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By *nnasean OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Aycliffe

hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been swinging for 3 years and quite often give out advice to 'mature' people that are just starting out. Since when did enjoying sex with multiple partners become age restricted? Swinging should be a place inclusive of all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I understand what your saying, we know a number of 'young' people who are on here and in some ways they are better suited to this site than some of the 'mature' people on here.

That is the reason for age filters, it allows us all the ability to stop contact from those we consider too old or young to be on here. 18 is the legal as for an adult site, and I don't see anything inapproapriate about it (fem posting)

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Swinging is for anyone who wants it to be for them - you made your choice to come on here so let them make their own choice too

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think swinging is for anybody who wants it. Age is not necessarily an indicator of maturity anyway in my experience.

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By *elovetofuck2Couple
over a year ago

cannock

Don't see why age should be a issue, young or older, some 24 yr old school have been together since school maybe they just want to spice things up like mature couples, I think it's great young couples are getting into it, I'm 27 and just started swinging,there no age on enjoying it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 19 year olds with more maturity than some 40 year olds....it isn't just about the date on your passport!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I agree that it's not about age but maturity.

I've met a few younger guys that were more capable of this than some older ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here since 19 and left just once for a few months. I think your post is a bit of a sweeping generalisation of younger people on here! We have every right to be here just as much as older people and if I'm honest I know plenty of people nearly twice my age who feel the need to leave and come back on a bloody weekly basis near enough lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to them, I hope they have the time of there lives, I see there is a night for youngsters coming I hope it's a roaring success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread sums up your level of maturity in a nutshell!

You may also want to change the age of the women you're looking for on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about when you were 18-24, but there are a lot of mature "youngsters" on here. There may be the occasional immature person, but that can be true of any age!

If you're not attracted to that age group fine, but don't assume that we don't have a clue and shouldn't be allowed to be on here and have fun!

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

I wonder which is better. An 18-24 on here or a 16 and pregnant. It's a free world and fab has even made it better for us all by using age filters and wonder what age OP thinks someone should stop using fab at which is why you're deemed an adult at 18. Personally, I prefer being here now as I'm less busier with no family to look after, more stamina at the moment and no will to write any time soon haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may also want to change the age of the women you're looking for on your profile. "

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

Well I agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here since 19 and left just once for a few months. I think your post is a bit of a sweeping generalisation of younger people on here! We have every right to be here just as much as older people and if I'm honest I know plenty of people nearly twice my age who feel the need to leave and come back on a bloody weekly basis near enough lol! "

We first tried swinging at 22 and never looked back. The entire premise of the OP is heavily flawed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep you are looking for 18-99 years olds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see so many people agree on this thread. Met my first couple back before the internet on a phone line when I was just nearly an adult and felt totally comfortable and mature about it all. Never looked back!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

I strongly disagree with a lot of that stuff.

For example; "Swinging is for mature adults" According to who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay I'm a youngster

And yes, I'm probably not as good at swinging as the olders but in comparison with my friends outside the site I'm a little more.. Open minded shall we say.

I haven't slept with that many people and I don't plan to, I'm also in a relationship.

Which makes me a cheating youngster who doesn't have a clue about swinging, but I'm having fun and if people are happy to be a part of my fun I don't see the problem. - apart from being a cheat (obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that even relevant I feel like I just shared my life story for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone

I strongly disagree with a lot of that stuff.

For example; "Swinging is for mature adults" According to who?"

According to the OP.... Who meet 18-99 year olds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have preferences on age of people we prefer to meet. That's everyone's choice.

We don't think there is an age where people should enter the lifestyle just that whatever age you are, you should be of sound mind.

But we are probably a little jealous of the younger ones. Only because we wasn't having the 'fab' fun at their age.

Have fun all xx

Mrs x

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't see what all the fuss is about. Filter out those you don't want and talk to the ones you do.

I joined way back in like 2005/6 because I was a horny young fat guy not getting any. Instead of getting my leg over I actually learnt what this was all about. I have made some great freinds and really been educated in what's out there in the world.

