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"Apparently he's friendly and respectful according to profile! " Respectful has quite a different meaning on fab, I find | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "Team? What team, aren't you a single male? Or is it that you see your cock as a separate entity? | |||
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"Everyone please keep your arms and legs in the ride at all times as this could get bumpy haha "
i think this is one of those threads where inwardly you think the op is a pillock and then let the thread die the death it deserves. | |||
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"Definitely do the social first. Then at least you can jump out the toilet window. "nearly all got those anti open and climb gadgets fitted not to all social visits please take with you a Swiss army knife with multitude of attachments to remove said device enabling exit from the building | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "Before I saw your profile I expected you to be about 13. How rude of you, the lady must feel awful. | |||
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"Out of interest, what excuse did you give?" he said his dog had caught the clap as a guess or his house was on fire and had to respond | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong" if she posts out of date pics, she reaps what she sows. you left
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong" We can all look different in photos. That's forgiveable, what isn't is blatant bullshit in a profile. You're a bullshitter and now all the women who read your post now know that. | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong" Quite right.... You did the right thing | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong" make sure you have a social in future | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
Before I saw your profile I expected you to be about 13.
How rude of you, the lady must feel awful."So you would have still fucked the lady even thou there was no attraction? | |||
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"Minger??? Oh dear, how rude." Very  | |||
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""She looked awful" what does that mean? I'm assuming you saw face pictures. If I describe someone as being a minger it means that they are filthy dirty. You didn't mention her hygene just the way she looked. You should of politely left, chalked it down to not doing your homework correctly and certainly not coming on the forums being nasty about her especially if she's on this site " Minger means ugly to me  | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong" Very wrong. If a wonen had posted this about a guy the replys would have been very different. | |||
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"Definitely do the social first. Then at least you can jump out the toilet window. "I think I'd push him out of the toilet window | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong Very wrong. If a wonen had posted this about a guy the replys would have been very different. "double standards | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
Before I saw your profile I expected you to be about 13.
How rude of you, the lady must feel awful.
So you would have still fucked the lady even thou there was no attraction?"not if you've got a tongue in your head, you say sorry I don't wish to take this further or similar. If it was just a general didn't look like there pictures and didn't do it to decieve. However, if they where a completly different weight and age then I would tell them that reason | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "You've just committed social suicide | |||
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 ...just the once, but I had travelled a long way and booked a hotel for the meet...afterwards regretted it and voucher never again... | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
Before I saw your profile I expected you to be about 13.
How rude of you, the lady must feel awful.
So you would have still fucked the lady even thou there was no attraction?"I've met plenty of men that I haven't had a connection with. I DON'T start a thread about them calling them mingers  | |||
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"I am going to go a little off track here but still on a similar subject... how many of us have swapped pics, thought they looked ok, arranged a social and then were absolutely gobsmacked by the vision in front them? I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter...... I was furious as I had taken a day off to meet him so we chatted and I let him buy me lunch before telling him he wasn't my type and making a swift exit "well more fool you. He still got what he wanted which was a lunch date with you there's no way I'd hang around to potentially lead someone on. | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong Very wrong. If a wonen had posted this about a guy the replys would have been very different. "No they wouldn't,it's the fact he called her a minger that's all. It's not a very grown up thing to say is it,I appreciate it must be very frustrating and quite annoying,but no need for name calling. | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile . What if she reads your description of her on here . ? | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't have used the term minger but I don't think there is a need for everyone to dig the OP out. He raises an interesting point which I understand is quite common, which is that of people not being as described, whether that be due to photos not being exchanged or photos being out of date. " With all due respect, he didn't mention the pic issue in the opening post | |||
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I get what he meant ...
people can be very misleading on the internet, its the nature of the beast, so to speak...
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "Didn't you see her pics first or cam before you went to meet the minger  | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
Before I saw your profile I expected you to be about 13.
How rude of you, the lady must feel awful.
So you would have still fucked the lady even thou there was no attraction?"I bet the ladies are cuing up to meet you now you old charmer | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't have used the term minger but I don't think there is a need for everyone to dig the OP out. He raises an interesting point which I understand is quite common, which is that of people not being as described, whether that be due to photos not being exchanged or photos being out of date. " there's nothing wrong with his point, he used the word minger to describe someomes appearance. It's the way it was worded | |||
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"I am going to go a little off track here but still on a similar subject... how many of us have swapped pics, thought they looked ok, arranged a social and then were absolutely gobsmacked by the vision in front them? I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter...... I was furious as I had taken a day off to meet him so we chatted and I let him buy me lunch before telling him he wasn't my type and making a swift exit well more fool you. He still got what he wanted which was a lunch date with you there's no way I'd hang around to potentially lead someone on.
