arrange 10 as half won't turn up

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I love GBs but only if I'm the only woman there.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not going too badly thanks. I'm looking at 4 guys plus hubby as it's my first one. I wanted to hire a cottage but think I might just do a chain hotel for my first. "

You definitely need to invite double or even triple the amount of guys you want. That's the way of the gb......

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"It's not going too badly thanks. I'm looking at 4 guys plus hubby as it's my first one. I wanted to hire a cottage but think I might just do a chain hotel for my first.

You definitely need to invite double or even triple the amount of guys you want. That's the way of the gb...... "

From previous experience of arranging gangbangs, invite double the amount you think you can cope with as at least 50% will cancel/no show.

Have hubby or one you trust to watch your back and make sure everyone is playing safe and sticking to your rules.

Always best to have a briefing on your likes and dislikes prior to playing, then no awkward moments when someone tries something you don't like.

Most of all though, it's your special day, have fun, don't take it too seriously and enjoy being the center of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me they don't interest me at all stand round waiting and wanking till its your turn. In a room full of men doing the same zero appeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was invited to a meet once, got there turns out was a gangbang lol 2 got ladies & 6 guys.

Had to turn them down, just don't find GB appealing. Having to wait in a Que with naked dudes jerking of next to me naa! But each to their own I suppose, I'm just to greedy

I understand completely, if I'm meeting somebody I want all of their attention on me. Just so happens in this case that I will have the attention of 5 men all to myself (as far as I know, none of them are bi so it's all about me, me, me!) I may be selfish but I'm honest !"

Lol have a good1 sexy lady, might need a wheelchair though after pounding from 5 guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me they don't interest me at all stand round waiting and wanking till its your turn. In a room full of men doing the same zero appeal "

You do make gangbangs sound very boring. The lady is 2 hands a mouth and a pussy. Use your imagination. No waiting around then. Unless thats what the lady wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not going too badly thanks. I'm looking at 4 guys plus hubby as it's my first one. I wanted to hire a cottage but think I might just do a chain hotel for my first.

Oh can i be on the standby list

Get yourself on Skype then so we can chat "

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yes that's just it, I can obviously see what I get out of it but just wondering what the guys get from it. x"

Nothing. Does nothing for me personally. Orgy yes, gang bang no. Unless of course it's a bi one and I'm the centre of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality.

Yes that's just it, I can obviously see what I get out of it but just wondering what the guys get from it. x"

Watching a lady please multiple guys and pleasing her multiple times. I love it

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I couldn't do it. Naked men near me is very off putting. Looks like fun tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality."

Have a multi woman gangbang, ratio of 3 men to each woman. So if you have 4 women present they'll get fucked by 12 guys each and the guys will get more action! Or would this be called an orgy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only three days to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only three days to go!"

Hope you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love gangbangs. I love to see a woman getting fucked while she is sucking cock and other guys are trying to put their dicks in her hands. I love fucking a woman when someone else has just withdrawn too. The best part is when we all cover her in cum. I have no problem performing in front of other guys because there is nothing sexier than a woman that loves men so much that one cock and 10 fingers are sometimes not enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality.

Have a multi woman gangbang, ratio of 3 men to each woman. So if you have 4 women present they'll get fucked by 12 guys each and the guys will get more action! Or would this be called an orgy?"

I would rather take part in something like this then a gangbang, Or even a small party with couples if I ever find a swinging partner

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

A woman with multiple partners is the ultimate hornet sight ever...

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality.

Have a multi woman gangbang, ratio of 3 men to each woman. So if you have 4 women present they'll get fucked by 12 guys each and the guys will get more action! Or would this be called an orgy?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gang bangs are funny things some get stage fright ,some lose their rigidity waiting for their turn ,some are greedy and hog the limelight ,some cum some don't

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire


"I must admit, I do like the visual spectacle of it all. Love seeing it in porn. As do a lot of guys. In reality I have no interest in it. The reality being you're going to spend 90% of the time wanking your dick, chit chatting with a bunch of random blokes until it's your turn. Not appealing to me in the slightest. I really couldn't tell you what guys who do this get out of it.

