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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had that loads, they like the chase etc but when it come to getting real they pussy out. To pussy for pussy unfortunately. Doesn't make sense cos why goto all the effort to be fake. There are real players here still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a shame to have put all that effort in and then back out. I suppose there are reasons. Probably a power play to prove it can be done or just a chickening out issue when they realise they have to deliver on the big words.

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By *rown1993Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I've just had a look at your profile and pics and people would be stupid to no show a meet with you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I was 50/50 before but now I'm sure I'm not meeting any till I've meet them at charms first as then I know they have to bottle to play

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

There will always be those type of people on here.

The cowards who back out with no reason. Just try and them out from their profile pictures and write ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha yeah but we also arranged a meet with a very popular guy in here. With over 140 veris, he was the biggest bullshitter of all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most are a talk ive found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry to hear Jess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this should be a thread for real players

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The meet I was meant to have had good verifications from a good few meets but seems that means very little it would seem

I some times think bull shiters must do each other's verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people just get excited by the chase. They love to off load all their sexual fantasise and get a kick from it. It's a sort of interactive porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of guys meet and know how to please a women. You just have to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That makes sense. Prove that it can be done? Good for the ego?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh well, onwards and upwards

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester


"The meet I was meant to have had good verifications from a good few meets but seems that means very little it would seem

I some times think bull shiters must do each other's verifications "

I know females to do better jobs than FBI when it's a guy. View his verifications, _iew who verified those ones and if they're all going around in circles then it's probably a lonely man in his mothers basement.

On the other hand, he might have seem something that put him off (maybe your picture, message or he got a better barney message him). If that's the case, it's only right he tells you rather than make it even harder for the next guy who messages you for a meet.

Just move on OP it's not that deep

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x"

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol "

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x"

Im 38 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've only been back a pretty short while and I have little free time to play and already been let down twice one was genuine and rearranged but the other was just all talk and no action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people "
I refuse to engage in lots of chat for this very reason... As lots that talk loads don't do... Plus I dislike all the flirting

Cali

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people "

It makes it all the more worse when genuine people who can't get a meet have our chances spoiled a little bit more by giving single guys a bad name.

On a positive note at least you had a lucky escape by not playing with them

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I've only been back a pretty short while and I have little free time to play and already been let down twice one was genuine and rearranged but the other was just all talk and no action "

So many are all talk and no trouser....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x"

I don't think age matters when it comes to if they will show or not younger people might be all talk and little exp older people might be worried about being able to keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people I refuse to engage in lots of chat for this very reason... As lots that talk loads don't do... Plus I dislike all the flirting

Cali "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x

I don't think age matters when it comes to if they will show or not younger people might be all talk and little exp older people might be worried about being able to keep up "

Keep up

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are a young and pleasant looking female, you will get lots of the declarations of 'genuine' intent on this thread and in messages......

you can minimise wasted effort, never eradicate it

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds

It's so frustrating when you've made the time, got ready and then nothing! If they had been honest up front the time could have been spent trying to meet someone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of guys meet and know how to please a women. You just have to find them"

This ^^^^

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

I have no real issue with someone calling and cancelling it's when they just don't turn up (after loads of chatting) like the cockwomble last night! Not only a waste of time but of a babysitting token too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had this too Still trying to find our first meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no real issue with someone calling and cancelling it's when they just don't turn up (after loads of chatting) like the cockwomble last night! Not only a waste of time but of a babysitting token too."

I don't mind either I've had that happen and it's fine by when they just don't show up at all or aren't in when u get there

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"I have no real issue with someone calling and cancelling it's when they just don't turn up (after loads of chatting) like the cockwomble last night! Not only a waste of time but of a babysitting token too.

I don't mind either I've had that happen and it's fine by when they just don't show up at all or aren't in when u get there "

I had a guy who said he was at the tyre garage, I was like, I don't live near a garage!

So annoying when they just go offline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people I refuse to engage in lots of chat for this very reason... As lots that talk loads don't do... Plus I dislike all the flirting

Cali "

Exactly the same for us .

A coup,e of messages , exchange pics and meet .

Once it gets more , it seems to just get less likely there will be a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people "

because the site has become utter shite over the past couple of years?

Now a chat site and fuckin sick of the place.

And yes - might leave soon - it's fuckin shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people

because the site has become utter shite over the past couple of years?

Now a chat site and fuckin sick of the place.

And yes - might leave soon - it's fuckin shit"

A very well put answer .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people "
they are blind and stupid no other words for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people here just all talk they say just how much they want to meet you and can't wait for when the time for a meet comes along but when you finally arrange to meet them they just don't show what is wrong with these people "

hi jess, in your case I think they bottle out when they realize they are actually going to meet a stunning looking lady and worry they wont be able to perform for you

we have the same problem we arranged meets with 4 separate guys last month all very keen to meet when we chat, then hours before meet 3 out of 4 cancelled,

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've found the more sexy chat they try to engage with before a meet, the less likely they are to show.

Especially when they ask for pics. They have a wank and are gone. Even verified.

Unfortunately, ing them out is trial and error

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Plenty of guys meet and know how to please a women. You just have to find them"

I keep looking

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've found the more sexy chat they try to engage with before a meet, the less likely they are to show.

Especially when they ask for pics. They have a wank and are gone. Even verified.

