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Fucking or...making lluuuuurrrvvve! :)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so who fucks on here and who makes love? I guess making love is more of an exchange of hearts etc blah blah blah("lick my tender wetness and make me shiver with your love truncheon my love"..with Barry White playing in the background)

Where as fucking is more raw, dirty and animalistic.

Personally..i am a fucker! What are you..a fucker or a lover. Do you like to fuck or make love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly a fucker but sometimes with

a bit of making love thrown in, then back to fucking again

Variety is the spice of life!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bit of both?

Depends on the mood/individual

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Can't remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer using the term making love. I agree that in the context of swinging it is a little odd because there is no love involved but fucking does not work as well for me. I find hard and raw sex difficult physically whereas slow and passionate is much more for me and making love seems to fit that style better.

Mandy on the other hand, she likes it a bit harder and rawer, and she prefers the term fucking.

So we tend to equate the terms with how we like to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't remember."
lol

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Both

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I like both and sometimes you need both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make love to my partner, other people I have sex with or fuck

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm a single woman on a swinging site it's fucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You bunch of fuckers

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"OK so who fucks on here and who makes love? I guess making love is more of an exchange of hearts etc blah blah blah("lick my tender wetness and make me shiver with your love truncheon my love"..with Barry White playing in the background)

Where as fucking is more raw, dirty and animalistic.

Personally..i am a fucker! What are you..a fucker or a lover. Do you like to fuck or make love "

Depends on who I am doing it with...you have to feel in love with someone to make love to them. Whereas fucking can be done with someone you are in love with or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they the only two options? I don't make lurrvve as you've described but I don't just fuck. There are more subtleties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"OK so who fucks on here and who makes love? I guess making love is more of an exchange of hearts etc blah blah blah("lick my tender wetness and make me shiver with your love truncheon my love"..with Barry White playing in the background)

Where as fucking is more raw, dirty and animalistic.

Personally..i am a fucker! What are you..a fucker or a lover. Do you like to fuck or make love "

Depends on the mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are they the only two options? I don't make lurrvve as you've described but I don't just fuck. There are more subtleties "

Make fuck is the inbetween option if you fancy it?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Can't remember. lol "

Seriously though...it's all just fucking. It's all the same difference to me. They're all part of the same thing. I guess I'm just a fucker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't remember. lol

Seriously though...it's all just fucking. It's all the same difference to me. They're all part of the same thing. I guess I'm just a fucker."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With hubby its both but with anybody else I'm a fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one 'play' meet which was pure filth, but I think I prefer a bit of both depends on the mood and play mate really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they the only two options? I don't make lurrvve as you've described but I don't just fuck. There are more subtleties

Make fuck is the inbetween option if you fancy it? "

I'll go with that. Me make fuck.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"You bunch of fuckers "

if we resting does that make us idle fuckers lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are they the only two options? I don't make lurrvve as you've described but I don't just fuck. There are more subtleties

Make fuck is the inbetween option if you fancy it?

I'll go with that. Me make fuck."
ha ha...sounds like something you would say in a thai brothel "you wanna make fuck?" (although check the undercarriage first)

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

For us swinging is about sex.. so its the F word for us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do the hearts and flowers stuff, but sometimes a bit slower, and more passionate, intense I suppse, rather than hard, rough fucking, mixes it up a bit.

That's my definition of making love anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both at once!!

Intimacy and affection to start with - deep, lingering kisses, stroking, touching, holding - then slow, deep strokes and more kisses - then the holding becomes grabbing, the soft moans become shouts of pleasure, and those slow strokes become hard, balls deep rampant fucking in every conceivable position and hole!

What's not to like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do the hearts and flowers stuff, but sometimes a bit slower, and more passionate, intense I suppse, rather than hard, rough fucking, mixes it up a bit.

That's my definition of making love anyway "

I think you are a fucker! with making luurrrvve tendencies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V here

With Adam, both, although it's predominantly fucking with a lil bit of loving thrown in because it feels sooooo good and because it's a yummy thing to do.

Making love (for me anyway) comes with associated feelings, is intimate, makes your heart jump. There's a little look that is reserved between us. There's more touching, holding and kissing. Perhaps it's more gentle, but not always! I can't do that with anyone I am not in love with.

So when we meet others. It's fucking. It's fun. No deep feelings or emotions other than the pure fun of the moment. It's never without feeling, that would be impossible. But the feelings are different.

