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Are there secret signs of "the swinger?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is probably a stupid question - I've heard of symbols such as ankle bracelets that let people know that couples are swingers.

Are there actually any people out there who use these sorts of symbols, or has it all moved online to sites like this?

To me, there's a certain lack of spontaneity from online contact, whereas when I'm out and about, I'm always looking at people and asking myself, 'are they swingers??' and how would I know.

What are people's thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out for the secret handshake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and that is...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and that is...?"

A secret

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anklets, toe rings and rings on thumbs are apparently worn to indicate swingers. The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be a platinum member to know it

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"You need to be a platinum member to know it"

Someones going to be in trouble...The mods don't like us talking about what you said...See I never mentioned the metal there so I'll be ok

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East


"Anklets, toe rings and rings on thumbs are apparently worn to indicate swingers. The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers.... "

We have pampas grass haha

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Purple and yellow stripes clothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anklets, toe rings and rings on thumbs are apparently worn to indicate swingers. The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers....

We have pampas grass haha "
We do as well.....and it was the wife that planted it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a 'Fab' pin badge to wear

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I want a 'Fab' pin badge to wear "
I've looked for a thunderbirds badge that says F.A.B. But no luck

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We've heard that the secret sign is pretending to sneeze into a hanky, while saying 'aaahdoyafancyafuckchooo!' really quickly.

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By *ophie SteveCouple
over a year ago

Camborne

The pampas grass idea always makes me laugh. So if we see some growing in a garden does that mean we should go and knock on the door and ask them if they fancy a shag?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've heard that the secret sign is pretending to sneeze into a hanky, while saying 'aaahdoyafancyafuckchooo!' really quickly. "

Best answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pampas grass idea always makes me laugh. So if we see some growing in a garden does that mean we should go and knock on the door and ask them if they fancy a shag?! "
It could be worse, imagine if it was an Oak tree with a tree house playroom as the signal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See i could get away with a fab badge as its my initials lol x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I find waving my knickers in the air works a treat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wear "where wally" glasses and hat you're a swinger in my house

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Pampas grass is a sure sign as is the hot tub

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I must say when someone in the paper says they have a hot tub I do thinks they have are a swinger

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Anklets, toe rings and rings on thumbs are apparently worn to indicate swingers. The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers.... "

It's not a silly one at all. Years ago, there was a road near me that was well known as having lots of adult parties. Every participant grew pampas grass in their front gardens. This is absolutely true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has a bracelet that says "fuck me" but it's so small that if you can read it you probably already are.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If you are out and about perusing the countryside and people are fucking in the car park then they are swingers for sure, it's a sure sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt there a thing where you tie your carrier bags to the front of your trolley?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a 'Fab' pin badge to wear "

I have a necklace. H&M used to sell alphabet necklaces where you could write any words on your chain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't suppose I'd get very far with a point and then a simulated blowjob action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bowl full of keys by the front door n don't forget the fish sign on the back of a car

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Didn't they used to sell chameleons broaches years ago in paperback swinger contact magazines?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt there a thing where you tie your carrier bags to the front of your trolley? "

Shit!!!! I've just come back from Tesco and that's exactly where I put my carrier bags.

I wondered why people were winking at me.....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Walking like John Wayne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's extra high heels for the ladies and extra tight around the ass pants for the men

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London


"Isnt there a thing where you tie your carrier bags to the front of your trolley?

Shit!!!! I've just come back from Tesco and that's exactly where I put my carrier bags.

I wondered why people were winking at me..... "

LOL

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By *smfuncplCouple
over a year ago

WESTON SUPER MARE

We just ask "Are you on fab" if they look at you blank you just say " I said you look fab" lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GB sticker on the back of a car is known to stand for gang bang and is a sure sign they are swingers.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"GB sticker on the back of a car is known to stand for gang bang and is a sure sign they are swingers. "

Closely followed by the fish symbol....I am sure I have read that on here before

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It's when you buy a box of 20 extra strong condoms in a well known supermarket

Hey it was cheaper than getting 12

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We have a Chams sticker on our car and for years nobody has either recognized it or asked what it is! Same goes for a Chams rubber bracelet and a Chams pendant R wore abroad one holiday. The swingers we have got together with after non-arranged meets have all been the result of conversations getting around to the subject eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find myself wondering if someone is on fab. If a person says "oh that's fab" or such like I'm ooer are you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got chameleons sticker in my car window

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I always find myself wondering if someone is on fab. If a person says "oh that's fab" or such like I'm ooer are you on here "

Likewise if you see them eating a Fab ice lolly.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I always find myself wondering if someone is on fab. If a person says "oh that's fab" or such like I'm ooer are you on here "
we do that all the time, drop the word "fab" in constantly (well if in company with someone we like!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I wear a Fabswingers Tshirt... It has my profile name and contact details..

Look out for me

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Yeah I wear a Fabswingers Tshirt... It has my profile name and contact details..

Look out for me "

Fab are missing a trick here, fab merchandise could be a big hit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I wear a Fabswingers Tshirt... It has my profile name and contact details..

Look out for me "

Nearly spat my red wine at that one (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I wear a Fabswingers Tshirt... It has my profile name and contact details..

Look out for me "

verifications on the back?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"The pampas grass idea always makes me laugh. So if we see some growing in a garden does that mean we should go and knock on the door and ask them if they fancy a shag?! It could be worse, imagine if it was an Oak tree with a tree house playroom as the signal! "

We have pampas grass growing outside our local hospital...

