FabSwingers.com forum: Supply and demand

By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

False

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

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no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

False, I could never be rude and nasty to a woman unless horrendously provoked and verbally attacked and even then I am not sure I would

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Are women rude and nasty to men now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish people would get a grip. It's the internet. People are more likely to give you a straight answer. If you message someone something a bit silly or a fancy a fuck message then what do you expect.

And as I side note men are just as rude and nasty to women now! Without the swapped round ratio

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm not rude and nasty to anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get rude messages, I get arrogant men who think they are doing me a favour by offering them to myself. Us single fems can have 10 a penny and a revolving door if we wished.

I just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see many women being nasty on here at all

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it

This

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I treat people how they treat me.

So if they send me a rude message then I will return the favour. If after I say thank you for your message but no thank you I receive a 'I wouldn't fuck a fat ugly slag like you' I will let him know the reason I said no thank you.... and I will be considerably less polite than my 1st refusal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is to short to waste time on being rude to others. I believe in treating others how I would like to be treated and that karma will catch up with the rude ones sooner rather than later.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I am 'rude n nasty' to lots of guys here; I reply with, "no thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 'rude n nasty' to lots of guys here; I reply with, "no thanks""
of course you do you don't need anymore than you've got

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

I'm not rude and nasty to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always polite, thanks but no thanks, generally leads to a bombardment of messages. I think if some single men got the same message every day they'd give up quicker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

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No we wouldn't, cos some just got bad personality traits in them and cant be nice lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down to the individual if they are rude not the gender / supply demand ratio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's down to the individual if they are rude not the gender / supply demand ratio."
I said that earlier beautiful x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

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. I am not certain if the radio makes any difference . Successfull people do not resort to being rude or nasty as it is an indication of failure .

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By *hampagneAfterpartyCouple
over a year ago

Depends what you find rude. Had plenty of single women read messages and ignore them. Or delete before reading them. If you're sensitive you could find that rude. It is a bit rude but single women get lots of messages, so they naturally become more dismissive as they become more popular. And yes if the male female ratio changed the men would become the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's down to the individual if they are rude not the gender / supply demand ratio. I said that earlier beautiful x

So you did

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Depends what you find rude. Had plenty of single women read messages and ignore them. Or delete before reading them. If you're sensitive you could find that rude. It is a bit rude but single women get lots of messages, so they naturally become more dismissive as they become more popular. And yes if the male female ratio changed the men would become the same "

Yes i think so too but one things for sure we will never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,they would say yes to every woman who messaged them. I think the term is "knee deep in clunge"

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"No,they would say yes to every woman who messaged them. I think the term is "knee deep in clunge"

We perhaps need a volunteer to test this out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always polite even when the other person has been abusive after a thanks but no thanks just report and block don't need rude aggressive people on here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

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of cause not its nothing to do with ratios, some people are rude and nasty and some not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never rude to people who message me

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I was asked by a guy at a social meet, did I enjoy being raped - I told him to fuck right off.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I was asked by a guy at a social meet, did I enjoy being raped - I told him to fuck right off. "

That is so rude of you. You do realise that you may have hurt his feelings, don't you

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I haven't encountered too many men being rude in messages, women either, often found couples presumptuous. On the forums, however, some women do come across as entitled and divisive, whereas some men tend to agree with everyone. To be honest, I much prefer a but of healthy debate than all the fawning, now that is nauseating. If I find anything offensive, including someone's profile content, I block them .... someone offending me acts as a great filter.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it

Agreed

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it

Agreed "

Disagree lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it

Agreed

Disagree lol"

Why disagree?

I disagree with the fact that you're lumping every woman on the site into a "rude and nasty" category. To me, that's rather rude and nasty of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am never rude or nasty to anyone... Yet have had rude, nasty and sometimes abusive messages from some men and some couples..

It is the individual person..

So in answer to your question.. False.. As the ratio has nothing to do with people's behaviour.

And to clarify it is not rude to ignore a message you have not asked for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree , there are rude people of every group represented on this site. There are also some lovely ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always polite even when the other person has been abusive after a thanks but no thanks just report and block don't need rude aggressive people on here. "

Just occasionally

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it

Agreed

Disagree lol

Why disagree?

I disagree with the fact that you're lumping every woman on the site into a "rude and nasty" category. To me, that's rather rude and nasty of you."

Apology for the alledged lumping but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

I'm never rude to anyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont get rude messages, I get arrogant men who think they are doing me a favour by offering them to myself. Us single fems can have 10 a penny and a revolving door if we wished.

I just block and move on. "

On here Yes.

