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Does anybody actually do what they say they are interested in???

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By *ltimate desires OP   Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all

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By *enno1TV/TS
over a year ago

Burntwood ish

I do exactly as it says on the tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have threesomes on our profile but that means us two and a third,

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Runs off to check what i have listed

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By *ovetolaugh699Man
over a year ago

southend


"Runs off to check what i have listed "

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

There always appears to be "a fb I play with who had to be present for couples"

Be a couples page then

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I got asked recently if I really would have sex with a 99 year old couple? I said something like only if there aren't any older people available or something else as stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I make it a point to have any meet I have perform everything listed on their profiles. it's the only way to catch them out! the things my poor eyes have seen.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Always depends on the people who i meet if other things take place than those listed on profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our interests on our profile but not every interest is suitable for every meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We do. But we also hate it when people use it as some kind of "to do" list...just because it says anal on our list, we're not obliged to do it with every meet we have...they're just a guide really as to what we may be interested in. We leave off the stuff were definitely not interested in

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I oblivate this problem by saying fuck all on profile

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"Runs off to check what i have listed "

Me as well (Don't want to make a faux pas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything listed I'm intrested in but dosnt have to happen I hate the idea of a scripted meet much rather go with the flow and what happens happens

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

I have nothing listed, and that seems to pretty much sum up what I've been doing of late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do with guys i'm comfortable with.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"Yes. We do. But we also hate it when people use it as some kind of "to do" list...just because it says anal on our list, we're not obliged to do it with every meet we have...they're just a guide really as to what we may be interested in. We leave off the stuff were definitely not interested in"

Exactly, surely with some people you may wish to do certain things, others you wouldn't. Also, you may just not be in the mood for certain activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have nothing listed, and that seems to pretty much sum up what I've been doing of late"

Want to fix that?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

They are interests, so can be treated as either things they want to try or activities they engage in. Some profiles are a little more honest than others though and only tick those interests that they have or are only interested in, whilst others tick everything in the hope of catching the attention of a meet I think. I just tick what I enjoy doing, personally.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Just checked all the interests we have listed and we have done them all numerous times except for DP which we can do with various guys and a vibrator but we have yet to get everyone where they need to be and still up and at it at the same time for us to finally do it properly - not bad going I think....it doesn't hurt that we were doing most of them before we decided to try swinging

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

Your status is a little confusing given you don't meet alone yet want a female to meet with "me" which suggest singular??

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I do as it says on my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and I do, just because it's listed as an interest doesn't mean I want to do that particular thing every time or with every person I may meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile sticks strictly to what we do. There is no point otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. We do. But we also hate it when people use it as some kind of "to do" list...just because it says anal on our list, we're not obliged to do it with every meet we have...they're just a guide really as to what we may be interested in. We leave off the stuff were definitely not interested in"

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as stated it is a list of things you might be interested in, not a 'to do' list...

I don't have one at present for fear of attracting the wrong sort of person, but I know what I like and when I see a profile with similar interests to me then I will make contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone has 3sums as an interest an they have 3sums then they aren't lying, even if they do want a partner to come watch.

but pretending to be single when you're not isn't allowed and you should report the profile/message.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

Truth be told, I have never done a dp or dv. I am cock shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do all our listed things but having a look reminded me to add group sex since that's next on our list

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I actually wiped my interests as there are things I sometimes want to do, but it depends on the person/people I am with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anything listed ... All depends on how I connect with someone ...more fun finding out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do or would like to do everything on my list.I don't see the point of putting stuff on there just for the sake of it..

Maybe it gets people noticed if they list everything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. We do. But we also hate it when people use it as some kind of "to do" list...just because it says anal on our list, we're not obliged to do it with every meet we have...they're just a guide really as to what we may be interested in. We leave off the stuff were definitely not interested in"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like 3sums just means I have to put twice the work in to find two men

The rewards make it worth it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been the odd meet where I would do anything and everything with that person, but I wouldn't offer something like anal out to just anyone, unless there is an element of trust. Water sports I'd love to dabble a bit more with, just need the right person who is willing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the right company, I will definitely do anything on my wishlist and am open to idea as well.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Yes to what I have listed

And more to be found out,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not tried fisting yet......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. When I had my interests ticked I had done all of them. I don't tick them now because it seems to give people the impression I will do them with everyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything we say, isn't that what its all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

stamp collecting and train spotting aren't an option

am sorry babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

I do what I say and always have you must be setting your sights to high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

I regularly do bondage/bdsm

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"We have our interests on our profile but not every interest is suitable for every meet."

The same goes for things on other peoples profiles too...Some things just don't float our boat.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some men list everything available. I don't. I only do what my interests are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is fully checked, verified and correct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done everything I say on my profile at least once and these are the things I'd like to do again. There are other options there that I've done but haven't listed as I'm not that bothered about doing them again.

But I would not assume that I would need or expect to do all these on a meet. I'd much prefer to see where things went and just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men list everything available. I don't. I only do what my interests are. "

I've found a few that do that. When I ask what they are actually into they say they just ticked everything to seem more interesting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Some men list everything available. I don't. I only do what my interests are.

I've found a few that do that. When I ask what they are actually into they say they just ticked everything to seem more interesting. "

Except it doesn't. It makes them sound desperate. IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men list everything available. I don't. I only do what my interests are.