Unfortunately, ing them out is trial and error "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found the more sexy chat they try to engage with before a meet, the less likely they are to show.

Especially when they ask for pics. They have a wank and are gone. Even verified.

Unfortunately, ing them out is trial and error "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We tend to have most of our meets at clubs.

That way if they cancel last minute or don't turn up, there's a good chance you'll meet someone to have fun with anyway.

Nita

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"I've found the more sexy chat they try to engage with before a meet, the less likely they are to show.

Especially when they ask for pics. They have a wank and are gone. Even verified.

Unfortunately, ing them out is trial and error "

I never do phone or text sex, and when they ask for pictures direct them to my profile!

Anyone want to pm us all with any other better sites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are getting really jaded about arranged meets through fab too. Made the mistake of whatsapping and texting with couples. Just too much talk and when it comes to it the arrangements gets cancelled or people just dissapear. We just don't have the money or time to throw away... Next one will be Chams.

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

It beggars belief when single men don't show up for meets with couples. It's an honour to be invited to play with a couple. Don't mess it up guys.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"It beggars belief when single men don't show up for meets with couples. It's an honour to be invited to play with a couple. Don't mess it up guys."

It's an honour and such a pleasure for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it is a fantasy for most lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some couples like the attention. They wanna sit in their house and get wound up over another person or couple bit that's as far as they go. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few of these ....they pop up wanna chat shit then disappear or " user no longer on this site " ..grrrrrrr !!!!!

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...


"The meet I was meant to have had good verifications from a good few meets but seems that means very little it would seem

I some times think bull shiters must do each other's verifications "

I've had this too with people with veris etc, all up for it until the last minute when they go quiet... Think they must just realise they're not upto the challenge

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Plenty of guys meet and know how to please a women. You just have to find them"

We keep looking, yet to find one!

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"We tend to have most of our meets at clubs.

That way if they cancel last minute or don't turn up, there's a good chance you'll meet someone to have fun with anyway.

Nita "

Yes, we were discussing that on our way home last night. Might give up on single guys as they all seem to be wasters.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"We tend to have most of our meets at clubs.

That way if they cancel last minute or don't turn up, there's a good chance you'll meet someone to have fun with anyway.

Nita

Yes, we were discussing that on our way home last night. Might give up on single guys as they all seem to be wasters."

I'm sorry you feel that way but perfectly understand your reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x

I don't think age matters when it comes to if they will show or not younger people might be all talk and little exp older people might be worried about being able to keep up

Keep up "

Can you keep up..and keep it up haha

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we have had a number of letdowns lately so have decided (as many have said)to pretty much use clubs exclusively (Chams/Townhouse/Amour), least it doesn't leave you high and dry if one person doesn't show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is half the problem though - if you don't like clubs (and personally we find them like a cattle market) it seems swinging has simply died. Several of our friends we have met here have said the same - it's like not many people do really swing i.e. Fab has exhausted itself from a meets perspective. It does actually seem like an advertising forum for clubs - has a club owner bought it or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x

I don't think age matters when it comes to if they will show or not younger people might be all talk and little exp older people might be worried about being able to keep up

Keep up

Can you keep up..and keep it up haha "

Your find out soon

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"This is half the problem though - if you don't like clubs (and personally we find them like a cattle market) it seems swinging has simply died. Several of our friends we have met here have said the same - it's like not many people do really swing i.e. Fab has exhausted itself from a meets perspective. It does actually seem like an advertising forum for clubs - has a club owner bought it or something? "
We've not been doing this long enough to notice this, we initially hoped to get the bulk of meets off here,but the reality is it's the clubs that are reliable. Sorry to hear you are demoralised, maybe that will happen to us in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd arranged 3 different meets over a couple of months and all 3 cancelled within the hour we were due to meet. I've kinda given up for a while now x

Maybe time to change your age preference lol

I've increased it as 2 of the guys I had arranged to meet were 25 x

I don't think age matters when it comes to if they will show or not younger people might be all talk and little exp older people might be worried about being able to keep up

Keep up

Can you keep up..and keep it up haha

Your find out soon "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

That's terrible, can't undestand why, it gives the rest of us (insert gender) a bad name. I'd/we'd (delete as appropriate) definitely turn up to meet you, as I/we (delete as appropriate) think you're (insert compliment) x

This isn't copywritten, it's free for anyone's use

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"That's terrible, can't undestand why, it gives the rest of us (insert gender) a bad name. I'd/we'd (delete as appropriate) definitely turn up to meet you, as I/we (delete as appropriate) think you're (insert compliment) x

This isn't copywritten, it's free for anyone's use "

LOL, that's funny. After updating our status saying we had been let down we got about 30 of those (pretty much word for word)......

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I think it's a bit like that rule about not shopping for food when your hungry.

Guys shouldn't chat on Fab when they're horny,

Cos they end up with one hand down their pants, arranging to meet somone straight away for all night session even though they know they have to drop the wife off at bingo and then pick the kids up form youth club in an hour.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I think it's a bit like that rule about not shopping for food when your hungry.

Guys shouldn't chat on Fab when they're horny,

Cos they end up with one hand down their pants, arranging to meet somone straight away for all night session even though they know they have to drop the wife off at bingo and then pick the kids up form youth club in an hour. "

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