FabSwingers.com forum: Her with her ex boyfriend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife likes the idea of inviting her ex round one night well I'm out and letting him fuck her is this a good idea or bad idea as turns me on her being fucked but is it risky with the ex.she would video it to show me thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex Bf gf not good .Just get her to tell you what they got up to and keep that fantasy

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Not a good idea

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

go for it might be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could possibly go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he knows the score then each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex's are ex's for a reason and feelings could return, I'd say it was a very bad idea but each to there own

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Why the Ex? Why not some random single guy?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Why the Ex? Why not some random single guy? "

Prob more chance off him turning up

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Obvious she has fantasies about him... like said above why not a random.

You sure you are safe.... i would be worried

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My wife likes the idea of inviting her ex round one night well I'm out and letting him fuck her is this a good idea or bad idea as turns me on her being fucked but is it risky with the ex.she would video it to show me thoughts

Only she will know if it's risky and I would be asking why him. Would the plan be to tell him what was going on?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

SHE MUST STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER EX WILL ONLY GO ONE WAY IF HE HAS THE SAME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy to me... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the Ex? Why not some random single guy? "

Safer, less hassle (possibly). We've done this, it can work well. Depends why you broke up and how messy it was (not in our case).

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Video it? With or without consent?

This has disaster written all over it.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Are you for real ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has disaster written all over it.

Even by fab standards?

Have you seen the 'worst meets and why' thread!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew "

That makes it sound even more like there's unresolved feelings there. Like she wants to show him as revenge etc. Don't like the idea myself.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It gets worse by the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion this scenario has disaster written all over it!

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By *enno1TV/TS
over a year ago

Burntwood ish

Depends on whether he fucks her better than you...........

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew "

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew "

And you believe that?

Using someone else in this way isn't right, you know that.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew "

And will you also be able to have a night of passion with someone you once had intimate feelings for?? How would she take that??

This has Relationship Hand grenade written all over it. The idea might be a turn on but I'm sure the reality will turn out to be a whole different matter.

If she really wants to prove she's amazing in bed or whatever I'm sure there's plenty of guys that would gladly be Guinea pigs for an evening.

But hey if you are confident enough that you are the better man and she has no hidden feelings for him. Knock your socks off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why show him what she's becomes unless she wants to make him jealous

Which would suggest she still possible has feelings for him

I am currently fucking my ex bf who is also on here

But we are both single and the sex is amazing

I wouldn't play with an ex if I was with someone

It's gonna go tits up and you will end up being the ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

And will you also be able to have a night of passion with someone you once had intimate feelings for?? How would she take that??

This has Relationship Hand grenade written all over it. The idea might be a turn on but I'm sure the reality will turn out to be a whole different matter.

If she really wants to prove she's amazing in bed or whatever I'm sure there's plenty of guys that would gladly be Guinea pigs for an evening.

But hey if you are confident enough that you are the better man and she has no hidden feelings for him. Knock your socks off. "

Steps up and volunteers - I'm a nice guy like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you for real ?????"

Can't think of a single ex that I'd have sex with again! They're exes for a reason!

I'm assuming you just want a big response rather than being serious about this?

It's a bad idea for a million reasons - and if you can't see that then you have problems!

I confine my swinging to the good people of fab who know the score - ergo no-one gets hurt! I suggest you do the same Hun! X

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"Why show him what she's becomes unless she wants to make him jealous

Which would suggest she still possible has feelings for him

I am currently fucking my ex bf who is also on here

But we are both single and the sex is amazing

I wouldn't play with an ex if I was with someone

It's gonna go tits up and you will end up being the ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour. "

I think it's a lot worse than poor behaviour. It's disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get a random guy, or someone you both know mutually who you both can trust! And ex is a BAD idea!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour.

I think it's a lot worse than poor behaviour. It's disgusting "

I was trying to remain professional.

I'd go bat shit crazy if I found out someone had done this to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour.

I think it's a lot worse than poor behaviour. It's disgusting

I was trying to remain professional.

I'd go bat shit crazy if I found out someone had done this to me.

Yes you are far more diplomatic than me!