Should perhaps think of relocating it to outside the GUM clinic...

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes put a little fish symbol in the back of your car

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

A different car parked overnight outside my place every other night might give a hint to the neighbours !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving a oooozy com trail....

Oh and a sheer blouse and no bra...

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Before the internet took of, it used to be a blue case in the window.

Heard it on a late night radio program.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cherry shaped air freshener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I wear a Fabswingers Tshirt... It has my profile name and contact details..

Look out for me

verifications on the back?"

Naturally...

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

This place made us look at most couples and think do they swing? And can never here or say the word fab without swinging coming to mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find waving my knickers in the air works a treat! "

Ooh, even in the freezer aisle in the supermarket??

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I find waving my knickers in the air works a treat!

Ooh, even in the freezer aisle in the supermarket?? "

Are you mad? It's far too chilly in the freezer section. I save my knicker waving for the biscuit aisle.

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers.... "

I think this was true in California circa 1976 haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find waving my knickers in the air works a treat!

Ooh, even in the freezer aisle in the supermarket??

Are you mad? It's far too chilly in the freezer section. I save my knicker waving for the biscuit aisle. "

Ah I see, watch out for the hob knobs then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place made us look at most couples and think do they swing? And can never here or say the word fab without swinging coming to mind x"

im the same I look at everyone I meet now and think are they on fab automatically. ... mypoor fragile sweet innocent mind .. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok i thought i needed to reply as im shocked !!! Hence my name landscapelad im a landscape gardener and have 104 regular customers. Out of them at least 30 have pampas grass growing in the front garden . Problem is out of those at least 20 are over 70 and 5 in wheelchairs. I havent seen them in any clubs or on fab lol . Mabye they all party together and im out the loop .. wow mable doris and bert are they really swingers . Nooooo i think not

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The pampas grass idea always makes me laugh. So if we see some growing in a garden does that mean we should go and knock on the door and ask them if they fancy a shag?! It could be worse, imagine if it was an Oak tree with a tree house playroom as the signal!

We have pampas grass growing outside our local hospital...

Should perhaps think of relocating it to outside the GUM clinic...

Mrs _d40"

I used to go to an all girls school that had a lot of it growing on the grounds

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By *igjrvMan
over a year ago

blackwood

Wtf? My 80 year old nans got pampas grass in her front garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the restaurant I work at we regularly have an older couple in, she always wear a short tight skirt with stockings and the highest heels I've ever seen she also has a choker with a key attached to it around her neck.. I mean I could be completely wrong but something tells me they could be..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,pampas grass in the front garden is a well known one! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf? My 80 year old nans got pampas grass in her front garden "

I've got plenty of couch grass growing in amongst the dandelions. Does that count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really really hope that there pampas grass one is just an urban myth, as my mum and dad used to have it in their front garden, and so did some of their friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf? My 80 year old nans got pampas grass in her front garden "

Good on your nan if she is.... I hope I got a good sex life at her age lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really really hope that there pampas grass one is just an urban myth, as my mum and dad used to have it in their front garden, and so did some of their friends "

If you're allowed to be a swinger why would it be so wrong if your parents did it??

Think of it another if a child of yours said same thing bout you lol xx unfortunately at lot of parents swing and a lot grown up children swing xx has much as we like to think it doesn't happen it does lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha love the pampas grass my grandparents had it in thier garden n my grandad was a mason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really really hope that there pampas grass one is just an urban myth, as my mum and dad used to have it in their front garden, and so did some of their friends

If you're allowed to be a swinger why would it be so wrong if your parents did it??

Think of it another if a child of yours said same thing bout you lol xx unfortunately at lot of parents swing and a lot grown up children swing xx has much as we like to think it doesn't happen it does lol x"

Lol very true, just one of those images that you never ever want to remotely have in your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf? My 80 year old nans got pampas grass in her front garden "

The oldest swinger in town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i know and a nice duvet cover matey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always told while growing up (I know it's nonsense these days)

That if a lady had an ankle bracelet it was a sure sign that she was a prostitute

Old fashioned I know but it's what we were taught as teenagers

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Like a swingers on tour t shirt

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

I'm assured that if you hang wind chimes around the out side

Of your house it's a a worldwide sign for swingers

It's really noisy around us when it's windy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what ive done in the past .. chat about social media and drop fab into the conversion .. if they ask whats fab .. they dont swing .. if there not saying much .. go for the kill .. hope this helps as pampas grass wind chimes and braclets are really not true .. have you ever seen a swinger with a pampas grass skirt ankle bracket and a wind chime strapped to there ass ??? Nope thought not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what ive done in the past .. chat about social media and drop fab into the conversion .. if they ask whats fab .. they dont swing .. if there not saying much .. go for the kill .. hope this helps as pampas grass wind chimes and braclets are really not true .. have you ever seen a swinger with a pampas grass skirt ankle bracket and a wind chime strapped to there ass ??? Nope thought not "

I'm holding out for a meet with a woman dressed like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real question is if you want to advertise you are a swinger why do it in secret?

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Anklets, toe rings and rings on thumbs are apparently worn to indicate swingers. The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers....

We have pampas grass haha "

I was thinking of planting some out front to see if it worked

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Anklets, toe rings and rings on thumbs are apparently worn to indicate swingers. The silliest one I have heard is that if a house has Pampas grass growing in the front garden it denotes it the home of swingers....

We have pampas grass haha

I was thinking of planting some out front to see if it worked "

Mind you I wore an ankle bracelet all last summer and had no offers

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