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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say no..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say no. Your being scammed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her off, its a dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god say no!!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

^ what everyone has said so far.

Definitely a scam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block,have no further contact. i would assume if she asks 10 people she maybe gets 1 each time who responds favourably.

if a friend asked you to lend a friend of theirs you dont know, or even know exists, would you fork over £200 for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say no your being fucked over

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Scam scam scam

Lots of women in London bars pulling same scam. Meet in bar, exchange phone numbers, is away up north or working so can't meet just at moment but reels you in with phone calls. Then comes the hit. They get very good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship....You've known each other for about 8 weeks."

Maybe that's as long as he/she could wait before trying to fleece you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run a mile m8 don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

Do you really need to ask ?

Run a mile , block , no further contact ... It's a no brainer and surely you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever lend out what you're prepared to lose and never get back, that's my advice.

I personally wouldn't lend anyone anything, if someone needs something and i can give it to them then it's theirs, if i can't afford to or they're taking the piss then they won't get anything from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't listen to everyone else's great advice then go for it...you'll be 100s of pounds worse off with one less friend. Then you might learn what being scammed feels like a never do it again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you even asking this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol say no and block , she is scamming you

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

you seriously had to ask???

she's taking you for a mug evan asking you in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is you send and trust...It's the correct behaviour and also add card and pin details as I have no doubt this lady will put money in your account as it's a Nigerian princess way off saying I love you....nah fuck her off and spend it wisely on beer and betting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look just give me the £200. Atleast you will know it will be spent wisely.... On alcohol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come you've been on Fab for only a week, yet met this woman in Fab eight weeks ago???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

if you lend it expect to lose it ,I got stung by a woman on here but I had known her a year ,8 weeks seems a little to soon to tell but your call

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

Well what did you do???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

Tell her to do some overtime at work!

Don't be a mug!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come you've been on Fab for only a week, yet met this woman in Fab eight weeks ago???"

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

Tell her to jog on

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I will lend friends money and if I can afford it I won't ask for it back....but a stranger off the internet....behave

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Rub your four head is there some thing written on it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed. "

The thinly veiled threats are somewhat over the top?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed. "

WTF?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Say yes no problem but she will have to meet you in cloud cuckoo land on the 32nd of feb

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Oh dear!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Don't do it.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

She sounds lovely .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh deary me what can the matter be ,hey in your case my friend the green eyed monster has reared its ugly head

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed. "

Are you sure you know all this?

It's a real name?

Real lovers name?

Real wife's name?

Real address?

It will all be fake to draw you into believing it.

I didn't think people still fell for this stuff anymore

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

This will not end well. I'll be watching the news with great interest...

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed. "

Why not just refuse to give her the money? Sounds a lot simpler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed.

Why not just refuse to give her the money? Sounds a lot simpler"

Yeah I thought I missed something half way though the chorus of "no's" and "scam".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

There's one born every minute.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed. "

Christ! Just say no and walk away!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"How come you've been on Fab for only a week, yet met this woman in Fab eight weeks ago???

Well spotted "

Also confused by this?! Not sure who the scammer exactly is here as op seems to want to blackmail as well!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I despair sometimes when I read posts like this. OP you know your being scammed yet you still consider it because she may shag you.

Seriously engage brain before cock.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"You meet this girl on Fab. Strike up a really great friendship. Have a laugh. Enjoy each others company. You accept that your so far apart that each of you are playing away. You're both swingers. You've known each other for about 8 weeks. Everything going fine.....then she says her man she has been seeing is short of a couple of hundred pounds and she wants to help him out. But she's got no money. Can you help her help him with money.

What do I do. Help or just say no. Or find someone else."

You need to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op has given up on this now...a de throned prince from ghana is putting several million into his account next week once the op pays the handling fees and such..lucky lucky man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you even asking this?"

this, realy

but if have money to spare my gran who is 97 wants to have her clit pierced, because of her age the tattooist wants a £1000up front for insurance just in case she drops dead during piercing, pls send money to me as soon as you can she is waiting to show my grandad who is 107 a good time for s b/day

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

I have been on fab over a year with a different profile. Something happened so had to make a new profile. I had a friends list or thought they were all friends that I contacted and renewed their friendships about 10 days ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fool and his money are soon parted!

Remember this phrase, then BLOCK the scammer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you're a bit skint yourself and if she finds a gullible fool who will lend a stranger money get a few hundred for you too

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Well I will see if she asked any more. I know her lovers name. Also know how wife's name. I will publish her name and let them all know. Including his wife. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve. As I know her address. Thanks for all the advice. Will keep you informed. "

oh god where do i start with that

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

Well she told me she quit her job. And that's name thing worse as she cannot help him out. She needed more cash. I told her to take a walk. I've discovered plenty of friends that have given me that advice.

She's gone but thanks to her I have found some new friends through this post. Thanx guys

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

Well she told me she quit her job. And that's name thing worse as she cannot help him out. She needed more cash. I told her to take a walk. I've discovered plenty of friends that have given me that advice.

She's gone but thanks to her I have found some new friends through this post. Thanx guys

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

That is horrible,find another OP...

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Why are you even asking this?

this, realy

but if have money to spare my gran who is 97 wants to have her clit pierced, because of her age the tattooist wants a £1000up front for insurance just in case she drops dead during piercing, pls send money to me as soon as you can she is waiting to show my grandad who is 107 a good time for s b/day"

Just need your bank details will send right over !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a scam from nigeria lol.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"How come you've been on Fab for only a week, yet met this woman in Fab eight weeks ago???"

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come you've been on Fab for only a week, yet met this woman in Fab eight weeks ago???

Well spotted "

He was in stealth mode for the other 6 weeks lol

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Did you really think ... Hmmm at a loss as to whether to lend a friend of someone I haven't met from a swinging site some money ??? Did you really.... Or does the brief attention and sympathy shown by others drive you, or are you really as simple as this whole post seems? If you are the latter I apologise... But I think you aren't!

Good that you e made friends due to your idiotic question ..... I feel they are being kind to a halfwit and maybe not considering you aren't quite as dumb as you portray.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"How come you've been on Fab for only a week, yet met this woman in Fab eight weeks ago???

Well spotted

He was in stealth mode for the other 6 weeks lol "

His other post describes himself as a g spot ninja! Not clitoris ninja.... He didn't realise things had moved on and has been practicing hard g spot.... Did he waste all that time!?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Pay a prostitute, cheaper

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By *aughtydaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

Horley

I have mentioned above that I have been a member for over 18 months. But recently had to change my profile. I am honest and sincere. I'm defo not the scammed. Please read all posts before criticism.

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