FabSwingers.com forum: Dissapointing meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup and I said I had a headache and he left

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup and I said I had a headache and he left"

Did you fake the headache? What was wrong with the guy haha

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes we've had a few meets where we haven't 'clicked' socially.

Also had a couple of meets where it hasn't worked out once naked.

That's just the way it goes it sometimes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointing spelling

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Yes I'm afraid but only one

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Most definitely..not so perfect meets are tiresome.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Yup - several

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I expect fireworks everytime so yes a few

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yip...sadly my very first meet

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

More than I can fucking count! Still, one lives in hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"More than I can fucking count! Still, one lives in hope."

Soul sister lol

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

Not a great one the other night but such is life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few.

Guys cock was too small for penetration, had to ask him to stop trying coz it wasn't gonna happen.

Guy was just weird, kept going on about how much he was enjoying it and asking me if i could tell how much he was enjoying it.

Another weird guy, he was giggly and idk weird.

One who had a girly cum voice lol.

I did cum with most of these guys though, which is even weirder than they were.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

It happened to me just the once.

When I arrived the lady was a lot larger than her photos suggested,I mean a LOT larger

She was also a potty mouth and clearly hadn't washed in a while, so I made my excuses and left...

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"Had a few.

Guys cock was too small for penetration, had to ask him to stop trying coz it wasn't gonna happen.

Guy was just weird, kept going on about how much he was enjoying it and asking me if i could tell how much he was enjoying it.

Another weird guy, he was giggly and idk weird.

One who had a girly cum voice lol.

I did cum with most of these guys though, which is even weirder than they were."

A girly cum voice

wut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"

No all of ours have been amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few meets that didn't go as I liked but I suppose it's to be expected, you can't get along with everybody and you never really know somebody till you have met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our early days on fab we invited a rather young guy to join us. He was only 21.

I met him in advance to chat about what we were looking for and explained it was all about making Mrs J happy. If an effort was made to please her she would reciprocate tenfold.

He seemed a fairly mature young guy and nodded his agreement.

On the big night the fun started. Our bold young man slipped on a condom banged his cock straight into my wife without even the merest effort towards foreplay. Banged into her hard no more than 7 times and had his orgasm.

He immediately stood up announced that it been "fucking brilliant" got dressed and left.

I was still untying my shoe laces

He actually was surprised when I refused to provide him with a verification!

Two lessons were learned. Young guys are a waste of time and wear slip on shoes.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, a few,

A guy who obviously hadnt washed properly and the taste of his cock made me want to gag,

A couple who looked about 20 years younger and half the size of their photos,

A man who totally excluded my partner and was telling me he loved me when fucking me,

A scenario we wanted to try where we pretended my partner was out but he was watching

l, we asked for a guy for a quick meet, well he was in, done the deed, and out in 5 minutes flat, we didn't mean that quick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the one that always stands out to me was a guy I met in a pub for a drink

Now he was and I admit gorgeous, nice face, great body the guy had it all going on physically

I remember when he mailed me thinking OK what's the catch

Anyway he turns up, his pics where him and he looked even better in real life

Then he started talking * looks for bangs head against wall icon*

He was all me, me, me

Sat there telling me how much he spends on cloths, how much he can bench press at the gym, how he can pull any women he likes when he's out etc

Never asked anything at all about me, I didn't need to ask anything about him after half a hour I felt I knew him already

He even said at one point I bet all the women in here are looking at us and wondering how you managed to pull me

Anyway about an hour of his bragging and vanity was all I could take and I said my good byes and left

He was actually shocked I had turned him down

He mailed me that night asking why

I didn't bother to reply as I felt his ego was to big to grasp what I'd have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few.

Guys cock was too small for penetration, had to ask him to stop trying coz it wasn't gonna happen.

Guy was just weird, kept going on about how much he was enjoying it and asking me if i could tell how much he was enjoying it.

Another weird guy, he was giggly and idk weird.

One who had a girly cum voice lol.

I did cum with most of these guys though, which is even weirder than they were.

A girly cum voice

wut?