Of course I still get just as little sex now as I did back then so somewhere I have tripped up ha ha

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

I wish I could report this thread for being absolutely daft. OP how silly to make thread complaining about there being so many young people yet your age range starts from 18yrs, unless you're trolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I could report this thread for being absolutely daft. OP how silly to make thread complaining about there being so many young people yet your age range starts from 18yrs, unless you're trolling "

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

Rubbish, but even if it wasn't, why does it matter if 1 minute they're* there and the next they're* gone? Are you looking for long term commitment from your swinging meets?

I can't stand patronising "mature" people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here since 19 and left just once for a few months. I think your post is a bit of a sweeping generalisation of younger people on here! We have every right to be here just as much as older people and if I'm honest I know plenty of people nearly twice my age who feel the need to leave and come back on a bloody weekly basis near enough lol! "

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I've been on here since 19 and left just once for a few months. I think your post is a bit of a sweeping generalisation of younger people on here! We have every right to be here just as much as older people and if I'm honest I know plenty of people nearly twice my age who feel the need to leave and come back on a bloody weekly basis near enough lol! "

There are probably some younger people that are horrified that people of 45 and above (some older than their parents) on fab. The answer is pretty obvious - if a profile doesn't match your requirements simply move on and find one that does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep loads of the little shits.

I like to put them over my knee and belt them...eat all their sweets, stuff like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we're young, but we've not considered our age as a problem. We are certainly here to stay.

A couple of any age can learn to be honest and communicative with the right dedication.

The people we have encountered have always been open.

We guess its always down to the couple or the individual, whether they feel comfortable with people our age.

A & C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread sums up your level of maturity in a nutshell!

You may also want to change the age of the women you're looking for on your profile. "

I couldn't have said it better

Emma x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I've found some of the younger blokes I've met in the 18-24 age group delightful. I'm 34. Similar experience with some of the much older ones. Age is just a number, crazy idea to propose a restriction. That's what filters are for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

At risk of what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "
yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging when I was 17. Now I'm turning 23 in July. Six years of swinging under my belt, and I daresay that it's the older folks who are in their 40s or more that mess people about more and make life difficult for others who swing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started swinging when I was 17. Now I'm turning 23 in July. Six years of swinging under my belt, and I daresay that it's the older folks who are in their 40s or more that mess people about more and make life difficult for others who swing! "
you're not really swinging at your age though and you're single so sewing your oats would be the definition ,couples form the basis of swinging and single people are their NSA playthings

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love the fact that there's a diversity of ages on the site. I'm friends with some people in their early twenties and they are just as mature as some people a lot older on here.

Plus they look lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started swinging when I was 17. Now I'm turning 23 in July. Six years of swinging under my belt, and I daresay that it's the older folks who are in their 40s or more that mess people about more and make life difficult for others who swing! you're not really swinging at your age though and you're single so sewing your oats would be the definition ,couples form the basis of swinging and single people are their NSA playthings "

Stop trolling. Single males are equally qualified to be swingers. You're on here as a single yourself. So look who's talking. Or are you also taking an ageist line and judging me as not enough to be a single swinger because I am younger than you?

Also, please stop with the emoticon spam. I've already blocked your profile so I don't want to see you still trying to talk to me, trolling or otherwise.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I was 24 when I first joined the scene

I have filtered of and on over the last 11 years and now when I go to clubs and see younger people I do think wtf but then I remember I was their age at one point

I remember at a social at Notts someone asking me why do you swing....10 years later I can give them the answer honestly and confidently

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

we love younger

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am middle aged now pmsl

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By *in man 84Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

So why have you got 18s on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in our 40s and feel we have to stick up for the younger people on here. To call people 18 to 24 kids is a offensive, they are young adults.

