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"My guess is in dress sizes: Curvy = 12/14 Ample = 14-18 Large = 18+ Or perhaps we need to apply and MOT style shock absorber test - the wobble test, slap their arse and: Curvy = wobbles 2-3 times Ample = Wobbles 4-5 times Large = Keeps on going and going and going " lol , I think some women get confused with ample and curvy, I think they should try your test in future | |||
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"Who cares? It's the lady I'm interested..." I do hence the post | |||
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"Anyway - fabulous - does it for me every time! Any woman who has the confidence to say their figure is fabulous gives me an instant hard on..." I have a fabulous body | |||
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"My guess is in dress sizes: Curvy = 12/14 Ample = 14-18 Large = 18+ Or perhaps we need to apply and MOT style shock absorber test - the wobble test, slap their arse and: Curvy = wobbles 2-3 times Ample = Wobbles 4-5 times Large = Keeps on going and going and going " the wobble factor is definitely the benchmark | |||
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"My guess is in dress sizes: Curvy = 12/14 Ample = 14-18 Large = 18+ Or perhaps we need to apply and MOT style shock absorber test - the wobble test, slap their arse and: Curvy = wobbles 2-3 times Ample = Wobbles 4-5 times Large = Keeps on going and going and going Forget the wobble test...just spank me! " | |||
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"you guys are obsessed with size ffs" Oh let em amuse themselves! | |||
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"curvy = yes ample = yes large = yes whatever size = yes personality = depends " your not choosey then, or are you suggesting personality is more important than looks | |||
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"surely high comes into it too? dress sizes will look different on women of different hight but i have to say theres far to many women on here who use curvy when they quite obviously are not im mean im not being funny but if you site down and have 3 bellies thats not curvy its fat to me curvy is someone slim with a femanine shape not someone over weight im a size 16 and about 5ft8 and have always put large as my build but ive seen women on here much bigger than me who have average or curvy " Yes, but who are you to question how someone sees themself?!! If they had extra large I'd tick it as I am. I too have seen women my dress size but much shorter describe themselves as curvy. Hell, I nearly choked on my cappuccino the other day when a very plain looking couple in my view, posted about the lack of attractive couples like them! Good to see in the recession the talking mirrors industry is doing a roaring trade! The point is that's how they see themselves others don't, hence their lack of meets, although they'll never recognise that. Just as someone who describes themselves as curvy might realise large is more appropriate when their upteenth meet goes back to the car and never returns! But people are allowed to be delusional! | |||
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" Yes, but who are you to question how someone sees themself?!! " do you think its how they see themselves tho or do you think that a lot of women just cant bring themselves to put large because they arnt happy with their size? | |||
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"The day a tick box on a website influences how I feel about myself, is the day I curl up and shart shaking in the corner. There certainly are a lot of women who put curvy and do not match my understanding of the word.... I always beleived it was the classic hour glass shape (in a variety of sizes). However, I think the greater lack of confidence is shown by women who imply they are bigger than they are.... almost as if telling people they are a bbw and then turning up as a plumpish size 16 will be a pleasant suprise." humm dont know, not offen i disagree with you but i think i have to on this one lol im a size 16 and i class myself as a BBW and i have large on my profile, thats not because i want guys to meet me and think...oh ive struck gold here shes not that big after all lol nor is it down to my lack of confidance its because in my eyes i am big, i've had 3 kids so have a very saggy belly and boobs that are 3 foot lower than they was 20 years ago lol, big arse and big thights, i just do see myself as a big bird and i like to be honest | |||
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"The day a tick box on a website influences how I feel about myself, is the day I curl up and shart shaking in the corner. There certainly are a lot of women who put curvy and do not match my understanding of the word.... I always beleived it was the classic hour glass shape (in a variety of sizes). However, I think the greater lack of confidence is shown by women who imply they are bigger than they are.... almost as if telling people they are a bbw and then turning up as a plumpish size 16 will be a pleasant suprise. humm dont know, not offen i disagree with you but i think i have to on this one lol im a size 16 and i class myself as a BBW and i have large on my profile, thats not because i want guys to meet me and think...oh ive struck gold here shes not that big after all lol nor is it down to my lack of confidance its because in my eyes i am big, i've had 3 kids so have a very saggy belly and boobs that are 3 foot lower than they was 20 years ago lol, big arse and big thights, i just do see myself as a big bird and i like to be honest" But as you say... it is your lack of confidence which steers you to selecting 'large'. | |||
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" But as you say... it is your lack of confidence which steers you to selecting 'large'." i put large because i am large, even if your the most confidant person that dont change your size, i would still be big built if i looked at myself everyday in the mirror and thought...god your gorgeous lol i do understand what you mean tho but i think most people see a size 16 as the start of being a BBW, or whatever you wnat to call it, you can be big and sexy, to me sexy dont come in a dress size, attraction comes in a dress size, sexy is attitude and you can find someone attractive and not sexy All becuse someone can look at themself and know they are big does not mean they dont like themselves ive never had any problem finding meets on here or any other site i dont have to 'dress myself up' in size in order to get meets i see no point in that at all | |||
