FabSwingers.com forum: Awkward Socials?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We were recently having a chat about what we liked and didn't like and what we wanted to do in the future. The subject of pre-social came up. Every time we've met people before in our home everything was straight to the bedroom! We've concluded that pre-socials would be a little awkward and best to be avoided which is strange considering every time we've been to a club we've chatted away and loved the social aspect! I think for us home based meets are strictly sex and going to a club we like to meet and chat with people first!

What are other peoples thoughts? Get straight down to it or have a chit chat first?

Are socials actually awkward?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh straight down to chit chat

By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

For me, for the vast majority the "social" is the days (or weeks) of chatting online, with a phone conversation just before the bloke comes over to mine. When he shows up at my door it's straight to the bedroom ! More convo after round 1 which is usually quite illuminating.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only recently started meeting for socials and I've found that I really like them. You can find out what the person is like, see if you get on and it helps to build the anticipation for the play meet

By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

In most cases we like to have a social first.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really bothered me but had my first social meet with my now fuck buddy and really enjoyed it. I prefer to have one now, I'd hate to meet someone for sex I wasn't into or them me so it works both ways and its a night out.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've only found a social to be awkward on one occasion with a man from another site. We like to socialise and can usually find a lot to talk about