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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not of fab no

In nine years

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Yes.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope always left wanting more which is key.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Nope always left wanting more which is key. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Actually it almost put me off fab altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Regret, no. We see everything as a learning curve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One she turned out to be mental, and i dropped my r6 in ice escaping.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Regret, no. We see everything as a learning curve.

"

I agree...I did put it down to experience but also vouched that in future I would only go through with the sexual side of a meet if there is a true mutual desire and attraction. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 my first ever meet n he still trolls me now but I can spot him a mile off regardless of how many new accounts he sets up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few.

But too few to mention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One she turned out to be mental, and i dropped my r6 in ice escaping. "

Ooooooh I saw your name pop up on this thread then and I was thinking if he says me now I'm gonna lose my shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards? "

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 1 I think.Probably because this meet is someone I wouldn't ordinarily have had sex with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not regret - there was one or two we difinitely wouldnt do again - think theres a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup and it was a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One she turned out to be mental, and i dropped my r6 in ice escaping.

Ooooooh I saw your name pop up on this thread then and I was thinking if he says me now I'm gonna lose my shit!

"

He lying he dropped it down the drain I saw him do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One she turned out to be mental, and i dropped my r6 in ice escaping.

Ooooooh I saw your name pop up on this thread then and I was thinking if he says me now I'm gonna lose my shit!

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I'd never say i regretted meeting you....

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....i like my balls attached to me too much

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Only one that when I think back I wish I hadn't

I've had some pretty amazing times. I am very fussy and do spend the time getting to know someone usually. It tends to work for me in avoiding any bad ones.

That said it can make finding people tricky. I do become the woman on a sex site that can't get a shag sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. One was a bloke who pestered us so much we had to change phones.

The other was a woman who played with my wife. It was a crap meet and then some months later by chance she began providing consultancy services to the company my wife works for. They've had a few awkward business meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while "

Tell me the bag for life wasn't a home made condom. Or, perhaps it was his suitcase and he was moving in?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Never had a bad one connected to here. Much more successful than some I have met in 'nilla land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only 1 in over 6 years...

not from this site though

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

No regrets, all been good in their own ways. Maybe I've just been lucky so far

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Met a couple with a male friend but there was no chemistery n d meet was way to far to tired driving there . Both me n my friend thought it was a complete waste of a day .

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've never regretted any of my meets. I think that's probably because I always have a social first to check them out A few of those have been a waste of time though!!!!

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!


"Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards? "

Not from this site, but a handful from another well known 'dating' site...

Now where's me fishing rod...??

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Went to meet a lady from another site n d same no chemistery n we both agreed to call it a nite . What's d point in playing if both partners could not enjoy them selfs

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret"

we call them "pandas" .. eats shoots n leaves ... very rude in our opinion x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No. No point in regrets life is too short

Things happen that may have been better or possibly worse if different so treat life as is comes and learn from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had 2 meets on here which were 2 years ago and I don't regret them

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not regret...but I've had a couple of steep learning curves! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

we call them "pandas" .. eats shoots n leaves ... very rude in our opinion x"

We prefer the pandas. Looking for the odd kinky fuck, not a soul mate.

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


"Not regret...but I've had a couple of steep learning curves! lol"

You and me both, but better for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meets are planned meticulously and the interview process is long and drawn out. No regrets

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Hmm not sure why I am in the minority but there are some

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

we call them "pandas" .. eats shoots n leaves ... very rude in our opinion x

We prefer the pandas. Looking for the odd kinky fuck, not a soul mate."

thats as maybe - but they pursue you and once you give in .... pffft gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 a long time ago as a single female on another site - he literally scared me!! But didn't shag him - thank goodness.

And 1 from here a couple of years ago , when we both had singles accounts as well - again was not how he had portrayed at all. Was very intimidating.

I like to think my vetting process has improved.

The good have outweighed the bad. Otherwise I'd have thrown in the towel.

Sarah

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you count meets ?

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Not from this site, but a handful from another well known 'dating' site...

Now where's me fishing rod...?? "

I've also caught a red herring on my fishing rod before....... Never on fab tho - all my fab meets social or otherwise have been, well, fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regret no....more didn't go as planned

Or didn't feel So great afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, just one - she's not on here anymore. Let's just say her photos weren't representative. No wonder she liked to keep the lights off (just as well).

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I think we've all at least one experience that was less than we would have liked.