"more fool me? that's an odd take on it...I got a free lunch, he didn't get a fuck
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" I don't think there is a need for everyone to dig the OP out. " I do. He's a profile bullshitter | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile .
What if she reads your description of her on here . ? "Hopefullyshe will speak up and save us all the ttrouble the op had | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile .
What if she reads your description of her on here . ? "She may sort her profile and pictures out. That must be a good thing. Spare the next meet from this | |||
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"I am going to go a little off track here but still on a similar subject... how many of us have swapped pics, thought they looked ok, arranged a social and then were absolutely gobsmacked by the vision in front them? I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter...... I was furious as I had taken a day off to meet him so we chatted and I let him buy me lunch before telling him he wasn't my type and making a swift exit well more fool you. He still got what he wanted which was a lunch date with you there's no way I'd hang around to potentially lead someone on.
more fool me? that's an odd take on it...I got a free lunch, he didn't get a fuck
and he was the one leading on by pretending to be something he clearly was not "Hope it wasnt macdonalds | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile .
What if she reads your description of her on here . ?
She may sort her profile and pictures out. That must be a good thing. Spare the next meet from this "and that is why you politely but firmly say it on the meet, instead of not having the balls to say itmto someomes face but then run back opening a thread titled minger | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile .
What if she reads your description of her on here . ?
She may sort her profile and pictures out. That must be a good thing. Spare the next meet from this "He could of just told her privately not started a thread | |||
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"Would this also apply to pussy and cock pictures that did not match up in reality "yes if it was a tiddler I'd tell him to do one | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile .
What if she reads your description of her on here . ?
She may sort her profile and pictures out. That must be a good thing. Spare the next meet from this
He could of just told her privately not started a thread "Not the 1st or gonna be the last. | |||
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"Talking about any woman like that is so wrong and why women thing men are asses. How do you know she didn't think you was a minger? She may not have thought you was all that either..." to be fair, you read disingenuous threads posted by women about men all the time. that's why my comments would be the same. why people take to the forum to bitch about meets is beyond me, but hey | |||
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" She may not have thought you was all that either..." He aint | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team If your meet was from this forum , surely you should not be posting comments of this nature on here , especially as you have no pictures on your own profile .
What if she reads your description of her on here . ?
She may sort her profile and pictures out. That must be a good thing. Spare the next meet from this "Absolutely | |||
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"I am going to go a little off track here but still on a similar subject... how many of us have swapped pics, thought they looked ok, arranged a social and then were absolutely gobsmacked by the vision in front them? I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter...... I was furious as I had taken a day off to meet him so we chatted and I let him buy me lunch before telling him he wasn't my type and making a swift exit well more fool you. He still got what he wanted which was a lunch date with you there's no way I'd hang around to potentially lead someone on.
