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Criticism better than compliments

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Constructive criticism... Yes

But not just being criticised that's just nasty

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Constructive criticism... Yes

But not just being criticised that's just nasty "

I (just fem at the mo) can take it

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

It's a good profile with enough wording about yourselves to let people know what you're looking for and not to long which puts people off reading it. The pictures are good too.

A+

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Constructive criticism... Yes

But not just being criticised that's just nasty

I (just fem at the mo) can take it "

The only thing I can see wrong in your profile photos is that I'm not in them

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_htmQTbgms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Awesome idea profile criticism welcome be honest and DM me if you feel the need. I am aware I'm new in going to some socials soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Your profile is awesome. No drugs policy at the beginning is to be commended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is very clear what you want and short enough to keep people interedted in reading it.

My only criticism is saying your fella loves himself would probably put people like us off as we are not keen on people who come across to vain but to be fair we probably wouldn't contact someone with a profile like yours as we would feel we were punching above our weight and if im right then your profile is doing what it should.

Kevin

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"It's a good profile with enough wording about yourselves to let people know what you're looking for and not to long which puts people off reading it. The pictures are good too.

A+

Dave "

Thank you x

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Constructive criticism... Yes

But not just being criticised that's just nasty

I (just fem at the mo) can take it

Good response

The only thing I can see wrong in your profile photos is that I'm not in them "

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Your profile is awesome. No drugs policy at the beginning is to be commended. "

This was after a dreadful meet with couple and man was beyond wrecked.. Sad really as she was having great time and he went mad so we left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only criticism is distance.

Everything else is fine.

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"I think your profile is very clear what you want and short enough to keep people interedted in reading it.

My only criticism is saying your fella loves himself would probably put people like us off as we are not keen on people who come across to vain but to be fair we probably wouldn't contact someone with a profile like yours as we would feel we were punching above our weight and if im right then your profile is doing what it should.

Kevin "

.???? Doesn't say he loves himself unless a typing error, will check now, he is actually critical of himself yet I think he is way out my league..... And I think fab is great place not to have leagues ... Thanks for your comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I like these. I actually agree with your boss

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

There is nothing that can be said to criticise my profile, fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Your profile is awesome. No drugs policy at the beginning is to be commended.

This was after a dreadful meet with couple and man was beyond wrecked.. Sad really as she was having great time and he went mad so we left"

Ouch that sounds like a disaster drugs and promiscuous sex are bad bed fellows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing that can be said to criticise my profile, fire away "

I've found two. No public pics and you used the word wot. Other than that. The wild night knocking back cocktails sounds just perfect

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your profile is very clear what you want and short enough to keep people interedted in reading it.

My only criticism is saying your fella loves himself would probably put people like us off as we are not keen on people who come across to vain but to be fair we probably wouldn't contact someone with a profile like yours as we would feel we were punching above our weight and if im right then your profile is doing what it should.

Kevin

.???? Doesn't say he loves himself unless a typing error, will check now, he is actually critical of himself yet I think he is way out my league..... And I think fab is great place not to have leagues ... Thanks for your comments x"

Sorry i meant where it said "he thinks hes gorgeous" but thats just us as i personally know a couple of people that think like that and we dont get on to well so probably doesnt bother anyone else in the slightest.

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"I think your profile is very clear what you want and short enough to keep people interedted in reading it.

My only criticism is saying your fella loves himself would probably put people like us off as we are not keen on people who come across to vain but to be fair we probably wouldn't contact someone with a profile like yours as we would feel we were punching above our weight and if im right then your profile is doing what it should.

Kevin

.???? Doesn't say he loves himself unless a typing error, will check now, he is actually critical of himself yet I think he is way out my league..... And I think fab is great place not to have leagues ... Thanks for your comments x

Sorry i meant where it said "he thinks hes gorgeous" but thats just us as i personally know a couple of people that think like that and we dont get on to well so probably doesnt bother anyone else in the slightest.

"

Crumbs meant to say she.. Will Change thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on then"

Bloody Hell Goddess/ Karen I can't believe you're fifty

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

This is true... If we want to improve others, but if we just want to have fun, make people feel good and add a bit of shine to the world, then its compliments.

I'm in North America at the min and there is something about this place, I get a lot of compliments and give a lot...

Yesterday a super hot, athletic, pumped up, faked up, porn star lookalike, who works in one of the bars, came up to me and remembered me from last year...

Now I know this girl gets a million compliments a day, but what the hell! I have her one more...

I then watched her smile to herself, uncontrollably for a couple of minutes.

