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Why do you like being submissive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone else is dominant and takes control, how does it arouse you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IT's just part of who I am. It's like saying 'why do you enjoy sex?'

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If it's some hot woman getting bossy, I'm all up for it. But screw humiliation.

Try and be dominant to wiggles and it will likely result in pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to be at the mercy of a lady. Sadly not come across many doms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being told what to do by a dom f ! Turns me on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Wasp said, it part of who i am, and can't explain why it turns me on, it just does I love it being submissive.

Although lately I've been discovering my domme side, which is also a big turn on.

Poppy

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By *igergirl31Couple
over a year ago

Leigh

I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality!

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By *arkaCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "

This^

Same for me. I'm not sub in any way but do love it when my lady takes control in bed. I think it is the fact that all day long I have to make big decisions in a high pressure environment and so its nice not to have to be the boss all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its more of a release than a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really a sub but I like to play sub sometimes. For me, it removes the need to think or make decisions - leaving me free to just feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm able to switch off its an an antidote to the stress, pressure and responsibilities of work and parenthood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm able to switch off its an an antidote to the stress, pressure and responsibilities of work and parenthood! "

... But being sub, or someone being Dom(me) doesn't arouse me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IT's just part of who I am. It's like saying 'why do you enjoy sex?'"

This. It's just part of me. No real explanation to it.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt


"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "

^This

Plus the fact that Im a single bloke and the laid back approach seams to work really well for me.

When meeting I see getting a shag as a bonus. Im quite happy to watch and be a guest in the couples relationship. Being a sub gives them more control,possibly puts them more at ease and more likely to give me a chance.

It turns me on having to earn rewards and favours. It had enabled me to explore too (I would never have discovered why women enjoy sucking a cock otherwise).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's handing over to someone else, lot to do with the mind. Everyday life - I make lots of big decisions, so sexually - I like to just be able to switch off and let someone else take the reins. I think all submissives /Dominants are different. It's about experimentation too and seeing what turns you both on. I still firmly believe that the submissive has the control. We have the safe word and using that stops play so we do what we are happy with.

I have a feeling I could switch and will experiment with that one day.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm selfish and it's all about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "

Ditto. Saves me writing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm selfish and it's all about me. "

Ha! Yeah, there's that as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "

Yep, this sums me up 100%!! I enjoy giving that control to someone else sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone else is dominant and takes control, how does it arouse you?"
I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of me, I love master or mistress taking over me and making me do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get aroused. It's not sexual for me. I get beaten hard whilst restrained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be at the mercy of a lady. Sadly not come across many doms "

Maybe because ladies are Dommes not Dom. X marie

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I enjoy someone else being responsible for my sexual pleasure so I can just let go and feel everything, sense everything and at the same time lose myself in those sensations

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll IDE luv to b a sub to a dominant lady , it's d biggest turn on for me . It's a fantasy of mine but don't think it will ever cum true . Been searching for ages n met lots of messers ,but did chat to this lady but she was far to cruel n strict . Would not start off easy wanted to show me who d boss was from d start .

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It doesn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "

Top answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love subspace.

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