more fool me? that's an odd take on it...I got a free lunch, he didn't get a fuck
and he was the one leading on by pretending to be something he clearly was not "fair enough, but if he thinks he can get a lunch date with an attractive woman (sex or no sex) then he will carry on using them. If someone blatently mislead me there is no way I'd pamper to them but then I'm able to buy my own lunch | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't have used the term minger but I don't think there is a need for everyone to dig the OP out. He raises an interesting point which I understand is quite common, which is that of people not being as described, whether that be due to photos not being exchanged or photos being out of date. With all due respect, he didn't mention the pic issue in the opening post" ok accepted. Without question though the focus of topic is meeting someone who is i) not as described ii) not as they look in their photos or iii) assuming i/ii don't apply, then not very easy on the eye. What do you do in those circs? OP, I think you were right to walk.It is not uncommon for people to just fuck anyway as by that point, they are thinking with their penis and not their brain | |||
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"Would this also apply to pussy and cock pictures that did not match up in reality
yes if it was a tiddler I'd tell him to do one "...or conversely he may be much bigger than his pictures | |||
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"Took one for the team ...just the once, but I had travelled a long way and booked a hotel for the meet...afterwards regretted it and voucher never again..."Ive done this.... Makes me shudder when thinking of it | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't have used the term minger but I don't think there is a need for everyone to dig the OP out. He raises an interesting point which I understand is quite common, which is that of people not being as described, whether that be due to photos not being exchanged or photos being out of date. With all due respect, he didn't mention the pic issue in the opening post ok accepted. Without question though the focus of topic is meeting someone who is i) not as described ii) not as they look in their photos or iii) assuming i/ii don't apply, then not very easy on the eye. What do you do in those circs? OP, I think you were right to walk.It is not uncommon for people to just fuck anyway as by that point, they are thinking with their penis and not their brain" We always do a social meet. Problem solved. | |||
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"Would this also apply to pussy and cock pictures that did not match up in reality
yes if it was a tiddler I'd tell him to do one ...or conversely he may be much bigger than his pictures "if that happens then its a win win situation  | |||
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"Would this also apply to pussy and cock pictures that did not match up in reality
yes if it was a tiddler I'd tell him to do one "A tiddler ha ha xx | |||
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"Yes I saw pics but she looked nothing like them ("We arranged a social meet with a single man at a local coffee shop, when he arrived looked nothing like his photos he had sent..my john asked him why his son could not make the meet..he got up and left..lol...connie x | |||
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"Yes I saw pics but she looked nothing like them (
We arranged a social meet with a single man at a local coffee shop, when he arrived looked nothing like his photos he had sent..my john asked him why his son could not make the meet..he got up and left..lol...connie x "Brilliant | |||
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" I've met plenty of men that I haven't had a connection with. I DON'T start a thread about them calling them mingers "This!
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We arranged a social meet with a single man at a local coffee shop, when he arrived looked nothing like his photos he had sent..my john asked him why his son could not make the meet..he got up and left..lol...connie x "That's funny,I need a John! | |||
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"One persons minger is another persons beauty "That's exactly true, we all have different opinions of what beauty it...just have some respect not to call people cos they don't match your veiw. | |||
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"I am going to go a little off track here but still on a similar subject... how many of us have swapped pics, thought they looked ok, arranged a social and then were absolutely gobsmacked by the vision in front them? I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter...... I was furious as I had taken a day off to meet him so we chatted and I let him buy me lunch before telling him he wasn't my type and making a swift exit well more fool you. He still got what he wanted which was a lunch date with you there's no way I'd hang around to potentially lead someone on.
more fool me? that's an odd take on it...I got a free lunch, he didn't get a fuck
and he was the one leading on by pretending to be something he clearly was not fair enough, but if he thinks he can get a lunch date with an attractive woman (sex or no sex) then he will carry on using them.
If someone blatently mislead me there is no way I'd pamper to them but then I'm able to buy my own lunch
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"I am going to go a little off track here but still on a similar subject... how many of us have swapped pics, thought they looked ok, arranged a social and then were absolutely gobsmacked by the vision in front them? I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter...... I was furious as I had taken a day off to meet him so we chatted and I let him buy me lunch before telling him he wasn't my type and making a swift exit well more fool you. He still got what he wanted which was a lunch date with you there's no way I'd hang around to potentially lead someone on.
more fool me? that's an odd take on it...I got a free lunch, he didn't get a fuck
and he was the one leading on by pretending to be something he clearly was not fair enough, but if he thinks he can get a lunch date with an attractive woman (sex or no sex) then he will carry on using them.
If someone blatently mislead me there is no way I'd pamper to them but then I'm able to buy my own lunch
this was a long time ago when I was younger and more impressionable, and when someone offers you lunch at a posh restaurant you think...whats the harm?
