FabSwingers.com forum: MEN.... are you a sub or a dom?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally im more sub ... a little shy at first, and like the lady to take control

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Lightly dom.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don't think of myself in either of those terms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK... lets open this up to the women.... would you like take the lead?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Dick is a switch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you women prefer though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither I am just me

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm a sub luv a lady to b my dom but I think it will never happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm more of a submissive, but I like to switch / do vanilla too

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Found a lovely young man who is a total switch

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Chatted to one lady but she frightened me wanted to turn me to bi .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, im not into dominating or being dominated.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I love a dom....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I switch, as our profile name suggests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither dom or sub

I just like to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the woman. My last woman really brought out the dom in me. Sadly she is dead now.

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Seb is dom!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Neither I am just me

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being the shy type I don't like to be demanding etc.... prefer to be taken gently buy the hand and shown the way forward

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Both Dom and Domme x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Switch but more sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither nor is gilly, the whole sub/dom thing completely leaves us cold but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a switch ...took me a while to work it out ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs here love dom guys but not hard dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. Just play wherever it takes me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I may have got the wrong words for what I meant....

Im of the shy variety, not looking for any BDSM or anything like that, just im not one to take control etc....

Am I wording this correctly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love switching

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Dom & Dommer ??

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I don't see myself as either,

I like confidence in ladies, I look for ladies who I find attractive and wish to have mutual pleasure..

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Sub .... Total sub!

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Neither or switching mildly from one to the other....

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By *igneachtWoman
over a year ago

Upton Wirral

I'm naturally sub... I haven't a Dom bone in my body x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of whether I get off on being Dom or sub: neither.

I like playing at Dom when its what the lady likes.

I like switching off and being sub to just enjoy without thought.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

Neither, but I am happy to follow the lead of and be guided by what the woman wants, as long as I feel comfortable doing that.

I do get the whole dom/sub thing (or at least I think I do), but it's not for me personally.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Assertive. Natural decision maker, usually take the lead but not a control freak and I like the lady to instigate things once in a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Assertive. Natural decision maker, usually take the lead but not a control freak and I like the lady to instigate things once in a while"

Ahhh that's the word I meant to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playful

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I wouldn't describe myself as either

*wanders off to rearrange pile of sub bottoms*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chatted to one lady but she frightened me wanted to turn me to bi . "

Don't knock it till you've tried it!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Naturally dom male here and a naturally sub female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strictly speaking I'm a switch but my dominant side is by far the dominant go to state of mind for me sexuality.

How do I know I'm a switch? Because when I eat a woman's pussy my frame of mind is often of absolute pussy worship and adoration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V here

A is naturally controlling, plain speaking and quietly dominating. I am naturally not I find it hard to take control during sex. But we are not dom/sub, as he finds out if he tries to ask me to do something I'm not interested in.

I've recently started getting rougher with A as he loves a little hair pulling as much as I do.... I found it hard at first but he's pissed me off so next time he bends over in front of me he's for it.

Giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub.

Altho only to someone older =)

I just like the "Respect your elders .... Boy"...idea!

Also their imagination/experience will be greater than mine and so I would be willing to learn/obey more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sub, can be Dom with A when needed but prefer it if we are both sub with a decent Dom bloke

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Well Personally I identify as a Switch

But I lean more towards Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly like being Dom but switch when needs be

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By *ittledevil5Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm a domme but my bf is sub, he loves that I take control

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

My OH is Dom except when I get my strap on out and reverse that!!!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I've never considered what I am in those term; I like to tell (sometimes demand) a woman to tell (beg) me what she wants me to do to her. not sure what catorgory that puts me in but what ever it is I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub......him

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I'd never given it much thought, just looked at myself as 'normal' but judging by what she gets away with I guess I'm a bit sub

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