If he made love to anyone else I'd be mightily pissed off but he can fuck who he likes!

Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, depends on the mood and who you're with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends where i met them from, lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"V here

With Adam, both, although it's predominantly fucking with a lil bit of loving thrown in because it feels sooooo good and because it's a yummy thing to do.

Making love (for me anyway) comes with associated feelings, is intimate, makes your heart jump. There's a little look that is reserved between us. There's more touching, holding and kissing. Perhaps it's more gentle, but not always! I can't do that with anyone I am not in love with.

So when we meet others. It's fucking. It's fun. No deep feelings or emotions other than the pure fun of the moment. It's never without feeling, that would be impossible. But the feelings are different.

If he made love to anyone else I'd be mightily pissed off but he can fuck who he likes!

Xxxxx

"

I want a wife like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have sex until they promise to marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they the only two options? I don't make lurrvve as you've described but I don't just fuck. There are more subtleties "

Subtitles? Is that for when you fuck in other parts of of the country where they can't understand your accent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have sex until they promise to marry me "

How many proposals this week Miss I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have sex until they promise to marry me

How many proposals this week Miss I? "
I'd seriously love to fuck you (i know i know am such a romantic)..haha..although you might be a love maker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have sex until they promise to marry me

How many proposals this week Miss I? I'd seriously love to fuck you (i know i know am such a romantic)..haha..although you might be a love maker "

Me? Or Miss I?

You can see what turns me on a little further up the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they the only two options? I don't make lurrvve as you've described but I don't just fuck. There are more subtleties

Subtitles? Is that for when you fuck in other parts of of the country where they can't understand your accent? "

No, the man in the corner is my interpreter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have sex until they promise to marry me

How many proposals this week Miss I? I'd seriously love to fuck you (i know i know am such a romantic)..haha..although you might be a love maker

Me? Or Miss I?

You can see what turns me on a little further up the thread! "
you!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't make love and I don't just fuck, I have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both. Although I'm allergic to the scary L word so would never use that term. More of a fucker than the other I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit of both. Although I'm allergic to the scary L word so would never use that term. More of a fucker than the other I think. "

Lucky bastards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who just thinks it's one or the other lacks imagination to be honest...they're just 2 parts of what is a massive spectrum of experiences and activities aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate fucker me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of both. Although I'm allergic to the scary L word so would never use that term. More of a fucker than the other I think. "

But you said you loved me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have sex until they promise to marry me "
I would LOVE to fuck you....those tits and that face

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I haven't made love in years,I do miss it a lot at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's fucking with intimacy and kissing...but only after lots of teasing foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly a fucker but sometimes with

a bit of making love thrown in, then back to fucking again

Variety is the spice of life! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking. I find the whole 'making love' thing uncomfortable and too intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit mixed sometimes it's straight in rough hard frantic fucking then both cum a few times then it's the love making bit after or it's slow oral touching kissing stroking until the frustrations build then it's game on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes they arent mutually exclusive.

And it is possible to do both at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Fucker first, but does not mind a bit of passion thrown in

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

i am more of a lover than fucker though it depends on the lady and the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen his messages he's a dirty fucker but so am I when the mood takes me

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do it all with gusto no matter what you want to call it

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Can't remember."

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I couldn't say 'make love' and keep a straight face....the words make me cringe so I have sex....often.... sometimes it's rough sometimes it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both at once!!

Intimacy and affection to start with - deep, lingering kisses, stroking, touching, holding - then slow, deep strokes and more kisses - then the holding becomes grabbing, the soft moans become shouts of pleasure, and those slow strokes become hard, balls deep rampant fucking in every conceivable position and hole!

What's not to like? "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make love with hubby and fucking with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither i have sex...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have sex also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make love to my wife and have sex with other women

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

Both. Fucking is too mechanical alone.. Definitely needs to be a rapport of some sort. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both! And until there's a connection I don't just drop trou and fuck at a moment's notice, so there can't really be one without the other for me.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Sensual fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both at once!!

Intimacy and affection to start with - deep, lingering kisses, stroking, touching, holding - then slow, deep strokes and more kisses - then the holding becomes grabbing, the soft moans become shouts of pleasure, and those slow strokes become hard, balls deep rampant fucking in every conceivable position and hole!

What's not to like?

What she said "

Think I must have been horny when I wrote that one!!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We make love together and fuck other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both , depending on the people and ambiance of the meet .

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