FabSwingers.com forum: First meet after joining???

By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Quick one this..

How long did it take for you to go on a meet after you first joined fab.

Looking for a record here..

My first meet was three weeks after joining

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

A little under 24hrs.

It was nearly a car crash and lasted approx 8 mins.

WTF?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The first meet I went on from fab, with a guy I met on fab and not knowing from anywhere else took six months.

I do know a guy who got a meet after being here 45 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A month for me

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

Two or three weeks had a lot of time wasters first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within a week for my first, the second was a week later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two months after I joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't really remember...a couple of weeks maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting

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By *icarswife45Woman
over a year ago

wiltshire town near Bath

The next day it was very exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 months, I'm a fussy fucker..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was about 3 months or so for us.

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

About a month seems the average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I joined? About 9 months or so, after I started actually using the site to look for people? About 4/5 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick one this..

How long did it take for you to go on a meet after you first joined fab.

Looking for a record here..

My first meet was three weeks after joining "
I met someone day after I joined for a social

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Eight hours.

I was very fortunate.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not sure as I joined then forgot about it all but after I actively started looking, about 3 weeks, same as op.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Five weeks to the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was about 5/6 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three months but she didn't fancy me in real life, so I'm not counting it LOL

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

The day after I joined.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Can't remember but remember first social at rios many years ago and not knowing where to look

Boobs and bits mmmmmmm

I was walking round with a hardon and was so embarrassed

The funny one of the couples at that social ended up being good friends

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

So how long did it take you after joining before your first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back over my profile, I'd calculate about 3-4 weeks?

Which isn't bad for me, really

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Quick one this..

How long did it take for you to go on a meet after you first joined fab.

Looking for a record here..

My first meet was three weeks after joining "

took my time and got a feel for people and the place..... so no rush for me at all....

so i started meeting people after about 2-3 months into the place.....

i think because my approach was different i din't go thru the angst that a lot of people seem to

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Over 13 months for me because I joined then just left my profile dormant for ages. I only have a few Fabs here but more on Fg's.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

A few days.

I'm not as stupid anymore though and I'd never do that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a few hours

had them queuing out the door

was hard to decide who first tbf

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Within about 10 days we met a couple but she was nearly 9 months pregnant which they didn't tell us before the meet. Then had a couple of no-shows before braving a club - best thing we ever did

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By *ndercover2016Couple
over a year ago

turriff

About a hour!!! Got let down by someone on another site but had house to ourselves so joined fab and got a instant offer from someone in the next village. That was our first ever 3some. ... we don't play that close to home anymore !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 48hrs only because I have high standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I had been swinging in chams. All the people we met asked if we were on fab so we joined and got verified instantly.

Then I joined a few months later because so many people thought my pics were my wife. I got my own veris for my own solo meets within minutes of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months and counting!

Tbf I'm rubbish at talking so unless I up my game, the wait will continue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick one this..

How long did it take for you to go on a meet after you first joined fab.

Looking for a record here..

My first meet was three weeks after joining "
I joined and chatted to this woman who I still chat to we met the same day but were chatting within 5 minutes of me joining does that count am I the winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was within 2 weeks. A very spontaneous meet with a nice lady.

Great fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are extremely fortunate.

A well written profile, good pictures,location and sheer luck has probably something to do with it.

I'm not alone on this but I'm 6 months in and still havent had a meet. Im Remaining positive though

even though it can feel frustrating at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

less than a month

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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago

northwest

About two weeks......mainly due to study commitments.....would have been sooner x

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

4hrs between registration and fucking.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

A week

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Still counting I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant remember but it was 3 or 5 years after I joined lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within minutes!

went to a club, was told Fab is the best site, so joined while at the club and got my first veri from there lol.