Can you imagine reading this if you'd met them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour.

I think it's a lot worse than poor behaviour. It's disgusting

I was trying to remain professional.

I'd go bat shit crazy if I found out someone had done this to me.

Yes you are far more diplomatic than me!

Can you imagine reading this if you'd met them!

if the scenario was reversed, and someone was planning to con a woman into being fucked and secretly filmed,i imagine people might be a bit more vocal in their responses...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour.

I think it's a lot worse than poor behaviour. It's disgusting

I was trying to remain professional.

I'd go bat shit crazy if I found out someone had done this to me.

Yes you are far more diplomatic than me!

Can you imagine reading this if you'd met them!

if the scenario was reversed, and someone was planning to con a woman into being fucked and secretly filmed,i imagine people might be a bit more vocal in their responses..."

Yup... it really does highlight the double standards.

OP... I hope you and your partner are decent enough people to rethink. Apart from the filming without consent thing, there's zero consideration to his feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appertley he never fucked her as good and it was her first etc and said that she would fuck him were married kids settled and he has a new finance as well being split for years she has met from here we've had few meets few let downs and few that don't show she thinks that she could fuck him with out the feelings there and wouldn't change anything she is a very confident person and always go by what she says but like o say no one knows what's in that brain what people think you only hear what they want you to hear.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"She said she wants to show him what she has become and that there's no feelings there just be fun and he wouldn't have a clue I knew

So she's going to film him without his knowledge or consent just for kicks?

I think that's pretty poor behaviour. "

Very!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she wants to invite an ex round.. Who has a fiance..( So making him cheat) . Plus you want to film it without his knowledge (I'm sure there is a law being broken there).. Just to show him what he is missing..

And you're OK with that?

If any partner of mine even hinted of their ex being involved in our sex life somehow.. I'd have big bloody questions to ask as I was packing their bags for them. But I guess we are all different

Do you film any of your meets without their knowledge??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We always ask permission and it wouldn't be a secret filming him once she was getting down with it she would ask permission to film it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always ask permission and it wouldn't be a secret filming him once she was getting down with it she would ask permission to film it "

Asking him once they 'were getting down to it' might just cloud his judgement. Why not ask him before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with fire, unless she wants him back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say no and invite me around instead

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

are you looking to be the next ex boyfriend then if so yes awesome idea go for it,,then you can go looking for a new girl friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But does she just want to fuck him but not have the ties

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"But does she just want to fuck him but not have the ties "

You know there's only one person who can answer that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But does she just want to fuck him but not have the ties "

Ask her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I read that post correctly, you said he never fucked her as good? Why would she want to go back if he wasn't very good in bed before?

Sounds to me as she's trying to ruin his relationship and his new found happiness

"Appertley he never fucked her as good and it was her first etc and said that she would fuck him were married kids settled and he has a new finance as well being split for years she has met from here we've had few meets few let downs and few that don't show she thinks that she could fuck him with out the feelings there and wouldn't change anything she is a very confident person and always go by what she says but like o say no one knows what's in that brain what people think you only hear what they want you to hear."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like she doesnt like him to be settled with somebody else trying to upset his new life. It looks bad for you i wouldnt let her do it. If its a thing she wants to do get a single guy on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god are you serious???

Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Got "jeremy kyle" written all over it.

Good luck

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'm sure it could work out in a few cases but would guess its far more likely to create unwanted hassle / drama.

With the amount of other men around why chance it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very strange one. I understand the view of being turned on by the thought of her fucking someone and filming it etc, that's a big turn on for me (Mr). However, wanting to involve an ex would set alarm bells ringing for me. Say he never got to know about the "real" scenario, the filming etc. What if he then thinks that there's a chance of he and she rekindling their relationship?

For me, there a far too many potential negatives to warrant carrying out this fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there & done it. Great idea..as the ex knew exactly how too turn her on. But also just as it hot in a different sense with a random too.

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By *exymilfandhimCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Bad idea surely. He will be laughing at you forever ...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll i would b worried her having fantasies about having sex with her ex . What if d ball was in d other corner n u wanted to have sex with ur ex would she b so nice about it . Say that to her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There an EX for a reason

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