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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"
I havnt but I chatted to a woman here for 5 months who her hubby refused to allow her to put a pic up and I would have met her but no-one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. And never would.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. And never would.

-Courtney "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yes.

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How did I go?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and never would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Goodness me no,does anyone?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once.. and regretted it!

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet? I havnt but I chatted to a woman here for 5 months who her hubby refused to allow her to put a pic up and I would have met her but no-one else "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never have and never would.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No. And never would.

-Courtney "

I here what your saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does catfishing count?

If so then yes. Back before cams were in built, a guy sent me pics. We'd chatted for ages beforehand. Got to the social meet & flipped out on him lol

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No. And never would.

-Courtney

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No and never would "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Lol. Were they what you expected? & was it a good meet?

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. I think you would be slightly mad to do it

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Goodness me no,does anyone?!"

Only 1 so far and she's not male. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet unless I've either a) met them at a social previously or b) seen them on cam in a chatroom. Amazing the number of guys who only use their phones and can't chat/cam.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Once.. and regretted it! "

Why did you regret it?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Does catfishing count?

If so then yes. Back before cams were in built, a guy sent me pics. We'd chatted for ages beforehand. Got to the social meet & flipped out on him lol"

What happened?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Definitely not. I think you would be slightly mad to do it "

I have to agree with you

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I won't meet unless I've either a) met them at a social previously or b) seen them on cam in a chatroom. Amazing the number of guys who only use their phones and can't chat/cam."

Oh no, I'm one of those men lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Lol. Were they what you expected? & was it a good meet?

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect. "

I'm still seeing him almost four years later.

Glad I did really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and still seeing him

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've always said I wouldn't do this.

However, I had a social not too long ago with someone without seeing a face pic. I liked him so much I forgot to ask for a face photo beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it? "

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

Private 1-2-1 meet,no.

Have chatted and arranged to meet up with people at parties without having seen a face pic. We're going there anyway, so not a problem.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We don't do that, never have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Not my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm too shallow to meet without a face pic first that face is the deal breaker with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet? I havnt but I chatted to a woman here for 5 months who her hubby refused to allow her to put a pic up and I would have met her but no-one else

Why?"
she got friendly with a guy on here and they shared sexy pics turns out the guy sat next to her husband at work ,she had loads of veris saying she was beautiful but her hubby wouldn't let her put pics up

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Yes and don't have a problem not playing it even walking away if we don't connect in person. I've also been on meets where the other person hasn't seen mine and no offence taken if they don't like me. I meet at clubs now so they have other alternatives.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I have, it was purely a social and I rather enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes more than once. Each time we got on well on the phone and so agreed to meet up and fortunately each time it turned out well.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Lol. Were they what you expected? & was it a good meet?

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect.

I'm still seeing him almost four years later.

Glad I did really."

Glad it worked out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Many times when i was a single fem. Only one was a let down. Some i met at Chams so if i didnt like them it didnt matter anyway.

The best one i met without seeing a face pic was about ten years ago and we are now happily married

I usually know if i will like someone or not by the messeges and conversations we have.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown

WH & CS. Why did you decide to go on a blind meet? Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Lol. Were they what you expected? & was it a good meet?

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect.

I'm still seeing him almost four years later.

Glad I did really."

The amount of times we think people look nothing like their pix , no doubt we are nothing like ours to some also, especially if you meet first then see their fab profile makes your leap of faith actually quite a good idea...

xx

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee. "

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of times we think people look nothing like their pix , no doubt we are nothing like ours to some also, especially if you meet first then see their fab profile makes your leap of faith actually quite a good idea...

xx"

True!

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Private 1-2-1 meet,no.

Have chatted and arranged to meet up with people at parties without having seen a face pic. We're going there anyway, so not a problem."

