FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are getting sick of couples who only do bareback sex trying to get meets with us when our (long & detailed) profile clearly states we will never do this.

Why in this day would anyone want to do this with complete strangers is beyond us.

There are so many STI's & STD's out there & apart from genital warts you can't tell if someone is infected.

It's no wonder the swinging community gets a bad name when profiles are stating "allergic to all condoms" load of rubbish!! or "had the snip" so you won't catch anything.

Why can't we have a section to tick so that the bareback brigade keep the diseases to themselves!!

Feel free any barebackers to send us a message if this gets you annoyed & we will personally send you a list of everything you can catch & the symptons!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

There are "diseases" that you can still get whilst using a condom you know

Don't assume that you're 100% safe

Its not illegal to play with out condoms but your post suggests that anyone that plays bareback is a disease ridden leper that needs to be hounded out of the swinging community and thats not right

Everyone is entitled to play as they want and if you don't want to play the same way then just ignore them.....I do so and its easy

Telling people to Email you so you can send them a list of diseases is very inflammatory and makes you come across as holier than thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms and safe sex should be a big yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses.....I carry my own latex free condoms everywhere though.

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By *enandlisaCouple
over a year ago

Burnley'ish

"It's no wonder the swinging community gets a bad name "

Actually, the swinging community has quite a good name with Sexual Health Workers, we go for regular check ups to our local GUM clinic and quite freely and openly tell the Dr's and Nurses of our choice of lifestyle and why we are attending.

They have commented numerous times on the fact the swinging community are "usually" on the whole very health conscious, but just wish more would attend.

Oh.....and the reason we take the time and effort go is purely precautionary, condoms are a neccessity for penetrative sex, but we are aware of the risks involved from oral sex, hence our regular check ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are getting sick of couples who only do bareback sex trying to get meets with us when our (long & detailed) profile clearly states we will never do this.

Why in this day would anyone want to do this with complete strangers is beyond us.

There are so many STI's & STD's out there & apart from genital warts you can't tell if someone is infected.

It's no wonder the swinging community gets a bad name when profiles are stating "allergic to all condoms" load of rubbish!! or "had the snip" so you won't catch anything.

Why can't we have a section to tick so that the bareback brigade keep the diseases to themselves!!

Feel free any barebackers to send us a message if this gets you annoyed & we will personally send you a list of everything you can catch & the symptons!!"

a lot of diseases going around to do with smoking as well.

or over indulgence but no one feels the need to state no smokers or fatties in thier status.

we dont bareback btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

Recently we had a couple contact us who had "we only do bareback" & had lots of verifications only to delete that profile soon after & contact us again on a new profile (with same pics) to ask for a meet & that they have never done bareback so they knew they were clean.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are "diseases" that you can still get whilst using a condom you know

Don't assume that you're 100% safe

Its not illegal to play with out condoms but your post suggests that anyone that plays bareback is a disease ridden leper that needs to be hounded out of the swinging community and thats not right

Everyone is entitled to play as they want and if you don't want to play the same way then just ignore them.....I do so and its easy

Telling people to Email you so you can send them a list of diseases is very inflammatory and makes you come across as holier than thou

*Nods in agreement*

I don't understand why people get so caught up on what's on other people's profiles or how they play. Believe it or not the power is yours: if you don't like the look of something ignore it.

Honestly, all we can do is take care of ourselves the best we can...what others do is outwith our control, starting threads about other adults choices is a waste of time to me...as people will do what they want!

I certainly wouldn't be getting apoplectic about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

All that says is that others are willing to have bareback sex with them and that you should avoid those on the verifications too!

Sexual intercourse can carry disease sometimes. You can't police the whole sexual community. As everyone else says just do it your way without giving the ways others play a second thought if it doesnt appeal otherwise youre gonna spend way too much time reading about others sexploits and commenting about how they are wrong - while they continue getting laid and obviously not reading about the bad example others think they are setting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x"

These holes... in which order did you place your cock in them... or was it a mish mash of toing and froing?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x"

And just for the record... your local GUM clinic will advise you, if it's not on a poster on the wall that going to be tested the day after a meet isn't going to do you any good. I think the standard time is 10 days. Then you need to wait two weeks for the results.

