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Bi male 3sum would that put you off meeting me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

Each to their own but his loss will be someone elses gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?"

Yes better to find out now he is a jerk rather than when he knows where you live etc

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

No it wouldn't put me off at all and it's a shame you are so far away.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No definitely not... Just wondered if others would be put off by it too, as never came across it before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if anything that makes you much hotter in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love to meet you it's he lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more the merrier, it's just 'fun' at the end of the day.

I see you're not into anyone over 50 (shame). Surprisingly we oldies do still have a lot to offer but I guess I have to respect your wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He couldn't know for sure if ladies he's met in the past have met bi men or not. The men could have lied to his past meets for all they know. As someone else stated his loss is someone else's gain(definitely a turn on for me!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The more the merrier, it's just 'fun' at the end of the day.

I see you're not into anyone over 50 (shame). Surprisingly we oldies do still have a lot to offer but I guess I have to respect your wishes."

I'm beginning to realise this.... Maybe an update is needed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more the merrier, it's just 'fun' at the end of the day.

I see you're not into anyone over 50 (shame). Surprisingly we oldies do still have a lot to offer but I guess I have to respect your wishes.

I'm beginning to realise this.... Maybe an update is needed x"

Let me update you

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "
we would prob say the same, cant help how you play/feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?"

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men we would prob say the same, cant help how you play/feel"

I respect you feelings just wondered if you'd like to elaborate on the reason why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off whatsoever. In fact be a good discussion point !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape "
I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a reality check , there are loads who won't play with people who play with bi guys , gay men , TVs .

Most won't admit it , for fear of being see as bigots , but there are plenty who will , and they can be very vociferous . Gum clinics ask if you've played with bi men . They can't give blood if they have . So there are reasons to choose not to .

It's their choice , and we don't care who people have played with . Our sexual health is our responsibility , and we get checked every six weeks . And we happily tell them we have played with bi men .

All good so far , and hopefully it will stay that way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I am a bi male can't find any couples to have fun with been on site three months not one meet yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss.... some other guys gain ! its his preferance i suppose, it wouldnt put me off tho if anything i would be more keen to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation "

I don't think you're managing the risk by not wanting to play with bi/gay men. I'm sure you already know the safest way is to ensure you have protected sex.

Straight men can have HIV/STD's etc as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't turn me off in the slightest!

I much prefer sensually liberated bi friends to boring old vanilla ones anyday... sex is sex, so why not enjoy it all together!?

Plus I think you're hot xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a reality check , there are loads who won't play with people who play with bi guys , gay men , TVs .

Most won't admit it , for fear of being see as bigots , but there are plenty who will , and they can be very vociferous . Gum clinics ask if you've played with bi men . They can't give blood if they have . So there are reasons to choose not to .

It's their choice , and we don't care who people have played with . Our sexual health is our responsibility , and we get checked every six weeks . And we happily tell them we have played with bi men .

All good so far , and hopefully it will stay that way .

"
We believe your stance is good on clinic visits but if you play 2 0r 3 times a week then how secure could a stranger feel if fucking you 5 months down the line if you had played with 3 or 4 bi men every week? this of course is just an example but why we tend to stay out of bi male circles

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation "

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation "

The OP isn't saying about playing with bi men though.

You cannot give blood if you have had sexual contact with a bisexual man in the last 12 months.

That does not apply for having sexual contact with a woman who has had sexual contact with a bisexual man. The NHS does not consider that higher risk.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?"

Is it a homophobic attitude or an understanding that the gay community is recognised as a aids righ risk? This would be my only concern, it wouldn't stop me meeting, I'd just make sure that I took appropriate measures to mitigate against the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id actually really like to find a lady or couple who would enjoy this kind of meet...his loss is what i say!

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock


"He couldn't know for sure if ladies he's met in the past have met bi men or not. The men could have lied to his past meets for all they know. As someone else stated his loss is someone else's gain(definitely a turn on for me!)"

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy."

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"No, if anything that makes you much hotter in my opinion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?

Is it a homophobic attitude or an understanding that the gay community is recognised as a aids righ risk? This would be my only concern, it wouldn't stop me meeting, I'd just make sure that I took appropriate measures to mitigate against the risk."