They can join the site like any other person and if you don't like younger adults then the simple answer is use the age filter.... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see there's people that don't mind us youngsters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah age doesnt matter too much - i do feel though when i see late teens early 20s that when i was that age i was never in - i wouldnt have had time for fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah age doesnt matter too much - i do feel though when i see late teens early 20s that when i was that age i was never in - i wouldnt have had time for fab"

We don't go out we're all too busy on the phones that we were born with stuck to our hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a swingers club once and an older couple behind us at the counter couldn't stop asking us and our friends how old we were and harping about our age. They said that people our age are the reason they don't go to regular clubs, and now we are going to swinging clubs. They seemed to genuinely not want is there and had no problem telling us.

Everyone we were with was over 25 years old.

What happened to open mindedness and inclusively? What happened to being friendly and welcoming?

And when all that fails, what happened to minding your own business and not worrying about what other people are doing?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah age doesnt matter too much - i do feel though when i see late teens early 20s that when i was that age i was never in - i wouldnt have had time for fab

We don't go out we're all too busy on the phones that we were born with stuck to our hand "

i blame the parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah age doesnt matter too much - i do feel though when i see late teens early 20s that when i was that age i was never in - i wouldnt have had time for fab

We don't go out we're all too busy on the phones that we were born with stuck to our hand

i blame the parents "

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to a swingers club once and an older couple behind us at the counter couldn't stop asking us and our friends how old we were and harping about our age. They said that people our age are the reason they don't go to regular clubs, and now we are going to swinging clubs. They seemed to genuinely not want is there and had no problem telling us.

Everyone we were with was over 25 years old.

What happened to open mindedness and inclusively? What happened to being friendly and welcoming?

And when all that fails, what happened to minding your own business and not worrying about what other people are doing? unfortunately chipperoo the communication gap between young and older is getting stretched even wider by the small minority of weirdos that exist ,I ignore convention but many don't ,oh and some can't relate to debate and see every comment as an insult people have varying opinions and some are engrained into them they can't help their reaction to certain situations ,one would have thought seeing attractive couples in a club would be a positive irrespective of age and after all couples form the basis of swinging they created the swinging scene ,singles can do as they please and are just additional little diversions for the happy couples

-Courtney "

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

I blame the parents

I'm perfect

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

What a pompous, arrogant, ignorant attitude.

You're probably happy to send these "kids" to go off and fight for the safety and freedoms you enjoy, but begrudge them choosing what kind of sex life they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to a swingers club once and an older couple behind us at the counter couldn't stop asking us and our friends how old we were and harping about our age. They said that people our age are the reason they don't go to regular clubs, and now we are going to swinging clubs. They seemed to genuinely not want is there and had no problem telling us.

Everyone we were with was over 25 years old.

What happened to open mindedness and inclusively? What happened to being friendly and welcoming?

And when all that fails, what happened to minding your own business and not worrying about what other people are doing?

-Courtney "

If we're being honest you probably made her feel insecure about being less attractive than you. That doesn't excuse their rudeness but I find the most passive aggressive people in life are always hopelessly insecure.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone

I strongly disagree with a lot of that stuff.

For example; "Swinging is for mature adults" According to who?

According to the OP.... Who meet 18-99 year olds "

I try not to be critical of people on here... But I don't agree with anything in the op!

18-24 are legally and scientifically adults, not kids.

Who says swinging is for mature adults?!? Where's that idea from?

1 minute they're here, next they're gone. That may be true of some, just like any other group on here.

Old enough to sign up... Yes I agree!

Do they have a clue... I'd guess that most of the males don't, I'd guess that some do.

Too young? Again, according to who?

Putting themselves at risk? What risk? The same risk that older adults take?

I'm baffled with this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 24 year old woman. I've been swinging for 3 years. I'm mature and very experienced. Why shouldn't I be here? I get from this site what I don't get from meeting people in real life. Focus on your own lives rather than other people's.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

More the better, it would get quite dull if we were all old. A 24yr old running around an event, party, sure can liven the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just an opinion ,one opinion ,don't lose your hair over it debate it and remain calm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure what age is the "correct" age for launching yourself into the crazy world of swinging.

Equally however I am not completely comfortable when I see 18 year olds with profiles.

