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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, this is not the comment you think it will be..

Master treats me all the time to nice sexy guys to play with.. So why when I try to find people to return the favour do they think that its odd..

Now when Master is working away down south I would love to find a willing woman that would play with Master and let him play with her..and be either on cam.. or allow some photos for me to see later.. and yes I would prefer to be on phone so I can hear.

but everyone we suggest it to runs a mile..

Now we know its not for everyone but Master is fantastic in bed.. and why should I have all the fun..

Is it just that they arent happy that Master is married and even with my consent ( more than consent.. I so want to sort this) they are worried about possible Backlash..

Trying it a different way now.. and seeing if I can find someone to join us at chams.. but really.. I honestly am happy to talk to women about this but they dont seem to believe I am happy about it..

Katie. x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Okay, this is not the comment you think it will be..

Master treats me all the time to nice sexy guys to play with.. So why when I try to find people to return the favour do they think that its odd..

but everyone we suggest it to runs a mile..

Now we know its not for everyone but Master is fantastic in bed.. and why should I have all the fun..

Is it just that they arent happy that Master is married and even with my consent ( more than consent.. I so want to sort this) they are worried about possible Backlash..

Trying it a different way now.. and seeing if I can find someone to join us at chams.. but really.. I honestly am happy to talk to women about this but they dont seem to believe I am happy about it..

Katie. x"

why does he not have his own profile sure you could find him a woman then

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I have met Katie and spoken to Master a number of times now and they are absolutely genuine and are a very open and fun couple.

I can honestly say they get an A+ from me and I thoroughly recommend them.

Go on girls, make Masters day for him!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why does he not have his own profile sure you could find him a woman then

We have a couples profile which we use.. and Master loves to find me nice men... and I want to return the favour.

But even so as soon as he is honest and says that I am married, women think ohhhhhh cheating..

and awwww Invictus thank you..

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought about chams or trying to arrange a greedy girl or in your case greedy guy night for him.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To be honest, as you want to be involved in the play ie on the phone and are willing to verify all this before any meet goes on, then if someone is looking for this I am sure they will bite your hand off.

Maybe the people you have mailed are just not interested in what you are offering rather than not interested because he is one half a couple.... hopefully you will find someone soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you thought about chams or trying to arrange a greedy girl or in your case greedy guy night for him."

Yes.. but everytime we have gone there has been no ladies that take his fancy :D

We always make it clear what we are looking for to people.

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reposted as noticed a spelling error that would have changed the emphasis on the sentence, silly me

To be honest Katie, i dont meet cheaters but meeting someone who has full permission from his wife is a different matter, one that i have not wholly yet come to terms with. I guess i am too wary that the guy is lying when he says, his wife says its okay - ive been contacted by guys that are part of a couple that play both together and separately, i just find it difficult and uncomfortable, and i told them too. Funnily enough they didnt reply back so my instinct that actually she doesnt know was then proved right.

And the fact that i know of Invictus through the forums, and he comes across as an okay guy, just isnt enough for me, sorry. Just incredibly wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, there are very, very few single girls on here, and I would imagine that, unless they were specifically after the scenario you outline, they would prefer to play with the many single guys there are here.

You may have more luck with couples? I like watching Sue with guys, and am happy to just watch. Having a couple would probably take away the problems you have come across of single fems being wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

photos hold too much potential grief for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry ur having problems katie, you and master seem really cool peeps.

Speaking for myself, i dont have a problem with men on here. I personally dont want to know, and dont want to judge. I agree with the other post about the lack of single fems on here, and them preferring just the single guys.

good luck, i hope you and master find someone soon

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maby women are a little intimidated by the whole master thing?just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the idea of the cam, photo's or you listening in that put them off, not the fact that he is married, I definitely do not like the above and never allow the playing to be photographed let alone anythng else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the women we approach are all subs themselves... or submissive and looking for that thing..

I had one that agreed to the photos but only certain shots... and when we said about the call she wasnt into that.

THe thing is our playmates all play like this.. I see a guy and Master is either on can or phone or both.. For those that we see regular, they now to be fair will sometimes even grab the cam and move it so that Master gets a better view.

Due to Masters work we are often apart.. and while he is away I would like Master to have fun too.. ( as Master leaves me in the capable hands of our playmates)

However, Master wouldnt just go find a playmate, have a good time and then tell me about it after.. as that is not what this is about for us as how am I involved in that.

I am sure eventually the right girl will answer..

Katie. x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

For what it's worth, you're looking for a couple of fairly specialised elements IN ADDITION to wanting a single female.

And no matter how you go about it, your approach will appear to the recipient in exactly the same way that "single men posing as couples" have behaved previously.

Persistence & patience would seem to be the key here. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with above, also being a single female, I would never play with a married man, with his partner/wifes permisson or not....just my choice.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We understand where you are comming from Katie and there are 2 sides to every coin..

With you trying to find a female for him to play with it just makes him another single man looking for a female really, even though it is you who is trying to arrange it, so the women in the area will have plenty of other single guys to choose from.

For us we do not meet the male or female half of a couple with the female it is simple we are not looking for females and with the Male we feel that as he has a partner who plays then he is having his cake and eating it lol.

There are plenty of single single males for us to choose from.

Obviously another fact could be that some women would be put off by the name Master. They probably think you are Kinky buggers ..lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i once met a couple whee the lady was pregnant and so not taking part but she did want to watch. at firs i thought i would be nervous but then once we got ging he held my attention rather well and i kind of forgot she was there

it is a shame that you are coming up against resistance for this idea but i am sure if you keep looking then you will find what you and your Master want

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I can understand peoples nervousness at the cam idea, I was a little unsure my self at first, but I have to say Katie and Master have a great set-up here and there really is nothing sinister or weird about it.

They are just a great couple who are separated a lot due to work commitments and who still want to play.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i really dont see the problem especially wen ur consenting to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its a great idea what your doing i wished i was closer to yoi. i know how hard it is for fellas to get a meet espically if their allready a couple. we had no luck for brendan but nat a bother for myself. i wish you well in finding one.

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