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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home

I havnt been to the gym either

I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back

Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh

How do I get my mojo back any suggestions

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Erm, have a rest?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

As above, we all go through it from time to time. Take a break, chill out and try doing something different. Then come back when your feeling refreshed!

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"As above, we all go through it from time to time. Take a break, chill out and try doing something different. Then come back when your feeling refreshed!"

Sounds a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above, we all go through it from time to time. Take a break, chill out and try doing something different. Then come back when your feeling refreshed!

Sounds a good idea "

I found when I was tried and couldn't be arsed to do anything and going to the gym was boring me. I just kicked back and went for walks (well in my case push) around the local park for fresh air a change of scenery, get a coffee and watch people chase thier dogs or watch the world go by, as always something funny happens in a park to made you smile ( and I don't mean sexually lol). And generally I went home feeling a bit more positive.

Failing that you could always borrow a dog and be one of those who ends up chasing it

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

I know this sounds old fashioned but going for a good walk can be good for your body and mind X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .

Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube

Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner

Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes

Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .

Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube

Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner

Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes

Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new "

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"As above, we all go through it from time to time. Take a break, chill out and try doing something different. Then come back when your feeling refreshed!

Sounds a good idea

I found when I was tried and couldn't be arsed to do anything and going to the gym was boring me. I just kicked back and went for walks (well in my case push) around the local park for fresh air a change of scenery, get a coffee and watch people chase thier dogs or watch the world go by, as always something funny happens in a park to made you smile ( and I don't mean sexually lol). And generally I went home feeling a bit more positive.

Failing that you could always borrow a dog and be one of those who ends up chasing it "

I don't know anyone with a dog to take for a walk

I feel the gym I can't do as tiredness an i did cardiovascular workout ie running machine

I used to love the gym but not this week for some reason

My eating pattern has changed..my sleep pattern an out of sorts

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I know this sounds old fashioned but going for a good walk can be good for your body and mind X"

I may go out sat for a walk but not today ...just don't feel like going for a walk

I know what u mean a walk can be good in mind an body x

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .

Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube

Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner

Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes

Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new "

Positive thing is ive lost weight an need some new clothes.. I feel meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the thing, you need to chill out and rest, take it easy for a while and have a break from FAB and the whole scene, go for a walk in the park, travel to a place with a lot of sunshine, eat more healthier foods and drinks, focus on a different non-sexual activity for a week and you'll be feeling refreshed and super horny for playtime right before you know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends how you feel about yourself

Some days I feel really bad about the way I look and the though of getting naked with somebody is a real turn off

I can go months without sex because of this, when I feel down about my looks I have no sex drive at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .

Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube

Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner

Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes

Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new

Positive thing is ive lost weight an need some new clothes.. I feel meh "

It's not always about weight though

I though loosing weight would make me more confidant and happier, it didn't

I still don't like the way I look

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"That's the thing, you need to chill out and rest, take it easy for a while and have a break from FAB and the whole scene, go for a walk in the park, travel to a place with a lot of sunshine, eat more healthier foods and drinks, focus on a different non-sexual activity for a week and you'll be feeling refreshed and super horny for playtime right before you know it. "

The thing is im on a low fat diet already due to gall stones my diet is healthy I can't have any fat in my diet

I eat fruit ..veg an don't eat junk food ..

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I think it depends how you feel about yourself

Some days I feel really bad about the way I look and the though of getting naked with somebody is a real turn off

I can go months without sex because of this, when I feel down about my looks I have no sex drive at all"

I have to agree it isn't about my weight ..i feel not sexy an even though some fems would love my weight loss an im now 8 stone 5 lbs. .its not about that...

I just don't feel sexy ..despite my weight loss

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .

Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube

Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner

Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes

Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new

Positive thing is ive lost weight an need some new clothes.. I feel meh

It's not always about weight though

I though loosing weight would make me more confidant and happier, it didn't

I still don't like the way I look "

Same here

Guys tell me on here im nice looking good body

I just don't feel it tbh an feel im good looking or sexy enough

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Have you tried looking on the internet for mojos as lots of retro sweet sellers there.....love a good mojo

Seriously, I just unplug from fab for a while when I'm fed up. If that fails, strip naked and run down your street singing Kylie songs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rest and recharge your batteries

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Have you tried looking on the internet for mojos as lots of retro sweet sellers there.....love a good mojo

Seriously, I just unplug from fab for a while when I'm fed up. If that fails, strip naked and run down your street singing Kylie songs "

I don't think my neighbours would like that if I did an think I'd lost my marbles if i stripped naked an ran down my street singling Kylie songs

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Rest and recharge your batteries"

That's what I'm doing

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By *i-shoptonMan
over a year ago

bishopton

I've been flirting with a vegan diet- and it's showing promise re general wellbeing.... There's no getting away from the fact that sometimes we all occasional feel a tad 'meh' , though experience tells us that it will pass in time ( if it doesn't then help should of course be sought)..... Also when ur 'down' advice like 'pull yourself together, go for a walk' and 'there are lots of people worse off than you in the world' really really doesn't help.

You'll get ur mojo back.