Lol, it was funny. Idk, i just imagined how someone girly would cum and that's what he sounded like to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the one that always stands out to me was a guy I met in a pub for a drink

Now he was and I admit gorgeous, nice face, great body the guy had it all going on physically

I remember when he mailed me thinking OK what's the catch

Anyway he turns up, his pics where him and he looked even better in real life

Then he started talking * looks for bangs head against wall icon*

He was all me, me, me

Sat there telling me how much he spends on cloths, how much he can bench press at the gym, how he can pull any women he likes when he's out etc

Never asked anything at all about me, I didn't need to ask anything about him after half a hour I felt I knew him already

He even said at one point I bet all the women in here are looking at us and wondering how you managed to pull me

Anyway about an hour of his bragging and vanity was all I could take and I said my good byes and left

He was actually shocked I had turned him down

He mailed me that night asking why

I didn't bother to reply as I felt his ego was to big to grasp what I'd have said "

I hope this humbled him a tad on reflection .

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"

Yes. Turned up at a bar to meet the couple.

They were d*unk, unkempt, scruffy and all round disgusting.

I just said it wasn't for me and left. Quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few.

Guys cock was too small for penetration, had to ask him to stop trying coz it wasn't gonna happen.

Guy was just weird, kept going on about how much he was enjoying it and asking me if i could tell how much he was enjoying it.

Another weird guy, he was giggly and idk weird.

One who had a girly cum voice lol.

I did cum with most of these guys though, which is even weirder than they were.

A girly cum voice

wut?

Lol, it was funny. Idk, i just imagined how someone girly would cum and that's what he sounded like to me."

I remember a guy I met once when I thought was having a fit when he cum

He just started twitching at first then violently shaking, I pushed him off and jumped up to help him to which he asked what I was doing

I said I thought you was having a fit

He said on no I always do that when I cum

So I told him I really think he should warn people about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"

Yes on my old profile I had meet with woman, she probably have vaginal thrush or something... When we started taking off clothes I just started to feel disgusting smell. That's was last minute when I was there....

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

That reminds me of a meet we tried in Paris. Hot hot hot Spanish guy with incredible body and massive cock...

Unfortunately he was a massive cock...

Far too pretty for his own good so had never developed a brain cell.

Cleo needs some chatting and attention to relax - we met at a bar beneath the hotel but he had nothing to say and kept intermittently texting on his phone.

Cleo went to the toilet at some stage and said how hot she was and he desperately wanted to fuck her, so it wasn't lack of interest.

We went back to the room but Cleo decided no, and said no.

He couldn't believe it. He was incredulous. Had had hundreds of meets and never been turned down, he said.

So we still joke about it smugly, her being the only one to turn down this unbelievably hot Spanish guy ...

Attitude and personality is much more important to her than anything else (lucky for me! I hear you say

I still can't believe she turned down the opportunity though. We're I a woman I'm sure I could have overlooked his lack of personality!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few socials where we just didn't get on or have anything to say to each other so didn't take it any further. None of the people I've met for sex I'd call "disappointing" though - some have obviously been better than others but all have been fun in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a guy and was sat in a bar having a pre nerves drink with him , when i spied out of the corner of my eye , the biggest ball of earwax , i have ever seen .... almost threw up into my lemonade and cut short the meet , the thoughts of what other bits were cheesy put me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few.

Guys cock was too small for penetration, had to ask him to stop trying coz it wasn't gonna happen.

Guy was just weird, kept going on about how much he was enjoying it and asking me if i could tell how much he was enjoying it.

Another weird guy, he was giggly and idk weird.

One who had a girly cum voice lol.

I did cum with most of these guys though, which is even weirder than they were.

A girly cum voice

wut?

Lol, it was funny. Idk, i just imagined how someone girly would cum and that's what he sounded like to me.