It's all very well getting tested after the fact, but what are you going to do if you contract something? Pass it on to the next person who doesn't like latex?

Take care of your sexual health. It's your responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And HIV tests can't be conclusively negative until 3 months after the last bareback sex. Bareback with strangers is a very risky lifestyle choice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And HIV tests can't be conclusively negative until 3 months after the last bareback sex. Bareback with strangers is a very risky lifestyle choice....

Yes and Hepatitis is another risk through oral/anal sex which seems to get little publicity or second thoughts when popping from one hole to another..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...when our (long & detailed) profile clearly states we will never do this."

... which hardly anyone will ever bother to read.

Makes you wonder, eh? I reckon we could leave our profile blank for all the good our effort made!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Having been on here for well over a year now, and as someone who gets a couple of dozen requests a week from couples to meet.....

I HAVE NEVER had a single one insisting on playing bareback.....

But you get so many you are sick of hearing from them?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X"

We played with a couple in a club who had their own non latex comdoms,as she was allergic,perhaps you could find them online?

OP i agree,i have no problems with others doing it,but if profiles say safe sex only they should respect that.Ours does,and i expect ppl to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Having been on here for well over a year now, and as someone who gets a couple of dozen requests a week from couples to meet.....

I HAVE NEVER had a single one insisting on playing bareback.....

But you get so many you are sick of hearing from them?"

Thats a good point because ive only ever had one guy in over 2 years ask in a message to go bareback and he only had one interest ticked on his profile and that was safe sex

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Having been on here for well over a year now, and as someone who gets a couple of dozen requests a week from couples to meet.....

I HAVE NEVER had a single one insisting on playing bareback.....

But you get so many you are sick of hearing from them?

Thats a good point because ive only ever had one guy in over 2 years ask in a message to go bareback and he only had one interest ticked on his profile and that was safe sex

I've had quite a few and even more who say they do and then say... but we can play safe if you want.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x"

Just in case any of the ladies out there missed this the first time.

btw - the day after is a bit too soon for a few things to show up on the tests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x

Just in case any of the ladies out there missed this the first time.

btw - the day after is a bit too soon for a few things to show up on the tests."

Polo...Polo...Polo!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x

Just in case any of the ladies out there missed this the first time.

btw - the day after is a bit too soon for a few things to show up on the tests."

I ignore his post content....on the grounds that he probably hasn't started having sex yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polo...Polo...Polo!

that's three holes!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x

Just in case any of the ladies out there missed this the first time.

btw - the day after is a bit too soon for a few things to show up on the tests.

I ignore his post content....on the grounds that he probably hasn't started having sex yet."

Now, now, no need for that. At 23 I was humping left, right and centre.

But seeing as you kept the quote in

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Polo...Polo...Polo!

that's three holes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have nothing against bareback. each to their own, but if a person say no to it. their decision should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X

We played with a couple in a club who had their own non latex comdoms,as she was allergic,perhaps you could find them online?

I can get them (have access to them trade), but they are expensive, what I meant is that I suffer the consequences of being allergic, as long as its not for any great length of time.. lol

Katie.x

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Threads of this nature always make me smile as it seems that most peeps have forgotten or don't know that one of the key fundamental principals of 'safe-sex' is to minimise your numbers of sexual partners.

The fact of being an active swinger completely defies a key principle 'Safe-sex' by virtue of promiscuity.

It shouldn't be stated as safe-sex or bare-back, it should say 'condom required - yes/no'. The phrase 'safe-sex' has been bastardised into a swinging scene where it has no place at all. 'Safe-sex' (in its true meaning)and 'Swinging' are on opposite ends of the same long stick... you cannot be on both ends at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X

We played with a couple in a club who had their own non latex comdoms,as she was allergic,perhaps you could find them online?

I can get them (have access to them trade), but they are expensive, what I meant is that I suffer the consequences of being allergic, as long as its not for any great length of time.. lol

Katie.x"

I also have a latex allergy,I don't find non latex condoms that expensive.......well I probably hav'nt compared to be honest as I don't even look at the other ones,I get mine online and the more I get the cheaper they are anyway

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X

We played with a couple in a club who had their own non latex comdoms,as she was allergic,perhaps you could find them online?