I've found a few that do that. When I ask what they are actually into they say they just ticked everything to seem more interesting.

Except it doesn't. It makes them sound desperate. IMHO. "

It puts me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all. Every night. Twice.

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By *igneachtWoman
over a year ago

Upton Wirral

I do as my profile says x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be open to anything, if not more, on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be open to anything, if not more, on my profile."

Come help me muck out stables in the morning, yeah?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we havent ticked the boxes we dont do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

If we've listed it, we do it. Makes us sound like Ronseal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always depends on the people who i meet if other things take place than those listed on profiles "

That you do as I well know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be open to anything, if not more, on my profile.

Come help me muck out stables in the morning, yeah? "

Is that a euphemism?

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By *unCoupleTXCouple
over a year ago

Longview

We like to set up stations... Start off with about 7 minutes at the porn/video station to warm up.. 10 minutes at the oral station... Move on to the doggie station... 15 minutes on the swing... And so on until we cover everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would but i do feel this site is full of time wasters

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I do what my profile says

But with men, no women no couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is about time ,its about addiction ,its about giving advice ,its about achieving sexual gratification ,its about meeting ,its about love

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We've had a few experiences and open for more as long as we're with the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exactly what we say we do , and some .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do exactly what we say we do , and some .

"

There aren't enough things listed for you two, you need a whole new category just for yourselves. HHx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do exactly what we say we do , and some .

There aren't enough things listed for you two, you need a whole new category just for yourselves. HHx "

yes my thoughts exactly rabbits and fields come to mind

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes we have an honest list.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do it an a lot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I do everything and more on my list!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would but i do feel this site is full of time wasters "

I wouldn't know. Never met one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do anything listed on our profile if it feels right. If Mrs isnt 100% comfortable with the guy then usually the whole list won't be available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Yes, I do.

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

Our list is what we have done or what we were interested in doing at the time profile set up but have done now and now remains as purely an enjoyment of ours. It by no means means that will be actively done on a meet as some we find are a mood thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I do all the things on my profile - but that doesn't mean I'll do it with everyone who asks, in the way that they want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done all the things on my profile and MORE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Runs off to check what i have listed "

Lol thats exactly what we did .... and yep we do whats on our profile ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone actually bother to read profiles. Men cope the read the profile grief. Women as just as bad.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've kept mine to a minimum as if you have it stated, they think you will do it will all and sundry and I wont!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I and we do if we only had the chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Ticked off all my interests this week with a club visit, a party and safe sex. I keep it simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been able to anything on my interest list yet!!!

Still waiting for my elusive meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do exactly what we say we do , and some .

There aren't enough things listed for you two, you need a whole new category just for yourselves. HHx "

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

We find the interested in list a little annoying because there are things we have listed that he is interested in that I'm not so pushed by and vice versa, also there are things we've listed that we are open to trying but haven't as of yet, I'd take it as a rough guideline only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in??? "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But not always at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. But not always at the same time "

It is called the interested in box because you are interested in it,so you could have a mix of things you do regularly and things you want to try but are not likely to occur,best to chat in depth with the person to discover which is which.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do everything listed but not with everyone. We also do other things (anal for one) but only C gets in there with me or C will with a lady if she wants it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I just listed them because it seemed like a good idea at the time

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Yes and sometimes more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of mine are fantasies I might be open to trying with the right person/people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try to but most dont

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

You do realise it can be quite scary for a single woman to meet a couple on her own? Same for men too.

Technically it's still a threesome if only three people are involved, the watcher isn't involved.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes I'll do everything on my interests list, obviously not always on the same night, but these things also depend on your play partner and their interests too

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've kept mine to a minimum as if you have it stated, they think you will do it will all and sundry and I wont! "

I learned this the hard way

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Yup, I do all the things on my profile - but that doesn't mean I'll do it with everyone who asks, in the way that they want it."

Me too!

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port


"Yup, I do all the things on my profile - but that doesn't mean I'll do it with everyone who asks, in the way that they want it.

Me too! "

Exactly! Every experience is different, so your choices will vary from meet to meet]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, I do all the things on my profile - but that doesn't mean I'll do it with everyone who asks, in the way that they want it.

Me too! Exactly! Every experience is different, so your choices will vary from meet to meet]"

I am going to risk it and dare say that not every single guy who has ticked cuckolding in his interests has ever done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never missed a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or does anybody actually meet and do what they say they are intreasted in???

There's so many single people who list things like threesomes and when you ask them "yes but only if my fella can come watch" what's that all about if you are a couple then advertising as a couple you should do not be single then say oh he arranges it all "

We have this pet peeve too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Valentine's suckers

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

I got 200+ veris indicating i meet and all saying i do what it says on the tin..

After all,its important to do the things you say you will,right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuprinol springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do exactly what we say we do , and some .

There aren't enough things listed for you two, you need a whole new category just for yourselves. HHx

"

Horny cpl c

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Yup, I do all the things on my profile - but that doesn't mean I'll do it with everyone who asks, in the way that they want it.

Me too! Exactly! Every experience is different, so your choices will vary from meet to meet]

I am going to risk it and dare say that not every single guy who has ticked cuckolding in his interests has ever done it "

How on earth would you know that?

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