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"It worries me as a Mother to a girl that is definately not large... she is a size 12, and quite tall.. but she calls herself fat because apparently a 12 is the new 16... Shocking really.. Until a size 16 I wouldnt even say it wasnt slim... :D but then I would be quite happy at a size 16. :D at a size 12 I am slim.. almost to slim :D but I have an hour glass figure no matter what size.. :D Katie.x" If you are a size 12 and have an hourglass figure you are curvy | |||
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"you are a size 12 and have an hourglass figure you are curvy " Guess it depends on how you look at it.. I like my curves... but at 12 my daughter would be upset if she was refered to as curvy.. even though she is.. she just isnt straight up and down.. I would think most women are curvy, women are meant to have curves.. Waists tuck in, hips slightly larger etc.. its a sign of being a woman.. At a 12 I am to me slim, at a ten I am skinny and lack what I think are womananly curves.. Seeing as I am an 18-20 at the moment its neither here nor there.. lol I just think that there is to much put on size.. and it sends out the wrong signal to the young girls. Katie.x | |||
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"My guess is in dress sizes: Curvy = 12/14 Ample = 14-18 Large = 18+ Or perhaps we need to apply and MOT style shock absorber test - the wobble test, slap their arse and: Curvy = wobbles 2-3 times Ample = Wobbles 4-5 times Large = Keeps on going and going and going " I have clothes that fit me in my wardrobe ranging from a size 12 to a size 20 - work that one out! LOL | |||
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"I googled the average size woman and found this gem posted in The Independent. It was written in June 2000. Monday, 26 June 2000 The dress size of the average British woman has grown from 12 to 14 in just over a decade, researchers said yesterday. The dress size of the average British woman has grown from 12 to 14 in just over a decade, researchers said yesterday. Marks & Spencer last commissioned a study 12 years ago when the average bust was a B cup but the survey has found a C cup is the average today. Fattier diets, lack of exercise, and the contraceptive pill are among the reasons given. The chain has now altered its sizes to fit the curvier proportions of modern women, and will be replacing size 12 mannequins with newer models that reflect the change. Researchers spent a year measuring 2,500 women, and found the average woman is now 36C-28-38, is about 5ft 4in tall, and has size six feet. David Rowlinson, who co-ordinated the survey, said: "Modern women are taller, with bigger frames, larger hips and breasts. There's nothing wrong with being a size 14, it's just the way most women are." So we're a decade on does this mean the average is now a 16? But don't worry It's just the way women are. David Rowlinson says so!" If you google some more , yes you will find the studies involving the great number of women do put the average size as a 16 for women in the UK. | |||
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" If you google some more , yes you will find the studies involving the great number of women do put the average size as a 16 for women in the UK." Ah but do the more up to date articles have the David Rowlinson assurance that its ok... | |||
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"Nigella is one sexy woman" I couldn't agree more. Shes one person that seems to have gotten sexier and more comfortable with herself as shes gotten bigger. | |||
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" im a size 16 and about 5ft8 and have always put large as my build but ive seen women on here much bigger than me who have average or curvy " II had an e.mail sent to me today. It was a nostalgic look back at women`s aprons(!) and there was an image of an apron pattern for "14/16 medium" | |||
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" im a size 16 and about 5ft8 and have always put large as my build but ive seen women on here much bigger than me who have average or curvy II had an e.mail sent to me today. It was a nostalgic look back at women`s aprons(!) and there was an image of an apron pattern for "14/16 medium"" okay.... this thread is now completely thrown into oblivion for me - all I wanna know is what sort of places do you hang out in that send mails about aprons!!!!! Detail my friend, detail!!!! | |||
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" agree, since when has a size 12 been curvy! curvy starts @ size 14." i think you can be a size 12 and curvy, curvy is a body shape not a size, if you are slim but maintain a femanine shape then your curvy | |||
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" agree, since when has a size 12 been curvy! curvy starts @ size 14. i think you can be a size 12 and curvy, curvy is a body shape not a size, if you are slim but maintain a femanine shape then your curvy" I agree Im a 12 and have an hourglass shape | |||
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"you guys are obsessed with size ffs" I hope that wasn't general! lol! Unless we want to open this up to women's obsession with "size!" | |||
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" agree, since when has a size 12 been curvy! curvy starts @ size 14. i think you can be a size 12 and curvy, curvy is a body shape not a size, if you are slim but maintain a femanine shape then your curvy I agree Im a 12 and have an hourglass shape" agree too I am 14 and have an hourglass shape with a tendency to peachy around the bum. | |||
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"16's normal" There is nothing "normal" on ths site . It amazes me every day | |||
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"I love women of all sizes, I'm equal opportunites horn dog " love that horn dog , lol x | |||
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"Height can be a factor too of course in relation to size. Personally - its more about the person and their personality than mere size. However and with fear of contradicting myself - I recently was propositioned by a lady of size 34, though I'm sure she was a lovely person this was somewhat outside my comfort zone!" i think if people are honest a size 34 would be out of most peoples comfort zone | |||
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"Height can be a factor too of course in relation to size. Personally - its more about the person and their personality than mere size. However and with fear of contradicting myself - I recently was propositioned by a lady of size 34, though I'm sure she was a lovely person this was somewhat outside my comfort zone! i think if people are honest a size 34 would be out of most peoples comfort zone " maybe not lol | |||
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