FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging.. Lifestyle or pastime?

By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

So, which is it for you?

Is it sometime you dip in and out of for fun now and again

Is it a lifestyle choice that is fully integrated into your life?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"So, which is it for you?

Is it sometime you dip in and out of for fun now and again

Is it a lifestyle choice that is fully integrated into your life? "

For me its a pastime...to dip in and out of as circumstances and desire dictates..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't started it yet lol.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I don't class myself as a swinger so it's not a lifestyle for me. Fab is a pass time mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More a lifestyle , we like to meet three times a week .

But we run a successful business , have a great life outside of swinging and are raising a young son . So it's not the be all and end all .

We often say the youngster keeps us from burning ourselves out !

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

For me it's a pastime. I really enjoy it but it's not the be all and end all. I have many other interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pastime...Ive a busy life outside it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could give it up anytime I like.

Honest.

I could you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is a lifestyle to us but not a way of life. can often go 4/6 weeks without a meet. our meets are all ruled by our work shifts,

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

More and more we seem to be drifting away as life takes over.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"I don't class myself as a swinger so it's not a lifestyle for me. Fab is a pastime mainly "

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Pastime for me, as outside the uk, but it depends who is tempting me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starting to be a past time to many timewasters on here

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

It's a pastime, which is a fun part on my life xx

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Mm, more of a pasttime for me too - one meet every couple of months or so is plenty for me :]

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"So, which is it for you?

Is it sometime you dip in and out of for fun now and again

Is it a lifestyle choice that is fully integrated into your life? "

It's a pastime - I wish it were a lifestyle.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Pastime, would never be anything more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pastime that serves a need as and when it appears...

There's no way that I'm going to let my life revolve around it!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Definitely a pastime as we have busy lives away from swinging.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's something I rarely do but when I do it's fun. This lifestyle is an occasional bit of fun, nothing more

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Life style which none of our friend,s know about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pastime.

A pas too much time in fact.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Both have busy lives so we dip in when time allows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been around for 8 years as both a single and a couple I'd say it's an integral part of my identity. But it's not a lifestyle, far from it

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

"Definitely a pastime as we have busy lives away from swinging."

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

for us its merely a pastime but for others it may become a lifestyle, thats the beauty of it we all take out of it what we enjoy

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Happy to be classed as swingers, but this is a pastime for us rather than lifestyle - we dip in when we get the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really good to see that most comments are from people who see swinging as just a pastime - it makes me feel a lot better about myself!

From the endless string of messages that I get from guys who seem to think that I live my life on here full-time, just to be available for them, I was beginning to think that there was something wrong with me for only wanting an occasional quality meet...

Thanks everyone - you've made me feel a lot more human!!!

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By *iscellaneousCouple
over a year ago

Idle

Past time - other things are more important to us, wouldn't turn down a vanilla date with friends if we weren't a definite for a particular celebration or meet. Generally like to use it as a fun way to go out for the evening rather than anything else.

MiscF x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lifestyle

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Pastime, a very pleasant and regular part of our lives but we have other things going on too.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I think it is additional to my sex Life that I participate 1 or 2 times a month

I have a 9 to 5.30 job along with watching football, us tv shows, xbox, family life and travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a hobby for us for when we're not working or leading busy lives. Nice to indulge in fantasies or treat ourselves to a dirty club night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a pastime, a bit of fun between our own naughty sessions,

but our naturist side is becoming more a lifestyle

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

It's an occasional but fun hobby to us.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's a fun pastime for us too. Our jobs get in the way of doing this regularly and we prefer clubs when we are free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pastime

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

When discussing it we call it 'the lifestyle ' for want of a better description but it's only a pastime.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an occasional amusement

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've gone from full on lifestyle to chilled out past time. Enjoying not being so active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preferred pastime is contemplating our navel, and watching paint dry... When that's fulfilled, we may idlely consider swinging,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past time for us with a meet minimum every 2 weeks, or maximum every 4 months. We don't classify ourselves as swingers, just like exploring each other in new ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lifestyle, I stayed off here for a whole 20 hours this week. And that was HARD.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Past time.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Pastime. It's something I do in addition to and fill in gaps in my "regular" social life as it's a way to meet interesting people, have fun and gain new experiences. My "normal" life always comes first.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Past time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really good to see that most comments are from people who see swinging as just a pastime - it makes me feel a lot better about myself!

Thanks everyone - you've made me feel a lot more human!!!

I only meet once a month... You're not alone

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Occasional pastime;

Got loads of other stuff to do;

The forum is amusing, though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dip in and out when we get the urge, for us it's a bit of fun and definitely not a lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dip in and out. And in and out and in and out...

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

It's a once in a while thing for us

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