FabSwingers.com forum: Soft Swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a single guy, I dont find much attraction in meeting for a "soft" swing.

Does this appeal to you?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

It's what we do and a couple of guys last night said it was highly erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing to us is everything apart from full penetration. Well to us that can get pretty hot. X

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"Soft swing to us is everything apart from full penetration. Well to us that can get pretty hot. X"

I've done this several times and loved it. A lot more to sex than just penetration in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only do soft, having fun so far

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

Wouldn't go for a meet where it's just a soft swing but willing to watch in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with the right couple or single it can be amazing the build up is unreal and let's face it it's so sexy learning a woman's body knowing what makes her horny as hell all the right buttons to press don't come in a quick wham bam.

I do enjoy soft play xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a soft swing couple and play in any way up to penetration, and like others have said can be extremely erotic and hot. Without the main goal being P IN V we find playtime lasts a lot longer, everyone is fully satisfied and it's extremely horny fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're a soft swing couple and play in any way up to penetration, and like others have said can be extremely erotic and hot. Without the main goal being P IN V we find playtime lasts a lot longer, everyone is fully satisfied and it's extremely horny fun"

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

For a couple-couple meet, soft swing can work really well, as everyone would get to return to their own partner for penetration when they wanted it. But for a MFM meet, I can totally understand why the single guy would see it as unfulfilling.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have no interest in a soft swing meet, I'm an all or nothing kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a couple-couple meet, soft swing can work really well, as everyone would get to return to their own partner for penetration when they wanted it. But for a MFM meet, I can totally understand why the single guy would see it as unfulfilling. "

Depends on the guy I think..

I Never assume or expect and just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no interest in a soft swing meet, I'm an all or nothing kinda gal

Me too.

Soft swing doesn't interest me either as a single or a couple. If I'm spending that long getting all riled up and turned on then I want a damn hard pounding at he end of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met soft swing couple , not sure if I'd like it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never met soft swing couple , not sure if I'd like it . "

Certainly wasn't soft swing with us haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never met soft swing couple , not sure if I'd like it .

Certainly wasn't soft swing with us haha"

Lol no it wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never met soft swing couple , not sure if I'd like it .

Certainly wasn't soft swing with us haha

Lol no it wasn't

Grrrrr the memories xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, all or nothing with me! Sorry full pen or walk, says so on my profile too.

Maybe its a red head thing.

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By *ack again100Man
over a year ago

Tamworth

I didn't think I'd like it, but a couple invited me over and who was I to turn an invite down.

I initially sat and watched them, it was highly erotic seeing her looking at me as she was being pleasured by her fella, then she came over over to me and teased the hell out of me.... I ended having one of the best orgasms I could remember over her boobs.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, I dont find much attraction in meeting for a "soft" swing.

Does this appeal to you?"
Yep appeals to me

Just meeting people for a social can be great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soft swing.....it's a no from us

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

sunderland

I think soft swing can be really pleasurable...

I definitely enjoy it

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"soft swing.....it's a no from us"

any swing is a yes from us..connie x

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"I think soft swing can be really pleasurable...

I definitely enjoy it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were only soft all the meets weve had everyone has enjoyed the experiance

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"As a single guy, I dont find much attraction in meeting for a "soft" swing.

Does this appeal to you?"

I think it's good for couples who want to want to open up their sex life but are not yet ready for a full swap. First step on the journey if you like. We rarely talk to single guys in clubs preferring to meet couples but recently have been talking about finding a guy Sara likes and starting with soft swap in the form of undressing, touching, kissing and oral to see how we feel. If we feel comfortable it might lead to full swap in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only do soft, having fun so far

Holy moly ! We love your boobies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My partner and I often meet for BDSM play without penetration.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Think most married couples have done this with there friends after a night out back to someones house.

Start,s as flirting then every week it get,s a bit more can be fun but also very dangerous as we found out with our best friends year,s ago.

Our golden rule now is no friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh christ I am such a newbie ere lol.... Where to start

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By *urlyshirleyCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

Great starter for newbie couples, erotic and thrilling, but sure I can imagine it being crap for the single guy. Almost playing fluffer lol.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Soft swing when we first started in the lifestyle, but now full swing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we think it's great. Whilst we do full swap, it isn't always essential and I really enjoy soft swapping with another couple and then watching each other have sex with our own partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we wouldn't find that hot.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

I am yet to succeed at one. Every soft swing meet I had inevitably turned to something else and not due to my fault for the most part,

Hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't go for a meet where it's just a soft swing but willing to watch in a club."

It's a no from me too. As I'm not a voyuer I can't think of anything more boring than watching a couple in action.

When I'm horny I go to club and I want cock.

When I in the past attended parties most were seasoned swingers and came with the same intentions.

I assume soft swing is for couples who are not (yet) ready to share?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our best meets have ended up soft swap only... We wouldn't say no just because and actually when Mr was on as a single he often did soft swap.

There is a lot to be said for those sorts of meets.... And I enjoy it as we will then have full sex together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume soft swing is for couples who are not (yet) ready to share?"

Or for those who just don't see 'penetration' as the ultimate end point.

We/I do both soft and hard swing depending on the people and what we/I fancy.

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