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"i'm too shallow to meet without a face pic first that face is the deal breaker with me "

Yeah same for me.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No

Not my thing "

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

I ought to answer no to this one but,,,,,,, went to Xtasia one night and we arranged to meet a couple in the Prem Inn who we had no idea what they looked like ,,,,, but hey it was just a drink , ended up spending all night with them and have become best of friends ,,,,,, so you never know ,,,, okay this isn't possibly the scenario that the op is looking for but it just goes to show you what can happen

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Hell no."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol "

It was only a social as it was a first meet... needless to say no second meet happened!

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet? I havnt but I chatted to a woman here for 5 months who her hubby refused to allow her to put a pic up and I would have met her but no-one else

Why? she got friendly with a guy on here and they shared sexy pics turns out the guy sat next to her husband at work ,she had loads of veris saying she was beautiful but her hubby wouldn't let her put pics up "

Lol

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yes.

Many times when i was a single fem. Only one was a let down. Some i met at Chams so if i didnt like them it didnt matter anyway.

The best one i met without seeing a face pic was about ten years ago and we are now happily married

I usually know if i will like someone or not by the messeges and conversations we have."

Nice one

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Lol. Were they what you expected? & was it a good meet?

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect.

I'm still seeing him almost four years later.

Glad I did really.

The amount of times we think people look nothing like their pix , no doubt we are nothing like ours to some also, especially if you meet first then see their fab profile makes your leap of faith actually quite a good idea...

xx"

Not for me. But I can see why some people do.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I ought to answer no to this one but,,,,,,, went to Xtasia one night and we arranged to meet a couple in the Prem Inn who we had no idea what they looked like ,,,,, but hey it was just a drink , ended up spending all night with them and have become best of friends ,,,,,, so you never know ,,,, okay this isn't possibly the scenario that the op is looking for but it just goes to show you what can happen"

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol

It was only a social as it was a first meet... needless to say no second meet happened!

"

Did he look really old for 40 ?

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

I ought to answer no to this one but,,,,,,, went to Xtasia one night and we arranged to meet a couple in the Prem Inn who we had no idea what they looked like ,,,,, but hey it was just a drink , ended up spending all night with them and have become best of friends ,,,,,, so you never know ,,,, okay this isn't possibly the scenario that the op is looking for but it just goes to show you what can happen

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not a chance in hell! And if someone was willing to meet me with no face pic? I'd think they were desperate and any hole is a goal

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By *ocksoff3Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

No that's not happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

We did. Met a couple for dinner without having seen face pics beforehand. We had a great laugh over the meal and then we got a room and had sex.

Go on, live a little and take a risk. If you don't like them you don't have to shag them, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

Am I shallow? I would say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and I never would...but I have had a few meets where the guy hadn't seen my face pic (and none of them ran away!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol

It was only a social as it was a first meet... needless to say no second meet happened!

Did he look really old for 40 ?"

He was 40 something.. can't remember now. I'd just got in my head I was meeting someone younger than myself and was so disappointed.. and I wasn't attracted to him so no further meet wanted on my side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have x there were two guys waiting outside the said place, one ubber delicious, other wearing bobble hat x anorak, thankfully ubber delicious guy was my meet ... Fortunate to meet him a few times Mmmmmm.....

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol

It was only a social as it was a first meet... needless to say no second meet happened!

Did he look really old for 40 ?

He was 40 something.. can't remember now. I'd just got in my head I was meeting someone younger than myself and was so disappointed.. and I wasn't attracted to him so no further meet wanted on my side. "

Your a hard women

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Nope and I never would...but I have had a few meets where the guy hadn't seen my face pic (and none of them ran away!) "

Did they look nervous and worried till they come face to face?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I have x there were two guys waiting outside the said place, one ubber delicious, other wearing bobble hat x anorak, thankfully ubber delicious guy was my meet ... Fortunate to meet him a few times Mmmmmm....."

Good to hear, but it could go wrong.

I recon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, loads of times, we never send out face pics , but have played with some great people.

