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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you play alot more if got the offers? Some play twice a week some onces some onces in a month and some go months. Are you on and off swinger? And what stops you from playing meeting people? How often would you like to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would play more if Master didnt work the hours he does.. and we didnt have the kids... and we could find more like out regulars.. :D

If Master worked where he was home every night I think it would be 2-3 times a week.. but that would include dogging, nights at chams, days at cinema.. and it would also depend on if I could sit after Master had reclaimed me that often..

ohhh mmm lol..

Katie.x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i play as often as i can lol but being single with no kids etc to worry about i guess its easy for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh forgot that its normally twice a week.. :D

but not played this week due to being ill..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id like to play twice a week, but as we work a lot of evenings and weekends its so tricky to arrange them so really we get to play about every other month

i usually come away from a meet saying "we've got to do this more often!" i would play more often if we got serious offers , maybe im fussy, i dont think i am!

hopefully once our last child moves out we'll step it up, cant wait!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as offen as id like lol

As a rule i go to a club once a week and do a private meet once a week

I think that may sound a lot to a lot of people but as a single woman the only time i get sex is when i meet soemone so look at it as i only get sex twice a week and it dont sound that much lol

I would meet more if i had the time as id like sex on a daily basis, but i have kids and i work so my private life limits me and of couse comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple question easily answered: Not nearly often enough. Last time was 10 months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average about once a week, although it's been more so far this year.

This is but one very small part of my life and I enjoy spending time with family and friends when the time allows.

The time I play is enough for me at the moment.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we try to do it once a mnth if we have a sitter

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We like to play as often as we can, other things often come into play though. Even if we can not arrange a meet we do something most nights even if it is going on cam..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Probably about once a month sometimes less depending on shifts,I always have something planned along the way though

I never wanted to be out every week playing and even if I did it would be impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet up with couples about once every 2 months or so, this also includes socials. We don`t really have targets as we have so many other parts to our lives (personal choice). We find that leaving a fair period between meeets keeps the anticipation levels higher and resultant fun all the more worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was only meeting @ Chams so maybe once every month. I have met someone from the site who now has become quite a regular (3 meets in less than a week) and as of last week accompanies me to Chams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up with couples about once every 2 months or so, this also includes socials. We don`t really have targets as we have so many other parts to our lives (personal choice). We find that leaving a fair period between meeets keeps the anticipation levels higher and resultant fun all the more worthwhile. "

We are pretty much the same, although would like to be able to play rather more, but with work and having the kids around, its kind of difficult to

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We haven't met since November due to health issues, but it was about once a month to once every six weeks.

Having said that we knew when we could meet again after the surgery, so have been contacting couples with a view to meeting on the second weekend of February.

Up to now we have contacted 7 couples and 4 single guys. One of the guys have replied and all the 6 couples already have plans, the other couple wanted to meet in a club we are not member of, the club wanted £55 for lifetime membership even though we would only attend the once.

So actually arranging a meeting is not as easy as some people think. Maybe we'll have to stick to party's and let our friends have the headache of inviting guests

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

For meets only happen once a month as that is my only child free time.

As another completely single woman as another poster, that means that is the only time I get sex so would much rather it be possible for once a week.

Free time in the day now doesnt happen as work has increaded and still behind on even the house stuff.

Must be lovely to be a couple and have am man there to have sex with more than once a month lol.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Depends how many offers i get and as im single and free most nights of the week and i can accommodate some times twice week some times more i been very busy these last two weeks i think spring is in the air

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

How many days in a week are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard on the radio today that there are 8

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Heard on the radio today that there are 8"

As long as three of them are the weekend I'd settle for 4 times a week

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

So jealous. Playing a few time a week mmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?

Just wondered...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to arrange but somthing always comes up....trouble with little ones!!

so prob 1-2 every 4-5 months

We do attend the socials but we use the night out as an excuse to get bolloxed...is that bad? x

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull


"To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?

Just wondered..."

Yes it can, but then you have to keep adding little twists etc.. then sometimes going back over the old ground can be good. If we are meeting a single guy we like to add something to it, rather than just turning up and wham bam we will arrange to go out in town and then MrsH will flirt and tease with him before going off somewhere, or last week a guy wined her, dined her then!!! so we usually try to add a little something. Having said that we invited a guy round last week , banged his brains out the minute he got here then he left straight after so it all depends what you want on theday

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?

Just wondered..."
No i would say not is it not variety the spice of life

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"So jealous. Playing a few time a week mmm."

