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"What became of Discretion ?. Talking about others is,as bad as having to listen to them waffling on about their ex for 99% of the first meet. Hence no 2nd one lol " | |||
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"Its an odd one this, as on one hand I totally get were your coming from, but there again this is a sex dating "swingers" site and via verifications posted, you can see who met whom; accordingly you might come up in a conversation ie " I understand you me Jon Pete last week is it true his cock is huge and he as an amazingly long tongue" or something like that, to gauge if your going to like him etc " Yea i agree that the verifications are for all to see etc and it is flattering if it is nice things being said with no harm meant! I would maybe just prefer not to know about these conversations and take part in any myself | |||
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"Im gettin a few people who i'm chattin to suddenly coming out with 'oh i met same person as you and we were talkin about you', its always been nice things theyve said but completely puts me off meetin them...i find discussin other meets and what you got up to a real turn off! Is it the 'norm' to talk about mutual meets?" I wish I was that interesting | |||
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"I would never, under any circumstances, speak about meeting one person, or details of what happened with another person. Ever. It's just unthinkable to me. " I wouldn't go into details but if someone said oh I see you met x person I would say yes I did. If they asked probing questions I would remind them it's not up for discussion. Although I know men who like women discussing how absolutely amazing they are | |||
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"Interesting this thread. Is giving some one a verification not indeed talking about people if published. Should verifications all be hidden It is noted that a number of posts above say they do not discuss and would not discuss their meets yet majority have all posted verifications and have the same on their profiles. This discussion seems very flawed X " This is the reason that; I don't give verifications, unless specifically requested to ; and if I do, it says little more than the basic "yes they exist" and perhaps " they are a nice person". And why I don't wish to be verified, ( and why I do not display verifications- the ones that were given by people who ignored my requests not to leave a verification). And why I think the verification system should be changed to have no text whatsoever; simply a number of "yes/ no " ticks. | |||
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"Interesting this thread. Is giving some one a verification not indeed talking about people if published. Should verifications all be hidden It is noted that a number of posts above say they do not discuss and would not discuss their meets yet majority have all posted verifications and have the same on their profiles. This discussion seems very flawed X " Top point Duely noted | |||
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"Not for me. I prefer discretion. I'd be unimpressed to hear a meet had been discussing me." This! | |||
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