Some faces we have seen beforehand, if they want to send them thats fine but we would not expect them to have to.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No that's not happening"

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yes, loads of times, we never send out face pics , but have played with some great people.

Some faces we have seen beforehand, if they want to send them thats fine but we would not expect them to have to. "

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol "

Yes you do! I've had two instances where the pics were 10-15 years old! Needless to say neither proceeded to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a mf couple and had great fun with them and been back a number of times.

In a similar vain, had a meeting with a lady who had sent me a face picture where, putting it politely, it was clear that the picture I had been sent was a few years out of date. I left shortly after arriving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WH & CS. Why did you decide to go on a blind meet? Just curious. "

Because I wanted what they had on offer.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"WH & CS. Why did you decide to go on a blind meet? Just curious.

Because I wanted what they had on offer."

Good on yah. Glad it worked for you.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yes, a mf couple and had great fun with them and been back a number of times.

In a similar vain, had a meeting with a lady who had sent me a face picture where, putting it politely, it was clear that the picture I had been sent was a few years out of date. I left shortly after arriving."
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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Once.. and regretted it!

Why did you regret it?

He claimed to be 33 and was in his 40's. My bad. But even seeing a face pic is no guarantee.

I'll have to start asking how old the pics are. lol

Yes you do! I've had two instances where the pics were 10-15 years old! Needless to say neither proceeded to play. "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No"

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

No, but some socials ended quickly when I got to see their badly kept teeth which were kept hidden in their pictures.

I'm always surprised when I see very bad dental hygiene on an otherwise clean, well presented and nice smelling person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no and no and did we say no cause that what we mean its no oh and just so your clear on what we say no is no face pic no meet so there you go its no...

ps its no just so you understand ..no

i did say no didnt i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't meet without a face pic and I don't care if it's shallow! If you're not attracted to someone there's no point.

I have been on two 'dates' where the pics I'd seen and the guys that turned up were so different! Disappointing!

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By *aris_12456TV/TS
over a year ago

leyland

No chance

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Couldn't meet without a face pic and I don't care if it's shallow! If you're not attracted to someone there's no point.

I have been on two 'dates' where the pics I'd seen and the guys that turned up were so different! Disappointing! "

Thanks. That might be the subject of my next post

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No chance "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"no and no and did we say no cause that what we mean its no oh and just so your clear on what we say no is no face pic no meet so there you go its no...

ps its no just so you understand ..no

i did say no didnt i "

Sorry I didn't quite get that. lol

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No, but some socials ended quickly when I got to see their badly kept teeth which were kept hidden in their pictures.

I'm always surprised when I see very bad dental hygiene on an otherwise clean, well presented and nice smelling person."

I do agree

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By *aris_12456TV/TS
over a year ago

leyland

Seeing pictures then meeting and them turning out to look a lot older or completely different is scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny that many say they wouldnt meet without seeing a face pic first but then some of you are also saying that the pics arent up to date so wouldnt it be better to insist in seeing the person on webcam instead ?

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By *indy SometimesTV/TS
over a year ago

BoxHill

Yes, but only for a social. Got on really well and one thing led to another. Still meeting 3 years later.

Some people keep face pics up to date, some are less honest. I'm happy to meet and see if we are attracted rather than build my hopes on an out of date picture.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I find it funny that many say they wouldnt meet without seeing a face pic first but then some of you are also saying that the pics arent up to date so wouldnt it be better to insist in seeing the person on webcam instead ?"

In an ideal world it would be.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Seeing pictures then meeting and them turning out to look a lot older or completely different is scary "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yes, but only for a social. Got on really well and one thing led to another. Still meeting 3 years later.

Some people keep face pics up to date, some are less honest. I'm happy to meet and see if we are attracted rather than build my hopes on an out of date picture."

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Nope & i wouldnt.

Not sure if its vanity or what. I do know if we are going out for a meal i look online to see if there is a menu...

Mrs _d40

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Nope & i wouldnt.

