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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Without even emailing to say hello first sooo rude since I have changed my profile around and hid most of my pictures I am getting inundated and its so rude these people are not friends I dont even know them. Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we totally agree with you. we are getting fed up with guys just sending friend requests when they have no pics themselves. and thats my rant over now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can and thats why they do it,I just delete and block them stops them trying to add me again

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send out friend's requests with mail so folk can see our ugly mugs (private gallery).

Be warned though, our username is self explanatory ;0).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. "

haha i so do that too

*note to self.. send a friends request out to _nvictus*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont even bother to look at them, i just delete in bulk and thats it. In fact i dont even notice they are there half the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. "

Like your style... will you be my friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is bad manners but I have more to worry about and their stupidity of adding me as a friend got them blocked and there is no point putting it on your profile they don't listen

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. "

Yep, that is what I do, and so far I have not had any "repercussions" from that.

Jane x

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By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message.

Yep, that is what I do, and so far I have not had any "repercussions" from that.

Jane x"

I do the same thing also lol.Very handy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Winks I like but not into pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!"

When you get over 50 friend requests a day them come back to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny thing is i get that from both women and couples.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!"

I think you are describing the intended use of the "wink" function.

Given that an accepted request gives access to (generally) more private/revealing pics, is it appropriate to send the request to a complete stranger? Wouldn't it be better to send them a wink, or even....a message...to say their profile is good etc.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We send out friend's requests with mail so folk can see our ugly mugs (private gallery).

Be warned though, our username is self explanatory ;0)."

ha ha...ours too!

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By *assybutclassyCouple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. "

..DITTO, thats exactly what i do..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its funny nowadays you cant even tell people their profile is good lol they say that you are lazy and need to be more imginative.Should an ice breaker be a whole paragrah or just a few clean lines showing interest.? when i say clean I mean no "hey you wana fuck"? or "fancy a shag"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"funny thing is i get that from both women and couples. "

Well is your case size matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. ..DITTO, thats exactly what i do..xx"

You winked me the other day and i said hello and never heard anything back lol.naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"funny thing is i get that from both women and couples.

Well is your case size matters "

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!"

We don't want a load of members we haven't had any contact with sitting on our friends list looking at our private gallery "pervin"!!! Our friends on our friends list are people who we have formed a "friendship" with and have intentions of meeting or messaging on a regular basis.

If someone has taken a liking to a profile then they should feel free to PM. If they haven't got time to write out a message when they notice a interesting profile then popping them into their hotlist should be a handy option.

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By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!

I think you are describing the intended use of the "wink" function.

Given that an accepted request gives access to (generally) more private/revealing pics, is it appropriate to send the request to a complete stranger? Wouldn't it be better to send them a wink, or even....a message...to say their profile is good etc.?"

People are 2 precious, u can have private pics so that if u accept a friend they can still only see wot u want them to x

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By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!

When you get over 50 friend requests a day them come back to me "

Again? Wheres the prob, 50 requests a day mean people like ya profile! Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont even bother to look at them, i just delete in bulk and thats it. In fact i dont even notice they are there half the time"

Ditto!!!

Can't understand people getting their knickers in a twist over this!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message.

haha i so do that too

*note to self.. send a friends request out to _nvictus*"

Too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I missed something? In what way can some one requesting you to be a friend be a bad thing? It means they like your profile and would like 2 get 2 know ya!! Like this site but sum people are so far up their own arses its untrue!! See a friend request as a good thing and not bad!!

When you get over 50 friend requests a day them come back to me

Again? Wheres the prob, 50 requests a day mean people like ya profile! Simples!"

The thing is, if you want the whole world to see your pictures then you don't put them in private.

If you have private pictures, they're private for a reason, you want to control who sees your intimate shots, face pic etc.

This isn't Facebook where you just add for the sake of it. I simply delete friend requests and winks. I certainly don't let them bother me...they just don't interest me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our profile says if you send us a friend invite as a first contact we will accept it when you're offline,have a perv at your pix and then delete you.

People still send us friend invites

some then complain that we did what we say we'll do

I think maybe some of them don't read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. "

haha love it ..

will have to try that one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We send out friend's requests with mail so folk can see our ugly mugs (private gallery).

Be warned though, our username is self explanatory ;0)."

ours are that bad we only have ours in private lol and send when people have asked for then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without even emailing to say hello first sooo rude since I have changed my profile around and hid most of my pictures I am getting inundated and its so rude these people are not friends I dont even know them. Rant over."

can't believe someone could rant about such a petty thing. do nothing - just ignore them.

it's the same for winks, although I must say I naughtily go and wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

One click and they're all gone if you don't like them

Friends requests

Winks

Messages

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By *berman5Man
over a year ago

aberystwyth


"Winks I like but not into pic collectors"

Wink sent!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same thing every day, a friend's request without any previous contact. Don't bother putting a message on my profile anymore saying don't send a request without asking, as with other peeps, no one reads that part and think they are the exception.