The NHS does not consider having sex with a woman who also has sex with bisexual men to be high risk. The fear is mostly based around 1980s scaremongering.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It wouldn't put us of at all....who you previously had sex with is none of our business and so long as we practice safe sex then we are all taking the same precautions.....remember not everyone is as honest as you and quite a few straight men are secretly bi anyway - so those who say no to you have probably played with a closet bi guy anyway but they just don't know it

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet."

I've been with straight guys who like sucking a guy

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

It wouldnt put me off, in fact id ask if you could bring him along! Im bi-curious and in my mind thats how i would like to take my first steps to see how far i would go:D

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet.

I've been with straight guys who like sucking a guy "

Very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are these str8 guys u want to play in mmf's then i wonder!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet.

I've been with straight guys who like sucking a guy

Very nice"

I've also come across men who no longer meet me because now I'm apparently disease ridden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There loss i'd say!! Massively So!

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet.

I've been with straight guys who like sucking a guy

Very nice

I've also come across men who no longer meet me because now I'm apparently disease ridden "

Really? Their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet.

I've been with straight guys who like sucking a guy "

I guess you should put them straight, tell them they are bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

*Shrugs*

Looks like you got off lightly. You don't want to meet homophobic bigots, do you?"
his loss maybe but i dont think it makes him a homophobe...just his preference...i dont fancy any one other than white but it doenst make me a racist i have lots of freinds from.all works of life just not all get ny blood pumping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would have the oppisite effect on me..i love a girl who gets off on mmf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think there are two main reasons for not wanting to meet someone who enjoys meeting bi men. First is the perceived increased health risks that are associated with playing with men who enjoy other men. But the risk factor associated with any bi man is going to be broad ranging depending on what activities that individual gets up to and what protection is taken. I think all of us who enjoy the lifestyle have increased exposure, but there are many Hetro couples that often enjoy playing with no protection. I would say there risk is greater than a bi man who always uses protection. It's down to the individual.

The second reason is more an aversion to any association with bi/gay lifestyle which is a preconception that for moral, social, personal preference or religious reason someone has.

In the end as a bi man I am honest and comfortable with my sexuality and if someone doesn't like that well that's not my concern.

I would be more concerned with how safe a person's practices are rather than who they have been with.

Sorry didn't mean to ramble on there.

Anyway anyone for a bi mmf?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

In an nutshell, he's a moron. Anyone who won't meet me because I like bisexual men is great to know because I don't want to meet him either. Now if I forced him to do a 3sum with another bi man, that's a different thing. Clearly that's not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more the merrier, it's just 'fun' at the end of the day.

I see you're not into anyone over 50 (shame). Surprisingly we oldies do still have a lot to offer but I guess I have to respect your wishes.

I'm beginning to realise this.... Maybe an update is needed x"
Definitely an update. I would have no problem with meeting you. As I get older, I find myself becoming more and more broadminded and open to nearly all scenarios.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I would think there are two main reasons for not wanting to meet someone who enjoys meeting bi men. First is the perceived increased health risks that are associated with playing with men who enjoy other men. But the risk factor associated with any bi man is going to be broad ranging depending on what activities that individual gets up to and what protection is taken. I think all of us who enjoy the lifestyle have increased exposure, but there are many Hetro couples that often enjoy playing with no protection. I would say there risk is greater than a bi man who always uses protection. It's down to the individual.

The second reason is more an aversion to any association with bi/gay lifestyle which is a preconception that for moral, social, personal preference or religious reason someone has.

In the end as a bi man I am honest and comfortable with my sexuality and if someone doesn't like that well that's not my concern.

I would be more concerned with how safe a person's practices are rather than who they have been with.

Sorry didn't mean to ramble on there.

Anyway anyone for a bi mmf?

"

Oh go on then.

You've twisted my arm.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation "
hey im gay and wudnt dream of doing un protected sex unless in a LTR and only then after weve both been tested and trust was there so us "gays" are not all the same and despise the thought of being tarred by the same brush also i know plenty of married couples who fuck about without protection too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a reality check , there are loads who won't play with people who play with bi guys , gay men , TVs .

