FabSwingers.com forum: Should it be so hard to meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

From reading other people's posts about being let down and people not showing etc. Should it really be that hard to meet people and have fun??

Everyone who is on here is here because of similar interests and most people are actively seeking fun yet it seems when it comes to meeting it is so difficult to find people.

Or maybe it's just me.. Haha

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From reading other people's posts about being let down and people not showing etc. Should it really be that hard to meet people and have fun??

Everyone who is on here is here because of similar interests and most people are actively seeking fun yet it seems when it comes to meeting it is so difficult to find people.

Or maybe it's just me.. Haha

But not everyone is here because of similar interests. You may, for example, be looking for someone who is dominant. We may not be. You may be attracted by a certain age range, gender, type of look and personality. We might be attracted by other types.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point, but with the amount of people on here you would think there would be a lot of people with similar interests

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point, but with the amount of people on here you would think there would be a lot of people with similar interests "

I am no mathematician. But I have a basic grasp of probability. Even with, say, 10 basic preferences, the probability of finding a match is drastically reduced.

When you factor in the things that are emotional, such as physical attraction, mental attraction, mood and life circumstances, it becomes further reduced.