...I said I'd settle for that, not that I get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?

Just wondered... No i would say not is it not variety the spice of life "

I agree about variety lol may have been with the same guy 3 times this week but all different locations/scenarios

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By *omcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

once a week, twice if plans happen they dont often !!!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull


"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about "

Yes there are.. that is one reason people do not show friends or all their varifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?

Just wondered..."

You could say the same about a monogamous relationship!

I don't see the same playmate every week, some I see about four times for the year, so it's "different" and fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about "

Funny how the human mind works isn't it. A person may have four verifications, the most current three months ago and to some they'll be ok, not realising that said person has been gangbanging and dogging every weekend, goes to a club every other night, meets other people off the site and has a regular fuck buddy for site meets.

But some of us do it...judge!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

spot on there is not about having fun making friends and having great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single mum not a lot of free time that is why I prefer parties and clubs instead of one of meets or one to ones. I can have as much sex as I like in a night at chams and that normally lasts for the month until I can get out and play again. By the time I have finished at chams I can barely walk down the stairs lol

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

If we got the offers local to us then we'd play a lot more than we do.

At the minute it seems to be a once every few months kind of thing as we dont.

Hopefully it will pick up at some point though.

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

no where near enough as with work & trying to bring up a daughter time is limited

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

_appyfucker, I know how you feel!

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast


"_appyfucker, I know how you feel!"

thanks but i do enjoy myself when i get the chance & after a few replay requests i gather the ladys enjoy do too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If i have things on with family and horses i can go weeks ..... or can meet 3 in a week its rear.. just no telling thats what i like about swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up with couples about once every 2 months or so, this also includes socials. We don`t really have targets as we have so many other parts to our lives (personal choice). We find that leaving a fair period between meeets keeps the anticipation levels higher and resultant fun all the more worthwhile. "
No what you mean

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By *h38Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We would play more often - we would love once a week but people are so busy and work can get in the way

Just been to our first club - tease2 so will be trying out others soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About three or 4 times a month at the moment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually once a month at weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go a month or more when I'm not that bothered, but at the min its pretty much most days as I'm feeling frisky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being single and childless, I play as often as I can/want to.

So sometimes I can play 2/3 times in 1 week.

Or sometimes I will go 2/3 weeks between meets.

It depends what I want at the time.

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

this weekend if i get lucky

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We don't have time to play takes all our time reading profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive not had sex for 7 months!

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast


"ive not had sex for 7 months! "
omg hope you havnt healed up but at least there will be lots of honey

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we wud love to play more but with work and sitters its difficult

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

once a week either both or one of us with regular friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi

once a week somtimes twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not that often due to work and our youngest being back at home

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

At one stage during last year, it was once a month but that was dependant on my friend arranging a visit to Chams. Sadly, since the end of November, there has been a quiet patch due to the weather and my car blowing my car up.

Thankfully, we`re going againon the 14th!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough lately,just started a new job and working all silly hours,but we have plans for next Fri and i cant wait x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about "

they got their own "slag" standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would like once a week but mother nature sometimes does not comply.

also get fed up if it is always meets at ours. do like to be invited sometimes and also like a night at a club for a change and to meet new peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nearly as much I would like !

About once a month..sometimes once every 3 months.

Like most people on here having a family and working there just isn't the time. Also as i play alone if the Mr and I are both off I like to be with him.

Sometimes if im extremely horny i could play 5 times a week..other times i could take it or leave it

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I'd love to know where you're all finding enough people to play more than a few times a year!?

Finding meets is like gold dust to us!

*Her*

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about

they got their own "slag" standards. "
well looks like my luck is in again tonight cpl taking me to club its going to be a good night what a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about

they got their own "slag" standards. well looks like my luck is in again tonight cpl taking me to club its going to be a good night what a week "

oooooo ya slag you! enjoy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often, haven't played for 4 months, when I was married and playing away, I had so many offers but since splitting with hubby and getting my own place, that has dwindled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may sound strange for a couple on a swinging site but we can go months at a time between meets but it doesn't bother us.

A lot of the time we're too busy doing other things but in all honesty, most of the time we just can't be bothered with all the pre meet rigmarole.

Indeed, we've had some great fun on meets and we have made good friends that we meet once in a while or go to the odd party.

However, we just can't understand how people meet once a week, let alone two/three times.

Swinging to us just isn't that important nor do we have the time.

We've been swinging for a good few years now, so perhaps we've just become apathetic towards it, which is why we've hidden our profile.