I can get them (have access to them trade), but they are expensive, what I meant is that I suffer the consequences of being allergic, as long as its not for any great length of time.. lol

Katie.x

actually it is always worth checking in "boots".. because from time to time they change there "condom display racks" (as in pushing certain items)... if you catch then then... they basically end up discounting everything....

last time they did this.... got a ton of latex and non-latex condoms for next to nothing......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only safe sex is no sex what would life be without that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its really common sense in the end to use condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x"

It takes 3 months for hiv to show up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

out thought is its each to their own, everyone should be allowed to make their own choices be it with their own partners (if applicable) or others in a consenting way at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out thought is its each to their own, everyone should be allowed to make their own choices be it with their own partners (if applicable) or others in a consenting way at all times. "

It IS each to their own and people ARE allowed to make their own choices: it's just some people feel they shouldn't have a choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

LMAO..."the infection down below"..."is now clear"...eerrrmm..would someone really put this on a profile..???

Great news folks..the sores have gone..the discharge has stopped..we have finished the Antibiotics..and we are on MEET TODAY..love it..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

LMAO..."the infection down below"..."is now clear"...eerrrmm..would someone really put this on a profile..???

Great news folks..the sores have gone..the discharge has stopped..we have finished the Antibiotics..and we are on MEET TODAY..love it..!!!

and please bring a bio suit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

LMAO..."the infection down below"..."is now clear"...eerrrmm..would someone really put this on a profile..???

Great news folks..the sores have gone..the discharge has stopped..we have finished the Antibiotics..and we are on MEET TODAY..love it..!!!

and please bring a bio suit .

Like that film "Outbreak"...getting strangely turned on by the thought of biohazard suit wearing roleplay now...mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

LMAO..."the infection down below"..."is now clear"...eerrrmm..would someone really put this on a profile..???

Great news folks..the sores have gone..the discharge has stopped..we have finished the Antibiotics..and we are on MEET TODAY..love it..!!!

and please bring a bio suit .

Like that film "Outbreak"...getting strangely turned on by the thought of biohazard suit wearing roleplay now...mmmm

lol only you would lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if when your om about bareback, you mean the guy / girl are entire or tied / snipped.

Either way, i couldn't go bareback. I know condoms aren't full proof but i'd rather that than risk even a minor STI let alone HIV and the likes. It is up to each individual / couple but if bareback was the only way to meet someone, i don't think it's a risk i'd take. And i don't mean to offend anyone by saying that, i just don't think i could. Wouldn't sit well with me.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"BTW we are "not holier than thou" & have enjoyed swinging for quite a few years.

A few weeks later they had a header on their profile to say the "infection below" was now clear so they could meet people from here again!!.

Needless to say we had not met them but we know by their new verifications others had.

Your post proves that people will say anything people want to hear to get what they want.

It is one reason why we don't cross reference peoples verifications to check who they have been with and then see if they have been with anyone who has had bareback etc etc.....apart from the fact it would A. be boring B could take hours, I do think the only people you can rely on are ourselves.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X

We played with a couple in a club who had their own non latex comdoms,as she was allergic,perhaps you could find them online?

I can get them (have access to them trade), but they are expensive, what I meant is that I suffer the consequences of being allergic, as long as its not for any great length of time.. lol

Katie.x"

Your local GUM clinic should give you them for free. I was certainly asked if I had an allergy to latex the last time I wandered off with my little purple paper bag... I'm not sure she understood what I was laughing at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are getting sick of couples who only do bareback sex trying to get meets with us when our (long & detailed) profile clearly states we will never do this.

Why in this day would anyone want to do this with complete strangers is beyond us.

There are so many STI's & STD's out there & apart from genital warts you can't tell if someone is infected.

It's no wonder the swinging community gets a bad name when profiles are stating "allergic to all condoms" load of rubbish!! or "had the snip" so you won't catch anything.

Why can't we have a section to tick so that the bareback brigade keep the diseases to themselves!!

Feel free any barebackers to send us a message if this gets you annoyed & we will personally send you a list of everything you can catch & the symptons!!"

well guess that told us lol

What people do is upto them

Its a well known fact people dont read profiles so why your suprised a group of people you have stated you dont meeet is mailing you is beyond me lol

All you can do is delete the message and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your local GUM clinic should give you them for free. I was certainly asked if I had an allergy to latex the last time I wandered off with my little purple paper bag... I'm not sure she understood what I was laughing at!