I met a swinger off this site a couple of years ago but I was put off by the lack of personal hygiene of this person.

I am very clean and take great pride in my hygiene and appearance. Needless to say I had to walk away. Gross !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regretted going to see a male at his home. We had chatted for a while on here and I went to visit him, It took me an hour and half to get ready 40 minutes to get to him and I was with him at the confirmed time.

After a brief chat we started to play. He came prematurely without saying and when he removed the condom covered my dress in his seed then said "you have to go my brother is coming for lunch" I had been with him for 15 minutes and got nothing out of it, only the feeling of being used and had to head straight home because my dress was messed. Else I would of gone shopping.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while

Tell me the bag for life wasn't a home made condom. Or, perhaps it was his suitcase and he was moving in? "

Colostomy bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while

Tell me the bag for life wasn't a home made condom. Or, perhaps it was his suitcase and he was moving in? "

Was an Asda bag for life.

Not the 5p one the £2 one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while

Tell me the bag for life wasn't a home made condom. Or, perhaps it was his suitcase and he was moving in?

Was an Asda bag for life.

Not the 5p one the £2 one "

What was in the bag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one from on here, and that was on Saturday night. NEVER AGAIN!! Only time in my life I hv had to tell a guy that he either gets out of my way or my son & his mates will be over for a 'chat' only time too that I think the fab member seemed to think I was some kind of free prostitute. No respect. No good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards? "

When I had my singles profile on here every meet I had so I decided to close account down. Off this site I had mmf that went very wrong to the point I was used like a rag doll and it stooped me swinging for a very long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while

Tell me the bag for life wasn't a home made condom. Or, perhaps it was his suitcase and he was moving in?

Was an Asda bag for life.

Not the 5p one the £2 one

What was in the bag?"

Half of bottle of spring water

Two mangy apples

Some writing books

And a withered old hand

What shocked me the most the water was out of date

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By *unny-beeWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

Yes to the point of changing my username plus lost my trust in the site especially when everyone says there genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not regrets as such, one where we're now hounded to do it again

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yes, just the one. There were a few signs prior but nothing to put us off then it went very strange during the meet. We altered the way we decided to 'vet' after that and all has been very good, a little green to the scene back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had 1 meet where wen we met the other cpl they was nothing like the pics they sent us. Then had the cheek 2 get annoyed when we wouldn't stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not regret as such. There are a few we still giggle about though. They were all part of the learning of who we are and what we want from this hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of unsuccessful meets but the only one I regret was with a guy who took me to a club so he could get in and meet someone else.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

From our early days a few which we wouldn't meet again but we learned from the mistake and have had some brilliant meets since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just once....and it was a really spontaneous meet.

always good to chat,check veri's,check veri's veri's......,.oh and pics!!!!!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm consider myself lucky.

No regrets what's so ever

It's all a learning curve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Once.

*shrugs*

-Courtney

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

My very first one was odd in that the host husband got jealous and called a halt to proceedings when he saw how much she was enjoying herself.

I didn't get to the end climax but am glad to say she did.

It was an odd experience but meets got so much better from there on, and he did have the grace to give me my very first veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret"

Yes, very odd considering they think that you're the best thing since sliced bread at the time. ?. Either I've lost my touch or,there are more women available to them than we're to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam might regret meeting me

But no, not really, some I wouldn't want to repeat but as a couple we've had a lot of fun.

V xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have popcorn- will red wine do instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets. Maybe just a strange life experience!!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through a stage of meeting guys with small cocks, it did put me off this site for a while.

The guys were lovely guys, just sexually i was left a bit deflated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've had any I really regret - those that didn't go so well I've been able to learn from and make better decisions as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went through a stage of meeting guys with small cocks, it did put me off this site for a while.

The guys were lovely guys, just sexually i was left a bit deflated."

Hilarious. ??

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards?

Yes

One turned up with a cock cage on, sent him packing

Another turned up with a bag for life, sent him packing

Put we off meeting for a while "

Both so different but equally wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few regrettable meets when we first joined up. Put us off tbf. 1 couple got that d*unk it put us off. Another couple well the male half got that d*unk he couldn't get it up so he started arguing with her for leaving him out We drove home on both occasions. Wasn't there long.

