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By *ornybanker OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I am early 30s but recently I have started to be really turned on by ladies in their 40s and 50s. There are so many really hot older ladies on here. They still definitely have it. Is it ok to call them milfs?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

What if they don't have children?

Some people don't like that phrase, lots do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't speak for all the 40+ women but I personally dislike the MILF / Cougar reference.

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By *ornybanker OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Can't speak for all the 40+ women but I personally dislike the MILF / Cougar reference."

Wow roxi... Exactly what I'm talking about...

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By *ornybanker OP   Man
over a year ago

London

When I call someone a milf or cougar I am really paying a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I call someone a milf or cougar I am really paying a compliment."

You might think you are, but they may not see it that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am early 30s but recently I have started to be really turned on by ladies in their 40s and 50s. There are so many really hot older ladies on here. They still definitely have it. Is it ok to call them milfs?"

Just call them ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I call someone a milf or cougar I am really paying a compliment."

A cougar isn't a compliment for those of us who aren't one

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"When I call someone a milf or cougar I am really paying a compliment."

Or you think you are... you are just re assuring them they they are OLDER than you..

Its like a mature woman calling a younger guy a young boy... bit corny

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By *ornybanker OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Ok lesson learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always had a interest in Women older then me, From my late teens right up to the present, Not that I don't like younger Women but I'm only just getting the common interests comment

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ok lesson learned."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lesson learned."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if they don't have children?

Some people don't like that phrase, lots do"

was just gonna say I don't have children so I can't be a milf. I get called a wilf instead lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a 50yr old woman I personally detest the acronym MILF...

I'm not a mom, and nor am I into younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a 50yr old woman I personally detest the acronym MILF...

I'm not a mom, and nor am I into younger men "

that's him telt then

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By *outhyorkshireMan
over a year ago

south yorkshire

It doesnt need a lable you like women that are older than you thats it. Milf gilf cougar all crap shes a female end of

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By *ornybanker OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Yeh... guess I'm wasting my time with you then ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the words cougar

milf

gilf

grrrr just call me tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a 50yr old woman I personally detest the acronym MILF...

I'm not a mom, and nor am I into younger men that's him telt then "

telt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a 50yr old woman I personally detest the acronym MILF...

I'm not a mom, and nor am I into younger men that's him telt then

telt? "

its a catchphrase but it ain't proppa inglishe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not aimed at the OP particularly,but is there some bye-law on here that prohibits the word 'woman'???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh... guess I'm wasting my time with you then ha ha"

Use the reply-quote button so people know who you are commenting on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not aimed at the OP particularly,but is there some bye-law on here that prohibits the word 'woman'???"
yes men of fab like the other labels to describe a woman havnt you noticed everything has a label cuck ,unicorn,slut,milf,gilf, her indoors,darling,babe,Mrs.,etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"not aimed at the OP particularly,but is there some bye-law on here that prohibits the word 'woman'???"

more an unwritten rule.I like prefer being called a woman, I am one after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not aimed at the OP particularly,but is there some bye-law on here that prohibits the word 'woman'???yes men of fab like the other labels to describe a woman havnt you noticed everything has a label cuck ,unicorn,slut,milf,gilf, her indoors,darling,babe,Mrs.,etc "

obviously i've noticed, or i wouldn't have made the comment i did..it's very prevalent..along with being patronised apparently..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm older ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm by no means hot, but I am 50+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mmmm older ladies "

see a guy whos got it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd only expect my sons mates to call me a milf really.

it's not offensive to me, just another label people slap onto someone, and i've met guys on here who've called me one. it's actually quite nice to fulfil someones fantasy of meeting a milf, if they wanna play it that way i don't mind.

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By *indy SometimesTV/TS
over a year ago

BoxHill

Age is just a number!