Mine have never as yet had any... Which is annoying.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think the only people you can rely on are ourselves."

And THAT'S the bottom line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms and safe sex should be a big yes

"I have played with women bareback and had my cock in all 3 holes but I always get tested the day after some ladies do not like the feeling of latex x"

is it me or do them two post, from the same person, just totally contradict each other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have never as yet had any... Which is annoying.. :D

Katie.x"

i cant use latex either and ive always had to buy them, ive never been to a family planning etc who stock latex free condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What others' do is up to them, what they put on their profile is up to them. I would never play bareback but I dont care who else does. A couple might have bareback on their profile, they might have 100 verifications, they doesnt mean they played bareback with all those. You just dont know unless you were there. Dont assume everyone who goes bareback is disease ridden and offering to send literature on STI's is insulting. Are you an expert on it anyway, obviously not as genital warts is not the only STI with visible symptoms. Oh and to the poster who inserts his penis in all 3 holes simultaneously, that will cause urinary tract infections, along with the risk of STI's, bacteria straight from anus to vagina, not very clever. Hep B is more common than HIV.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mine have never as yet had any... Which is annoying.. :D

Katie.x

i cant use latex either and ive always had to buy them, ive never been to a family planning etc who stock latex free condoms"

It wasn't the FPC... they've never offered either, it was the GUM clinic who did. Try them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What others' do is up to them, what they put on their profile is up to them. I would never play bareback but I dont care who else does. A couple might have bareback on their profile, they might have 100 verifications, they doesnt mean they played bareback with all those. You just dont know unless you were there. Dont assume everyone who goes bareback is disease ridden and offering to send literature on STI's is insulting. Are you an expert on it anyway, obviously not as genital warts is not the only STI with visible symptoms. Oh and to the poster who inserts his penis in all 3 holes simultaneously, that will cause urinary tract infections, along with the risk of STI's, bacteria straight from anus to vagina, not very clever. Hep B is more common than HIV."

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people seem to have a reacton to latex condoms. I dont have a latex allergy but I have had a stinging on my lips after sucking a guy who'd been wearing a condom. If you are allergic to certain foods, such as bananas, kiwi or some nuts then you've a higher likelihood of having an allergy to latex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X"
..... Being allergic to latex is no excuse

you can get latex free condoms can even get them free from GUM clinic

* cReeps roUnd grAveyaRd *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is "unprotected" oral sex not as dangerous as unprotected vaginal sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is "unprotected" oral sex not as dangerous as unprotected vaginal sex?"

you can still pick up infection thro oral sex but not as easily as viginal sex

nothings 100% and people who think they are safe cause they use condoms for full sex are just kidding themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Lots of people seem to have a reacton to latex condoms. I dont have a latex allergy but I have had a stinging on my lips after sucking a guy who'd been wearing a condom. If you are allergic to certain foods, such as bananas, kiwi or some nuts then you've a higher likelihood of having an allergy to latex"

That stinging you get around your lips after sucking a guy? I found I got that on my other lips for a couple of days with normal condoms

So just changed condoms to non latex and have had no problems since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X..... Being allergic to latex is no excuse

you can get latex free condoms can even get them free from GUM clinic

* cReeps roUnd grAveyaRd *

Didnt say it was an excuse, which is why I said mostly use.. there are some times when its not required.. Like with Master etc.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day, as has been stated quite a few times, we have the power and the choice, I choose not to play bareback, and will not entertain the notion of doing otherwise.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

(Bareback never) this is ment to be fun sitting up the STD clinic after a meet with a stranger is not fun. waiting for results to see if your going to live or die or catch some thing they cant cure.

(AVOID ANY ONE WHO WANTS BAREBACK)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all adults and able to make our own decisions regarding sexual activities. We don't need anyone 'preaching' to us about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are all adults and able to make our own decisions regarding sexual activities. We don't need anyone 'preaching' to us about it. "

That is a very true statement.. but people always will.. :D

Katie.x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Just reply.. not for us..

I am allergic to latex.. not badly, but enough. But still mostly use condoms...