Is that cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my singles profile.. Still yet to happen, on my couples profile a few months.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield

4 years,364 days,59 mins and 59 seconds, if it would have took 5 years would have stopped trying.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

under 24hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 weeks

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Can't actually remember. My memory is rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over a week for my first and only meet so far

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

The first was after a couple of months, then nothing for 2 years, then nothing for a further 2 years, but 2 meets in the last month. I think the New Year brought people out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a previous profile to this one and I actually cannot remember my first meet...can't have been good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 2-4 weeks I believe

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

With someone that we hadn't met previously from other sites, about a month or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet with someone off Fab was about two months before I joined the site... but that's cheating.

First social was about two weeks after I joined. First vaguely sexual meet was about two months after I joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 months - we're choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happened yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too long ago to remember...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close to 3 months.

I was about to cancel my membership and then I went for a coffee with someone

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

About a week I think..

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Um....still hasn't happened.

But it's been 6 months since I had sex so i think my pussy has healed over now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within minutes!

went to a club, was told Fab is the best site, so joined while at the club and got my first veri from there lol.

Is that cheating?

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yes furry muff that's cheating clubs are different

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I took ages ás I get really nervous. But it has been nearly a year since I last met someone off FAB and about 6 months since I last had sex! Grim!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined, left profile dormant but within a week when I started actively searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month. There was a really good reason for waiting that long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of weeks

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

First time on Fab - 4 months give or take

Second round on Fab - next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two months after I joined. "

Same here and still see her regularly lol

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Half hour

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

Was about 2 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a week. We still meet up twice a year for a weekend in Devon.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Joined January last year, met a couple for a social (she was heavily pregnant so nothing came of it) then arranged a meet with a guy in February who went UNLOS and didn't turn up, so went Chams for first time which went well. first actual sex meet was in May so 3-4 months from joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next day for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its well over a year ..may be 2 now . Ans still not meets .

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Think it was about a couple of weeks - that was over 10 years ago and we're still playing with that couple.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my single profile a couple of weeks.miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days I think

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

On my old couples profile just over a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months, we had spoke to lots of couples since we joined but were unsure if we should take the plunge or not. After a couple of months we got a invite to a house party and just decided to go for it! Still remember the feeling of knocking on the door now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same day I joined as single female, but couples profile took a few months

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By *onguehappyMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Within three weeks. One was set up for within a week but female fell ill

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

Set up on Fab, wasn't active for a few months, when we started to use Fab is was within two weeks

Love it

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By *hampagne and TrufflesWoman
over a year ago

Bradford

On my single profile (it's no longer active) it was less than a week. Got invited to a gang bang. Turned out to be my best mates sister in law. I never told him.

On our couples profile as we were swingers when we met it was about the same. A couple that the Mrs already knew. That was my test, to see if I could do it when in a relationship. I passed

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By *ast69erMan
over a year ago

London/Essex

"Few hours. "

I'm not surprised !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

How long before your first fab meet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick one this..

How long did it take for you to go on a meet after you first joined fab.

Looking for a record here..

My first meet was three weeks after joining "

Well we only really started using the site properly together yesterday and had a meet last night

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By *appyjack890Man
over a year ago

North loncolnshire

About two to three weeks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socially almost immediately but personal lives haven't turned that social into more yet but that's hopefully going to be sorted soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On couple profile made early mistakes and had time wasters etc. Decided to go social route. So first meet was social after about three weeks. Was mmf we were looking for, met 4 single guys all of whom were really married (not that we cared).

First choice guy got jealous seeing veris from other guys and ended up blocked.

Second choice not available at right time.

Had first play meet with 3rd choice and he was a little disappointing.

Later 2nd choice guy who was brilliant. Exactly how we'd hoped a threesome would be. About 4 or 5 weeks to that meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 days

Approx four days of actually looking once I'd settled in. Took a few months to work up the courage to go to a club though.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It took a couple of hours, only took so long cos I had to wait for him to finish work and get to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here about 2 weeks and still waiting for someone to take my Fab cherry :D

On another site it took me about a month though

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