Maybe it is because I am a parent and recognise how immature my kids were at that age. They have all the confidence in the world but perhaps lack the wisdom that comes with life.

Anyway I am a bit on the fence with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just an opinion ,one opinion ,don't lose your hair over it debate it and remain calm "

Yes, remain calm

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"It's just an opinion ,one opinion ,don't lose your hair over it debate it and remain calm

Yes, remain calm

"

Calm down Courtney...

You're starting to fly off the handle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

Having been on the site just 5 weeks do you really have a clue???.

Your profile states your meet 18-99 year olds so are you willing to meet those your moaning about?.

Rather than saying it's no place for them it might be worth you adjusting your profile and what your looking for!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just an opinion ,one opinion ,don't lose your hair over it debate it and remain calm

Yes, remain calm

Calm down Courtney...

You're starting to fly off the handle...

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "
what an utter nonsense we started at a very young age. And we are just mature as anyone older than us get grip too yourself

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

I must of missed the memo that stated its for mature adults only.

Is there an age that you have to leave once your too old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So at 30 of must be an old twat, shit that's not good O well will have to become a sugar daddy. After a nap of course xx

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Isn't it interesting when people start saying or writing "no offence...." but then go on and say the exact thing that causes offence!

You are a swinger, man! Be open-minded!!! That is the epitome of a true swinger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just an opinion ,one opinion ,don't lose your hair over it debate it and remain calm

Yes, remain calm

Calm down Courtney...

You're starting to fly off the handle...

"
I'm jealous you actually get paid to give your opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to start somewhere.

If you started later, you'd just me more "mature" and yet just as inexperienced (like me), so let intellect speak for maturity and not age. So long as they're adult, don't knock them.

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

When people say "No offence" it pleases me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if they have been rejected by ladies who are "youngsters" and now are spitting out the dummy. At 16 you can get married, have children, get a full time job and be charged as an adult if you've been caught for crimes, at 18 you can vote, buy alcohol and cigarettes, own and drive a car. At what point does any of that say you're too young to do anything? Maturity depends on the person, lucky for me I grew up quick and I've been frequenting Fab since I was 18, and never been told Im too young for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them "

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then!

"

Sorry I've just realised that was aimed at trademark...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then! "

Love this lol to be fair though kopite if ever someone could make someone change their preference U could well be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

Your justification for the issue you have is the fact they come and go. But this happens with all ages of site members not just younger ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then!

Love this lol to be fair though kopite if ever someone could make someone change their preference U could well be it "

Beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then!

Love this lol to be fair though kopite if ever someone could make someone change their preference U could well be it "

Hahaha aw shucks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then!

Love this lol to be fair though kopite if ever someone could make someone change their preference U could well be it

Beat me to it!"

Up ur game Mav !!! Faster faster

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I understand that some older people on here don't like to meet younger people who are or could be the same age as their children and that's fine. However, the reasons you have given, OP, are quite ridiculous. You appear to have a bee in your bonnet about younger swingers and are saying anything that you think fits your narrative.

We have been on here for 4 years and it has been amazing. Not only have we had loads of fun exploring ourselves and others, we've met some of our now closest friends on here. We've had all types of meets, been to parties, clubs and even Cap d'Agde twice. We're of legal age to do so, so why not? Personally I think it's great that an increasing number of younger people feel comfortable and able to explore and expand sexually, and not feel constrained by social norms and expectations. R.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is age but a number, as long as their is a mutual fancy for each other who really cares what the age gap is cos I'm sure I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks at op, been here 5 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people in their late teens and early twenties with far more maturity than some people in their late thirties and early forties!