Katie. X"

*Thinks to self, considerate males should carry both types....and adds them to shopping list*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is "unprotected" oral sex not as dangerous as unprotected vaginal sex?"

No its not as dangerous but it does carry a risk, albeit a drastically reduced risk. I decide to take that risk with oral but then I am guessing 99% of swingers do, Ive certainly never seen a woman sucking a guy wearing a condom or a guy using a dental dam with a lady

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over a year ago

"We are all adults and able to make our own decisions regarding sexual activities. We don't need anyone 'preaching' to us about it. "

Something rather sweet about a bunch of promiscuous people pontificating about safe sex!

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over a year ago

Something rather sweet about a bunch of promiscuous people pontificating about safe sex!

Sassy, you would not suggest for one moment that sometimes we can be hypocritical would you

And as been said.. the only real safe sex is no sex..

Katie.x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people should just do what THEY want to do...

and with that..

it would be respectful if they do expose themselves to higher risks, share that with potential playmates.

apart from that...

nowt much to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is.. I have talked to lots of swingers over the years.. and I know plenty that if asked would say they dont do bareback.. but I know they do..

Now the reason they are not honest is because of the stigma attached.. if people would be less judgemental and accept that its others choices, people may be more forthcoming with the truth.

You only have someones word for it.. to me as long as they are safe with me, that is what matters, there are risks with this lifestyle full stop.

Katie.x

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"We are all adults and able to make our own decisions regarding sexual activities. We don't need anyone 'preaching' to us about it.

Something rather sweet about a bunch of promiscuous people pontificating about safe sex!

loving it!

if u only realized the bacteria that is present in your mouth! oh Hep B is present in water vapour.. coughs and sneezes spread diseases! so best advice speak to cliff ah hah! or wrap up! in cling film..head to toe!

now be upstanding for hymn.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something rather sweet about a bunch of promiscuous people pontificating about safe sex!

Sassy, you would not suggest for one moment that sometimes we can be hypocritical would you

And as been said.. the only real safe sex is no sex..

Katie.x"

I would NEVER suggest such a thing!

Hmmmm, strange! My nose has just grown 6"!

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over a year ago

I would NEVER suggest such a thing!

Hmmmm, strange! My nose has just grown 6"!

Men will be wanting to know what your magic power is

pmsl

Katie.x

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over a year ago

The problem with bareback is that the more people that are doing it, the more the potential for STD's to spread, and has been said, condoms are not always 100% effective. So I am not happy with the 'its their choice to do bareback, but not with me'. I would not be happy playing with anyone who plays bareback, or anyone who plays with people who do it, even with condoms

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over a year ago

"The problem with bareback is that the more people that are doing it, the more the potential for STD's to spread, and has been said, condoms are not always 100% effective. So I am not happy with the 'its their choice to do bareback, but not with me'. I would not be happy playing with anyone who plays bareback, or anyone who plays with people who do it, even with condoms"

But how do you know???

NOt everyone is honest..

Katie.x

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over a year ago

But how do you know???

NOt everyone is honest..

Katie.x"

I find the naivety of some people alarming! I remember a couple saying they didn't play with black people or anyone that played with black people. How did they think they could police that?

Are people really that daft to believe total strangers will tell them the truth regarding playing bareback and truly believe they can screen them all?!! Really?!!

People NEVER lie right?!!

I assume EVERYONE I play with gangbangs bareback and act accordingly to protect myself as best I can. If I wanted to be "safe" I'd take up Bridge as a hobby and not be promiscuous.

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over a year ago

People NEVER lie right?!!

I assume EVERYONE I play with gangbangs bareback and act accordingly to protect myself as best I can. If I wanted to be "safe" I'd take up Bridge as a hobby and not be promiscuous.

Oh I feel really bad now..but I just laughed at the image of you playing Bridge... although I could more imagine you playing chess.. bit those pieces could have more than one use in your hands.. lol

(sorry.. Master has been out with the lads..and I have been bored lol)

Katie.x

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over a year ago

Oh I feel really bad now..but I just laughed at the image of you playing Bridge... although I could more imagine you playing chess.. bit those pieces could have more than one use in ur hands.. lol

Katie.x"

And Sassy would hold her hand lower down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And Sassy would hold her hand lower down

I had an image of a certain male on here covering his little bum at that thought lol

Katie.x

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