FabSwingers.com forum: Responding to a wink

By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

How do I respond to a wink, s'il vout plait?

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I always wink back.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I always wink back."

And then thats it?

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By *aughtyxWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Everyone loves a cheeky little wink back

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How do I respond to a wink, s'il vout plait?"

How would you like to respond?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Report to admin, let them deal with it.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

give as good as you get wink back with a witty message saying thanks for the wink.. If the're really interested you've started the message ball rolling

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Everyone loves a cheeky little wink back

I don't dislike them at all; its just increasingly I am finding it awkward to reply to them appropriately.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Report to admin, let them deal with it."

Sledgehammer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I respond to a wink, s'il vout plait?"

depends who it's from lad

a firm handshake if it's from a bloke

a polite hello if it's from a lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I thank people for winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just simple "hello winker" message?

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Truth be told, none of the winks I responded to ever ended in a meet.

Is a wink not supposed to mean 'I like what I see, how about you'?

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

What's a wink? Never had one of those before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like the profile say hello

If you dont ignore or block

Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't we just mass delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thank then and say love to talk or thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best meet from Fab started with a wink.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

about time somebody winked at me then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report to admin, let them deal with it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mail them and say thanks for the wink... fancy a chat...

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"give as good as you get wink back with a witty message saying thanks for the wink.. If the're really interested you've started the message ball rolling"

^this!

That's if we like the look and sound of them, of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thank people for winks"

Ditto

Often opens a conversation ...

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"What's a wink? Never had one of those before

A wink is a disease you catch when you drink too much wee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message saying thanks for the wink fancy a shag works for me

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"A message saying thanks for the wink fancy a shag works for me

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"A message saying thanks for the wink fancy a shag works for me

*goes off to wink at NN *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A message saying thanks for the wink fancy a shag works for me

*goes off to wink at NN *

See I knew you couldn't resist me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who woulda thought it was a difficult thing to work out??

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Well you've used the ask the audience lifeline,

You've still got your phone a friend or your 50/50...

Personally if I like the persons profile I send a message..

I never instigate conversations with winking.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"A message saying thanks for the wink fancy a shag works for me

*goes off to wink at NN *

See I knew you couldn't resist me

What can I say, you've finally worn me down.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"How do I respond to a wink, s'il vout plait?"

If you are interested, wink back, hopefully you will get a meet out of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to wink back and normally send an introduction message after all wont get anywhere wait for it to come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a cheeky wink. If peeps don't like them there not worth bothing with. Just abit of fun. Is this not wot this site is all about?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I used to dislike winks. I thought they were lazy and if a man was interested he should just send a message.

After spending time in the forums I began to learn that men can sometimes feel nervous about messaging a woman.

One of my Fab friends was just such a guy. I messaged him first about something on the forum.

So now I think of them as guys sort of asking for permission to message. And if I like the look of them I wink back

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Not a fan of..

The number of winks i get is ridiculous and whats more ridiculous is if i wink them back,nothing happens (mostly)

Give me a thought out message over a wink anytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I respond to a wink, s'il vout plait?"
send a message ,simples

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't respond to them as the majority of them are from guys who have ignored my profile text. The first part of it explains why what they are about to do will get no response but they go ahead and waste their time anyway

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"I thank people for winks"

Same here, alongside with our face pic.

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By *urreynudistMan
over a year ago

staines

don't mind winks, if I like the profile will email a thanks

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Yep, it's the " nothing happens bit" that I am afflicted with. I like winks. After all, who doesn't like to be noticed or wanted?.

But after I wink back nothing happens.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

A wink I find is often an ice breaker, quite often if you send a message it gets deleted which is a poor show as youve spent the time composing a message, even a polite no thanks is better than just deleted. A wink lets the other person know that you're interested.

As was said earier it gives the go ahead to write a message.

I am sure I am not the only one that would rather send a wink to see if he other person is interested first rather than have a long (sometmes time consuming ) message just deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get so many winks that generally we ignore them. If someone wants to contact us then we need a message.

We also get friends invites out of the blue from people we've never heard of, that's an instant delete!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I don't do winks, if the person is interested in meeting then they should send a polite message stating what it is that attracts them to you... I see it as laziness because the person can't think of anything original to say!

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Still trying to form an opinion - I need more data

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always send them a thank you message. If we like the look of them it gets us chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send a thanks for the wink message and let the flirting commence

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

When I wink someone I never expect a response.

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By *ust4fun26Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

If we get a wink we have a look at their profile and if we are interested we wink back, which usually results in a message being received. If we wink and get a wink back then we send a message...all of our meets have started with a wink

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne area

I just say "Thanks for the wink"

Be polite, you never know may lead to a future meet.

Manners cost nothing, sadly very few on here have any

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

"When I wink someone I never expect a response."

Thats quite sad.. Remember "hope springs eternal"

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

I send winks all the time and thank anyone who sends me one

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