My rule now is you only get to see my private gallery when I have chatted to you on the phone.

I still have manners and expect the same those that don't get deleted.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We have this at the top of our profile.

PLEASE DON'T SEND FRIENDS INVITES AS WE DON'T ADD ANY ONE TO OUR FRIENDS LIST TILL WE HAVE MET FROM NOW ON.

But they still send them so we just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we totally agree with you. we are getting fed up with guys just sending friend requests when they have no pics themselves. and thats my rant over now lol."

Hate to say it its not just guys we get alot of it too and seems at the moment half are from couples !!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It's not rude... it's just lazy.

God bless the 'delete all'... hardly a hardship hitting that once a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we totally agree with you. we are getting fed up with guys just sending friend requests when they have no pics themselves. and thats my rant over now lol.

Hate to say it its not just guys we get alot of it too and seems at the moment half are from couples !!!"

your pics shouldnt be so bloody damn horny then ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we totally agree with you. we are getting fed up with guys just sending friend requests when they have no pics themselves. and thats my rant over now lol.

Hate to say it its not just guys we get alot of it too and seems at the moment half are from couples !!!

your pics shouldnt be so bloody damn horny then ..lol"

Lmao thats why we hid the dirty ones :P

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

lol i dont get a random request sob sob! billy bloody no mates ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should an ice breaker be a whole paragrah or just a few clean lines showing interest?"

As far as I'm concerned, it should be more than a line, less than a chapter and be relevant to your profile. Too many copy and pasted emails on here. You know the thing - "we liked the look of you so thought we'd say hi. We are *whatever they are* and would love to know more". That shows they haven't read your profile at all as they NEVER put clear face pics of both of them on there.

Random friends invites, as said at the top, get checked and perved when the sender is offline then deleted if they have no further perving value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we totally agree with you. we are getting fed up with guys just sending friend requests when they have no pics themselves. and thats my rant over now lol.

Hate to say it its not just guys we get alot of it too and seems at the moment half are from couples !!!

your pics shouldnt be so bloody damn horny then ..lol

Lmao thats why we hid the dirty ones :P"

Helloooo!! Scuse me... ahem, can we be your friend pretty please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our profile says if you send us a friend invite as a first contact we will accept it when you're offline,have a perv at your pix and then delete you.

People still send us friend invites

some then complain that we did what we say we'll do

I think maybe some of them don't read it "

What? You mean some people don't read profiles? I can't believe that!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete all unsolicited friends invites and winks en masse, no point getting wound up about it IMHO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our profile says if you send us a friend invite as a first contact we will accept it when you're offline,have a perv at your pix and then delete you.

People still send us friend invites

some then complain that we did what we say we'll do

I think maybe some of them don't read it

What? You mean some people don't read profiles? I can't believe that!!!!!!!!"

Nor me... wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, blocking single males will reduce the problem by an order of magnitude. It won't make it go away, but it's like Dettol - kills 99%...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we totally agree with you. we are getting fed up with guys just sending friend requests when they have no pics themselves. and thats my rant over now lol.

Hate to say it its not just guys we get alot of it too and seems at the moment half are from couples !!!

your pics shouldnt be so bloody damn horny then ..lol

Lmao thats why we hid the dirty ones :P

Helloooo!! Scuse me... ahem, can we be your friend pretty please? "

HAHAHA ask sam nicely she might say yes lol but remember dont just send a friends request lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is annoying but good for lookin at there private pics then deleteing them if not impressed

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We've just deleted a friends request from someone whose profile was hidden! Go figure! Z

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"In get a few.

Sometimes I wait until their not online, accept the request, perv all their pictures and then delete them as a friend afterwards.

If I like the look of them I keep them and send a message. "

ooh ty for the tip lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really nope, a lot just send the invites for the sole purpose of nosing at the private pics, once you accept they don't speak again. If they liked a profile that much a message would be better than a random friend request.

Thats just my opinion

Swelsh

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Of course, blocking single males will reduce the problem by an order of magnitude. It won't make it go away, but it's like Dettol - kills 99%... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A friend is someone who I have had contact with and met in person. The others just get deleted

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea


"Without even emailing to say hello first sooo rude since I have changed my profile around and hid most of my pictures I am getting inundated and its so rude these people are not friends I dont even know them. Rant over."

Can I be your friend Shaz?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without even emailing to say hello first sooo rude since I have changed my profile around and hid most of my pictures I am getting inundated and its so rude these people are not friends I dont even know them. Rant over."

Why is it rude?

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea


"Without even emailing to say hello first sooo rude since I have changed my profile around and hid most of my pictures I am getting inundated and its so rude these people are not friends I dont even know them. Rant over.

Can I be your friend Shaz? "

Only joking off to work now, be good everyone and if you can't be good, be great.

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