these days I am a lot more cautious and always go dutch on the coffee and muffin " I just this k that if people purposely go out their way to decieve and get away with it they will carry on. I've done plenty of things when I was younger that's how we learn. | |||
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"This is exactly why I ask for photos then arrange a social to confirm we are who we claim to look like in the pictures, if there's still mutual attraction arrange a further meet. By arranging a social it's stopped approx 50% of future meets ". Probably massively reduced those time wasters too. | |||
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""She looked awful" what does that mean? I'm assuming you saw face pictures. If I describe someone as being a minger it means that they are filthy dirty. You didn't mention her hygene just the way she looked. You should of politely left, chalked it down to not doing your homework correctly and certainly not coming on the forums being nasty about her especially if she's on this site Minger means ugly to me "Same here, Now minging to me is she lives in a messy dirty house. I suppose we all have our own thoughts on this | |||
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"Now everyone's got that out, cleared the air as to speak, let's all be friends, we art merely all hither for art of thou fun mingers allowed to must be haha I'm here " | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "so would you describe her as a fab minger | |||
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""She looked awful" what does that mean? I'm assuming you saw face pictures. If I describe someone as being a minger it means that they are filthy dirty. You didn't mention her hygene just the way she looked. You should of politely left, chalked it down to not doing your homework correctly and certainly not coming on the forums being nasty about her especially if she's on this site Minger means ugly to me
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Now minging to me is she lives in a messy dirty house.
I suppose we all have our own thoughts on this "so youd describe someone as a minger just because you weren't attracted to them? People can't help what their face looks like | |||
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""She looked awful" what does that mean? I'm assuming you saw face pictures. If I describe someone as being a minger it means that they are filthy dirty. You didn't mention her hygene just the way she looked. You should of politely left, chalked it down to not doing your homework correctly and certainly not coming on the forums being nasty about her especially if she's on this site Minger means ugly to me "According to the dictionary it means "an unattractive or unpleasant person or thing" | |||
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""She looked awful" what does that mean? I'm assuming you saw face pictures. If I describe someone as being a minger it means that they are filthy dirty. You didn't mention her hygene just the way she looked. You should of politely left, chalked it down to not doing your homework correctly and certainly not coming on the forums being nasty about her especially if she's on this site Minger means ugly to me "Ditto!!! | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever ." Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him " I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong" Some people are naturally photogenic (or look good for a camera as my late mum used to say)and are completely different in the flesh.Me,well I cant pose to save my life but ive been told I look so much better in 'real life'.I can understand how you feel let down as its happened to me a few time on dating sites with people pretending to be something they are not.It may have been kinder though to keep your thoughts on your meet private or keep them for down the pub with your non swinging mates!! | |||
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" I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum Cough bollocks cough " What part of that is bollocks? I don't think many people check what a person has posted on the forum before meeting them. Even if do, if the OP posts enough it will soon disappear from the green tick list. | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum" we can only judge the op by what he says on the forums, now if I met someone and they started to refer to other people as mingers there not the kind of person I'd spend time with, there was someome on here the other day who was saying how her fb used certain derograry terms to describe parts of women he didn't like. That for me is a no no. People can't help what they are born with and shouldn't be made to feel any different because of it. I know its a simple term and many use such terms but it would be the difference between me wanting to spend the time with someome and not | |||
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"Specifically, the estimation on offending people in the forums not about the op's future chances. It's offensive full stop. No excuses. And it sounded like you were sticking up for him, making out it's not that bad because the recipient of the comment may well not read it. Bollocks! I read it, that's enough for me " If you can look again, I was responding to specific comment which suggested the OP should delete his profile and start again. I made an observation that contrary to popular belief, people can make derogatory remarks on the forum without it impacting on their ability to later get meets. How this amounts to sticking up for the OP, I don't know. Just because I haven't joined with proverbial kicking the OP has got, does not mean I agree with his actions | |||
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"Specifically, the estimation on offending people in the forums not about the op's future chances. It's offensive full stop. No excuses. And it sounded like you were sticking up for him, making out it's not that bad because the recipient of the comment may well not read it. Bollocks! I read it, that's enough for me If you can look again, I was responding to specific comment which suggested the OP should delete his profile and start again. I made an observation that contrary to popular belief, people can make derogatory remarks on the forum without it impacting on their ability to later get meets. How this amounts to sticking up for the OP, I don't know. Just because I haven't joined with proverbial kicking the OP has got, does not mean I agree with his actions" Slightly ambiguous, but fair enough. I apologise to you Mr Shrews x x x | |||