Not been on here for nearly a year now hopefully better things this time round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st week we rejoined the site we met a couple at a club and played but they left us feeling very uneasy and have avoided them since, turns out one of our friends had a very similar meet with them as well

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

One or two, but not from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret"

Yes Ive had this happen to me most recently. Saw each other a few times, great banter, great sex then nothing...just a few aloof/cold messages here and there.

You gotta just get back out there and toughen up, I guess! As someone said, it's all part of the learning curve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

Yes, very odd considering they think that you're the best thing since sliced bread at the time. ?. Either I've lost my touch or,there are more women available to them than we're to believe "

Yeah I think this is the case.

You're left thinking sometimes 'surely, what sex can be better than that?!'

Fucking good luck to to them!

Personally I want one reliable fuck buddy who thinks I'm the dog's bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

Yes, very odd considering they think that you're the best thing since sliced bread at the time. ?. Either I've lost my touch or,there are more women available to them than we're to believe

Yeah I think this is the case.

You're left thinking sometimes 'surely, what sex can be better than that?!'

Fucking good luck to to them!

Personally I want one reliable fuck buddy who thinks I'm the dog's bollocks! "

You are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without wishing to bore some of you lot who know me....

My "bad meet" ended up with me being very badly stalked by a female off here for 6 months, all because I refused to have sex with her after meeting her face to face - long storey but basically as that advert goes "she was not the person I thought she be" ..... lesson learnt once bitten and all that crap ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without wishing to bore some of you lot who know me....

My "bad meet" ended up with me being very badly stalked by a female off here for 6 months, all because I refused to have sex with her after meeting her face to face - long storey but basically as that advert goes "she was not the person I thought she be" ..... lesson learnt once bitten and all that crap ...... "

Jesus! There's a few funny ones in here. I've just changed my username for similar reasons.

Hope she's found happiness elsewhere now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

Yes, very odd considering they think that you're the best thing since sliced bread at the time. ?. Either I've lost my touch or,there are more women available to them than we're to believe

Yeah I think this is the case.

You're left thinking sometimes 'surely, what sex can be better than that?!'

Fucking good luck to to them!

Personally I want one reliable fuck buddy who thinks I'm the dog's bollocks!

You are "

Feeling the love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without wishing to bore some of you lot who know me....

My "bad meet" ended up with me being very badly stalked by a female off here for 6 months, all because I refused to have sex with her after meeting her face to face - long storey but basically as that advert goes "she was not the person I thought she be" ..... lesson learnt once bitten and all that crap ......

Jesus! There's a few funny ones in here. I've just changed my username for similar reasons.

Hope she's found happiness elsewhere now?"

well lets hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Robinson I'd be your dustin Hoffman any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret"
there are men on here who just want to fuck and go and that's it, now i'm far more meticulous on who i meet and the guys who want to fuck and go like they are on piece work, are not my kinda guy ive a few meets like that and frankly was not worth all the effort,so those meets i regret as i'm worth more and i don't know why they don't just go and buy a rubber doll,long slow deep passionate and utter debauchery are my meetings now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret there are men on here who just want to fuck and go and that's it, now i'm far more meticulous on who i meet and the guys who want to fuck and go like they are on piece work, are not my kinda guy ive a few meets like that and frankly was not worth all the effort,so those meets i regret as i'm worth more and i don't know why they don't just go and buy a rubber doll,long slow deep passionate and utter debauchery are my meetings now "

Hear, hear.

Not interested at all in one-offs now. The sex is also more fulfilling for me if the guy at least takes the time to understand my body and its responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret there are men on here who just want to fuck and go and that's it, now i'm far more meticulous on who i meet and the guys who want to fuck and go like they are on piece work, are not my kinda guy ive a few meets like that and frankly was not worth all the effort,so those meets i regret as i'm worth more and i don't know why they don't just go and buy a rubber doll,long slow deep passionate and utter debauchery are my meetings now

Hear, hear.

Not interested at all in one-offs now. The sex is also more fulfilling for me if the guy at least takes the time to understand my body and its responses."
x one million hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood men or woman who can have one on one meets with out building that mental connection. When it's just the pair of you you have to have a connection to get the best out of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood men or woman who can have one on one meets with out building that mental connection. When it's just the pair of you you have to have a connection to get the best out of each other "
ok get ya coat hahaha

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"I went through a stage of meeting guys with small cocks, it did put me off this site for a while.

The guys were lovely guys, just sexually i was left a bit deflated."

