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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

I regularly visit swinger clubs in the Uk & i don't mind traveling...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky...by the way i am new to this site so please be gentle.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I regularly visit swinger clubs in the Uk & i don't mind traveling...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky...by the way i am new to this site so please be gentle.

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You cheap skate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's wrong as long as you have a clear understanding in place.

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say get to know the woman first, unless this topic works out for you and you find someone this way.

Some people will be offended, for example i know i don't want to be associated as a partner of anyone of here who is only NSA to me.

Others are looking for the same as you though, might not have it on their profile to stop all the chancers from asking.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Ah _lacksausage don't be like that.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Ah _lacksausage don't be like that."

Dont you realise that would entitle you to a discount at the door?

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Ha ha never even crossed my mind about the entrance fee to be honest & i would be the perfect gentleman & have dinner/drinks before we entered the club

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Thank you for the advise ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it not be easier to just arrange to meet people inside the club?

Then you don't have to 'wine and dine' them first either...

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By *andjCouple
over a year ago

tempsford


"I regularly visit swinger clubs in the Uk & i don't mind traveling...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky...by the way i am new to this site so please be gentle.

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We have many non couples come together, what is the difference between coming to a club or asking someone out for a drink at the local?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go into clubs with guys but I no longer do

I just got fed up of guys just using me to get in, buggering off all night and leaving me or using me as an offering so they can fuck some guys wife, caused to many problems when in couples room when they would play with a woman and I refused to play with her fella

So I stopped going in as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly visit swinger clubs in the Uk & i don't mind traveling...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky...by the way i am new to this site so please be gentle.

You cheap skate"

I think for a lot of guys its not about the money they just know they will have better luck with a woman hanging off their arm

Let's face it who does better in clubs couples or single guys?

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Hi Wasp i just like the idea of having a good night out which would include food & drinks & then onto the club for some extra therapy.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I regularly visit swinger clubs in the Uk & i don't mind traveling...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky...by the way i am new to this site so please be gentle.

We have many non couples come together, what is the difference between coming to a club or asking someone out for a drink at the local?"

I will tell you the difference:

In the pub scenario, the lady is happy for you to fetch the drinks( nobody benefits, I daresay).

In the club scenario, a guy going with a lady means the guy gets to pay less and the lady still pays nothing(but how dare he!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The entrance fee would be a lot cheaper as well lol.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Well said naughty could not have put it better myself but not necessarily to better luck as i would just be happy with the woman on my arm unless of course she had other ideas....as they say different strokes if you pardon the pun

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

As i said guys & as the song goes its not about the money money money

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

As i said guys & as the song goes its not about the money money money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, the fem, get annoyed when guys ask me to couple up with them to go to a club but then say its not about the money, i always presume its about the money (cheaper entrance fee and membership) and the ease of getting into a club for them.

I find it very bad manners.

It instantly means a block for the guy.

Plus why on earth would i need to couple up with them, i can go with hubby or alone I'm not going to be used as bait by a cheapskate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Wasp i just like the idea of having a good night out which would include food & drinks & then onto the club for some extra therapy. "

I would hazard a guess that it's more than many are looking for from their swinging.

I occasionally go out for dinner with friends that I go to clubs with (of the fetish variety), but that's once we're very established as friends.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Well Neillie i can honestly tell you that on this occasion that you are presuming wrong as its not about money....also anyone female or male been used as bait is wrong in my eyes.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Naughty... i can see your point & i did not see it like this as i taught the women called the shots when in the club as in set the boundaries as to what you both like & dont like before hand & no means means no etc...telling my truth where i come from we treat women with respect & i would never ever leave a woman that i walked in with on her own in a club unless she asked me to....maybe its the irish in me.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

What is wrong with you fecking people?

Woman hops into man's car and they go to a club; woman gets free lift; nothing wrong.

Man invites woman to go to a club together; she is being used as a half price voucher.

Men must be doing something wrong.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Ok so here goes...anybody on this site wishing to visit a club with me please put their hands up...oh and by the way this offer will only stay up for a short time like 1 year

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By *uckylindaWoman
over a year ago

whitley bay

No it is not wrong, if you can find the right women and she wants to do it to I don't see that a problem at all. After all we are all Adults and should know what we want and don't want good luck

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Thank you _uckylinda

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Thank you _uckylinda"

But to be honest it was me that introduced the money/ entrance fee element. It was all in a spirit of mischief and tongue in cheek but I was taken too seriously.

OP I think I owe you a drink.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

I knew you were pulling my leg my friend & yes people are a bit sensitive at times but me i love a laugh as i say its good for the soul..i will keep you to that drink

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky... "

Loads of men ask me to go to clubs with them, and I always say no. Why would I go WITH a man, when I can have as much fun as I want, on my own?

In my experience, men who want to hook up with an unknown female for a club have a less-than-honest reason. 1) they want to get in cheaper as a couple, 2) they expect that I am guaranteeing them sex with me, or 3) they think that they are more likely to have sex with the other women in the club if they have a woman to 'swap'.

When men say that they are 'too shy' to go to a club on their own, I always tell them to go with a male friend. Funny how this somehow doesn't meet their needs!

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Hi Flirty..with regards to me you are totally wrong on all 3 & it is your choice to say no.

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By *mjdWoman
over a year ago

oswestry

I was going to say I would go as I've never ben to a club and it would be good to go with someone who has a few times but now I'm worried will I get left on my own as he goes off

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By *mjdWoman
over a year ago

oswestry

I was going to say I would go as I've never ben to a club and it would be good to go with someone who has a few times but now I'm worried will I get left on my own as he goes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...i also would like a woman to join me visit a club as couples generally have more fun...Is it wrong of me to ask a woman to join me or is it seen as cheeky...

Loads of men ask me to go to clubs with them, and I always say no. Why would I go WITH a man, when I can have as much fun as I want, on my own?

In my experience, men who want to hook up with an unknown female for a club have a less-than-honest reason. 1) they want to get in cheaper as a couple, 2) they expect that I am guaranteeing them sex with me, or 3) they think that they are more likely to have sex with the other women in the club if they have a woman to 'swap'.

When men say that they are 'too shy' to go to a club on their own, I always tell them to go with a male friend. Funny how this somehow doesn't meet their needs!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to say I would go as I've never ben to a club and it would be good to go with someone who has a few times but now I'm worried will I get left on my own as he goes off

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Possibly.

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Hi would any woman like to join me visit a swinger club in the Uk?

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By *lower OP   Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Hi would any woman like to join me visit a swinger club in the Uk?..Irish 54yrs young fit & overall a really nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe post in clubs forum or meets?

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