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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you ever meet a guy who is part of a couple on here seperately. We've said before about when I go away for training meeting a girl each (shes bi), I think she'd get a meet in a heartbeat but I feel like i'd find it even harder than a single guy would. So again my question is, ladies, would you meet a guy who is part of a couple on here?

And guys, I dont want you to feel left out, but would You meet a girl from a couple? Of course you f***ing would! So you can all tell me your favourite buscuit instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have done. I spoke to his wife to check she was happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me either, i'm after single guys.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes I would but only if we'd all previously met and everyone was aware and happy with it.

Same goes for the female half of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough but can I ask why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough but can I ask why is that? "

I just don't find attached guys attractive. Some people get a thrill off it but for me it's a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm not interested in being part of their relationship dynamics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough but can I ask why is that? "

Because I don't want to feel like I'm second best which is what I would be.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No we wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if we met separately that would be a preference on both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And I do meet a guy regular from s couple. But at the same time when we arrange a meet I will always contact his wife to make sure she is ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok well we've heard a couple of reasons against the idea, what do you see as the benefits of the situation?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Not all guys will fuck anything that moves. I'm generally not into couples (except in certain circumstances) and I'm not interested in attached women either. The only way it would work for me would be if I already had some sort of prior connection/friendship with the couple or the woman. I have no interest in being a couples little plaything. A little added extra to their sexlife. I like to be treated as an equal. Oh and I like Garibaldi's...I would have chosen Jaffa Cakes but it turns out they aren't biscuits!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thats fair, apologise for my sexist presumption

garibaldis are NOT a good buscuit though :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would only meet someone (man or woman) from a couple individually if we had a prior connection with the couple together.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I had a couples profile and thought I was ok with him meeting on his own. I wasn't. We don't see each other anymore. But lots of couples profiles welcome it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys will fuck anything that moves. I'm generally not into couples (except in certain circumstances) and I'm not interested in attached women either. The only way it would work for me would be if I already had some sort of prior connection/friendship with the couple or the woman. I have no interest in being a couples little plaything. A little added extra to their sexlife. I like to be treated as an equal. Oh and I like Garibaldi's...I would have chosen Jaffa Cakes but it turns out they aren't biscuits! "

This is the same for me as a female. And I have garibaldi's, although fruit ahortcakes are better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

i just find it easier to avoid couples either together or alone

a single guy is less hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

No, I don't meet attached males, even if they have their partner's permission to play solo. Why would I get into all that potential hassle, when there are so many lovely single males in my area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done. One of my oldest fab friends has a partner. They both have separate profiles and play separately. It's never been an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, yes xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Would you ever meet a guy who is part of a couple on here seperately. We've said before about when I go away for training meeting a girl each (shes bi), I think she'd get a meet in a heartbeat but I feel like i'd find it even harder than a single guy would. So again my question is, ladies, would you meet a guy who is part of a couple on here?

And guys, I dont want you to feel left out, but would You meet a girl from a couple? Of course you f***ing would! So you can all tell me your favourite buscuit instead "

It depends on the couple actually some I would, some I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like being second best

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

I love my hubby meeting on his own although it is difficult to arrange for all the reasons others have said

He works away a lot but has yet to meet while working as we haven't found a lady up for it....but we are trying

He's only met one lady so far but we all enjoyed every minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't like being second best "

Second best in what way? I don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't like being second best

Second best in what way? I don't understand."

surely if your only meeting for sex your never going to be best, if you was they would want more than just a fuck from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you ever meet a guy who is part of a couple on here seperately. We've said before about when I go away for training meeting a girl each (shes bi), I think she'd get a meet in a heartbeat but I feel like i'd find it even harder than a single guy would. So again my question is, ladies, would you meet a guy who is part of a couple on here?

And guys, I dont want you to feel left out, but would You meet a girl from a couple? Of course you f***ing would! So you can all tell me your favourite buscuit instead "

Yes, for sure.

But they need to have their own profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, as long as all partys are happy and I'd meet or skyped you as a couple first

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I would but I would still want to have the social first and make sure there was an attraction.

I saw an attached guy a couple of times but there were some 'demands' made from her side. I'm wary of doing that again now because of the outcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Yes, for sure.

But they need to have their own profile."

Why would that be then? Does anyone else feel that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Provided all are consenting adults why not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes, for sure.

But they need to have their own profile.

Why would that be then? Does anyone else feel that way?"

From a practical point of view hubby and i find it easier to manage and made it less confusing for others by having our own profiles as well as a couples one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Yes, for sure.

But they need to have their own profile.

Why would that be then? Does anyone else feel that way?

From a practical point of view hubby and i find it easier to manage and made it less confusing for others by having our own profiles as well as a couples one. "

Interesting, before you gave up on meeting completely, did you used to mention on your profile still that you were part of a couple though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes, for sure.

But they need to have their own profile.

Why would that be then? Does anyone else feel that way?

From a practical point of view hubby and i find it easier to manage and made it less confusing for others by having our own profiles as well as a couples one.

Interesting, before you gave up on meeting completely, did you used to mention on your profile still that you were part of a couple though"

Yes i did. Guys would often chat to hubby also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. We only meet as a couple though.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes, for sure.

But they need to have their own profile.

Why would that be then? Does anyone else feel that way?

From a practical point of view hubby and i find it easier to manage and made it less confusing for others by having our own profiles as well as a couples one.

Interesting, before you gave up on meeting completely, did you used to mention on your profile still that you were part of a couple though

Yes i did. Guys would often chat to hubby also."

Not that often, if it had been more often you'd probably still be meeting!

But then i find a lot of guys vacuous and annoying,or threatening so i wouldn't have let you meet them anyway!... starting to see why we don't meet anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all guys will fuck anything that moves. I'm generally not into couples (except in certain circumstances) and I'm not interested in attached women either. The only way it would work for me would be if I already had some sort of prior connection/friendship with the couple or the woman. I have no interest in being a couples little plaything. A little added extra to their sexlife. I like to be treated as an equal. Oh and I like Garibaldi's...I would have chosen Jaffa Cakes but it turns out they aren't biscuits! "

that's a shame x

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Yes I would but only if we'd all previously met and everyone was aware and happy with it.

Same goes for the female half of a couple.

"

Same as us Says so in our profile but we still get messages asking if they can 'borrow the mrs' for the night or offering the services of the male

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Would you ever meet a guy who is part of a couple on here seperately. We've said before about when I go away for training meeting a girl each (shes bi), I think she'd get a meet in a heartbeat but I feel like i'd find it even harder than a single guy would. So again my question is, ladies, would you meet a guy who is part of a couple on here?

And guys, I dont want you to feel left out, but would You meet a girl from a couple? Of course you f***ing would! So you can all tell me your favourite buscuit instead "

After past bad experiences, no I wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as all parties knew about it and consented. I usually chat to the Mrs to double check this. Also; custard creams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past but he and his wife had separate profiles along with there couples one. Met up quite a few times was fine.

Doll x

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Custard cream for sure

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