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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Why is it but some cpls will meet a single guy after only a few messages sometimes only 1 like the spur of the moment meets.Were for instance single females it has to be a social first and before that days and sometimes weeks of chatting online or texting we all lead busy lifestyles is it a trust thing or do really want to know somebody that well just out of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single fem as got to be sure before a meet, they are at more risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it but some cpls will meet a single guy after only a few messages sometimes only 1 like the spur of the moment meets.Were for instance single females it has to be a social first and before that days and sometimes weeks of chatting online or texting we all lead busy lifestyles is it a trust thing or do really want to know somebody that well just out of interest "

Do you really have to ask?!!

Couple = two so they each ensure the safety of the other. A single female meeting a single male, we have to be comfortable.

I'm amazed you feel the need to ask that!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i would imagine there is a considerable amount of risk for a single lady meeting an unknown bloke off the internet so getting to know each other will be important to her so she has at least an idea that you are not going to bully or intimidate her into doing something that could technically be rape. Spending a bit of time chatting online, then by text or phone as the trust builds is not a problem as far as i can see but is the right and proper way to do things. I also prefer to get to know what a lady is like before i meet, there is less chance of the embarrasing 'no thanks' moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I am in a couple, I often play basically alone.. Master is always watching but its not the same.. I do always talk on the phone, will always exchange a good few messages and will Always meet socially first..

However the last is more because had a few that when they turned up they looked nothing like their photos..

I know if I played as a totally single girl I would be even more careful...as while Master may not be physically here.. he never leaves me without my back ups.. And a phone call has someone with access to the house within minutes.

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as mentioned before....do u really need to ask that question?

its to work out if you're an axe murderer, nut case, genuine, sexually compatable etc, etc,etc

xxx

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

ok ok get the just single fems need to feel that there not at risk but why is it some cpls only send a few messages and the meet is on and others you have go down the same road as single fems what a wonderful of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single female and i meet guys off here

I do not require months of talking i do like to chat a bit tho, i will play on a first meet if we get on but i insist on meeting in a public place first

Unlike a couple i have noone to look out for me or cover my back there for i have to be sure of who im meeting and trust them before i lock myself away on private with them

If people dont agree with my way of meeting they can stick to the couples lol

Tho to be quite honest im suprised you'd even ask such a question, do you seriously think its a good idea of single women off here to just jump up and meet someone after a hour of chatting?

I must admit tho one of my best meets was a guy i spotted in the chat room on cam, never seen him before, i said hi and within a hour we had met, i was lucky he wasnt a nutter, and its the one and only time i have done that and the only reason was because who i was supposed to be meeting had let me down last min and i had a kid free night and a hotel room paid for, but on the flip side ive met some unstable guys too so you should be careful if your meeting alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok ok get the just single fems need to feel that there not at risk but why is it some cpls only send a few messages and the meet is on and others you have go down the same road as single fems what a wonderful of swinging "

because we are all different and we all have our own ways of doing things

Some people like quick meets and other like to get to know people

your really not very good at this swinging lark are you lol

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"ok ok get the just single fems need to feel that there not at risk but why is it some cpls only send a few messages and the meet is on and others you have go down the same road as single fems what a wonderful of swinging

because we are all different and we all have our own ways of doing things

Some people like quick meets and other like to get to know people

your really not very good at this swinging lark are you lol"

who me i try my best im doing ok

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