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Spur of the moment OR plan ahead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like to plan meets/club visits in advance or are you more a spur of the moment decide on the the day to play ?

We've planned for a couple of weeks to either visit a club or invite someone round to our home one night this weekend but now it's getting closer neither of us feel too motivated to do anything. Sometimes I think getting home on a Friday and thinking lets go to a club seems more fun

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Always spur of the moment for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we very rarely plan most meets are random spur of the moment this is because of the very little free time we get (onne a week if lucky) but random meets we get hardly any let downs the ones we plan well its 50/50 as to if they turn up or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly spur of the moment, we have to take advantage of teenagers deciding to be out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So wish we could just do spur of the moment , but with having to arrange sitters etc...., it's not possible .

Of late we have had some great pre arranged meets , so both are good for us

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Plan ahead for me as I don't play at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment for us .... but we do have a meet planned at the moment for February. But on the spur is very horny !!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

All our meets have to be arranged in advance, round work shifts and kids.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Always plan ahead as being a single female I do need to get to know someone first.

If I have to go without for months like now then so be it

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Plan ahead for us although sometimes we will just go to the club without having arranged an actual meet.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"Always plan ahead as being a single female I do need to get to know someone first.

If I have to go without for months like now then so be it "

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

For me spur of the moment is better. Have done planned meets too but many have been cancelled for several reasons. I have had some very good spur of the moment meets. On 2 occasions I have logged onto fab and got chatting to guys who were staying in my area for work. Within less than 2 hours of saying hello I was in there hotel room getting what I craved-somehow I find this sort of meet even more exciting -must be my inner slut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment. Explosive spontaneous sex is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to plan and make sure I'm happy with who I'm meeting. I've done the occasional last min thing but not very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur or near last thing for us planing seems to go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like planned meetings. People asking for spur of the moment things irritate me because often I want to meet them, but can't do so within their timescale which leaves me in a bad mood.

Each to their own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done both and like both. Mainly just club meeting now tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment as we would chicken out otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment.

Tried to plan a meet once and the guy turned into a right fuckin pest so never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets are normally planned in advance but when I go to clubs it's generally spur of the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both, depends on the mood and time space arrangements. Off the cusp is always exciting but alot of the time rushed and a bit haphazard. Planned is a little more predictable but you tend to get to know what a person likes and have a little more of a social interaction which again can make a night much more enjoyable for all

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Plan ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A planner

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Plan ahead, I like the tease and that's when the foreplay starts. I also stop wanking so they get the benefit of their teasing

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Plan ahead, I like the tease and that's when the foreplay starts. I also stop wanking so they get the benefit of their teasing "

This

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"Plan ahead, I like the tease and that's when the foreplay starts. I also stop wanking so they get the benefit of their teasing

This "

I would Have had two weeks saved...he better bring his wetsuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan head builds up the excitement of the meet plenty of teaseing to be done before the actual meet

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Plan ahead, I like the tease and that's when the foreplay starts. I also stop wanking so they get the benefit of their teasing

This

I would Have had two weeks saved...he better bring his wetsuit "

And snorkel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much planning ahead for Fab socials and or meets..

As for just us planned and spur of the moment works for life outside of Fab

Him

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By *tickyfingers60Couple
over a year ago

rochdale


"Spur of the moment.

Tried to plan a meet once and the guy turned into a right fuckin pest so never again "

Planned social meet for us...... as same as quote, pestered for months as we stupidly gave out mobile number......only meeting at a club do you see what people are really like and then you can decide if they are for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned social 99% of the time. I've only ever met one lady for fun without a social but she's very much an exception to any rules.

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By *ittletonCplCouple
over a year ago

cannock

Plan to go to a club - but nothing pre-arranged when we get there. Never let down on this basis.

Most weekends busy doing other stuff - so only ever a few times a year for us.

I often plan for her to be fucked - and this quite often doesn't happen (for any reason) - anticipation and planning makes this fun anyway.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Personally Due to my times of meet and my shifts at work i'm usually in impulsive and want to meet then type of guy I know it's not everybody's cup of tea but it's usually the best I can do How very very rarely met people on and arrange basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the time pre arranged due to family and other commitments.

But the occasional spur of the moments have been great too!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I have to organise time off work, book a room and traveL for around an hour. So they're usually planned for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our play diary is planned with military precision. We typically know what we are doing about a month ahead. That's because we have to arrange babysitting in advance whenever we want to go out or entertain.

Mrs

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By *antzMan
over a year ago

alton

I prefer last minute meets, less to go wrong!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A mixture of both for me. Depends on circumstances, who I'm meeting etc.

I quite enjoy having nothing planned and then a Fab chum comes over

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