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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

So what would you say is an appropriate length of time to last the first time you have sex with someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2min is a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what would you say is an appropriate length of time to last the first time you have sex with someone?

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12.5 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week does it for me

No set time really. ....go with the flow

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"2min is a good time "

Generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A week does it for me

No set time really. ....go with the flow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2min is a good time

Generous "
That is right lol

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

All night... with a few tea breaks!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

5 minutes, although tbh I'm just grateful to be involved.

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

I'd say... *taps at calculator*... 11 minutes 32 seconds.

No more, no less.

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

In seriousness, probably anywhere between 10-30 minutes is gooood, depends what's happening, I'd say. As long as everyone involved enjoys themselves :]

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Endurance is useful for cross country running but for me it has no place in sex. It's far more important to ensure that it is quality sex that you both enjoy. Nothing worse than a guy holding off and pumping away like mad for ages thinking he's doing you a favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 minutes, although tbh I'm just grateful to be involved."
hehe of course you are sexy like no-ones interested in you x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I always need and want more, not because I don`t cum just because I love the feel of it soooo much ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nikkita79 your pics are enough to make me blow my load lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure ya don't blow your load before ya actually get inside...

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Till I cum

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"5 minutes, although tbh I'm just grateful to be involved.hehe of course you are sexy like no-ones interested in you x "

Haha, I was too busy being a facetious bastard there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until you have both had enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let a lady go on top first I can control myself then

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I haven't had any in over 5 months, so I'd have to be eased into it all gently....not up for a full on session as out of practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find about 20 seconds longer than she takes is about perfect. Though if she is taking way too long (like till I'm out of breath n getting a sweat on?) I would tend to think sod this,..blow my load and then finish her off another way.

To be fair if the oral/foreplay etc has been good then most women don't take to long so I don't need to hold back. Once they start and the squeeze waves start then that normally guarantees to make me follow suit. Then it's relax, rinse, repeat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always need and want more, not because I don`t cum just because I love the feel of it soooo much ...lol"

Same here...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

If she starts checking her Facebook over your shoulder then you may have over stayed your welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About an hour I'd say, bit of cuddling afterwards and that's a good start to any relationship

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

first time - surely its two pumps and a squirt .. thank god for us multi cummers.. Second time lasts a bit longer and by 4 or 5 its a good session.. lol

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry


"first time - surely its two pumps and a squirt .. thank god for us multi cummers.. Second time lasts a bit longer and by 4 or 5 its a good session.. lol "

Actually had that last week! Had went down on him for ages, dropped a hint here and there that I'd like him to fuck me, eventually about 10 minutes later, condom on, pump, pump, aaaand "ohh i'm coming".

Sigh.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"So what would you say is an appropriate length of time to last the first time you have sex with someone?

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The first time 15 mins. Get over the initial excitement, making sure both were equally pleasured then go for round two for as long as you like

Are we talking you and me btw? Haha

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Seriously though: it's as long as you want it to be, but honestly as a women I would be both upset and flattered if a guy came in 2 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 minutes, although tbh I'm just grateful to be involved."

If there was a bowl full of ripe fruit I would always pick the "peach" xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until i come

Hard work for some, easy for others

Dollx

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"Seriously though: it's as long as you want it to be, but honestly as a women I would be both upset and flattered if a guy came in 2 mins "

Thats why you choose a guy thats a multi cummer, get the first excitement out of the way then settle down to a nice long slow session where you both get the most out of it. Then as you say its as long as you both want it to be

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I find about 20 seconds longer than she takes is about perfect. Though if she is taking way too long (like till I'm out of breath n getting a sweat on?) I would tend to think sod this,..blow my load and then finish her off another way.

To be fair if the oral/foreplay etc has been good then most women don't take to long so I don't need to hold back. Once they start and the squeeze waves start then that normally guarantees to make me follow suit. Then it's relax, rinse, repeat!"

Finish her off! Here's me thinking romance was dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously though: it's as long as you want it to be, but honestly as a women I would be both upset and flattered if a guy came in 2 mins

Thats why you choose a guy thats a multi cummer, get the first excitement out of the way then settle down to a nice long slow session where you both get the most out of it. Then as you say its as long as you both want it to be"

Multi-cummer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the man can go again I really don't mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 minutes for round one is more than fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once is enough for me, then it's nap time.

Stud.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

As long as it takes? Everyone is different, for me I'm happy to be with a great guy, socially but who gives great sex too

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By *r DeviantMan
over a year ago

Nowhere Land

If everyone has fun who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone has fun who cares"

This.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"As long as it takes? Everyone is different, for me I'm happy to be with a great guy, socially but who gives great sex too "

Well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how you click I suppose.

I know that if I'm having an amazing sexual encounter time has no concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2min is a good time "

Show off

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Which part?

Sex is a lot more than just the Tab A in Slot B part for me.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"Which part?

Sex is a lot more than just the Tab A in Slot B part for me."

You sound like no stranger to building ikea furniture .. lol

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

5 to 10 mins here for firsts ( usually ) but happy to go for seconds too. ??

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

Some guys last tooo long and it hurts

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"As long as it takes? Everyone is different, for me I'm happy to be with a great guy, socially but who gives great sex too

Well said!!! "

Thank you, I'm a very lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she cums first then I'm happy

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