FabSwingers.com forum: Strange people

By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

We had a wonderful meet up with a gorgeous couple a few months ago and had a great time we had regular contact up to a few weeks ago then they hid their profile deleted us as friends and phone number not in use any more WTF

They were the ones that wanted to keep in touch if you are friends of ours you will already know i was very ill recently and when we didnt reply to one of their messages this happens

Strange people or what do you think

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By *aystay66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"We had a wonderful meet up with a gorgeous couple a few months ago and had a great time we had regular contact up to a few weeks ago then they hid their profile deleted us as friends and phone number not in use any more WTF

They were the ones that wanted to keep in touch if you are friends of ours you will already know i was very ill recently and when we didnt reply to one of their messages this happens

Strange people or what do you think"
Oh yes definitely some strange cats on here ! And you're profile is amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such is life on here, no point stressing about it, you'll never know their reasons for doing it.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Just means you have a gap for a new couple to join you . And have the new excitement

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

They were the ones that wanted to keep in touch if you are friends of ours you will already know i was very ill recently and when we didnt reply to one of their messages this happens

Strange people or what do you think"

I would assume as they hid their profile first, (from everyone and not just you) something had happened in their lives that took priority over Fab.

As they have also changed their number I'd also wonder if they had decided to give swinging a break.

I wouldn't have called them strange under the circumstances you describe to be honest.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Perhaps one of them is sick

Or a relative has died

Or they have other problems

Don't make it about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were the ones that wanted to keep in touch if you are friends of ours you will already know i was very ill recently and when we didnt reply to one of their messages this happens

Strange people or what do you think"

I doubt they did all this because you didn't reply to a message

Have to stopped to think maybe something had happened in their life's which means they have hid their profile and taking some time out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't make it about you "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard sometimes. You never know what is happening in their lives.

Not to mention that it can be really hard to know people's intentions. It is noted time and again how people have a hard time just saying they aren't interested. Maybe they thought that's how you guys felt - that you weren't interested but just didn't know how to say it so you make excuses not to meet and then don't answer messages. I'm not saying that's the case, just that I could see how each party in this context might not know the real intentions of the other.

Take a secretive lifestyle, add in sex and the Internet, and this is what you get.

-Courtney

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Maybe one of them is jealous. It can take time to fester.

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Agreed, maybe something did happen in their personal lives, but would that stop them sending a message to say 'goodbye' or a short explanation or something similar? Would have to be something pretty devastating. Which obviously it could be...

Just saying we have had this happen to us a few times and not heard back from promising situations. It just seems rude to us.

Anyway, bottom line is... It's their loss as your profile is HOT. :o)

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???"
we had daily contact with them and considered them real friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!! "

Why more fool them?

What if they have hidden their profile because one is ill, had a bereavement, she's got pregnant, the list is endless, thy should ignor real life and carry on meeting them because she looks 'absolutely amazing'

Really?

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really? "

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Agreed, maybe something did happen in their personal lives, but would that stop them sending a message to say 'goodbye' or a short explanation or something similar? Would have to be something pretty devastating. Which obviously it could be...

Just saying we have had this happen to us a few times and not heard back from promising situations. It just seems rude to us.

Anyway, bottom line is... It's their loss as your profile is HOT. :o)

Thank you xxxxxx

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???we had daily contact with them and considered them real friends "

What if one of them discovered they have an std

Bet they would deffo disappear ASAP especially if they been playing with others

Unless they decent people who would say something

Could be any reason

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really? "

His response is predictable though isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just saying we have had this happen to us a few times and not heard back from promising situations. It just seems rude to us.

Anyway, bottom line is... It's their loss as your profile is HOT. :o)

Sometimes people just move on

They get bored of meeting the same people and want someone new

I've had it a few times where guys I've met just stop talking

It's a sex site it's what happens

Your not entering into a relationship and people owe you no explanation if they decide to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really?

His response is predictable though isn't it?

Shag me shag me

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???we had daily contact with them and considered them real friends

What if one of them discovered they have an std

Bet they would deffo disappear ASAP especially if they been playing with others

Unless they decent people who would say something

Could be any reason

"
We would love to know and as far as we know the always had safe sex

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really?

His response is predictable though isn't it?

Shag me shag me

Exactly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello Flamehaired, no one ever really knows another's true motivations because they rarely know there own. Your profile is brilliant btw! X

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really?

His response is predictable though isn't it?

Shag me shag me

"
lol

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???we had daily contact with them and considered them real friends

What if one of them discovered they have an std

Bet they would deffo disappear ASAP especially if they been playing with others

Unless they decent people who would say something

Could be any reason

We would love to know and as far as we know the always had safe sex"

Can still catch things with condoms unfortunately

( I would possibly go get tested to be on the safe side )

Not saying that is what it is , buts it's a possibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Flamehaired, no one ever really knows another's true motivations because they rarely know there own. Your profile is brilliant btw! X"

Thank you my lovely

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Haha eye roll overload in the Fab forum

At least I didn't accuse them of being "strange people ". Eye roll!

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Haha eye roll overload in the Fab forum

At least I didn't accuse them of being "strange people ". Eye roll! "
Eye roll back to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a real shame then if you considered them friends but sometime friendships move on.

Onwards and upwards.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Well they have certainly lost something in you two thats for sure OP, youre stunning shame so far away though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were the ones that wanted to keep in touch if you are friends of ours you will already know i was very ill recently and when we didnt reply to one of their messages this happens

Strange people or what do you think

I would assume as they hid their profile first, (from everyone and not just you) something had happened in their lives that took priority over Fab.

As they have also changed their number I'd also wonder if they had decided to give swinging a break.

I wouldn't have called them strange under the circumstances you describe to be honest. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps it's nothing at all to do with you? They may have split up, died, God knows but why would you think it's to do with you???we had daily contact with them and considered them real friends "

Maybe they didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really?

His response is predictable though isn't it?

Shag me shag me

Ok...

But there's other stuff I'd prefer to do with ya to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say life stuff came along and they stopped playing, not so strange, in fact very common.

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By *ustful desires OP Couple
over a year ago

"Jesus OP, you look absolutely amazing

More fool them!!

Why more fool them?

Really?

His response is predictable though isn't it?

Shag me shag me

Ok...

But there's other stuff I'd prefer to do with ya to be honest

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Tell me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's strange at all.

This is only swinging, its not that important is it. My thoughts are it sounds like they want no part of swinging at the moment. But of course who really knows apart from them. All you can be sure of OP is that they don't want contact with you.

I'm sure, judging by comments on here, there will be many volunteering to take their place

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

They were the ones that wanted to keep in touch if you are friends of ours you will already know i was very ill recently and when we didnt reply to one of their messages this happens

Strange people or what do you think"

I wouldn't say they were strange from what you describe.

I'd assume that either something has happened in real life and they're taking an extended break or they have decided to knock swinging on the head.

Think you're reading too much into it by thinking it's because you didn't reply to a message.

We often disappear for long periods of time. We just go off and vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they decided that swinging wasn't for them

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Daily contact?

For that alone I would block them on everything and move on!

Can't stand needy people, cloying.

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