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"some people need to get a grip and put this in context... the OP never actually called anyone a 'minger'....he possibly and quite wrongly used the word as an attention grabbing tool, which obviously worked very well he actually said he had a meet with a lady... and when he got there she was not as advertised.... the fact he stayed 10 mins instead of just bailing as soon as she opened the door also speaks volumes... lynch mobs and pitchfork pokers move along please.....nothing to see here "Damn it! What am I supposed to do with this flaming torch now? | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum" Never a truer statement .... If people from the forum don't want to meet us because we think it's wrong to give out misleading pics and still expect a shag , I don't reckon we will be too bothered . As for using the term minger .... I don't find it offensive at all . It's a great word | |||
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"some people need to get a grip and put this in context... the OP never actually called anyone a 'minger'....he possibly and quite wrongly used the word as an attention grabbing tool, which obviously worked very well he actually said he had a meet with a lady... and when he got there she was not as advertised.... the fact he stayed 10 mins instead of just bailing as soon as she opened the door also speaks volumes... lynch mobs and pitchfork pokers move along please.....nothing to see here
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum Never a truer statement .... If people from the forum don't want to meet us because we think it's wrong to give out misleading pics and still expect a shag , I don't reckon we will be too bothered . As for using the term minger .... I don't find it offensive at all . It's a great word "where has anyone said its not wrong to give out misleading pictures? | |||
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"some people need to get a grip and put this in context... the OP never actually called anyone a 'minger'....he possibly and quite wrongly used the word as an attention grabbing tool, which obviously worked very well he actually said he had a meet with a lady... and when he got there she was not as advertised.... the fact he stayed 10 mins instead of just bailing as soon as she opened the door also speaks volumes... lynch mobs and pitchfork pokers move along please.....nothing to see here
Damn it! What am I supposed to do with this flaming torch now?"Oooooh!! Tempted much! | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum Never a truer statement .... If people from the forum don't want to meet us because we think it's wrong to give out misleading pics and still expect a shag , I don't reckon we will be too bothered . As for using the term minger .... I don't find it offensive at all . It's a great word "Oh my days .... that's my husband speaking | |||
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"My parents brought me up to be a gentleman (the bastards), I wouldn't dream of addressing anyone in that manner and I do get the point about it being a thread title but he was implying the obvious and he knows it which is why his mincey f****t balls have shrunk and he's disappeared " | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong Very wrong. If a wonen had posted this about a guy the replys would have been very different.
No they wouldn't,it's the fact he called her a minger that's all. It's not a very grown up thing to say is it,I appreciate it must be very frustrating and quite annoying,but no need for name calling."I agree it's how he has said it. The language used is harsh and volatile. If he had said he turned up and she did look like her photo or that she wasn't well presented  | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrong Very wrong. If a wonen had posted this about a guy the replys would have been very different.
No they wouldn't,it's the fact he called her a minger that's all. It's not a very grown up thing to say is it,I appreciate it must be very frustrating and quite annoying,but no need for name calling.
I agree it's how he has said it. The language used is harsh and volatile. If he had said he turned up and she did look like her photo or that she wasn't well presented " | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team "In future use TROG not minger Calling someone a minger isn't very nice | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
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Calling someone a minger isn't very nice "as stated earlier he didn't call anyone a minger..... | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum Never a truer statement .... If people from the forum don't want to meet us because we think it's wrong to give out misleading pics and still expect a shag , I don't reckon we will be too bothered . As for using the term minger .... I don't find it offensive at all . It's a great word
Oh my days .... that's my husband speaking "and how would he feel if someone you'd just met called you a minger? Just wondering that's all... | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
Team? What team, aren't you a single male? Or is it that you see your cock as a separate entity?" | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
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as stated earlier he didn't call anyone a minger....."Yes thats true. Sorry OP | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
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"wonder what would of happened if the op was a woman and said minger......" It would be no different. | |||
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"How inconsiderate towards the other persons feelings. I hope she dosent read this. " Doesn't | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
In future use TROG not minger
Calling someone a minger isn't very nice
as stated earlier he didn't call anyone a minger.....