Ah, crap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one really.....turned into a right stalker/bunny boiler. Teach me for going for a younger girl (22). She popped back with about 6 other profiles before my blocking sent the message.

Had a couple of other younger ones done the "wanting to be exclusive" thing....go use POF etc. Nothing against repeat/regular etc. but this isnt a dating site! Have now put my filters/preferences up a bit so less problems now....

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde


"some i have regretted as sometimes a guy will relentlessly message you and i play with them and then it's like i don't exist anymore, i get it its nsa and all that but to ignore you afterwards it doesn't bode well with me and i think its pig ignorant or maybe i'm too sensitive but those are the meetings i regret

we call them "pandas" .. eats shoots n leaves ... very rude in our opinion x"

I just have got to try and remember that seeing as it made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went through a stage of meeting guys with small cocks, it did put me off this site for a while.

The guys were lovely guys, just sexually i was left a bit deflated.

Ah, crap! "

Haha. This was before i met you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Actually it almost put me off fab altogether "

Yes exactly what happened to me when I first joined.you learn by mistakes and so glad of block button feature and filters.

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

One or two when I first tried out my bisexuality - I had low standards/self esteem so went with one of the first people to ask. The guy wasn't at all good looking and old enough to be my dad, ugh. Not my kind of thing.

I think it was his first bi experience too so the sex was pretty bad in general and by the end I just felt all kinds of wrong, and didn't feel like myself for a day or so after.

Though it got better each time as my standards/skills/comfort level with accepting my bisexuality went up, and i've came out of most recent meets very much satisfied :]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One or two when I first tried out my bisexuality - I had low standards/self esteem so went with one of the first people to ask. The guy wasn't at all good looking and old enough to be my dad, ugh. Not my kind of thing.

I think it was his first bi experience too so the sex was pretty bad in general and by the end I just felt all kinds of wrong, and didn't feel like myself for a day or so after.

Though it got better each time as my standards/skills/comfort level with accepting my bisexuality went up, and i've came out of most recent meets very much satisfied :]"

I bet he had a great time thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few actually strangly all from when I was a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood men or woman who can have one on one meets with out building that mental connection. When it's just the pair of you you have to have a connection to get the best out of each other ok get ya coat hahaha "
. I already had it on lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Over the time I have been on fab I have had 27 meets in all (not including repeat meets). In all that time I have only ever had one meet where I came away from it regretting having gone through with it. All the others to lesser or greater degrees have been very enjoyable, positive experiences.

Have you had meets that you regretted afterwards? "

The half-dozen times I've been let down at the last minute, and the no-shows. Goes with the territory though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but met a couple of another site and his gf got so d*unk I ended up holding her hair while she puked all while he was trying to grope me! It was awful it was a hotel meet so I left then realised I'd left my bag so had to go back she was sparko and he was still trying to grope me like I said this was years back and it put me off for a while. But I'd like to think through messaging age and intuition I wouldn't meet anyone I wasn't 100percent sure about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our 1st one on here ..

We have both swung before and as a cpl had played in clubs on holiday

Set up an account on here ..

Message and pics from a cpl ( at our upper end of age range ) ... Pics were obviously quite old

Meeting was full ... She was a cold fish .. He couldn't maintain ' his interest ' shall we say ...

Nearly put us off ..,they kept messaging us to meet again .. They then started bad mouthing other people who they thought were time wasters ... At this point I blocked them..

Since then apart from one or two moments we have met some great people

We will meet some again .. And some will be one offs ..

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By *er_kateCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Arranged a social with a single man nice,polite and good personality got to the pub 10 mins early got a table and waited. Dead on time he turned with his three mates in tow we soon made excuses and vanished

God know what he was expecting

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

Before my wife and I got together (about 10 years ago)... we both had some 'interesting' meets.

Once she went to a party and a bloke she had played with before turned up with a new fb who had, in my wife's words, "More hair on her teeth and on her head". She was also wearing pvc/leather trousers... and my wife thought was that if that was the state of her mouth... well down below must be "like a stale cheese toasty". She managed to make her excuses and not find out!

I had a repeat meet with a couple (first MMF I'd had). First meet or two went great... awesome time. But this meet ended up with them having a row and me barricaded in the hotel room bathroom with her sobbing her heart out to me until the very d*unk husband passed out asleep.

But since then all has been good. I think only one meet that we wouldn't repeat, as found out afterwards one half of the couple turned out to be a racist twat.

-Matt

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