Age doesn't make a person. With that said though I wouldn't play with people in that age range purely to keep my own moral compass pointing true north!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone yes I kind of agree but they are adults so I suppose not much you can do about it ,its all a learning curve for them

You agree and yet you've messaged me asking for a meet? Ok then! "
I don't recognise your username ?? And also if you read all my input you would see its not a problem for me but besides all that I don't actually see myself as a swinger ,I think the ops point although crudely put has a point where 18 year olds are concerned and as I also said swinging was created by couples ,single people irrespective of age aren't swinging they are having sex with whoever they please and the thread is about the OPs opinion and we all have different opinions plus if you are quoting me read all my points not just the one that suits your dig x

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By *nnasean OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Aycliffe

not having a go at youngester personnly , just that i have a daughter not far of this age and would not feel happy her been on here as ther is some people that are not who they are so as a father yer im im expressing my view . fair enopugh a lot of the mature adutls on here are si fing stuck up thinking they are it and better than everyone if thats the case go to a site where you belong then no because its free . if it was your daughter you found on here would yopu be happy enough to allow them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to understand us oldies have kids that are older than the age range 18-24 and that to influences our opinion ,we are on fab so we are kinda breaking the rules of acceptable convention and I love breaking rules even at my age ,I did say also " I kinda agree" and then went on to say but "you are adults you can do as you please " I am not ageist at all I get on well with young and old in life and on here and I don't go to clubs so that aspect of OPs thread wouldn't affect me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not having a go at youngester personnly , just that i have a daughter not far of this age and would not feel happy her been on here as ther is some people that are not who they are so as a father yer im im expressing my view . fair enopugh a lot of the mature adutls on here are si fing stuck up thinking they are it and better than everyone if thats the case go to a site where you belong then no because its free . if it was your daughter you found on here would yopu be happy enough to allow them ."

What happens if your daughter found you on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not having a go at youngester personnly , just that i have a daughter not far of this age and would not feel happy her been on here as ther is some people that are not who they are so as a father yer im im expressing my view . fair enopugh a lot of the mature adutls on here are si fing stuck up thinking they are it and better than everyone if thats the case go to a site where you belong then no because its free . if it was your daughter you found on here would yopu be happy enough to allow them ."
but in fairness to the youngsters you should be leading by example as " adults" themselves they can do as they please wether its right or wrong is a little hypocritical of us oldies to say but its an opinion and we are all free to voice it and expect to be criticised for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not having a go at youngester personnly , just that i have a daughter not far of this age and would not feel happy her been on here as ther is some people that are not who they are so as a father yer im im expressing my view . fair enopugh a lot of the mature adutls on here are si fing stuck up thinking they are it and better than everyone if thats the case go to a site where you belong then no because its free . if it was your daughter you found on here would yopu be happy enough to allow them ."

That could apply to your parents too, no matter how old you are

They still wouldn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as my son or his mates are not on here then it don't matter lmao

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

And the op is looking for 18 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not having a go at youngester personnly , just that i have a daughter not far of this age and would not feel happy her been on here as ther is some people that are not who they are so as a father yer im im expressing my view . fair enopugh a lot of the mature adutls on here are si fing stuck up thinking they are it and better than everyone if thats the case go to a site where you belong then no because its free . if it was your daughter you found on here would yopu be happy enough to allow them ."

This is just a case of "other." Many adults wouldn't want their kids on here, at whatever age. Many kids wouldn't want their parents on here, at any age. A vast majority of the people here are neither your kids nor your parents. So don't worry about them.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is just a case of "other." Many adults wouldn't want their kids on here, at whatever age. Many kids wouldn't want their parents on here, at any age. A vast majority of the people here are neither your kids nor your parents. So don't worry about them.

-Courtney "

the bat thuds against the ground as Courtney smashes the ball out of the park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is just a case of "other." Many adults wouldn't want their kids on here, at whatever age. Many kids wouldn't want their parents on here, at any age. A vast majority of the people here are neither your kids nor your parents. So don't worry about them.

-Courtney

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Grand Slam, baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happens if your daughter found you on here ?"

I was about to say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happens if your daughter found you on here ?

"

Ask her for a verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm jealous of the little tykes. They are growing up in a time when sexuality and sexual desires are accepted a lot more.

Sex has become more of an accepted recreational activity than it used to be. Hence the increase in sales of lingerie, sex toys etc etc.