Most won't admit it , for fear of being see as bigots , but there are plenty who will , and they can be very vociferous . Gum clinics ask if you've played with bi men . They can't give blood if they have . So there are reasons to choose not to .

It's their choice , and we don't care who people have played with . Our sexual health is our responsibility , and we get checked every six weeks . And we happily tell them we have played with bi men .

All good so far , and hopefully it will stay that way .

We believe your stance is good on clinic visits but if you play 2 0r 3 times a week then how secure could a stranger feel if fucking you 5 months down the line if you had played with 3 or 4 bi men every week? this of course is just an example but why we tend to stay out of bi male circles"

We only fuck with a condom for meets , unless with each other . That's non negotiable .

And the amount of bi men is a small % of our meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy."
were very very certain we havent...take it from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

So where does it say we are gay men because we play with both sexes?

Greedy maybe but not gay.

Looks like you had a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

So where does it say we are gay men because we play with both sexes?

Greedy maybe but not gay.

Looks like you had a lucky escape.

"
People have boundaries mate...you need to get over it,after all its only someone elses boundary,nothing anyone thinks or says is going to change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us"

Do you check everyones Google calendar from the moment they first lost their virginity every time you meet someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

So where does it say we are gay men because we play with both sexes?

Greedy maybe but not gay.

Looks like you had a lucky escape.

People have boundaries mate...you need to get over it,after all its only someone elses boundary,nothing anyone thinks or says is going to change that"
my boundary is ide never have sex with a women but then thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

Do you check everyones Google calendar from the moment they first lost their virginity every time you meet someone? "
weve only ever met one guy...and we know him rather well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men

So where does it say we are gay men because we play with both sexes?

Greedy maybe but not gay.

Looks like you had a lucky escape.

People have boundaries mate...you need to get over it,after all its only someone elses boundary,nothing anyone thinks or says is going to change thatmy boundary is ide never have sex with a women but then thats just me "
Thats commendable and best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

I'd see if you can get them to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

Do you check everyones Google calendar from the moment they first lost their virginity every time you meet someone? weve only ever met one guy...and we know him rather well"

I would imagine that the poster wasn't talking about people who don't play with men as a matter of routine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

"
May not be a big deal to the bi man...to others its as weve explained,its purely boundaries which we refuse to cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

Do you check everyones Google calendar from the moment they first lost their virginity every time you meet someone? weve only ever met one guy...and we know him rather well

I would imagine that the poster wasn't talking about people who don't play with men as a matter of routine..."
we dont play with men women tv or couples as a matter of any routine,we play with who we fancy that fit our boundaries..im sure its the same for most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

"

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others "
Then according to your logic excluding bi men from our play is perfectly reasonable...You only need a hidden account on fab guys to see who the straight bi men are as most of the dafties do not even use a different name or pictures,its called researching your meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me. Makes for an exciting session...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others Then according to your logic excluding bi men from our play is perfectly reasonable...You only need a hidden account on fab guys to see who the straight bi men are as most of the dafties do not even use a different name or pictures,its called researching your meets "

If you want to exclude people that is your decision and no one can take that away from you. Likewise if you want to exclude people on basis of health reasons then again that is your decision. My point is that system is far from fool proof since not all 'straight' men on here are on other sites, it doesn't deal with the issue of parties playing bareback nor does it deal with the issue of couples where the bloke is in the closet so to speak. I have met 'straight'couples where it is readily apparent the male is bi or at least curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others Then according to your logic excluding bi men from our play is perfectly reasonable...You only need a hidden account on fab guys to see who the straight bi men are as most of the dafties do not even use a different name or pictures,its called researching your meets

If you want to exclude people that is your decision and no one can take that away from you. Likewise if you want to exclude people on basis of health reasons then again that is your decision. My point is that system is far from fool proof since not all 'straight' men on here are on other sites, it doesn't deal with the issue of parties playing bareback nor does it deal with the issue of couples where the bloke is in the closet so to speak. I have met 'straight'couples where it is readily apparent the male is bi or at least curious."
We honestly have not come across any bi males in the scene by accident.If we did we would not be nasty or hateful or bigoted ,we would simply avoid,with no need for drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others Then according to your logic excluding bi men from our play is perfectly reasonable...You only need a hidden account on fab guys to see who the straight bi men are as most of the dafties do not even use a different name or pictures,its called researching your meets