I remember a guy I met once when I thought was having a fit when he cum

He just started twitching at first then violently shaking, I pushed him off and jumped up to help him to which he asked what I was doing

I said I thought you was having a fit

He said on no I always do that when I cum

So I told him I really think he should warn people about that

That would have scared me tbh.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"

Yes, I've had a couple and one where I simply declined to take it further than the social aspect...if you have been here a while you are bound to have an occasional disappointment.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"met a guy and was sat in a bar having a pre nerves drink with him , when i spied out of the corner of my eye , the biggest ball of earwax , i have ever seen .... almost threw up into my lemonade and cut short the meet , the thoughts of what other bits were cheesy put me right off

Noooooo

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I hear otex is good for that

surely he knew cleanliness is next to godliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.... Had a few over the years.. Which is why I keep banter to the minimum now ... As its always been the ones that the chat was good .. That the meet was dire

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

My meets have mainly been pretty good - mainly because I don't meet that often outside of the club scene and when I do is normally with people I have met socially before hand

One woman I had my fingers inside of her to find a condom....stopped it there and then - this was in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has

I have never had a disappointing meet....a few disappointing socials yes but that's the joy of a social...you can just walk away

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Yes had one meet no chemistery n I traveled to far most likely to tired . Had lots of messers never showed up too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"
I had a meet about 3 years ago and she had no teeth the teeth she did have were broken and rotten ,she was a nice person though bought her and drink and went after a while

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

"Most definitely..not so perfect meets are tiresome. "
but then on the other hand I've had delicious meets which was perfect

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Everyone has

Nope, not everyone

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

So many.

Probably why I've no interest in meeting at the moment, there is no fucking point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet once where the girl just talked and talked luckily for me she was very lovely and gorgeous and the wine was tasty

There was no hanky panky

I did get invited back which was nice.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"Yes we've had a few meets where we haven't 'clicked' socially.

Also had a couple of meets where it hasn't worked out once naked.

That's just the way it goes it sometimes...

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By *appychappy65Man
over a year ago

Thundersley

I have a 100% record of good meets, albeit that is actually only 1 out of 1 lol - Must try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of mine was recently. He came round to mine after chatting on Skype for a bit. Came in and told me he has to be in the next town over in 30 mins for a friend's bday. We took play up to my room where he wanked furiously and nearly took my eye out with his cum. While I was trying to restore sight he was in the bathroom washing up and when I got in there he was dressing as he walked down the stairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of mine was recently. He came round to mine after chatting on Skype for a bit. Came in and told me he has to be in the next town over in 30 mins for a friend's bday. We took play up to my room where he wanked furiously and nearly took my eye out with his cum. While I was trying to restore sight he was in the bathroom washing up and when I got in there he was dressing as he walked down the stairs."
what time of day was it it must have been the rush hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of rather disappointing meets, yes.

But more than made up for by a few spectacularly good ones.

And even the ones that didn't work out, the anticipation before hand was thrilling. Certainly makes you feel alive, even if it doesn't lead anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cum and go meet

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

we chatted to one guy exchanged photos ..things look good a nice fit young man,,the day of the meet we sat in a bar waiting, right on time in walked a guy come over and said hello.. my john looked at him then me and said..mate could your son not make it..with that he left..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember one meet that I suppose wasn't so much disappointing as cheeky

I arranged to meet a guy in a pub for a drink, I sat waiting and in he walks, sits down and just said right out....I didn't bring my wallet so you'll have to buy the drinks

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A cum and go meet

A panda shot - eat shoots and leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cum and go meet

A panda shot - eat shoots and leaves

Don't sound like he did much eating

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By *ornyJ30Man
over a year ago

Bath

"I remember one meet that I suppose wasn't so much disappointing as cheeky

I arranged to meet a guy in a pub for a drink, I sat waiting and in he walks, sits down and just said right out....I didn't bring my wallet so you'll have to buy the drinks

Cheeky git! What did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember one meet that I suppose wasn't so much disappointing as cheeky

I arranged to meet a guy in a pub for a drink, I sat waiting and in he walks, sits down and just said right out....I didn't bring my wallet so you'll have to buy the drinks

Cheeky git! What did you do?"

Well I bought a couple of drinks because I really don't mind paying for drink and I didn't want to tell him to bugger off because that would have looked like I expected him to pay, it was more the fact he told me I had to that pissed me off

Then I left because it was niggling me so I found it hard to exchange pleasantries

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By *ornyJ30Man
over a year ago

Bath

"I remember one meet that I suppose wasn't so much disappointing as cheeky

I arranged to meet a guy in a pub for a drink, I sat waiting and in he walks, sits down and just said right out....I didn't bring my wallet so you'll have to buy the drinks

Cheeky git! What did you do?