If their head is in the right place I don't mind meeting an older lady. After all, sexy fun isn't reserved for you youngsters, and experience means a more full filing meet.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

julies a gilf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason why "milf" or "cougar" upsets me is because it just highlights the fact I'm old! (er)

I don't need reminding thanks!

There are some delicious younger men on here - but as soon as they highlight the age difference I'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet an older woman. Unfortunately, the few women I have suggested a meet to suffer the same predicament and worry about meeting a younger guy. It's so frustrating as it's difficult to meet an older woman off fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the older women such a big turn on for me the milf and cougar

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I don't think of older women as Milfs cougars etc I prefer to talk to them without the labels

Mind you i would love to be thought of as a dilf by a lady ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take as compliment. Better than not being noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love an older woman. Very sexy

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I take as compliment. Better than not being noticed. "

Very little chance of you not being noticed, great pics on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't speak for all the 40+ women but I personally dislike the MILF / Cougar reference."

Same here it makes me shudder

Infact I just dislike being referred to as an older women, which is why I tend to shy away from younger guys, they just go on about age to much

I like to feel like I'm being seen as a while person not some old bird fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just call them ladies! "

Absolutely. Courtesy is still considered attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a younger (27 ) to fem message us in the week wanting to meet ... Sent us pics etc

Said we were not interested.. Very politely

... Really not our type and she replied at your ages you should be grateful to get a meet at all !!

The innocence of youth eh'

She on the block list now

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No I don't like those labels because I do not match either description. I'm only interested in people who want to meet me, personally, not 'older women'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm as long as there are curves to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone Mrs time takes offence too about her age, she hits them with her Zimmer frame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the more mature lady, they have their heads screwed on and much of the time they know what they want and don't mess you about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not aimed at the OP particularly,but is there some bye-law on here that prohibits the word 'woman'???yes men of fab like the other labels to describe a woman havnt you noticed everything has a label cuck ,unicorn,slut,milf,gilf, her indoors,darling,babe,Mrs.,etc

obviously i've noticed, or i wouldn't have made the comment i did..it's very prevalent..along with being patronised apparently.."

I don't patronise but do love to compliment so if I don't know your name I may if I think you are beautiful make that reference but have had that criticised before to ,so you can't win really I do ask for names but some don't like to give their name which I respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason why "milf" or "cougar" upsets me is because it just highlights the fact I'm old! (er)

I don't need reminding thanks!

There are some delicious younger men on here - but as soon as they highlight the age difference I'm not interested "

I know some will see it as a compliment along with the 'you can't be that age' line but it isn't one for me because it makes me feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason why "milf" or "cougar" upsets me is because it just highlights the fact I'm old! (er)

I don't need reminding thanks!

There are some delicious younger men on here - but as soon as they highlight the age difference I'm not interested

I know some will see it as a compliment along with the 'you can't be that age' line but it isn't one for me because it makes me feel old "

hey you will always get compliments you're gorgeous

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"When I call someone a milf or cougar I am really paying a compliment."

Then you really have no idea. A compliment is how something is received not how it is given - cougar is a derogatory term that some don't mind but many dislike. You probably wank but would equally probably object to being called a wanker!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Age is just a number!

If their head is in the right place I don't mind meeting an older lady. After all, sexy fun isn't reserved for you youngsters, and experience means a more full filing meet. "

Age isn't just a number - with women it often comes with saggy flesh, wrinkled skin, droopy tits and greying hair. Not many women like being reminded of this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a middle aged woman is like a fine bottle of expensive wine it only gets better

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Age is just a number!

If their head is in the right place I don't mind meeting an older lady. After all, sexy fun isn't reserved for you youngsters, and experience means a more full filing meet.

Age isn't just a number - with women it often comes with saggy flesh, wrinkled skin, droopy tits and greying hair. Not many women like being reminded of this!"

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By *iverpoolad2000Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Age is just a number I think ,if the sex is good then there shouldn't be any problems with the age .i like the older women as I have been with one before wouldn't mind one again

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