FabSwingers.com forum: Please for the love of God

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

that won't happen

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over a year ago

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

i second that

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oops........ apart from all that follow declaring they always do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't read instructions. Thats a given.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It would be nice if they did but they won't.

Having said that, I find that decent guys do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People only seem to notice the ones that don't read profiles but never mention those who do

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's the codewords that work......

put "I read your profile word for word' in your message and I will then probably delete it without reading it as I am only here for the forums but forgot to update my profile

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Yep

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't hold your breath. I find it's easier if you just don't really have anything for them to read.

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club Stoke

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Should have included that in the title lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't hold your breath. I find it's easier if you just don't really have anything for them to read.

They still ignore that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always useful to do so - use of just text speak = ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I promise I won't read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

Amen!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

Not a chance the red mist comes down, cock becomes erect and any ability to read just vanishes.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"Don't hold your breath. I find it's easier if you just don't really have anything for them to read.

They still ignore that..."

This is true, mine says on here for forums only yet still getting messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually amazed at the number of people who DO read my profile to be honest!

I only really expect people to look at the pretty pictures - and they rarely disappoint on that score!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like that's ever gonna happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for the qualification some do make he effort.

It would also be nice if people completed their profiles and filters to enable people to contact those who may be interested in them.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Don't tar us all with same brush! Some of us actually do read messages and heed what the profile says.

Granted some guys on here give everyone a bad name but generalising doesn't help anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't tar us all with same brush! Some of us actually do read messages and heed what the profile says.

Granted some guys on here give everyone a bad name but generalising doesn't help anyone."

Most of us are intelligent enough to realise that some guys who don't read, don't give others a bad name

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

That's about as likely as winning the lottery.....

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well I dont know if anyone actually reads my profile or not or just looks at the profile

Well I know people that know me look at photos (fabbed them)

I do try to read a profile before I message but if the photos are very good then a normal compliment first message gets sent

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Got annoyed with this once and changed my profile heading to "READ BEFORE MESSAGING", the first line in my profile text to say the same, and mentioned in one or two places in it that I'm not looking for X, Y and Z (was something like no "straight" guys, no "how r u" messages etc).

Made no difference.

At all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you get the guys that don't read profiles and send rubbish 'how r u?' 'what you looking for?' messages on here moaning that they can't get any replies or meets! Lol.

It frustrates the hell out of me too.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who can't read we don't accommodate get me, it's pretty clear on our profile ffs

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It's about time someone said this. I'm fed up to the back teeth with all the unsolicited messages from women shamelessly throwing themselves at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my reading finger is poorly and I have a cold so can't mouth the words and still breath!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "
hey I always do and advise those that ask to but hey chill its not like a major surgery

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Best one yet came yesterday

Me :- obviously you didn't read our profile ?

Guy:- yes I did,just didn't think you ment it .

Me :- W.T.F ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore people who message and clearly haven't read your profile, its really that simple. No point stressing about it, many people don't read them and that will probably never change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's anazing that despite using filters we still get totally inappropriate people message us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's anazing that despite using filters we still get totally inappropriate people message us! "

Block everyone and search for suitable people yourself, works perfectly for me and no crap messages from unsuitable people, happy days

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I always read a profile - I like the Ops as I love profiles that state what they want. Makes this whole experience so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's anazing that despite using filters we still get totally inappropriate people message us!

Block everyone and search for suitable people yourself, works perfectly for me and no crap messages from unsuitable people, happy days

That's cutting potential lovely people out by 50%, stuff that we got some great friends that have found us and doing that means we wouldn't know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's funny. There's nothing on ours anymore and still get messages. One from yesterday, I asked the guy if he'd read our profile. nope, never do - was his reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

I keep seeing these posts about reading profile text... What is this text so many people talk about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's anazing that despite using filters we still get totally inappropriate people message us!

Block everyone and search for suitable people yourself, works perfectly for me and no crap messages from unsuitable people, happy days

That's cutting potential lovely people out by 50%, stuff that we got some great friends that have found us and doing that means we wouldn't know them"

Then you have to accept unsuitable people will message you and just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

If you do get that invite to Bora Bora can I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best one yet came yesterday

Me :- obviously you didn't read our profile ?

Guy:- yes I did,just didn't think you ment it .

Me :- W.T.F ??????"

Hahaha deffo a good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's anazing that despite using filters we still get totally inappropriate people message us!

Block everyone and search for suitable people yourself, works perfectly for me and no crap messages from unsuitable people, happy days

That's cutting potential lovely people out by 50%, stuff that we got some great friends that have found us and doing that means we wouldn't know them

Then you have to accept unsuitable people will message you and just ignore them. "

Lol we do,

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Wonder how many women and couples actively read profiles and seek out men? If they were to read as many profiles as us guys (f it's as few as I suspect), you might forgive us for the crappy messages

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I haven't read any of the previous posts, is this a football thread, I'm saying Spurs from Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

Phew ! Calm. Breath ! "

READ IT ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though the OP is not alone in getting wound up about people who don't read your profile - I get messages every day from men off here asking "can I come over to your place now" grrrrrrrrrrrr and its much the same on the sister site Fabguys - they just let there testosterone do the typing not their brains lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thing the Space Shuttle had a less exacting specification so folks - read the OPs profile!!!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thing the Space Shuttle had a less exacting specification so folks - read the OPs profile!!!.

PMSL@ reply lol

ps; nice ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not only guys that can't read.

I get so many messages from couples saying "hi" fancy a threesome.

read my god dam profile and stop wasting your time and mine.

I DONT MEET COUPLES

And breathe

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"................ Read the profiles before you message !

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I read your profile !! Didn't message

you're scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't hold your breath. I find it's easier if you just don't really have anything for them to read.

I tried this, but I prefer having a detailed profile so when I get asked "what are you into?" I just tell them to have a read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even god reads profiles...

If he did, then he'd have given men the gift of what to do right in the first place....

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