If you want to exclude people that is your decision and no one can take that away from you. Likewise if you want to exclude people on basis of health reasons then again that is your decision. My point is that system is far from fool proof since not all 'straight' men on here are on other sites, it doesn't deal with the issue of parties playing bareback nor does it deal with the issue of couples where the bloke is in the closet so to speak. I have met 'straight'couples where it is readily apparent the male is bi or at least curious.We honestly have not come across any bi males in the scene by accident.If we did we would not be nasty or hateful or bigoted ,we would simply avoid,with no need for drama "

I'm not suggesting here any malice on your part, rather I am commenting there are flaws to a rule of not meeting bi males on health grounds. The same could be said of other members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others Then according to your logic excluding bi men from our play is perfectly reasonable...You only need a hidden account on fab guys to see who the straight bi men are as most of the dafties do not even use a different name or pictures,its called researching your meets

If you want to exclude people that is your decision and no one can take that away from you. Likewise if you want to exclude people on basis of health reasons then again that is your decision. My point is that system is far from fool proof since not all 'straight' men on here are on other sites, it doesn't deal with the issue of parties playing bareback nor does it deal with the issue of couples where the bloke is in the closet so to speak. I have met 'straight'couples where it is readily apparent the male is bi or at least curious.We honestly have not come across any bi males in the scene by accident.If we did we would not be nasty or hateful or bigoted ,we would simply avoid,with no need for drama

I'm not suggesting here any malice on your part, rather I am commenting there are flaws to a rule of not meeting bi males on health grounds. The same could be said of other members"
yes of course and understood but just explaining that its just a set boundary ,even if it is flawed in the eyes of some ,in our eyes its perfectly logical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot fathom why an individual should judge a new sexual partner based on that persons previous sexual partners orientation.

Sleeping with a women who has had sex with a bi man doesn't mean anything. She was attracted to that man/men sexually and they had sex with her as they fancied her. Whats the big deal?

To qualify this, obviously if someone has unprotected sex that is completely different.

The daft thing about the stance taken by the chap in question is that i) a massive number of guys on this site claim to be straight but aren't. ii) a massive number of members of this site claim to play safe but then play bare.The health risks extend not only to bi men but others Then according to your logic excluding bi men from our play is perfectly reasonable...You only need a hidden account on fab guys to see who the straight bi men are as most of the dafties do not even use a different name or pictures,its called researching your meets

If you want to exclude people that is your decision and no one can take that away from you. Likewise if you want to exclude people on basis of health reasons then again that is your decision. My point is that system is far from fool proof since not all 'straight' men on here are on other sites, it doesn't deal with the issue of parties playing bareback nor does it deal with the issue of couples where the bloke is in the closet so to speak. I have met 'straight'couples where it is readily apparent the male is bi or at least curious."
well 99.9% of guys i meet are so called straight married guys or with a g/f and ive met quite a few !

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.

Good answer.

I've been contacted by straight men looking for a meet.

I've been with straight guys who like sucking a guy

I guess you should put them straight, tell them they are bi "

Heavens no,they like deceiving the people who don't want to meet bi men

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us"

How on earth can you possibly know that,I know from recent experience people lie!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

Do you check everyones Google calendar from the moment they first lost their virginity every time you meet someone? weve only ever met one guy...and we know him rather well"

Oh,one guy ok maybe not then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

How on earth can you possibly know that,I know from recent experience people lie!"
Your not painting a good picture of the people you meet unfortunately.We would not describe any of our meets as liars and know or refer to them as friends ,Were only now experimenting with singles so will take a bit more care based on the info you have given us on lying single str8/bi men

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Baffling

Bigot seems about right to us lucky escape I think for a lot of us we do see the std side of the coin where homosexual/bisexual men are concerned,a lot play with no protection and hiv is always a threat lurking at the back of your mind....weve been called bigots but do not dislike/hate bi/gay men...We just would not play with them.Or put ourselves in any sort of risk situation

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

How on earth can you possibly know that,I know from recent experience people lie!Your not painting a good picture of the people you meet unfortunately.We would not describe any of our meets as liars and know or refer to them as friends ,Were only now experimenting with singles so will take a bit more care based on the info you have given us on lying single str8/bi men "

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By *dcumlover2Man
over a year ago

dunfermline


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

Wouldn't put me of would meet you with or without an other guy bi or straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't put me off meeting someone. But I don't ask about their past sex life and I won't tell them about mine.