Not sure if its vanity or what. I do know if we are going out for a meal i look online to see if there is a menu...

Mrs _d40"

I know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo! Never would either! Had a disastrous blind date when I was about 20! All be it back before the Internet and camera phone but was enough to put me off for life!!! Have had many guys try to get me to meet without me seeing a pic!! Not a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have with one person, and I do not regret it for a second, been seeing each other since last June now. XXX

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

No - although I have met men without sending them a face pic of me beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Never. And never will.

Mrs x

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Noooooo! Never would either! Had a disastrous blind date when I was about 20! All be it back before the Internet and camera phone but was enough to put me off for life!!! Have had many guys try to get me to meet without me seeing a pic!! Not a chance "

After reading this thread, would you consider is now? It's seem like 50/50 up to know.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No - although I have met men without sending them a face pic of me beforehand

"

Lol

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I have with one person, and I do not regret it for a second, been seeing each other since last June now. XXX"

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No. Never. And never will.

Mrs x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it was fkn horrible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

I have x my hubby likes to arrange them for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started yes

I wouldn't now though

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooooo! Never would either! Had a disastrous blind date when I was about 20! All be it back before the Internet and camera phone but was enough to put me off for life!!! Have had many guys try to get me to meet without me seeing a pic!! Not a chance

After reading this thread, would you consider is now? It's seem like 50/50 up to know. "

Nope!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

We did... We'd been chatting for ages and agreed a social meet. It wasn't until we were sat in the carpark of the pub where we were meeting that we realised we didn't know hat they looked like ... Luckily they recognised Anita's red hair and waved us over. We met several times after that for sexy fun.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hells no.

I never will either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never send face pics,so anyone that has met us has done so without a face pic.we do ok on the site.

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By *enzel77Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Nope never, have to say I find that abit odd, but adventurous at the same time if it makes sense

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yea it was fkn horrible lol "

So that's a definite not again?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

I have x my hubby likes to arrange them for me x"

I take it you don't mind them? And it works for you.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"When I first started yes

I wouldn't now though"

Why not, did they go wrong?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Noooooo! Never would either! Had a disastrous blind date when I was about 20! All be it back before the Internet and camera phone but was enough to put me off for life!!! Have had many guys try to get me to meet without me seeing a pic!! Not a chance

After reading this thread, would you consider is now? It's seem like 50/50 up to know. .

Nope!!"

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

We did... We'd been chatting for ages and agreed a social meet. It wasn't until we were sat in the carpark of the pub where we were meeting that we realised we didn't know hat they looked like ... Luckily they recognised Anita's red hair and waved us over. We met several times after that for sexy fun.

Cal"

Ha Ha. I bet you were eyeing every car up.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Hells no.

I never will either "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"We never send face pics,so anyone that has met us has done so without a face pic.we do ok on the site."

If it works for you, cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had that convo in another thread. I think some guys are more inclined to do it than women, primarily because of the limited opportunities.

Of course sometimes the lack of a face photo isn't any bad reason

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Nope never, have to say I find that abit odd, but adventurous at the same time if it makes sense"

But would you give it a try, after reading this thread?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"just had that convo in another thread. I think some guys are more inclined to do it than women, primarily because of the limited opportunities.

Of course sometimes the lack of a face photo isn't any bad reason"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social meet where he looked like nothing like his pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and never would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and never would

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did go on a meet where the person was both verified and photo verified.. And it wasn't person in pictures....

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I had a social meet where he looked like nothing like his pics . "

Did he look worse or better, face to face?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No and never would "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Probably "

And why not. Go for it.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I did go on a meet where the person was both verified and photo verified.. And it wasn't person in pictures.... "

Did you report them. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

Absolutely not and never would. Not on here to play blind date and I suspected the no-show rates for those that do must be massively high.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

"

Yes.

And everyone who meets us has too.

I simply explain that I am bald, short, incredibly ugly and missing a tooth and then it is up to them to decide whether or not my other features outweigh my facial disappointments.