X

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I've been flirting with a vegan diet- and it's showing promise re general wellbeing.... There's no getting away from the fact that sometimes we all occasional feel a tad 'meh' , though experience tells us that it will pass in time ( if it doesn't then help should of course be sought)..... Also when ur 'down' advice like 'pull yourself together, go for a walk' and 'there are lots of people worse off than you in the world' really really doesn't help.

You'll get ur mojo back.

X"

Thanks babe's. .going for a walk don't help . Sometimes it can make it worse

I hope I get my mojo back Don't know how to get it back i wish I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home

I havnt been to the gym either

I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back

Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh

How do I get my mojo back any suggestions"

I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home

I havnt been to the gym either

I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back

Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh

How do I get my mojo back any suggestions

I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x"

Get better soon

I've been in a meh mood all week it's not passing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe take some new fun pics showing your weight loss might cheer you up and make you feel sexy once you see how good you look!

Dollx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't try forcing feeling a certain way if you don't feel great you don't feel great. Give yourself some time out just to relax and within time you'll be back on track. Spring isn't too far away,a bit of warmth makes us feel better

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Maybe take some new fun pics showing your weight loss might cheer you up and make you feel sexy once you see how good you look!

Dollx "

Thanks ..i could do with new pics being taken

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Don't try forcing feeling a certain way if you don't feel great you don't feel great. Give yourself some time out just to relax and within time you'll be back on track. Spring isn't too far away,a bit of warmth makes us feel better"

It does ..mind u i like autumn winter time I dont like spring an summer

I havnt been sleeping well this week too

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Have you tried lost property, some one may have handed it in , just a thought,

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Have you tried lost property, some one may have handed it in , just a thought, "

Havnt lost it there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit down and relax,and have a good think about why you are feeling like you do, weigh up the pros and cons, and think about what makes you happiest and what dosent,,new broom sweeps clean,

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Sit down and relax,and have a good think about why you are feeling like you do, weigh up the pros and cons, and think about what makes you happiest and what dosent,,new broom sweeps clean, "

So true. .maybe a clear out of friends list on fabs..too

Also yes a new broom sweeps clean

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

I've been feeling very much this way too lately...my world has been very difficult with different family issues since October 2015...my mojo has been very up and down and I like you gave up the gym at the start and not been back since. I do try and walk the dog but sometimes that's even hard to be bothered to do that but must admit once I have I do feel a bit better. I hope you feel better soon xx ps winter months don't help me either roll on summer. X

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I've been feeling very much this way too lately...my world has been very difficult with different family issues since October 2015...my mojo has been very up and down and I like you gave up the gym at the start and not been back since. I do try and walk the dog but sometimes that's even hard to be bothered to do that but must admit once I have I do feel a bit better. I hope you feel better soon xx ps winter months don't help me either roll on summer. X "

Thanks babe's

I've been feeling like this a week..trying to snap out of it but havnt been able too. .

I've dropped the gym..dropped a friendship too..an not been sleeping either

Made a cpl of decisions like work decision...an it's not easy

Thanks hopefully I will better soon

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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago

northwest

Fresh air and make time for you, even its a coffee and a trashy magazine. Sexiness is an inner feeling, so maybe stripping back, concentrating on you(rather than energy on here) , see a friend, book a spa day. Just make time for you.

My mum had been poorly for a long time and I lost my mojo for quite a while. Since she passed away I've taken time off work ( thank goodness for the nhs!) , gone to the gym, gone for walks and sometimes just even watched day time Tele, just for the he'll of it! Mojo is returning : )x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr- lost mine a few weeks back, it just came back after a good few days of rest

Good luck

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Fresh air and make time for you, even its a coffee and a trashy magazine. Sexiness is an inner feeling, so maybe stripping back, concentrating on you(rather than energy on here) , see a friend, book a spa day. Just make time for you.

My mum had been poorly for a long time and I lost my mojo for quite a while. Since she passed away I've taken time off work ( thank goodness for the nhs!) , gone to the gym, gone for walks and sometimes just even watched day time Tele, just for the he'll of it! Mojo is returning : )x"

Sorry to hear about your mum

Hugs to you

Glad your moJo is returning back

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Mr- lost mine a few weeks back, it just came back after a good few days of rest

Good luck"

Thanks hopefully mine will be back ..i don't like looseing it ..wish it would come back

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

It will do , we all need a recharge now and and then ! We dont go a day without having bee pollen tablets in the morning now. Does help mrs has seen a real change in tiredness. X

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"It will do , we all need a recharge now and and then ! We dont go a day without having bee pollen tablets in the morning now. Does help mrs has seen a real change in tiredness. X"

It's hard when I can't sleep or have things on my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home

I havnt been to the gym either

I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back

Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh

How do I get my mojo back any suggestions

I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x"

Thanks and yeah meh pretty much all yearx

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home

I havnt been to the gym either

I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back

Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh

How do I get my mojo back any suggestions

I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x

Thanks and yeah meh pretty much all yearx"

Mine has been for a week an im normally happy but this week has been hard ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be time to treat yourself to a holiday. Do somethings different we all get stuck ruts. Hope it passes soon

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Might be time to treat yourself to a holiday. Do somethings different we all get stuck ruts. Hope it passes soon "

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread, lots of good advice!

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