I do however respect people's wishes. Whatever reason they don't want to meet someone is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wouldn't have been any the wiser if you hadn't been so honest.... Fair play to you.

Let's face it, in this lifestyle do we really know the histories of all the people we meet.... all you can do is have an open mind and play safe there is also a difference between being bi and being gay! Lol

You had a lucky escape and I'm sure there will be lots of guys wanting to meet you where it wouldn't be a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This used to happen loads when I was a single fem. I preferred to only meet bi guys and TVs and lots of guys were not only scared they would catch something from me but also worried I might try and involve them in bi play with another guy/TV

After many years in this site I'm amazed that anyone thinks they won't be lied to about someone's sexuality. Not just because lots of bi guys prefer to put straight on their profile so they can meet couples who won't meet bi guys but also because most don't think their bi until they have had full blown anal sex with a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us"

Your logic is baffling you talk about definitely knowing never having sex with a bi guy, and then talk about the risks of catching an std from him because of who he may have had sex with.

And so, you can be sure that the guys single or in a couple or females single or in couple that are straight have not had sex with a bi guy... and then subsequently with you? That's one he'll of a lot of checking. How far back through the chain do you go????

So in summary whilst you havent directly, i think you'll agree you cant be completely sure you haven't had sexual contact with those that have had bi sexual contact.

Fact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were only now experimenting with singles so will take a bit more care based on the info you have given us on lying single str8/bi men "

Put it this way... my partner and I have a bisexual/bisexual MF couples profile on here. We state that we are only looking for bisexual men to play with.

I'd say about 90% of the men AND couples who approach us are straight according to their profile. We always say 'we don't play with straight people' and they just come back and say 'it only says straight on my/our profile so that we have more chance of meeting people'.

We don't play with those people who lie on their profile. But they're lying to get into bed with people like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were only now experimenting with singles so will take a bit more care based on the info you have given us on lying single str8/bi men

Put it this way... my partner and I have a bisexual/bisexual MF couples profile on here. We state that we are only looking for bisexual men to play with.

I'd say about 90% of the men AND couples who approach us are straight according to their profile. We always say 'we don't play with straight people' and they just come back and say 'it only says straight on my/our profile so that we have more chance of meeting people'.

We don't play with those people who lie on their profile. But they're lying to get into bed with people like you.

"

Agree with this we get the same only id say our percentage is higher. Maybe 99%

It's not just single guys either we get this from couples too quite a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it me or is this thread riddled with undertones that anyone who is "gay" has got to be disease ladden and a bug spreader ??? im gay out and proud and have never had any STDS in my life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it me or is this thread riddled with undertones that anyone who is "gay" has got to be disease ladden and a bug spreader ??? im gay out and proud and have never had any STDS in my life !"

Yeah, it's grim. It impiles that gay/bisexual men don't look after their health.

And while there is a community of people within the gay scene who play very riskily (a subculture within a subculture) that particular subculture is very exclusionary of bisexual men, so you're unlikely to come across them on a site like this anyway.

And - shock horror - you DO get bisexual men who play VERY safely. Take my partner for example, who doesn't do any form of body fluid exchange with non-committed partners (men and women) - that's safer than the people who, for example, do unprotected blow jobs!

(Not saying unprotected blow jobs are wrong or bad, but it's important to consider that everyone plays differently. And some swinging activities are inherently riskier than others.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it me or is this thread riddled with undertones that anyone who is "gay" has got to be disease ladden and a bug spreader ??? im gay out and proud and have never had any STDS in my life !"