Or on the other hand perhaps we've just got low sex drives.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may sound strange for a couple on a swinging site but we can go months at a time between meets but it doesn't bother us.

A lot of the time we're too busy doing other things but in all honesty, most of the time we just can't be bothered with all the pre meet rigmarole.

Indeed, we've had some great fun on meets and we have made good friends that we meet once in a while or go to the odd party.

However, we just can't understand how people meet once a week, let alone two/three times.

Swinging to us just isn't that important nor do we have the time.

We've been swinging for a good few years now, so perhaps we've just become apathetic towards it, which is why we've hidden our profile.

Or on the other hand perhaps we've just got low sex drives.

XXXX"

but the thing is you have each other if you dont meet, if you go 3 months betwen meets that does not mean you go 3 months between sex, i meet weekely as im single so the only time i get sex is when i have a meet

i do understand totally where your coming from if i was a couple i dont think id feel the need to swing at all so long as i was getting regular sex at home, but im not so i have to meet weekly in order to have a half decent sex life lol

id like sex every day but as i work ans have kids thats just not possible as i do not have the time to meet that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to have quality than quantity I'd say.

I can go for months in between meets, and if I get frisky, I'd reach for my toys!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about

they got their own "slag" standards. well looks like my luck is in again tonight cpl taking me to club its going to be a good night what a week

oooooo ya slag you! enjoy xxx"

Thanks and yes i did enjoy a bit to much i think but it was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may sound strange for a couple on a swinging site but we can go months at a time between meets but it doesn't bother us.

A lot of the time we're too busy doing other things but in all honesty, most of the time we just can't be bothered with all the pre meet rigmarole.

Indeed, we've had some great fun on meets and we have made good friends that we meet once in a while or go to the odd party.

However, we just can't understand how people meet once a week, let alone two/three times.

Swinging to us just isn't that important nor do we have the time.

We've been swinging for a good few years now, so perhaps we've just become apathetic towards it, which is why we've hidden our profile.

Or on the other hand perhaps we've just got low sex drives.

XXXX

but the thing is you have each other if you dont meet, if you go 3 months betwen meets that does not mean you go 3 months between sex, i meet weekely as im single so the only time i get sex is when i have a meet

i do understand totally where your coming from if i was a couple i dont think id feel the need to swing at all so long as i was getting regular sex at home, but im not so i have to meet weekly in order to have a half decent sex life lol

id like sex every day but as i work ans have kids thats just not possible as i do not have the time to meet that much"

Yes, sorry about that, we understand what your saying about being single, as a couple we gave our reply with couples in mind.

What we should have said was that we don't know how some couples find the time or inclination to meet once a week let alone two or three times.

How do they both have the desire to meet others so often and manage to synchronise that desire?

Or does one half of the couple just go along with it to appease the other?

Anything for a quiet life sort of thing.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better to have quality than quantity I'd say.

I can go for months in between meets, and if I get frisky, I'd reach for my toys! "

it is possible to have both

i meet quite regular but to me sex isnt just sex, i will not shag anyone so long as im getting some, i will and have walked away from meets for verious reasons if something hasnt felt right

but there are good men out there in the same situation as me so you can have quality and quantity

as for the toys, its ok as a make do between sessions but i really couldnrt replace men for months with toys, my need for pysical contact is to great for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when I want to....which isnt often. I am definitely a part time, dip in and out swinger lol.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

with A working away a lot of the time our play time is very restricted now, but as we don;t get many offers things haven't really changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try to meet as often as both of our work schedules allow use to be alot worse when we was on different shifts our only chance was a sunday night then

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

IM glad for a night off after last night and the rest of last week but may the fun continue bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D
"I'd love to know where you're all finding enough people to play more than a few times a year!?

Finding meets is like gold dust to us!

*Her*"

Did you just describe me as gold dust? You shouldn't have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hummm im having a break at the mo. But during the summer it was every other day near enough. Apart from when i was working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play when i have the time to and it doesn't infringe on my work or home life. Mina xxx

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By *ax the gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

birmingham

as often as i can willing able and horney all the time travel not a problem potential meet and meeting dont happen as often as they should

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

When we can get family to baby sit, when our libido is up to it.

2009 we went to a club 2 times in the year same in 2010.

We would have met more but just could not get the child minding. Also sometimes when have a child minder we'd want to do something for just the 2 of us, cinema quiet meal etc.

So would love to do it more, but our free time is limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would play once a week with others if I could x

Prob is being married !!

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