Then why title the thread 'minger' I think we all know he was."This thread says more about the OP than it does about the lady he met. | |||
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"How inconsiderate towards the other persons feelings. I hope she dosent read this. Doesn't "oh im so sorry not | |||
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"This is exactly why I ask for photos then arrange a social to confirm we are who we claim to look like in the pictures, if there's still mutual attraction arrange a further meet. By arranging a social it's stopped approx 50% of future meets "Exactly why i do social only for first meet | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum" I believe its only around 1% of users that use the forums, however this lady could be within that 1%. I know I'd be hurt if I read such a thread about me on the the forums | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team
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"Out of interest, what excuse did you give?" Why? You didn't have someone bail on you last week did you? Lol (A joke by the way, before I get lynched by the forum police) | |||
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"Oh what a charming man you are! I use kik for potential meets and ask for pics you can see if they are gallery pics or cam pics so this helps with fishing out the bullshitters. "Charming? Donald Trump taught him everything he knows on the subject! | |||
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"I understand the negative comments but when they look nothing like there pic it's wrongmake sure you have a social in future " Hang on does meeting somone in a pub or coffee shop as oposed to thier front door step change how they look? If not there's the exact same moment except you've got an audience | |||
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"Talking about any woman like that is so wrong and why women thing men are asses. How do you know she didn't think you was a minger? She may not have thought you was all that either..." | |||
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" I was caught out like this by a man who claimed he was over 6ft and slimmish, we swapped pics...his looked perfectly ok...we met.... he was about 5'10'', barrel chested and looked nothing like the pic, which he later admitted was taken a good 10 yrs previously when he was slimmer and fitter......" Think I met him too | |||
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"I wouldn't say no, it is just a fuck at the end of the day, just empty the balls n' go lol." | |||
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"I wouldn't say no, it is just a fuck at the end of the day, just empty the balls n' go lol. "I know who said that without scrolling up | |||
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"I wouldn't say no, it is just a fuck at the end of the day, just empty the balls n' go lol.
I know who said that without scrolling up "yup | |||
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"I wouldn't say no, it is just a fuck at the end of the day, just empty the balls n' go lol.
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"Let's say,for instance,I fancied THX and had photoshopped or old pics of myself,hiding my minging body and old face. Do I deserve sympathy when he runs away screaming Minger!! Or is my fault for lying to him?" Thats ok we'll just tape a tablet to the top of your head and ill look at the photoshopped pics | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team did you not know what she looked like before you got there ? "YES!! she looked fantastic....and then she opened the door and reality hit!! that was the whole problem | |||
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"Oh what a charming man you are! I use kik for potential meets and ask for pics you can see if they are gallery pics or cam pics so this helps with fishing out the bullshitters.
Charming? Donald Trump taught him everything he knows on the subject! "Hahaha god help America if they vote in a president with the surname trump reglardless of what type of person he is. (Btw I don't do politics | |||
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"I wouldn't say no, it is just a fuck at the end of the day, just empty the balls n' go lol." I've missed you shag x | |||
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"Let's say,for instance,I fancied THX and had photoshopped or old pics of myself,hiding my minging body and old face. Do I deserve sympathy when he runs away screaming Minger!! Or is my fault for lying to him? Thats ok we'll just tape a tablet to the top of your head and ill look at the photoshopped pics "You might notice how bouncy I am | |||
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"I wouldn't say no, it is just a fuck at the end of the day, just empty the balls n' go lol. I've missed you shag x" Thanks, missed you too, nice to have you back x. | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team ". It seems odd to make this post as your profile hides your own pictures . Is there a specific reason for hiding these but judging others ?. | |||
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"If someone you meet isn't what expected or not to your hygiene standards ,be a grown up .as in don't start a thread on it as it ain't big and isn't clever . Yayyyy...... Oh but he's respectful , don't you know........ I'd be tempted to delete my profile and start again if I was him I think people over estimate the impact of offending people on the forums can have. Whilst admittedly there is a chance it could effect future meets, a lot of fab users don't go on the forum Never a truer statement .... If people from the forum don't want to meet us because we think it's wrong to give out misleading pics and still expect a shag , I don't reckon we will be too bothered . As for using the term minger .... I don't find it offensive at all . It's a great word
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and how would he feel if someone you'd just met called you a minger? Just wondering that's all..."Not happy , but if they called him one he would take it on the chin if he had shared pics which weren't representative of himself | |||
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YES!! she looked fantastic....and then she opened the door and reality hit!! that was the whole problem "well do people look so vastly different from their pics and do women actually invite you to their home to fuck you without having met you first ,the whole thing seems bizarre to me | |||
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"I recently had a meet with a lady , went to her house and when I got there she looked awful , I stayed about ten minutes then made my excuses and left , has this happened to anyone else or did you take one for the team did you not know what she looked like before you got there ?
YES!! she looked fantastic....and then she opened the door and reality hit!! that was the whole problem well do people look so vastly different from their pics and do women actually invite you to their home to fuck you without having met you first ,the whole thing seems bizarre to me "
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