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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

So what happens.....I get some good rapport going with someone on here. Spend ages sexting. Really feel I'm getting somewhere. Picture swaps both love. Everything going really well. No nastiness. And then right in the middle of great conversation you find....user no longer on this site...... why. I'm honestly a nice guy. Always think with my head. Never want to cause offence. But bang and they're gone. Any ideas.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

How long had she been here? Verified from meet?

If not, possibly a man getting his kicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youve been had. Fake pictures and the guy had a good old wank over your pictures and chats. Better luck next time

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You scaring women of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified "

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot on here with fake pics .so i guess when near a meet they can't as they Arnt the person you think they are .

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified "

If I was you I'd take no notice of being photo verified. I recently received messages from a photo verified account who said he was 40 years old but he was actually 16!!

Stick with verified by meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

If I was you I'd take no notice of being photo verified. I recently received messages from a photo verified account who said he was 40 years old but he was actually 16!!

Stick with verified by meet."

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I had 2 messages last week.. From 2 accounts.. Same pictures.. With 40 year old on... Both messaging saying they where really 16!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online you never really know if someone is bang in to you. It happens all the time.

I'm probably very guilty of it.

You're always chatting to a few people and there's always one who really gets your attention and I'm sorry to say but that's where you put the majority of your time.

It's hard to keep up with the sheer volume of messages and harder still to maintain lines of communication with more than one or two people.

It's something as simple as a five minute call that can really get your attention and then, well, the rest don't seem so significant anymore.

Probably sound like a bitch but it's hard to keep someone's attention through text.

Next time, try a little FaceTime. They'll be thinking of it for a lot longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

If I was you I'd take no notice of being photo verified. I recently received messages from a photo verified account who said he was 40 years old but he was actually 16!!

Stick with verified by meet."

I'm sorry but that made me laugh... 16!!! Wow!! Did u actually meet him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me "

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It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!.. "

I just don't understand that....did he think when you met him you'd be cool with it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always Skype first

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

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It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!.. "

Just one of several reasons we only play on clubs. You can see what you are getting !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always Skype first "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve been had. Fake pictures and the guy had a good old wank over your pictures and chats. Better luck next time "

Not necessarily! I get a lot of vanishing men! Swinging isn't for everyone. Not everyone is emotionally cut out for it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve been had. Fake pictures and the guy had a good old wank over your pictures and chats. Better luck next time

Not necessarily! I get a lot of vanishing men! Swinging isn't for everyone. Not everyone is emotionally cut out for it! X"

Yes you said it...vanishing men

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

If I was you I'd take no notice of being photo verified. I recently received messages from a photo verified account who said he was 40 years old but he was actually 16!!

Stick with verified by meet.

I'm sorry but that made me laugh... 16!!! Wow!! Did u actually meet him? "

What do you think?

I reported and made a complaint. That was his 3rd account and the 3rd time I had reported him( once from each account).

I'm not into children!!!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

If I was you I'd take no notice of being photo verified. I recently received messages from a photo verified account who said he was 40 years old but he was actually 16!!

Stick with verified by meet.

..

I had 2 messages last week.. From 2 accounts.. Same pictures.. With 40 year old on... Both messaging saying they where really 16!!"

Sounds like the same person.

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley


"Online you never really know if someone is bang in to you. It happens all the time.

I'm probably very guilty of it.

You're always chatting to a few people and there's always one who really gets your attention and I'm sorry to say but that's where you put the majority of your time.

It's hard to keep up with the sheer volume of messages and harder still to maintain lines of communication with more than one or two people.

It's something as simple as a five minute call that can really get your attention and then, well, the rest don't seem so significant anymore.

Probably sound like a bitch but it's hard to keep someone's attention through text.

Next time, try a little FaceTime. They'll be thinking of it for a lot longer. "
thanks I really appreciate what your saying. But even if one has grabbed you attention you just don't delete your account. ..do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!..

I just don't understand that....did he think when you met him you'd be cool with it?! "
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I don't understand it either... Especially as he was roughly same age and not too bad looking........ But no I didn't stay.. Deception is a big turn off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Online you never really know if someone is bang in to you. It happens all the time.

I'm probably very guilty of it.

You're always chatting to a few people and there's always one who really gets your attention and I'm sorry to say but that's where you put the majority of your time.

It's hard to keep up with the sheer volume of messages and harder still to maintain lines of communication with more than one or two people.

It's something as simple as a five minute call that can really get your attention and then, well, the rest don't seem so significant anymore.

Probably sound like a bitch but it's hard to keep someone's attention through text.

Next time, try a little FaceTime. They'll be thinking of it for a lot longer. thanks I really appreciate what your saying. But even if one has grabbed you attention you just don't delete your account. ..do you?"

Yeah. I've done that on other sites.

I've also hidden it on here for a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

If I was you I'd take no notice of being photo verified. I recently received messages from a photo verified account who said he was 40 years old but he was actually 16!!

Stick with verified by meet.

..

I had 2 messages last week.. From 2 accounts.. Same pictures.. With 40 year old on... Both messaging saying they where really 16!!

Sounds like the same person. "

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Yes it does.. I too reported and blocked..

I don't even have filters off that often.. So was strange to get same message from two accounts in same week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!..

I just don't understand that....did he think when you met him you'd be cool with it?! ..

..

I don't understand it either... Especially as he was roughly same age and not too bad looking........ But no I didn't stay.. Deception is a big turn off.. "

It's no fun for anyone!

I laugh at the blatant internet profile pics then you see their actual pictures and you figure it's not the person you thought you were chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!.. "

You should have made him buy the drinks till he did look like his picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I online dated for a year. Made me very distrustful.

Reverse image search would be on my most used history.

I know my demographic and there was this beauty messaged me.....suspicion and turned out the pic was being used on 40 other sites.

Also, had a message off some guy pretending to be some Z list celebrity. When I challenged he said he was doing it for his friend as he didn't have the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!..

I just don't understand that....did he think when you met him you'd be cool with it?! ..

..

I don't understand it either... Especially as he was roughly same age and not too bad looking........ But no I didn't stay.. Deception is a big turn off..

It's no fun for anyone!

I laugh at the blatant internet profile pics then you see their actual pictures and you figure it's not the person you thought you were chatting to. "

..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pity cannot see if person been photo verified

Why? You dont have to veri your face. Pointless if you ask me

..

It's very pointless.. I met a guy off here.. Photo verified.. And meet verified.. Wasn't same person as in pictures!!..

You should have made him buy the drinks till he did look like his picture

"

.. Haha

If he had had his own pictures on I'd of met him anyway... We had spoke for weeks.. So got on well.. The drinks wouldn't of changed my mind about the Deception...

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

Ninjas got to love them lol

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

Does anyone know how to do a reverse picture search please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone know how to do a reverse picture search please"

Go to google put in the search box reverse image search and follow the instructions

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley


"Does anyone know how to do a reverse picture search please

Go to google put in the search box reverse image search and follow the instructions "

And it works?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone know how to do a reverse picture search please

Go to google put in the search box reverse image search and follow the instructions

And it works?"

Yes as lon as you follows the instructions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You scaring women of the site "
hehe off or all of ? Xx

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