We have only had one couple who misunderstood my sense of humour and thought I was joking. The others simply brought a paper bag for me to wear.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No & never will.

Don't have time to meet people I don't fancy!

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

I have once, but then i do social meets first, so theres no promise of play

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Absolutely not and never would. Not on here to play blind date and I suspected the no-show rates for those that do must be massively high. "

No. Can't see that in the replies!

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

Yes.

And everyone who meets us has too.

I simply explain that I am bald, short, incredibly ugly and missing a tooth and then it is up to them to decide whether or not my other features outweigh my facial disappointments.

We have only had one couple who misunderstood my sense of humour and thought I was joking. The others simply brought a paper bag for me to wear.

Mr ddc"

Was that in case your's came off ? Lol

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No & never will.

Don't have time to meet people I don't fancy!"

Give it a go you never know. Some happy people on here have never looked back.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

I have once, but then i do social meets first, so theres no promise of play"
how did it work out?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

Yes.

And everyone who meets us has too.

I simply explain that I am bald, short, incredibly ugly and missing a tooth and then it is up to them to decide whether or not my other features outweigh my facial disappointments.

We have only had one couple who misunderstood my sense of humour and thought I was joking. The others simply brought a paper bag for me to wear.

Mr ddc

Was that in case your's came off ? Lol "

Oi! I'm not so bad I need double-bagging !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo and never would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ihave, twice. And both times the girls turned out to be gorgeous, lucky me!!!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

Yes, many years ago, they couldn't send pics, so we just agreed to meet. Had awesome sex and quite a long term relationship with them . So sometimes it does work out!

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

No would never meet without seeing pictures first - this would matter even more so for meeting a single girl or guy - couples more likely to be who they say. Amazing the number of women who contact that so obviously a bloke!

As all say, a photo proves nothing, unless of course they send you one that day, with the newspaper in it lol.

Not shallow - but time too precious to arrange a meeting only to then get there and find they not what they say were and have to leave.

To be fair a high proportion of our meets are in clubs, mainly randomly on that night, other couples more of case saying we will be there and not a problem if they turn out to be 30 years and 3 sizes bigger than they said as there plenty of others to choose from lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a million years. Free time is too limited as it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see what respect has to do with it. No I wouldn't meet without seeing a face picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did go on a meet where the person was both verified and photo verified.. And it wasn't person in pictures.... "

This has happened to me and he's still on as people verified him and pics are not him .I reported him but nothing happened .I blocked him and his couple profile .

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

Yes.

And everyone who meets us has too.

I simply explain that I am bald, short, incredibly ugly and missing a tooth and then it is up to them to decide whether or not my other features outweigh my facial disappointments.

We have only had one couple who misunderstood my sense of humour and thought I was joking. The others simply brought a paper bag for me to wear.

Mr ddc

Was that in case your's came off ? Lol

Oi! I'm not so bad I need double-bagging !!

"
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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Nooooo and never would "

Cool

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Yes, many years ago, they couldn't send pics, so we just agreed to meet. Had awesome sex and quite a long term relationship with them . So sometimes it does work out! "

Yes I can see it does now. Plenty of support for meet with & without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely even talk to people without seeing a face pic let alone meet them

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Ihave, twice. And both times the girls turned out to be gorgeous, lucky me!!!"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No never have never will. I happy to show my face on my profile so if they aren't willing to at least send a pic privately I'm not interested

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No would never meet without seeing pictures first - this would matter even more so for meeting a single girl or guy - couples more likely to be who they say. Amazing the number of women who contact that so obviously a bloke!

As all say, a photo proves nothing, unless of course they send you one that day, with the newspaper in it lol.

Not shallow - but time too precious to arrange a meeting only to then get there and find they not what they say were and have to leave.