Then I left because it was niggling me so I found it hard to exchange pleasantries

Ive had it the other way around but i quite like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"

No. That's what chatting on here and then a social is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone had a fab swingers meet and it's been truly dissapointing. Not what you wanted at all. Instantly turned off??"

We've had a few of them in the past

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I expect fireworks everytime so yes a few

Dread to think what you do with the fireworks, Catherine wheel attached to your nipple ?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Few...

Weirdest ended up in A&E and had a long term girlfriend he'd forgot to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Few...

Weirdest ended up in A&E and had a long term girlfriend he'd forgot to mention

Oh dear not good for him lol

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By *onto the 3rdMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

Although I've been on a few dating sites, I'm not totally up to speed with the whole Fab thing.

I find it strange that people find it strange to talk before jumping into bed. Or wherever

Not really had a bad meet....but obviously some much better than others.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We've never had a meet (as in go to some-ones house/hotel/caravan) so never been disappointed.

Have to try it one day, and probably be disappointed lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't really get involved in the forums but I have to say this has been funniest read in a while .. and yes I've had bad meets too .. and makes me feel so much better reading some of these stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My meets have mainly been pretty good - mainly because I don't meet that often outside of the club scene and when I do is normally with people I have met socially before hand

One woman I had my fingers inside of her to find a condom....stopped it there and then - this was in a club

What the actual F!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is ace, letting me know the potential pitfalls.

I'm fairly new to all this and my first social was amazing, I had met the perfect person to lead me down this path of swinging. The other 2 I have been lucky enough to play with were equally amazing and I am looking forward to more fun meets.

I'm sure in time I will have some horror stories to tell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than we care to remember!

The worse ones are when we meet a couple at a social, lay out the basic do's and donts ie soft or full swap, kissing etc, then when alls agreed the flirting and usual story swapping starts, but when it comes to play and we're all naked they totally move the goal posts usually by going back on everything they said at the social making a very awkward situation and usually leaving me and Biker girl incredibly frustrated!!

But thankfully the good ones far out weigh the bad

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I expect fireworks everytime so yes a few

Dread to think what you do with the fireworks, Catherine wheel attached to your nipple ?

Don't go giving me ideas now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two for us

Our first one on here ... Old pics and I mean old and truly disappointing sex if you can call it that

2nd was a meet at ours .. Chatted for months so thought we'd get on

Should have said no after drinks

Was ok but just uninspiring and felt a bit perfunctory .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I expect fireworks everytime so yes a few

Dread to think what you do with the fireworks, Catherine wheel attached to your nipple ?

Don't go giving me ideas now

I find it easier to attach Catherine wheels to pierced nipples!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh yes ...... I could write a book .......

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I think we have all had them. Our first meet was the worst. She hardly said a work and he kept staring at my tits. We left after a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we have all had them. Our first meet was the worst. She hardly said a work and he kept staring at my tits. We left after a drink. "

Sounds like our first on here !

No it's not on our verifies !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our early days on fab we invited a rather young guy to join us. He was only 21.

I met him in advance to chat about what we were looking for and explained it was all about making Mrs J happy. If an effort was made to please her she would reciprocate tenfold.

He seemed a fairly mature young guy and nodded his agreement.

He immediately stood up announced that it been "fucking brilliant" got dressed and left.

I was still untying my shoe laces

He actually was surprised when I refused to provide him with a verification!

Two lessons were learned. Young guys are a waste of time and wear slip on shoes.lol"

Slip on shoes.... Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple when I was on here last (both late 40's) and the idea was for me and the husband to both fuck the wife (she was actually very attractive and the one who arranged the meet) - anyway, when the time came, the husband was like "no, not yet, I want to know more about you" etc. The wife was asking what was wrong with him and he said he wasn't comfortable with it. She insisted I went ahead, but he'd completely ruined the moment and my cock went soft and wouldn't get hard again, so I left. Dreadful.

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