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Some of us are surely Deluded, Brave, Arogant, Stuck Up, or just plain Stupid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then it looks like you don't TRULLY appreciate that they have preferences.

Just smile and move along. Don't waste energy on negative stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I love the hair on your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F) All of the above?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im having a Friday rant so advance apologies.

I appreciate that all men and women have preferencea, individual tastes and likes when it comes to finding whatever it is that they seek on Fabswingers.

But!!! I swear some of these profiles (this is a dig as some of women profiles that I have read) are written to such an extent that even a Top pornstar will struggle to fit the criteria these people want

The mind boggles I shit you not

Preferences and likes and being realistic is one thing but I swear some are deluded and need a bit of a reality check.

RANT OVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and your a single bloke or here what chance as a married man got when it comes to getting a realistic meet ? jeez god help them us mortals on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude, just leave them to it. If their preferences/requirements are too exacting, they won't find anyone to meet and will end up frustrated and alone

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes some are and some just know what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But they still get laid.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im having a Friday rant so advance apologies.

I appreciate that all men and women have preferencea, individual tastes and likes when it comes to finding whatever it is that they seek on Fabswingers.

But!!! I swear some of these profiles (this is a dig as some of women profiles that I have read) are written to such an extent that even a Top pornstar will struggle to fit the criteria these people want

The mind boggles I shit you not

Preferences and likes and being realistic is one thing but I swear some are deluded and need a bit of a reality check.

RANT OVER "

I totally agree, its sometimes written like a shopping list of criteria you have to meet. Dating sites are the same, women think its like online bloomin shopping!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney "

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. Just preferences.. And I do OK with mine... On and off fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is this an attempt at reverse psychology and you're hoping to get a sympathy fuck, by one of these deluded females ?

If it is I don't fancy your chances much mate

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

*** Stands up and wave ***

I think you may be speaking about me here

Not willing to change what I'm looking for even if it means I go without, like I have for nearly 5 months now!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help "

If you don't ask, you don't get. I agree that that's a very precise set of criteria but she's not being anything other than direct and inoffensive for asking for that. The only people that would get butthurt would be those that fancy her and don't meet her preferences. In which case it's their problem. There are plenty of women on here I find ridiculously attractive but are straight. Or men who are looking for tall willowy blondes. Or loads of people I am too old or too young for. If I don't match their criteria I don't get all butthurt just because they might match mine. They owe me nothing as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help

If you don't ask, you don't get. I agree that that's a very precise set of criteria but she's not being anything other than direct and inoffensive for asking for that. The only people that would get butthurt would be those that fancy her and don't meet her preferences. In which case it's their problem. There are plenty of women on here I find ridiculously attractive but are straight. Or men who are looking for tall willowy blondes. Or loads of people I am too old or too young for. If I don't match their criteria I don't get all butthurt just because they might match mine. They owe me nothing as a result."

lol Butthurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help "

I say if she finds him send him my way afterwards

I get that for many it must be incredibly frustrating at times but it is what it is, you either accept that or end up pissed off & ranty ~ not worth it, imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help "
she doesn't want much then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP is this an attempt at reverse psychology and you're hoping to get a sympathy fuck, by one of these deluded females ?

If it is I don't fancy your chances much mate "

I don't do reverse psychology, play games and all the other bullshit some guys do. I merely having a rant to let of frustration of something that's been building up for a few months now. I know full well that I'm probably in the wrong but that's besides the point.

I think of my rant as a self healing process. Merely sharing my frustrations openly with the group. Some will agree with what i have to say and some will think I'm a twat. It really is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help

I say if she finds him send him my way afterwards

I get that for many it must be incredibly frustrating at times but it is what it is, you either accept that or end up pissed off & ranty ~ not worth it, imo."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

Bollocks! There's probably 1 guy in the UK who fits that description and she also wants 2 of his mates too

I say go and see a doctor for some help

If you don't ask, you don't get. I agree that that's a very precise set of criteria but she's not being anything other than direct and inoffensive for asking for that. The only people that would get butthurt would be those that fancy her and don't meet her preferences. In which case it's their problem. There are plenty of women on here I find ridiculously attractive but are straight. Or men who are looking for tall willowy blondes. Or loads of people I am too old or too young for. If I don't match their criteria I don't get all butthurt just because they might match mine. They owe me nothing as a result.

lol Butthurt "

Lol.... breaks into a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have watched to much mr grey lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get inundated with messages on here, so in order to separate the wheat from the chaff, list their requirements or what they're looking for, which makes perfect sense.

You really shouldn't get worked up about it. Of course it's frustrating finding someone on here that you've got the total hots for, but there will be others.

In some cases, if for whatever reason you actually strike up a decent conversation with one of these people, they may relax their requirements and you end up meeting anyway... As I discovered last week, so don't stress about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't have my 6'3" Brad Pitt in his 20's look a like who smells like hard work and rough leather?

Leave me alone.

-Courtney

Here's an example.....

Looking for white males only, must be gym fit and I mean gym fit. 6"4 minimum height as I'm 5"11 in my 6" heels. Must drive, must have his own house, must wine and dine me, must have a minimum of 10" cock. Must be able to last all night!

)"

Yes

I think its me shes looking for.

Although im 6"6 in my heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get inundated with messages on here, so in order to separate the wheat from the chaff, list their requirements or what they're looking for, which makes perfect sense.

You really shouldn't get worked up about it. Of course it's frustrating finding someone on here that you've got the total hots for, but there will be others.

In some cases, if for whatever reason you actually strike up a decent conversation with one of these people, they may relax their requirements and you end up meeting anyway... As I discovered last week, so don't stress about it "

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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Always feel better having a rant lol xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't contact people. Makes its easier all round really.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

(Puts hand up)

Yup, thats me.

Erm... so this isn't the room for the DBASS support and therapy group then?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"I don't do reverse psychology, play games and all the other bullshit some guys do. I merely having a rant to let of frustration of something that's been building up for a few months now. I know full well that I'm probably in the wrong but that's besides the point.

I think of my rant as a self healing process. Merely sharing my frustrations openly with the group. Some will agree with what i have to say and some will think I'm a twat. It really is that simple "

Fancy a sympathy shag

Look, you have a nice bod - not too muscular which is good. Just the right about of chest hair, no idea about the face but probably normal looking. If I met you at a club I'd probably succumb to your charms fairly quickly. However, as others have said, women will put their preferences because they can. It's not a free for all shagathon here, it's about being with others whom you find attractive and would like to spend some intimate time with. Relax, get stress free and you'll find someone soon enough. Try clubs, try socials and remember, it's supposed to be fun

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