To be fair a high proportion of our meets are in clubs, mainly randomly on that night, other couples more of case saying we will be there and not a problem if they turn out to be 30 years and 3 sizes bigger than they said as there plenty of others to choose from lol"

The newspaper paper thing sounds like a good idea. Lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I barely even talk to people without seeing a face pic let alone meet them "

I don't I like to know who I'm talking to

Obviously not in context of the forums as I comment facelessly like this all the time on here but I think that's different to conversing privately

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Not in a million years. Free time is too limited as it is!"

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Don't see what respect has to do with it. No I wouldn't meet without seeing a face picture"

All I ment by that was, I don't fuck anything I'm not attracted to.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I did go on a meet where the person was both verified and photo verified.. And it wasn't person in pictures....

This has happened to me and he's still on as people verified him and pics are not him .I reported him but nothing happened .I blocked him and his couple profile . "
That's not good.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I barely even talk to people without seeing a face pic let alone meet them "

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"No never have never will. I happy to show my face on my profile so if they aren't willing to at least send a pic privately I'm not interested"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

Not a prayer!!! My time is too precious to meet people on a whim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I barely even talk to people without seeing a face pic let alone meet them "

This

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I barely even talk to people without seeing a face pic let alone meet them

I don't I like to know who I'm talking to

Obviously not in context of the forums as I comment facelessly like this all the time on here but I think that's different to conversing privately "

I think with me, I do like to see who I am sending them to.

Because if I don't think mmmm, it's a waste of time.

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes we do,

And we don't give out face pic's,

Just because you meet someone doesn't mean you have to play with them.

Just use it as a social

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"I barely even talk to people without seeing a face pic let alone meet them

This"

Cool

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Not a prayer!!! My time is too precious to meet people on a whim."

But you never know, they be the best thing since sliced bread.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yes we do,

And we don't give out face pic's,

Just because you meet someone doesn't mean you have to play with them.

Just use it as a social"

Why would you want to arrange a social with someone you aren't attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone been tempted to go public? I have been looking fir someone honest enough to do an article in a newspaper but iv totally lucked out??? Would anyone dare do an interview with a photo shoot?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Yes we do,

And we don't give out face pic's,

Just because you meet someone doesn't mean you have to play with them.

Just use it as a social"

True. But then all the time and effort, planning and getting ready. You meet

Don't like go home. What a waste of time. If you do like you have a great time.

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

from parts unknown


"Has anyone been tempted to go public? I have been looking fir someone honest enough to do an article in a newspaper but iv totally lucked out??? Would anyone dare do an interview with a photo shoot?"

If the money is good, I'm sure someone would.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Met a couple once with a male friend n they had no face pics up n when we met they looked much older than they were suposed to b . We played but I did not enjoy it no chemistery n I could not get it up . Drove to far for d meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes best thing I ever did as I'm no owned by him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?"

I'm with you lad

imagine turning up and she's a pig

just the thought brings a bit of bile to my throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet with a couple last week who have no photos on their profile.

Dont see what having any self respect has to do with meeting people.

As for wanting to see face pics first, I would suggest that if you judge everyone by what they look like, you are possibly missing out on meeting some wonderful people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No & never will.

Don't have time to meet people I don't fancy!

Give it a go you never know. Some happy people on here have never looked back. "

No thanks, I like my way as its works just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Not a prayer!!! My time is too precious to meet people on a whim.

But you never know, they be the best thing since sliced bread. "

But if I'm not attracted to them, what's the point?

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By *r jbl OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Not a prayer!!! My time is too precious to meet people on a whim.

But you never know, they be the best thing since sliced bread.

But if I'm not attracted to them, what's the point?"
l think the same as you. But who knows you might just might meet someone you fancy. It might make it more interesting to find out. Only a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been on a meet, without seeing a pic of the person you are going to meet?

You might think that I'm a shallow person, but I need to see if I like them first. No face pic, at least, no meet.

I do have my self respect after all.

Some women & couples just don't want to put them on.

So who's had a blind meet?

Yes.

I guess I have no self respect."

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