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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me who has no luck finding sexy women or couples to join me when staying away with work?! I'm sure im not that bad am I? ? *he laughs nervously* haha

Any feedback from women/couples would be great

Mwah to all x

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

You don't look that bad to me

Do you try to arrange meets in advance for the weeks before or do you message when there expecting women to come straight round that night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you randomly message people telling them you're in a hotel now will they meet you then i see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do both.......I have had positive replies but they always fall through funnily enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan in advance. Put a meet on profile. Most ppl hve kids and need to make arrangements. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I'm not to the point enough......im always polite and curious. ...maybe that's the wrong approach haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do try and plan ahead 'letsgethornytogether'

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Normally when men message us at last min saying working away in hotel puts us off as we always worried they attached or married so we swing to add a bit of enjoyment we wouldn't meet anyone if we both or one of us felt uncomfortable . Also we do have kids so arranging a meet like a military operation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do the last minute thing but have met plenty of people who've been up in the north east for work, when it's been arranged in advance. Some people are only looking for local to them, so that's another reason they may have for not wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your strategy is almost a no hoper. For a start its way too last minute for most people and the other thing of course is that the vast majority of profiles on here for females and couples are in fact fake or otherwise dodgy.

No,if staying away on business i usually pack a smart suit, shoes,shirt and tie and circulate in the bar in the evening or in the restaurant. Usually in these soul less business hotels there are others staying away on business who are female. If nothing else you might find some company for dinner /drinks and some conversation. You might even add a friend to your list of contacts and you might even share a bed with them there and then or in future.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We have done and to continue to meet guys we know at their hotel. Obviously, the hotel must be near us. We've also arranged socials with guys at pubs near their hotel to see what we think first. We'd never just turn up to a hotel if we've never met before.

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By *ig_Ian69_XXXMan
over a year ago

Southport

Ive had lots of hotel meets - last one was in Edinburgh with 2 women! - Great evening.

Ive chatted with women for weeks on here before meeting - as I do stay in various places around the country quite regularly - so stay in hotels I know.

Have had a couple of spontaneous meets - all been good fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the way you come across when searching. Lets face it, i gorgeous female or cpl really aint going to go and knock on your hotel door ready to fuck. . Lol

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Most of my meets have been in hotels while on business. It helps if you're in the same place frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have kind of stopped meeting people who are in our area for work. Too many times I have spent ages getting ready, then as we are driving over to a location we are told by the guy "sorry, I'm in works still. I got caught up in meetings. I won't be able to make it."

The second time it happened I was not happy. The guy's response was that he was here for work, so what did we expect? And I said to myself, he is right. He is here for work, so I have to expect work will take precedent. So we stopped meeting people traveling for work.

But that is just my experience.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who has no luck finding sexy women or couples to join me when staying away with work?! I'm sure im not that bad am I? ? *he laughs nervously* haha

Any feedback from women/couples would be great

Mwah to all x"
they say they want random meets ,they say they want NSA but they also say they want local and regular ,theirs no fixed pattern to anything and any meet is difficult wherever you are ,also has to be a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've arranged to meet ladies I've been chatting to when I know I'm going to be staying in their area.

I don't try and find someone just because I'm going to be in a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who has no luck finding sexy women or couples to join me when staying away with work?! I'm sure im not that bad am I? ? *he laughs nervously* haha

Any feedback from women/couples would be great

Mwah to all x"

Well hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get the I'm at a hotel in your area tonight message I assume they've got this site mixed up with an escort one

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By *ing And Yang 23Couple
over a year ago

Laughing Land

We don't do hotel meets any more, we have had great fun doing them but it's so much better getting to know the person first as it relieves a little tension. having a family makes it harder for some of us to get out so when we do get the chance we really would prefer to let our hair down and meet loads of people at a club, maybe next time you are away from home try searching a local club in the area and see if you could attend.(friendly advice) x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

There is a difference between getting to a hotel and messaging a random nearby woman than there is arranging to meet someone that you've been chatting to for a while. If I'm staying in a hotel I try to arrange the meeting days ahead of time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you randomly message people telling them you're in a hotel now will they meet you then i see the problem."

Me too!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd suggest putting up an expression of interest in the meets section ahead of time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"When I get the I'm at a hotel in your area tonight message I assume they've got this site mixed up with an escort one"

I never meet in hotels but this is what I think when reading "in hotel for business" or "parked in layby". Neither makes me moist and think gotta have some of that, strangely enough.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say if you know that your going to be in a hotel in a few weeks out an advert and look form couples females in the area and message a week or two before hand

Don't get me wrong I have emailed couples when in hotels do they fancying coming round but no luck

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I get a lot of messages from people who see going to be in the area

Most of the time I ignore and wonder if I'm on the tourist board website.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I thought that was you when on there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do the last minute thing but have met plenty of people who've been up in the north east for work, when it's been arranged in advance. Some people are only looking for local to them, so that's another reason they may have for not wanting to meet. "

Pity you don't meet single men coz im possibly working that direction in about a month haha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"There is a difference between getting to a hotel and messaging a random nearby woman than there is arranging to meet someone that you've been chatting to for a while."

I agree, I would never say yes to the "I'm here on business" meet requests. Most likely married guys.

But if I know someone I like hotels for a change

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me who has no luck finding sexy women or couples to join me when staying away with work?! I'm sure im not that bad am I? ? *he laughs nervously* haha

Any feedback from women/couples would be great

Mwah to all x

Well hello "

Well hello to you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I get the I'm at a hotel in your area tonight message I assume they've got this site mixed up with an escort one"

I can understand why it can seem that way.....In my case it's never intended that way. I just enjoy passion and wish to enjoy it with beautiful women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't do hotel meets any more, we have had great fun doing them but it's so much better getting to know the person first as it relieves a little tension. having a family makes it harder for some of us to get out so when we do get the chance we really would prefer to let our hair down and meet loads of people at a club, maybe next time you are away from home try searching a local club in the area and see if you could attend.(friendly advice) x "

Great advice....I hope I work in Poole soon as your pics look like lots of fun places to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you randomly message people telling them you're in a hotel now will they meet you then i see the problem.

Me too!"

Me too now haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a lot of messages from people who see going to be in the area

Most of the time I ignore and wonder if I'm on the tourist board website.

"

Crazily enough I was working in and around Edinburgh first week of this year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does seem that alot of married/attached men spoil it for us truly single guys. I only ever find out the next weeks location on the Friday before so I think I might always have an issue when it comes to this.....pity really as it's a waste of horniness hahaha

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