As already stated we are all free to set our age preferences.

As far as sons/daughters being on here, as long as they are being safe and having a good time, it would be hypocrytical to disprove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down alot due to my age

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By *intage guyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

I started with my gf at the time in the 70's with the swing scene at age of 17.My GF wanted to try the swing party scene and we advertised in a contact mag called "Experience "

We were not to young for Sex,

Sexualy in fact we were most probably having more sex than the matures people we met.

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By *argaret JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I go out in Birmingham every other sat night, I chat, dance, drink and laugh with a lot of very nice clever young people Girls / Boys aged from 19 upwards their enjoying themselves, exploring their sexuality whether it be straight, gay or lesbian. Who are we to denigh them a resource to explore. They come on site maybe get embarased or hastled then leave after a while come back to try again have you never tryed something disliked it then tried it again later and its been more to your taste, that's growing up. We should be encouraging them to make their own minds up not forcing our preferences on them.

Oops now it sounds like a soap box, sorry

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Personally I'm jealous of the little tykes. They are growing up in a time when sexuality and sexual desires are accepted a lot more.

Sex has become more of an accepted recreational activity than it used to be. Hence the increase in sales of lingerie, sex toys etc etc.

As already stated we are all free to set our age preferences.

As far as sons/daughters being on here, as long as they are being safe and having a good time, it would be hypocrytical to disprove."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of the most grounded fems we have met and chat to is 27 - more sensible than a lot of the 'more mature' people we have chatted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

Some young people are more grown up and mature than some older people.

Nobody is forcing you to sleep with them - leave them to it.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Maturity has little to do with age, as you have clearly demonstrated.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

The old saying "if you're old enough then you're good enough" seems appropriate.

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By *astbourne22Man
over a year ago

hastings

Probably already been said but it's a sex site for nsa sex so no complications, everyone's here for the same thing so where better to look for it than a swinging site. If your not interested in that particular age range then filter it out. I love mature women so any over my way don't hesitate to get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'm jealous of the little tykes. They are growing up in a time when sexuality and sexual desires are accepted a lot more.

Sex has become more of an accepted recreational activity than it used to be. Hence the increase in sales of lingerie, sex toys etc etc.

As already stated we are all free to set our age preferences.

As far as sons/daughters being on here, as long as they are being safe and having a good time, it would be hypocrytical to disprove.

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By *intage guyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

In the 70's myself and girlfriend at the time at age of 18 went to parties and met others and had some great fun. Sex is not age restricted for the matures , what age is mature ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on here primarily to meet men and not boys. We have met men from 18 to 70 and had no end of messages from boys aged 18 to 70.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone "

Baaa humbug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met 19 year olds with more maturity than some 40 year olds....it isn't just about the date on your passport!"

This exactly. I've seen younger couples with a more healthy relationship dynamic than many older couples. I've seen older couples where it looks as though the fires gone out and they're just throwing what they can to keep things going.

You really shouldn't be acting like age is the defining factor in maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is ironic coming from a website about "open mindedness" :D

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"hi we have noticed on here lately the amount of what i would call kids 18-24 olds coming on this site . no offence to them but swinginging is for mature adults not these kids as 1 minute there there next there gone . yer there old enough to sigh up but do they really have a clue . sorry to me still to young and putting thmselves openly at risk to anyone

I strongly disagree with a lot of that stuff.

For example; "Swinging is for mature adults" According to who?"

I strongly disagree with all of it actually! How mature are you by posting your OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met 19 year olds with more maturity than some 40 year olds....it isn't just about the date on your passport!

This exactly. I've seen younger couples with a more healthy relationship dynamic than many older couples. I've seen older couples where it looks as though the fires gone out and they're just throwing what they can to keep things going.

You really shouldn't be acting like age is the defining factor in maturity. "

Preach it!

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

Our first meet were 'youngsters' and they're our longest fab friends. We love the fact people no longer need to wait until their 40s to discover the scene, so if you don't want them then send them this way

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