It's usually the Swingers that fuck around and never get tested. Must make them feel better about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to meet you with another guy,the thought of sucking his cock with you....such a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us

Your logic is baffling you talk about definitely knowing never having sex with a bi guy, and then talk about the risks of catching an std from him because of who he may have had sex with.

And so, you can be sure that the guys single or in a couple or females single or in couple that are straight have not had sex with a bi guy... and then subsequently with you? That's one he'll of a lot of checking. How far back through the chain do you go????

So in summary whilst you havent directly, i think you'll agree you cant be completely sure you haven't had sexual contact with those that have had bi sexual contact.

Fact!"

I guess at the end of the day it depends how active , and what one is looking for when entering this lifestyle .

If , like us , you are looking for lots of exciting encounters with a variety of people , the sexuality is not a major factor at all .

Some of our best meets have involved TVs and bi men , and despite being straight ( well maybe orally bi selfish ) , visually the meet is awesome and Sabrina seems so much more horny in this environment .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the misconception that gay/bi are always willing to take more risks.

It wouldn't bother us at all if someone had played me a bi guy or if a guy was bi in a couple (so long as respected my boundaries).

Although it does amaze me that by having some preferences on this sight you're often seen as a bigot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it me or is this thread riddled with undertones that anyone who is "gay" has got to be disease ladden and a bug spreader ??? im gay out and proud and have never had any STDS in my life !"
No ones saying anything like that ...were just saying we would not meet openly bi guys or the women that play with them...its personal choice,we see the reasoning that you dont ever know who has played where but for us its simply our choice...our option and our lives,no one has said anything about disease but hiv is a big worry and tagged to the bi/gay male world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the misconception that gay/bi are always willing to take more risks.

It wouldn't bother us at all if someone had played me a bi guy or if a guy was bi in a couple (so long as respected my boundaries).

Although it does amaze me that by having some preferences on this sight you're often seen as a bigot. "
We once talked about meeting a tv(Cara liked the idea of an attractive girl that was a guy)we approached someone and they told us they played safe etc etc and it would all be one great learning curve,after a weekend away this person had a three man gangbang and posted the pics,spunk dripping out of his arsehole,That put us off the whole idea. We then saw the same tv spouting on the forums about safe sex and protection after removing the pictures.....this is how we perceive the bi male population to be on fab. and we know not everyone can be tarred with the same brush but we will do everything possible to avoid meeting men that do that

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I'm sure you understand the term 'straight' is different on fab. No-one knows for sure that they have not played with a bi guy.were very very certain we havent...take it from us"

Ahhhhhh but have anyone you have played with played with someone who was bi? I have heard a rumour you can catch the ghey that way too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it me or is this thread riddled with undertones that anyone who is "gay" has got to be disease ladden and a bug spreader ??? im gay out and proud and have never had any STDS in my life !No ones saying anything like that ...were just saying we would not meet openly bi guys or the women that play with them...its personal choice,we see the reasoning that you dont ever know who has played where but for us its simply our choice...our option and our lives,no one has said anything about disease but hiv is a big worry and tagged to the bi/gay male world"
ok but if u do ur research HIV/AIDS has become much more prevalent within the hetro community the message from the powers that be is gay/bi men have adopted safer practices whilst the hetros havnt probs due to the misconception that there immune cos its a gay mans disease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the misconception that gay/bi are always willing to take more risks.

It wouldn't bother us at all if someone had played me a bi guy or if a guy was bi in a couple (so long as respected my boundaries).

Although it does amaze me that by having some preferences on this sight you're often seen as a bigot. We once talked about meeting a tv(Cara liked the idea of an attractive girl that was a guy)we approached someone and they told us they played safe etc etc and it would all be one great learning curve,after a weekend away this person had a three man gangbang and posted the pics,spunk dripping out of his arsehole,That put us off the whole idea. We then saw the same tv spouting on the forums about safe sex and protection after removing the pictures.....this is how we perceive the bi male population to be on fab. and we know not everyone can be tarred with the same brush but we will do everything possible to avoid meeting men that do that "

I can see why that would have put you off yes. But there is a chance it was a regular partner for him much like a my couple wouldn't wear a condom when they play. But like you say yourself you shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the misconception that gay/bi are always willing to take more risks.

