FabSwingers.com forum: Did watching porn lead to you being a swinger?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In our case I'm pretty sure that watching porn has resulted in us being more open minded and willing to try things that look lots of fun, but what about other fabbers? Did watching porn ultimately lead to this lifestyle?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell asleep in my car in a lay by, woke up to a herd of doggers, naturally I got out and blended in, all uphill from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, being a pervert led me to enjoying both

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

No.

As long as I can remember ive always been a deviant.

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Indirectly. I got addicted to porn as I have an addictive personality anyway. I sorted that out through going to Sexaholics Anonymous. Years later I realised that my addiction to porn was really about wanting other relationships so I'm trying polyamory and swinging. To me swinging is about meeting nice people who like each others bodies but don't want to take it any further, which is fine with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"In our case I'm pretty sure that watching porn has resulted in us being more open minded and willing to try things that look lots of fun, but what about other fabbers? Did watching porn ultimately lead to this lifestyle?"

No; but have watched a lot of porn in swinger's clubs; hard to get away from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I got into it as I had a girlfriend who had previously kissed a girl and let hands wander before I met her.

Knowing she found girls attractive but hadn't gone all the way, I suggested she try it. In the end we went to a party for her to play but all the agreed rules we had went out the window and we found ourselves loving everything about swinging.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say it contributed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm not a swinger and really not into porn its too manufactured ,the beautiful perfect bodies fucking to direction

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

No it didn't.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

Nope, i started swinging long before I ever saw porn.

To me porn is crap, all fake tits, fake orgasms, fake facial expressions, whats the turn on in watching fakeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of it did introduced me into trying other sexual things and experiences but I've always been sexually active since my teens

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Had a good part reading girly magazines in bed the stories and letter,s turned us both on.And we got married very young

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

No...i can say that watching porn didn't make me a swinger tbh ...i don't watch porn now a days .. i listen to music like trance music which I prefer....much more

An the dance music trance scene..

What got me into swinging was an ex...bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No...i can say that watching porn didn't make me a swinger tbh ...i don't watch porn now a days .. i listen to music like trance music which I prefer....much more

An the dance music trance scene..

What got me into swinging was an ex...bf "
_helbee looking good in red xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I would say it contributed

This

It got us talking openly about what we enjoyed seeing and what we might like to try.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"No...i can say that watching porn didn't make me a swinger tbh ...i don't watch porn now a days .. i listen to music like trance music which I prefer....much more

An the dance music trance scene..

What got me into swinging was an ex...bf _helbee looking good in red xx

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn gave me unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex. It's just all boring an a lot of it is fake... stopped watching it yearsss ago

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We were filming our sexual adventures long before we had heard of swinging, we thought swingers at that time were these weirdo's who chucked their keys in the middle of the table lol.

We now film our life as we live it and live our life as we film it...if that makes sense xx

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Watching porn led to taking pictures which led to online pic sharing then camming... and via a slow route from there we found out about swinging and eventually got into it. Not so much of the porn now (watching or making!) but the swinging is much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like a bit of a mixed bag then. The reference was more in relation to amateur porn rather than the false HD stuff that studios throw out. It's certainly piqued our interest. We just need to find suitable guys that won't waste our time like a number to date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it did for us watching mmf mostly and wanting to try it out which then led to the couple thing. Prefer amateur porn definitely.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

For us it was constant episodes of sexcetera, on just as wiggles got home. Each episode seemed to show swing clubs and it looked fun.

So next day we saw was a club close and wiggles said "cool lets go"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has had that efect on me

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

No:

In fact I find porn a turn off; as it is utterly absurd.

Though sometimes funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all..

we (my ex and me) knew a man who organised late night 'parties'...my ex was appalled when he realised what they involved but I was intrigued...not long after we split up I was looking meeting people from another site and I've never looked back

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By *unCoupleTXCouple
over a year ago

Longview

Well, in a way.... Watching some girl on girl porn definitely sparked my bi-curiosity. So, I kissed a girl, and I liked it!

Other than that, not really. My partner and I are just naturally more open minded and adventurous. Yay us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've always liked sex. I now watch less porn on my own since going to swingers clubs. When you're having pornstar sex on a weekly basis I

don't feel like watching it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

No, my halo fell off one day and it all went from there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Never been into porn, even as a teenager. We have far more fun than I've seen in any porn film

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I fell asleep in my car in a lay by, woke up to a herd of doggers, naturally I got out and blended in, all uphill from there"

With not one ounce of sarcasm, that is a cool story bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, becoming a swinger has made me watch more though

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, but playing Frogger on the Spectrum made me go back and forth as I crossed roads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, becoming a swinger has made me watch more though

Women watch porn? Who'd have thought it.

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

nope ... an old friend coming to visit ... he looked longingly as we went up the stairs ...

but sure we have always been pretty liberal ...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've found those obsessed with porn are the worst in bed.

True fact

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

No, it was having sex with strangers that did it for us.

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