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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Any advice on help finding a girl.for 3 some fun. I M a bi girl and love to have more girl on girl fun but finding difficult to a range. Any tips or ideas xx Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are wanting that too, keep trying, we will get there eventually tho

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Where be the unicorns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest picture of the guy who is going to be involved.. I Wont message any couple with just pics of one half.. And information on him.. And how the meet would go.. You are sub and master... Will the other lady be expected to be sub to him too.. Will he be involved or just watch.... Things like that

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The list of stuff you enjoy may put some people off. Maybe put it in your profile if it's a different type of fun you are after from bi females.

And for me, although it's shallow, your user name would put me off meeting you. It just seems really disrespectful to the people you want to meet.

And ultimately you are looking for the same as most of the site, a single bi female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also looking to find either MF

Or FF or F

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where be the unicorns? "

there's that word again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd suggest picture of the guy who is going to be involved.. I Wont message any couple with just pics of one half.. And information on him.. And how the meet would go.. You are sub and master... Will the other lady be expected to be sub to him too.. Will he be involved or just watch.... Things like that "

Thank you will take on board and use as a base when re write. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should all try a couples and ladies night at a club, if you're finding it difficult to arrange on here.. May have better luck.. And if not.. A nice night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd suggest picture of the guy who is going to be involved.. I Wont message any couple with just pics of one half.. And information on him.. And how the meet would go.. You are sub and master... Will the other lady be expected to be sub to him too.. Will he be involved or just watch.... Things like that

Thank you will take on board and use as a base when re write. Xx "

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You're welcome

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads offering generic advice in the archives... Granted a lot are aimed at single guys.. the generic nature of the advice is applicable to any demographic though.

Happy reading..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact "

..

Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads quite good to us

Those 230 miles though, sighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tis ye olde unicorn hunt...

the season don't half come around quick

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

The name, shudder, not for me.

Finding other bi ladies on here is like finding poop from a rocking horse but might help if you had a singles profile

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'd suggest picture of the guy who is going to be involved.. I Wont message any couple with just pics of one half.. And information on him.. And how the meet would go.. You are sub and master... Will the other lady be expected to be sub to him too.. Will he be involved or just watch.... Things like that "

If I met alone, I would agree with the above and your user name would put me off too.

You maybe need to say less about the sub/Dom and more what you would be looking for as a threesome dynamic. If that is what you are looking for form your profile.

Best of luck.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact "

That's funny... cause I've had MFF threesomes from here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile reads quite good to us

Those 230 miles though, sighs "

Awww thank you hugs and gutted lol xx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally... if the OP messaged me, I wouldn't reply as the profile name & lack of male photos would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact "

And surely it depends on a person's attitude to whether they'll get what they want from here. Honey attracts more flies than vinegar chickie.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Even when I was interested in meeting couples, the Sub-Dom stuff would have put me off completely. So unless you are looking for another woman to join you in those activities, I would suggest that have another profile without all of those things mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the old 'unicorn' crap! There are single females that meet couples. We are out there. Maybe spread thinly but I know a fair few who do, like myself.

What do I look for in a couple? I am not your play thing. I am not there to just put on a show. I am there for my needs and fantasies. I expect us all to have a physical and sexual attraction and all be involved in the play. I want to see the dynamics of the relationship - you both want to play not just the female trying to do something to please her fella. To find this out I need to get to know you. If you can't understand this basic concept then book an Escort cos it ain't happening with me. I need to see pictures of both of you. Not just her.

So OP you have to try harder. Just like all the single fellas on here but when you find a couple that it works with it's amazing. Try seeing single females as people in their own right and not some prize. Build up your network of friends and you may be more successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thing that puts me off meeting couples who are looking for a bifem is this....

usually the man is 6ft or over which is fine but the woman is under 5ft 5''...which is not

I prefer women who are of a similar stature to me and there are not very many of those about...

Fussy? yes but I can afford to be

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Personally... if the OP messaged me, I wouldn't reply as the profile name & lack of male photos would put me off "

Me too.

Though I'd be more worried how she got past my filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact

That's funny... cause I've had MFF threesomes from here..."

..

And I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The name fuckmeat refers to.me no one else and I like it we all have our names we like be called and this is mine. However can see why it would put people of as a username so will re change xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just putting myself out there, even if I am male xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just putting myself out there, even if I am male xxx"

not really the correct sex for an MFF or even an FF...

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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact

And surely it depends on a person's attitude to whether they'll get what they want from here. Honey attracts more flies than vinegar chickie. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another . "

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences."

..

.. Haha wankpuffin

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences.

.. Haha wankpuffin "

Word of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences."

Wankpuffin

Love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences.

.. Haha wankpuffin

Word of the day!"

..

Definitely.. Still giggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences.

.. Haha wankpuffin

Word of the day!

..

Definitely.. Still giggling "

Made my day xx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"try another site - you WILL NOT get what you want on here - fact

That's funny... cause I've had MFF threesomes from here...

..

And I have "

Me too, I'm bi but like the other posts the name just turned me off..... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences.

.. Haha wankpuffin

Word of the day!

..

Definitely.. Still giggling

Made my day xx"

..

My private notes on rude people.. Will now forever say they are a wankpuffin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyones beautiful in one way or another .

Except for the kind of wankpuffin that thinks all women should exist to service their own personal preferences.

.. Haha wankpuffin

Word of the day!

..

Definitely.. Still giggling

Made my day xx

..

My private notes on rude people.. Will now forever say they are a wankpuffin "

Im so using it to lol

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mao "Wankpuffin" absolutely awesome! actually crying here!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'd suggest picture of the guy who is going to be involved.. I Wont message any couple with just pics of one half.. And information on him.. And how the meet would go.. You are sub and master... Will the other lady be expected to be sub to him too.. Will he be involved or just watch.... Things like that "

Yes this. As a bi female I have to be attracted to both halves of the couple otherwise it just won't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username MIGHT be putting them off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually LOVE your username OP - be proud of it - don't change it if it reflects your alter ego

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