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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...

At what point do you want too meet?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We will meet socially as soon as we can but for various reasons this takes time for us. Due to the way we play a "meet,meet" (apologies to Micky Flanagan for ripping off "out,out") will take a bit longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet ideally within 2 weeks of first mail. Anything longer than that and we will never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i feel comfortable and if they have tickled my curiosity enough. I don't meet for socials so i have to get it right. There is no time frame on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...

At what point do you want too meet?

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as soon as you establish a friendship a connection but some say they are not meeting and meet so who knows what that's about

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I meet ideally within 2 weeks of first mail. Anything longer than that and we will never meet."

Don't say that Scarlet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet ideally within 2 weeks of first mail. Anything longer than that and we will never meet.

Don't say that Scarlet! "

Very few people I will wait for. They are special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as possible.

Although with some people that can take a while, for many reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people within a week of first messaging on here...but only to satisfy my curiosity that they weren't what I was looking for anyway..

Usually, it's after about 4 weeks, unless there are school holidays and other factors to take into account...in those cases we just get to know each other better by message until the time to meet arrives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...

At what point do you want too meet?

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After the first message if the pic looks good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't really like to play mail ping pong but sadly thats all that happens for us

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I usually like to have a chat for a while, suss out the personality type thing, then when the time is right I would arrange a meet, something's can't be rushed and the people that don't understand that aren't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...

At what point do you want too meet?

After the first message if the pic looks good "
hehe well that was a given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on lots of factors. Distance, desire and time play important parts. I've met within days or within months. Can't say there's a formula or set timescale for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on how many emails we exchange. If it's lots of contact each day then I like to meet within a few weeks but arranged a lot sooner than that. If it's someone who I chat with once or twice a week then meets can take longer. I guess it's getting to know the person first. It's also true that some people are worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...

At what point do you want too meet?

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I am guessing it also differs between men, women and couples..

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

Whenever is convenient for both parties. ASAP after establishing some interest by chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind when. If i like chatting to someone then i'll enjoy their textual company and stay patient, and have waited over a year to meet some people.

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