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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi there was just wondering what do people prefer for first contact would you rather have a nice polite message or a subtle wink to show interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer a nice message to start. we dont always look at the winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message for us everytime. We never look at winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a message but if we recieve a wink we will check out there profile and take it from there.

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By *addysdadCouple
over a year ago

southern Cumbria

perhaps its cos we are shy, but we like to wink first, then if we get a response we will send a message.

Suppose we dont like to be seen as pushy.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

a message always, a wink look at profile then decide if gonna message or not

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Hello, my name is Invictus and I am a winkaholic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there was just wondering what do people prefer for first contact would you rather have a nice polite message or a subtle wink to show interest? "

we see winks as the lazy option but then again we do get a lot of copy n pastes too.

a short message is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks there just a wolf whistle to gauge interest, if someone winked you at a club etc and you liked them would you ignore them

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Message for us, never look at the winkers!! lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Hello, my name is Invictus and I am a winkaholic. "

I've noticed!

I like winks though, receiving and sending them, sometime with a mate that's all you need, not 14 sentences.

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

Message everytime .... winks are rubbish lolololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message...I don't look at winks I simply delete them en masse.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Either is fine with me providing there's a genuine interest. A wink is like a smile, or a nod and a hello. It's a nice way to break the ice.

Those who say it's lazy simply don't want the effort of having to write a message themselves, but some could see that as lazy too.

My other half gets lots of messages, lots of which are 'fancy a meet' 'I've got a big cock' 'I've got 10 inches, fancy some?' kind of messages. How are they any better than a wink from a genuine and polite person?

Obviously to each their own but I don't have a problem with either. It's the person on the other end that's important.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Message...I don't look at winks I simply delete them en masse."

;-)

Delete that fucker

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

I like winks as a gentle show of possible interest. I always look at them and sometimes wink back or sometimes a short message.

I also sometimes send a wink to show interest as I'm not really sure what to write - a random "how are you" sometimes seems a little odd to me.

Vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, my name is Invictus and I am a winkaholic. "

winkaholic or wankaholic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello, my name is Invictus and I am a winkaholic. "

well he certainly is very winkable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there was just wondering what do people prefer for first contact would you rather have a nice polite message or a subtle wink to show interest? "

A wink.... no a message... oh a wink.... erm perhaps a message..... em definitely a wink then... no no really really this time a message or a wink might be ok....

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

A nice message every time

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I tend to reply in kind - I'll return a wink if I'm not uninterested. Oddly, winkers tend not to respond to that - I think they must expect me to send them a message...?

Short messages get short replies, interesting messages get considered responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like messages as I forget to look at winks. but Chris does all the luring of men into my web and I think he winks

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we wink ever now and again and dont see how its lazy ur showing interest and not wasting ur time writing a message for them to delete it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I vote for a message. It's nice to have it in words. You can get a feel for people more.

I think winks are like a glance across a crowed room. Will i glance back? Who makes first contact? Did they even see it in the first place? What do you say?

Yep, a message is nicer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a message 1st as I rarely look at my winks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore all winks and unsolicited friends invites, however, I am likely to respond to a message providing it is not a crass one-liner.

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