FabSwingers.com forum: Dating site and fab.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you on both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you on both?

No. Fab and clubs fulfil my dating requirements. Why would I date anyone who wasn't already having casual sex?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yes but I barely use the dating one

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Nope..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you on both?

No. Fab and clubs fulfil my dating requirements. Why would I date anyone who wasn't already having casual sex?"

Question as I've saw plenty of people on them from here, also I'm on there.... I hardly ever use it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Here only. I was on another swinging site before here and tried to login the other day and it threw me out 'user unrecognised' so after a period of inactivity as long as that I'm obviously expunged from the records.

So Fab it is. You're stuck with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. Here only. I was on another swinging site before here and tried to login the other day and it threw me out 'user unrecognised' so after a period of inactivity as long as that I'm obviously expunged from the records.

So Fab it is. You're stuck with me."

Ah I didn't know of any other swinging sites ire fab

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes I'm on both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Fab it is. You're stuck with me.

Ah I didn't know of any other swinging sites ire fab "

^like fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I'm on both "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just Fab. I have all that I need from here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, just Fab. I have all that I need from here. "

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yes ...but I'm hardly on the dating site as I can't be bothered tbh..With it i can take it or leave it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you on both?

No. Fab and clubs fulfil my dating requirements. Why would I date anyone who wasn't already having casual sex?

Question as I've saw plenty of people on them from here, also I'm on there.... I hardly ever use it though. "

If you have seen "plenty" on both then you have already answered your question....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get no attention from either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just here. Not looking for a bf and fab gives me what I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, just here. Not looking for a bf and fab gives me what I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

Any tips u wanna share lol

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I am but I get no attention from anyone on it. It seems that guys would rather just fuck me than date me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

Any tips u wanna share lol"

On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I am but I barely use it I've not logged in for months. I prefer Fab mostly because I'm a forum junkie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

Any tips u wanna share lol

On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship...."

There you go. How to mug off women. What a tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

Any tips u wanna share lol

On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....

There you go. How to mug off women. What a tool"

Number two tip....upload a sense of humour....number three impress the ladies with your white knight skills...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not knowingly on any other site.... But I did have 3 profiles on the fish site that someone kindly (sarcasm) set up for me.. I hope I had lots of fun

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nah. Not looking for any kind of "dating", so fab is 100% fit for purpose for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a couple,no,just fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never would try online dating personally. I don't really use Fab as a lot of other single guys do, but it works for me and I enjoy the forums mainly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not knowingly on any other site.... But I did have 3 profiles on the fish site that someone kindly (sarcasm) set up for me.. I hope I had lots of fun

Ah god damn picture stealers

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Na. Prefer the straight forward approach of fab where the goods are on the table.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Just fab. I'm not really looking for 'dates'

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm on the fishy site as well as here,... I'm looking for something more permanent in my life,

In the mean time I'm having fun whilst I find that, where ever that might be,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm not looking to date , I get what I need on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not knowingly on any other site.... But I did have 3 profiles on the fish site that someone kindly (sarcasm) set up for me.. I hope I had lots of fun

Ah god damn picture stealers "

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It happens.. *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both I'm single at moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.would never go on a dating site even if I was single x

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I prefer fabswingers this site to a dating site tbh

Esp nsa .no pressure to be in a relationship on here. An ive met some nice guys on here for a social ...an had a laugh

An im a lot happier on fabs as it gives me the freedom to express myself sexually too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the dating sites i'm on are fuck sites anyway. Pretty sure everything on the internet is fuck sites now, game sites, chat apps and the random adds, fb, idk about twitter?

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'm on pof as I'd quite like someone to go out and do normal stuff with, but to be honest I've had more dates on miss cheeky's dating thread

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Honestly - I signed up for the dating site in question and went on a few dates to see how things would turn out. My GOD ! After 3 dates with an otherwise nice man, all this talk-talk stuff drove me nuts, I couldn't take it any more.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Only use this site, once upon a time long ago used POF but was shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for a date this week

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I'm on both but I rarely use dating site as I'm not sure the people on there would really 'do it' for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm just here.

Not looking to date and don't feel the need to look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF for dating and FAB for sex. Simple as that.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I was on both but left because vanilla just won't cut it. If my 'one' is around they're more likely to be a filthy pervert on here

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

On pof but don't go on often as it a shit site

Seen a few faces off here on there

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

No as we don't wish to date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both but unsuccessful on both lol

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

Am on both as sometimes there's too much drama and no replies on here so instead of rant, I fall back on tinder

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By *es-sMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Nope here only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a dating site, but most of the guys were only after sex and there are better filters on here to out the ones im not interested in plus i like fab better so deleted the other site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

Any tips u wanna share lol

On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship...."

Kind of a shitty thing to do though.

never understand guys like that. Be honest and let someone make a choice instead of leading them to think there could be more. Argh!!! Makes me mad.

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Both, but you know no one just wants to date anymore, they just want to evaluate you for a "serious relationship". I prefer to date and get to know someone over time, not pass a relationship test.

So for now it's more fun here, plus would love to find a sexy partner in crime to have fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on POF for dating and FAB for sex. Simple as that."

Same as

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope, I find online dating odd. Those I know who use it constantly complain, so I don't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship...."

Haha this may work for some but that's why I'm on FAB.... I make the POF ones wait lol and get my sexual needs met from here

if they wanted a one off they ent getting it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out about this site from someone on POF, so that was a win.

TBH I get more action from there than I do here, including kink.

I think I need to take a break though... POF is now offering me matches from hundreds of miles away. Need to let the local pot refill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....