I think quite a few women like it or at least the idea of it. I imagine any woman who is into it is going to be in absolute heaven. As any bloke would be if he had 10 women all to himself. Sadly this scenario rarely happens in reality.

Have a multi woman gangbang, ratio of 3 men to each woman. So if you have 4 women present they'll get fucked by 12 guys each and the guys will get more action! Or would this be called an orgy?"

Like the sound of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm arranging my first gangbang and I've not been short of offers. It got me thinking, if it was the other way around, no matter how hot the guy, I wouldn't want to be one of many to have sex with just the one guy. Why do men enjoy it so much? (Also, i'm aware that there probably are women who would enjoy it but it seems the majority are men). I don't think it's a case of it being the only way of them getting any, so what do they get from it? Is it a visual spectacle? "

I don't know I am actually looking to try to see if it is my thing. I suppose it boils down to be able to just use someone else for your pleasure the way you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm arranging my first gangbang and I've not been short of offers. It got me thinking, if it was the other way around, no matter how hot the guy, I wouldn't want to be one of many to have sex with just the one guy. Why do men enjoy it so much? (Also, i'm aware that there probably are women who would enjoy it but it seems the majority are men). I don't think it's a case of it being the only way of them getting any, so what do they get from it? Is it a visual spectacle?

I don't know I am actually looking to try to see if it is my thing. I suppose it boils down to be able to just use someone else for your pleasure the way you want to. "

No its the opposite, the turn on is seeing a woman who is just insatiable and can't get enough cock. She wants to be used and I am just a pawn but when it's my turn to fuck her,cum or just get head she looks me in the eye and makes me feel like I am number one. (As she does with all the others haha).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men are dropping out like flies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe yes unfortunately they get stage fright or a more attractive offer comes up eg a woman and him ,hope some still turn up for you though have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are dropping out like flies! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Men are dropping out like flies! "

That's why you should invite double the amount you think you can cope with... Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you invite double the amount of guys you want ,just be prepared if they all pitch up

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By *unmeisterMan
over a year ago

London & West Midlands

I'm arranging my first gangbang and I've not been short of offers. It got me thinking, if it was the other way around, no matter how hot the guy, I wouldn't want to be one of many to have sex with just the one guy. Why do men enjoy it so much? (Also, i'm aware that there probably are women who would enjoy it but it seems the majority are men). I don't think it's a case of it being the only way of them getting any, so what do they get from it? Is it a visual spectacle?

Must be great for the lady but as a man, whilst I enjoy group fun I have zero interest in participating in a GB. I always assume it's the last resort for single guys who cannot get laid

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By *unCoupleTXCouple
over a year ago

Longview

I am also interested in why it appeals to a woman... To me, it doesn't seem like you necessarily have all these guys wanting YOU. I like to be the center of attention, sure! But I would just feel like a piece of meat, being used. Like just this body with holes to be filled. Of course, I've never done it, and I'm absolutely not judging... I just like to question things cuz I'm a curious kind of girl.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Some years ago on another site a GB was organised, over 100 guys were up for it and were invited.

Guess how many showed up?

0

L2

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I would love a GB, we have tried to arrange one recently. All those guys dumping their cum. Love the thought of it.

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

As others have said you need to double the invites to get near the number you want.

Good Luck and enjoy X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we did one everyone pitched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me they don't interest me at all stand round waiting and wanking till its your turn. In a room full of men doing the same zero appeal

You do make gangbangs sound very boring. The lady is 2 hands a mouth and a pussy. Use your imagination. No waiting around then. Unless thats what the lady wants "

Exactly this. I have helped organise a few gangbangs. The most we had was 10 guys. The girl used her mouth and hands while being fucked. Nobody was stood around 'waiting there turn'. A couple of guys did cum from the bj and couldn't get hard again which may be worth remembering.

Other times I have helped organise for two girls and had only two guys turn up. And I was one of them! So you do need to ask more than you want as many do drop out, as you are finding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nobody here...

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"Nobody here..."

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Nobody here... "
good luck OP hope they show for you

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