FabSwingers.com forum: Why do gay guys keep messaging me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to your filters and block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

meet them

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

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Just take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a gay guy message me the other day

Now that's weird

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I had a gay guy message me the other day

Now that's weird

Maybe he was a fake gay guy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone il try the filtering if i can get my head around on how to do that.

I do see it as a compliment but if only if it was women that messaged me that much i get it on a daily from guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a gay guy message me the other day

Now that's weird

Maybe he was a fake gay guy....."

Or one of those damn women who pretend to be men

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Why don't men who do not want to meet men, not just filter men out? Perhaps it is because they have latent homosexual tendencies but like to pretend that men contacting them is a problem, when it is soooo easy to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone il try the filtering if i can get my head around on how to do that."

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

Fairly easy to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks mate

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't men who do not want to meet men, not just filter men out? Perhaps it is because they have latent homosexual tendencies but like to pretend that men contacting them is a problem, when it is soooo easy to avoid"

Josie wow are you taking the forum personal. You dont have to comment here if you don't want to or do you have a desire to get my attention

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

Go into your privacy settings, and select 'Not looking for single guys'.

This doesn't stop CD's or TV's messaging you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

What? You don't fancy a blow job? You should have mentioned that before you came.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

Go into your privacy settings, and select 'Not looking for single guys'.

This doesn't stop CD's or TV's messaging you though

You can filter out CDs and TVs too.

Take a look.

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Just block them unless you really don't want to ? ....... ;o)

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Josie wow are you taking the forum personal. You dont have to comment here if you don't want to or do you have a desire to get my attention

I am truly flattered that you think me somewhat worthy of your attention on your forum

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me"

Maybe they are trying to tell you something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone il try the filtering if i can get my head around on how to do that"

If anyone can Dave Khan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

Have you tried crushing a grape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a gay guy message me the other day

Now that's weird

My male gay friend asked me if I'd sleep with him because he's never slept with a woman before, would like to try it but the idea of a woman cumming on his cock makes him want to vomit lol. Flattered as I was, I told him I'm not helping him lose his straight cherry. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone il try the filtering if i can get my head around on how to do that

If anyone can Dave Khan."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Josie wow are you taking the forum personal. You dont have to comment here if you don't want to or do you have a desire to get my attention

She doesn't go for guys who look gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

I can symphaise. I use my filters now. Now, they are gone.

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

To all you "straight" guys who complain about other guys looking at you.

GET A LIFE !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone can Dave Khan."

Oh no he can't!

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Josie wow are you taking the forum personal. You dont have to comment here if you don't want to or do you have a desire to get my attention

Haha, great reply mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all you "straight" guys who complain about other guys looking at you.

GET A LIFE !"

If someone messaged me repeatedly that I was not looking for I would get fed up too... Quite a few don't realise that the filters are there... Don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a compliment to which it's polite to say thank you or no thank you

Its nice to know your appreciated by anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all you "straight" guys who complain about other guys looking at you.

GET A LIFE !"

Rude! If OP clearly states he doesn't want men messaging or trying for his attention, then they should show respect and self control by not messaging him! It's not hard to pay attention to a person's wishes.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

If anyone can Dave Khan.

Oh no he can't! "

That should be "oh no he Khan't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes he Khan

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Quite right Centaur.

There are too many male Divas on this site !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just in defence of they gay guys ( and just my opinion)

But ALOT of 'straight' men do make contact with us 1st too so a little heads up there

I personally dont message a 'straight' guy 1st but will fab a pic if i think they are hot ( no harm meant)

But yeah simple answer is to block all gay / bi and anyone else from contactin you whom you dont want attention from, we shouldnt let things offend

And i opologise if some give us a bad rep we aint all as bad mannered

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Well said fantasy.

Personally I've had quite s few "straight" guys message me and we've had a good laugh. Why do some people try to put folks into pigeon holes fof f**cks sake. They are so narrow minded grrrrrrr

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I keep getting gay guys messaging me, how do i make it stop

Leave the priesthood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I set up my solo profile yesterday and thought I'd set the filters accordingly but had a gay guy message today. Doesn't bother me though. His message was quite entertaining, although i would never actually entertain what he suggested

The fabs on my pics have nearly all been from guys so far too. I'll take that over no fabs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I set up my solo profile yesterday and thought I'd set the filters accordingly but had a gay guy message today. Doesn't bother me though. His message was quite entertaining, although i would never actually entertain what he suggested

The fabs on my pics have nearly all been from guys so far too. I'll take that over no fabs lol"

no harm intended from me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They shouldn't your straight plus your profile doesn't say you want men.

Filter it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Josie wow are you taking the forum personal. You dont have to comment here if you don't want to or do you have a desire to get my attention

I am truly flattered that you think me somewhat worthy of your attention on your forum

Bless, he has a lot to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They shouldn't your straight plus your profile doesn't say you want men.

Filter it more "

Pretty sure the seeking section doesn't stop you receiving messages. Needs to be done on filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because of your gay looking pose in your profile

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Gay looking profile? Who knows....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cooooeeeee

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"To all you "straight" guys who complain about other guys looking at you.

GET A LIFE !

If someone messaged me repeatedly that I was not looking for I would get fed up too... Quite a few don't realise that the filters are there... Don't take it personally "

Exactly

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Lol his second pics,his a sleep wont say any more hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lot of haters on here ????

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Lot of haters on here ????"

It's banter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people need to relax and stop hating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more "

I wish i could block people like you off the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more

I wish i could block people like you off the forums"

I refer you to your earlier comment re people needing to relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on their gaydar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lot of haters on here ????

It's banter

I agree

No hate

Just some mickey taking

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I don't think people are hating - they're just bemused at the narrow mindedness of some people on this site.

A bit of humility wouldn't go amiss.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

If that's wrong, hell, i don't wanna be right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people need to relax and stop hating. "

True.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

Josie i really believe your existence was a mistake

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Shameful DaveKhan !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

Josie i really believe your existence was a mistake"

Dave : you really aren't doing yourself any favours with comments like that

It is playful banter

Take it on the chin with a laugh and a smile

Narky doesn't suit you

If I honestly thought people were being nasty or malicious, I would defend you wholeheartedly but I do think your reaction here appeared a little 'over sensitive'

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

One swallow does not make... oh I give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

Josie i really believe your existence was a mistake"

You khan't be serious!!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Another attention seeker

Just block men if you dont want them contacting you .... its not rocket science .....

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

Josie i really believe your existence was a mistake"

Why are you such an angry little man? Relax and take it; it won't hurt as much then

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Well said Josie !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its easy to see who is having a laugh and whos being a jerk about a simple topic i raised. People like Josie are clearly here because they have nothing better to other than hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out...things just got..personal. Good luck khant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to everyone who gave the right advice though

So, you will take the 'right advice' and "meet them suck them all off then they will move on and not message you any more"?

Josie i really believe your existence was a mistake"

Not nice comment at all!! If you note she's used the

to show she was joking

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Sorry but I can't see that Josie is offering hate. Why not block all men from viewing your profile - simples !

I hope you don't think I'm being hateful toward you but you've been offered the solution so please accept it.

Otherwise you might be considered as being homophobic and nobody wants that on Fabswingers. Those views are not welcome here my friend.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I'm out...things just got..personal. Good luck khant."

Take me with you; I khan't face 'The Wrath of Khan'

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