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Never cum from a BJ

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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Ive never cum from a BJ.

Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.

It must be my mental block. Wish I could though.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Have u tried sucking yourself off

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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

What at my age? I make a strange noise when pulling my socks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could fill this thread with I have never comments

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Very rare that I do too. Only happend a handful of times and they used plenty of hand action too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can....but tend to hold back. Give the lady a good nibble 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only cum once from a BJ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60% of the time I come every time

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I (m) rarely cum from either a hand or blow job, fairly sure it's all in my head, but hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey...er...yeah..i haven't...er cum from once either! ..oh if only a woman could try..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's not just guys. I haven't cum from a BJ either..

Being serious.. Some of us women have the mental block too. God knows how to overcome it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys. I haven't cum from a BJ either..

Being serious.. Some of us women have the mental block too. God knows how to overcome it. "

I'm with you!

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ive never cum from a BJ.

Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.

It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."

If your prostate is stimulated during, that will increase the likelihood of reaching orgasm.

Men that struggle to achieve orgasm through fellatio alone are helped greatly by some light oral stimulation around the perineum / anal prostate area.

Also, it's not a race, find someone that enjoys slow oral and will take their time while sucking you, then of course return the favour to the lady friend in question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not gunna be one of those women that says they'll make you cum from a bj....but I swear I'd have fun trying

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare for me too....but that's mainly because a BJ is usually just part of foreplay.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I challenge any woman to make me cum from a bj...no seriously

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It's not just guys. I haven't cum from a BJ either..

Being serious.. Some of us women have the mental block too. God knows how to overcome it.

I'm with you!"

Frustration at its best. Lol! My fella (and others) enjoys the challenge. Good job eh?

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By *elbourne69Man
over a year ago

Melbourne

I was the same, until I met a lady who literally sucked my cum out of me! I had very little choice, she was well versed, determined and enjoyed every second of it, as did I! Best BJ ever, and now I can guide a lady on how to get the desired results....thank you BC!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same no matter who have tried no one has ever made me. I do enjoy the pleasure. And I love repaying the pleasure in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a bj? Im lucky if I get a fuck, and that's in the dark (with the mrs!) Actually I lie, had more this year so far than the entire year last year... but still no bj

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By *ne hung loMan
over a year ago

gloucester


"What at my age? I make a strange noise when pulling my socks on "
me to

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Find I struggle with this as well.

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"I was the same, until I met a lady who literally sucked my cum out of me! I had very little choice, she was well versed, determined and enjoyed every second of it, as did I! Best BJ ever, and now I can guide a lady on how to get the desired results....thank you BC! "

A lot do oral without any real enthusiasm .. Men are intuitive and know this so don't let go and enjoy to its fullest. Tbh For most it's an appetiser (so to speak) warm up ; before moving on to other things..

The secret , as simple as it might sound is genuine enthusiasm , lapping him up and savouring his manhood until he "lets go" and melts into a soft pliable quivering heap, twisting and convulsing with every teasing suck and touch, desperate for the release..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have the same problem. And it is a problem because it feels so good when it happens.

Finally happened for me when I was given a surprise blowjob by a friends friend I'd only recently met. I think the fact I hadn't been thinking about it just relaxed me.

Since then not really had a problem if the lady knows what's she is doing.

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

I was thinking this isn't for me ( cumming via blowjob) until I met this lady off tinder. She literally laid me down and dragged everything out. #Masterclass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there are some women out there who think simply putting their mouth over the end and wanking the cock is a perfect blowjob.

But we can't moan and pretend we know everything. I'm sure plenty of women have never had an orgasm through oral because some blokes don't put the proper effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum from a BJ either. I thought it was just be being wierd.

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

I've only ever cum once ( many years ago) miss giggles was determined to make it happen, I'm just not that into bj's, I don't worry about it, different strokes for different folks as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have once too

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I feel in a minority... I can always cum with a bj either as part of foreplay or as part of after play, love being sucked off

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Vodka."

That works for me lol,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive never cum from a BJ.

Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.

It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."

Why does it matter how you cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well placed finger or two can help enormously

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Ive never cum from a BJ.

Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.

It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."

I have but only off men who in my experience are better at it.

Maybe give it a try OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the guy to wank himself and pop it in my mouth as he's about to cum, that way I reap the rewards (cum deposit) without putting effort in!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Ive never cum from a BJ.

Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.

It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."

Does it really matter in the grand scheme of things.

I don't or cant cum in curtain positions or acts. Long as I've had fun and enjoyed myself (as well as my partner) it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I can count on one hand the amount of time someone as made me cum with a BJ over last few years - I think the op is near on right its a mental block - in my head I say "don't cum the mouth when there are respectable looking pussy or ass to be filled" ....so if someone thinks they can blow me all the way, I dare you to know on my door lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Curtain positions

Change that to certain

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By *ohno86Man
over a year ago

salford


"I prefer the guy to wank himself and pop it in my mouth as he's about to cum, that way I reap the rewards (cum deposit) without putting effort in!"

Now that's a girl with a plan ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the guy to wank himself and pop it in my mouth as he's about to cum, that way I reap the rewards (cum deposit) without putting effort in!"

that's what I prefer doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad we haven't met most of the guys who can't cum from a bj !

The majority of our meets finish with the bj and lots of cum , and hundreds of meets down the line later , there hasn't been a single instance of the guy being unable to cum .

Quite a few have said they didn't realise they could cum from it though

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Why bother its only foreplay anyway

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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston


"Why bother its only foreplay anyway"

Your right.

For me it's a warm up for the real thing. It's just I hear of these guys who can't help but cum when they're getting sucked. I'd much rather cum whilst being deep inside a wet pussy.

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