It wouldn't bother us at all if someone had played me a bi guy or if a guy was bi in a couple (so long as respected my boundaries).

Although it does amaze me that by having some preferences on this sight you're often seen as a bigot. We once talked about meeting a tv(Cara liked the idea of an attractive girl that was a guy)we approached someone and they told us they played safe etc etc and it would all be one great learning curve,after a weekend away this person had a three man gangbang and posted the pics,spunk dripping out of his arsehole,That put us off the whole idea. We then saw the same tv spouting on the forums about safe sex and protection after removing the pictures.....this is how we perceive the bi male population to be on fab. and we know not everyone can be tarred with the same brush but we will do everything possible to avoid meeting men that do that

I can see why that would have put you off yes. But there is a chance it was a regular partner for him much like a my couple wouldn't wear a condom when they play. But like you say yourself you shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush. "
He told us of the meet,it was in another city with strangers , we were meeting the following week but obviously didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I'm fully bi and have had some wonderful meets, relationships and one offs during the past 10 odd years with both couples/singles on here and other sites and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. I honestly think that it all comes down to preferences between whoever is looking for bi fun, and which type of fun to have. The sex I've normally had is usually full mmf sex with oral for the guy - because I find "straight" guys are fascinated by sucking some nice, clean hard cock, especially after a few vodkas! ...and personally, I don't find any problems with that whatsoever, I encourage people to open up, be free and do whatever they wanna do!

Nigel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I'm fully bi and have had some wonderful meets, relationships and one offs during the past 10 odd years with both couples/singles on here and other sites and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. I honestly think that it all comes down to preferences between whoever is looking for bi fun, and which type of fun to have. The sex I've normally had is usually full mmf sex with oral for the guy - because I find "straight" guys are fascinated by sucking some nice, clean hard cock, especially after a few vodkas! ...and personally, I don't find any problems with that whatsoever, I encourage people to open up, be free and do whatever they wanna do!

Nigel x"
Now you have killed our liking of vodka

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone that has replied to this post...been interesting reading everybody's thoughts...... Just to make it clear to those who may have wondered I only ever play safe bi male or straight as my sexual health is important to me xxx

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Hopefully I'll be involved in 1 one day, it's on my bucket list

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By *he Face of BoeMan
over a year ago

WOMBOURNE

This is a topic I'd never even considered. speaking as someone who has not exactly played with bi men but been pretty darn close to some straight men and their junk. Surely what is the difference here? just two little letters? B and I. yep I get it some guys do more than others with and to each other, but what you can catch can be caught from the woman or from say Dping someone where all parties involved are straight.

As a straight man I still kinda think bi stuff is hot. The guy is allowed to have his own preference and set of turn ons and offs though and that might be all that bit came down to. Or he might be a bigot who's a bit of a twat. Hard to tell without more info. Either way I'm sure there are a bunch of guys lining up right now to take his place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to a guy the subject came up of my last 3sum which was with 2 bi males. Would that put you off meeting me?? as it did him.Said he didn't meet women who had sex with gay men "

No the fact your female would put me off meeting you though

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By *arker66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Jesus a turn on I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a topic I'd never even considered. speaking as someone who has not exactly played with bi men but been pretty darn close to some straight men and their junk. Surely what is the difference here? just two little letters? B and I. yep I get it some guys do more than others with and to each other, but what you can catch can be caught from the woman or from say Dping someone where all parties involved are straight.

As a straight man I still kinda think bi stuff is hot. The guy is allowed to have his own preference and set of turn ons and offs though and that might be all that bit came down to. Or he might be a bigot who's a bit of a twat. Hard to tell without more info. Either way I'm sure there are a bunch of guys lining up right now to take his place "
A bigot or a twat or maybe he just has boundaries ,fears and preferences...We can say at least when he was offered pussy he still had his own moral backbone intact and would not compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are fem/couple profiles on here that want breeding or just bareback and they have verifications for days but I'm not going to say every fem/couple on here is like that because of some of the profiles I've seen.

Within the many variations of people on here, the vast majority prefer looking after their health and wellbeing funnily enough.

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