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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My oh likes to be dominated by me, restrained, collared, cuffed, blindfolded, gagged, plugged and sometimes in shibari or chasisty. I do this as I know it's what he likes... but it does absolutely nothing for me.

One of my fantasies is mmf,which he will not entertain in any way shape or form, however the other night he said that if he was in said position,he would have no choice who else was in the room to play. .. (he likes the no control element)

so, I think this could be a breakthrough in finding some middle ground for us both to be happy.... he gets trussed up and I get to play also

so, do I just find a third party and see what happens or keep things as they are for now and explore that idea further!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

added to clarify bi mmf.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Sounds perfect

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

You'd have to make it clear to the third party that your OH wasn't too keen. Just looking at it if it was a man writing this about a woman ... maybe a club scenario where he is paraded around, but no touching or involvement until he says its okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah go for it. I'm same as you, not really into bondage but love MFM.

If he's tied up then invite 2 guys round...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's not keen if it was a 'normal' situation. If he is restrained then he'd have no choice which is the element he likes.

he is not interested in anything outside the bedroom. No clubs or joint meets for him, which is where I get frustrated as I like that social element also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah go for it. I'm same as you, not really into bondage but love MFM.

If he's tied up then invite 2 guys round..."

oooh hadnt thought of 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah go for it. I'm same as you, not really into bondage but love MFM.

If he's tied up then invite 2 guys round...

oooh hadnt thought of 2 "

i'm always thinking about 2.

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