Made two people feel good in one hit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told on a daily basis if I spent as much time as working as I do trying to look busy then they wouldn't need anymore workers lol x

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"Go on then

Bloody Hell Goddess/ Karen I can't believe you're fifty "

We can't believe it either look so much younger.. Not sure about profile pic though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Go on then

Bloody Hell Goddess/ Karen I can't believe you're fifty "
only for four more weeks then i disappear out of peoples age preferences lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Go on then

Bloody Hell Goddess/ Karen I can't believe you're fifty

We can't believe it either look so much younger.. Not sure about profile pic though "
lol thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are only cock shots of he male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are only cock shots of he male "

Of the*

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"There are only cock shots of he male

Of the*"

Fair point will get into this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are only cock shots of he male

Of the*

Fair point will get into this x"

To be completely honest fitnfilthy your smoking hot and the way us men work is 99% wouldn't take much in from your profile unless it states what you don't want.

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"There are only cock shots of he male

Of the*

Fair point will get into this x

To be completely honest fitnfilthy your smoking hot and the way us men work is 99% wouldn't take much in from your profile unless it states what you don't want. "

Thank you x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Well.....mine is a bit iffy, I'll admit.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Great profile, fabulous photos, verifications which aren't too graphic (my pet hate). What's not to like?! Big thumbs up from me

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Great profile, fabulous photos, verifications which aren't too graphic (my pet hate). What's not to like?! Big thumbs up from me "

That's really kind thanks.. And we certainly return the compliment x

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Well.....mine is a bit iffy, I'll admit. "

But honesty is a plus! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Constructive criticism... Yes

But not just being criticised that's just nasty

I (just fem at the mo) can take it "
its a management style and not a good one you get more out of people when they respect you ,I don't respect someone who's constantly negative

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Go on then.....I'm big enough and old enough to take it

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

No, no no!

Evaluation yes,

But never criticism.

Sign of a weak and ignorant boss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone give me some feedback on my profile please I don't want to start a new thread. X x x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone give me some feedback on my profile please I don't want to start a new thread. X x x x x"
your profile looks fine just keep plugging away you'll get there in the end

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

He's wrong. Positive reinforcement works better than negative reinforcement.

Constructive criticism can be useful, of course, but positive reinforcement is a more effective teaching tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both fairly critical of our flaws, compliments are nice but they never cover your own negative thoughts. Id much prefer the truth so that we know where we all are and what we all think xx

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Go on then.....I'm big enough and old enough to take it "

Nothing to pick at.. Great pics, detailed profile.. Nice! X

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"Were both fairly critical of our flaws, compliments are nice but they never cover your own negative thoughts. Id much prefer the truth so that we know where we all are and what we all think xx "

Stunning profile! X

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By *odramafun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"Can someone give me some feedback on my profile please I don't want to start a new thread. X x x x x"

Think your profile is fine.. Maybe smile in your pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were both fairly critical of our flaws, compliments are nice but they never cover your own negative thoughts. Id much prefer the truth so that we know where we all are and what we all think xx

Stunning profile! X"

Thankyou very much, must say absolutely loved your profile too love Black and White pics, they should be mandatory for all profiles x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We'll happily open ourselves up to criticism too. Don't be cruel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X"

Same as with most couples I'd say! GREAT pictures of you but very few of your other half and they're very unimaginative compared to yours! When I meet a couple I like full penetrative sex as well as play with the female - so his looks/pics are just as important as hers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Same as with most couples I'd say! GREAT pictures of you but very few of your other half and they're very unimaginative compared to yours! When I meet a couple I like full penetrative sex as well as play with the female - so his looks/pics are just as important as hers! "

Haha

Loved your profile. I'm straight but I'd still

Go to the cinema with you. It shows you have a great personality and obviously a good laugh

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

The pictures definitely bring it up but it reads a little flat .. saying that you like things to be 'interactive' means what? Realise you don't want to be explicit though words like tease, foreplay, flirty, chemistry give a better invitation of what you expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my old boss said we learn more from criticism than compliments.... So opening ourselves up for profile criticism? X

Same as with most couples I'd say! GREAT pictures of you but very few of your other half and they're very unimaginative compared to yours! When I meet a couple I like full penetrative sex as well as play with the female - so his looks/pics are just as important as hers!

Haha

Loved your profile. I'm straight but I'd still

Go to the cinema with you. It shows you have a great personality and obviously a good laugh "

Always happy to make more fellow fem friends lovely!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_htmQTbgms

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(Thread derail warning)

One of my favourite shows of all time.

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