Haha this may work for some but that's why I'm on FAB.... I make the POF ones wait lol and get my sexual needs met from here

if they wanted a one off they ent getting it!! "

Exactly. When it comes to dating you implement all sorts or rules.

2nd date for kissing

4th date for sex.

you end up semi celibate which led me here.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

What I don't get is how can you be here just for fun and on a dating site to just date? So the women on here aren't good to date either? I'm saying this because a lot of women, including myself are on dating sites too. I have had this happen to me numerous times where a guy is happy to see me regularly for sex and we get on, but doesn't see me as dating material, then goes off fab as he's found someone to date on a dating site... like this girl is great to fuck, nothing more. What happens when the girl you decide to date is actually on a swingers or casual sex site? What then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found out about this site from someone on POF, so that was a win.

TBH I get more action from there than I do here, including kink.

I think I need to take a break though... POF is now offering me matches from hundreds of miles away. Need to let the local pot refill

I found a lot of people say they get more off POF and tinder .... Which I just naturally assumed they would get the most from here? Guess I'm wrong lol

I barely use POF though purely cos I use it for dating purposes only and not into that right now ha

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By *igneachtWoman
over a year ago

Upton Wirral

Yes I'm on both but can't remember the last time I logged onto the dating site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....

Haha this may work for some but that's why I'm on FAB.... I make the POF ones wait lol and get my sexual needs met from here

if they wanted a one off they ent getting it!!

Exactly. When it comes to dating you implement all sorts or rules.

2nd date for kissing

4th date for sex.

you end up semi celibate which led me here. "

Haha I have that In mind like at least a 5 date rule for sex but to filter the crap ones out I tell them 10 dates

like I could wait that long haha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm using an app. I like to date too. I think

Maybe I should just go on a couple of socials via here?

There's plenty of pervs and sex everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don't get is how can you be here just for fun and on a dating site to just date? So the women on here aren't good to date either? I'm saying this because a lot of women, including myself are on dating sites too. I have had this happen to me numerous times where a guy is happy to see me regularly for sex and we get on, but doesn't see me as dating material, then goes off fab as he's found someone to date on a dating site... like this girl is great to fuck, nothing more. What happens when the girl you decide to date is actually on a swingers or casual sex site? What then?

I found that.... Most only want me for bedroom purposes and at first I thought something was wrong with me and soon realised it was them not me....

When I date and I think it's promising I tell them and have this awkward conversation.... If it puts them off so be it but most are fine with it....

I have found it normally fizzles out from my side due to vanilla sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they compartmentalise people there's not a lot you can do about it. Best not to get into a relationship with them.

Many people do tend to have lower standards for a sexual NSA relationship than they would for someone they're planning to spend the rest of their life with and introduce to other people.

It is a bit sad, but it also makes some sense because if you're using someone and enjoy that usage then you're gonna be happy with things the way they are there and not want to take it any further because you don't have to and have no inclination. I don't think we're naturally inclined to be this way but society pressured us to devalue sexually promiscuous people or people who just don't mess about AND are overt about it, but it does allow people to be used and left feeling confused about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be. Got exactly what I wanted out of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use Tinder as well because I'd like a relationship. Got talking to a guy on Tinder last weekend and was pretty delighted to find him on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just Fab. I've no wish or need to date. I like to control my own doofer too much

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good god, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that men on dating sites either just wanted sex or some mug to do their laundry.

On here there's a much better chance of me finding someone compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - I make no bones about wanting a relationship. Until I have that I have fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both. My profiles are exactly the same apart from I have no nudes on the dating one.

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By *ootballPaulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

POF is my guilty pleasure

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Am on both... its just another avenue for meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....

Any tips u wanna share lol

On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....

Kind of a shitty thing to do though.

never understand guys like that. Be honest and let someone make a choice instead of leading them to think there could be more. Argh!!! Makes me mad. "

It was more a tongue in cheek reference to the number of women on pof saying that they want relationships but actually just looking for sex.

I found tinder, pof and badoo all the same and it's why I ended up here - here people are genuinely honest and open about their intent

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not any longer. We met on a dating site and started swinging together while dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'm just here.

Not looking to date and don't feel the need to look elsewhere. "

Same here just up 4 the naughtiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look for sex on pof badoo or tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't look for sex on pof badoo or tinder"

Just my personal experience, I actually think theiron use differs from area to area, again, my personal experience though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their use even!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently joined a dating one, but forget I'm in it and logged in about 3 times. Joined it hoping to find someone local and they shoe face pics so makes it a lot easier. But I can barely be bothered withthis at the minute let alone tthat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on one, but dont really check it... although Ive seen loads of people off here on there too lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I was on a dating site when a friend at the time put me on here.

I like it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, but havnt checked into it for quite some time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am on several other sex dating sites, as you got more options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, on a few different sites, depending how I feel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I am on here and a dating site too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on Pof but rarely use it now. They're so strict in trying to stamp out people just looking for a shag that you can't discuss sexual compatibility at all on there, something I consider to be a fundamental part of a relationship.

I now use OKC. It's much better for seeing if you're suited before you waste your time dating someone, only to find out they're not right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed that if a guy trys to send a girl a message containing any kind of sexual word, the message doesn't send (it says it is sent though) and is automatically deleted from sent messages list. Messages from a lady can contain sexual words though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they can't. I got blocked for that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes on both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone mail me the best dating sites?

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

Yes im a on dating site in the hopes of meeting someone for more then just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on both now, had amazing success on POF, and loving FAB just as much.

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