But out of fab no sexy young men approach me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

If by 'rude and nasty' you mean narcissistic and overly demanding - then I'd suggest that, if many men didn't tell every woman on the site how gorgeous they are from the minute they join the site, then certain women wouldn't believe the bullshit and disappear up their own arses!!

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I dont get rude messages, I get arrogant men who think they are doing me a favour by offering them to myself. Us single fems can have 10 a penny and a revolving door if we wished.

I just block and move on.

On here Yes.

But out of fab no sexy young men approach me "

I have the same problem lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"no because being rude or ignorant to a person is about that person and ratios don't come into it "

This

minus the emoticons

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

Disappearing up their own arses magic, coming back NO

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1."

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx"

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd get a fuck of a lot more meets if I lived in the Birmingham area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do ratios, everything to do with good manners!!

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I'd get a fuck of a lot more meets if I lived in the Birmingham area."

So would I

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'd get a fuck of a lot more meets if I lived in the Birmingham area."

The guys from Norwich would be after you though

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'd get a fuck of a lot more meets if I lived in the Birmingham area.

The guys from Norwich would be after you though

The ones I fancy, (and say they fancy me), are not in Norwich, sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont get rude messages, I get arrogant men who think they are doing me a favour by offering them to myself. Us single fems can have 10 a penny and a revolving door if we wished.

I just block and move on.

On here Yes.

But out of fab no sexy young men approach me

I have the same problem lol"

I don't know how to deal with it

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I dont get rude messages, I get arrogant men who think they are doing me a favour by offering them to myself. Us single fems can have 10 a penny and a revolving door if we wished.

I just block and move on.

On here Yes.

But out of fab no sexy young men approach me

I have the same problem lol

I don't know how to deal with it "

Well i grin and bear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences."

Single males don't have any preferences do they

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences.

Single males don't have any preferences do they

Er, "their" preferences refers to both the men and the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences.

Single males don't have any preferences do they

Er, "their" preferences refers to both the men and the women

So how would that affect the ratios?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single males don't have any preferences do they

Thankfully not all men are just after a random spunk dump.

And to answer the OP's question: if the ratios changed, the men and women who acted like twats would still act like twats, those who are polite and happy would remain the same, but the amount of messages/meets/sex would change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a rude reply or met an arrogant lady on here. I sometimes get a polite no thank you but that is a woman's privilege. I have found over the years that politeness costs nothing and dwelling on somebody else's choices is a waste of time. Treat people as you wish to be treated , be it on here or not.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences.

Single males don't have any preferences do they

Er, "their" preferences refers to both the men and the women

So how would that affect the ratios?"

Are you for real?

Because to be a potential meet, for any individual, BOTH party's preferences need to be met.

If the overall ratios are 10:1 but a woman won't meet smokers, that changes the ratio for possible meets for her, individually, (and alters the ratio for men who smoke vs men who don't smoke). However, if there are men that won't meet BBWs and the woman is a BBW, that also changes the ratios, for both of them.

Examples

10 women, 4 won't meet smokers and 6 will. 100 men, 30 smokers and 70 non-smokers.

The overall ratio is 10:1 men to women.

Assuming all other preferences match, the ratio of potential meets for the women who will meet smokers (and for male smokers) is 6 women to 100 men.

For the women who won't meet smokers (and for male non-smokers) the ratio is 4 women to 70 men.

Taking the men's preferences into account will clearly change those ratios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences.

Single males don't have any preferences do they

Er, "their" preferences refers to both the men and the women

So how would that affect the ratios?

Are you for real?

Because to be a potential meet, for any individual, BOTH party's preferences need to be met.

Examples

10 women, 4 won't meet smokers and 6 will. 100 men, 30 smokers and 70 non-smokers.

The overall ratio is 10:1 men to women.

Assuming all other preferences match, the ratio of potential meets for the women who will meet smokers (and for male smokers) is 6 women to 100 men.

For the women who won't meet smokers (and for male non-smokers) the ratio is 4 women to 70 men.

Taking the men's preferences into account will clearly change those ratios."

Am I for real?

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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"If the ratio of women to men on fab was 3-1 men would be rude and nasty to women as women are to men now, because supply and demand would be in mans favour. Is this true or false?

The ratio is actually 10/1 - I've done a few forum thread surveys over the years - more if you assume a number of female profiles are fake!

The last check I did in this area put the ratio at about 7:1.

It seems to vary between about 7:1, maybe less in more remote areas, and around 15:1.

Yeah you're right!

I was given info for 60 areas/towns and it averaged out at 10/1 xx

Of course, some of those will be cheating on partners, some smokers, some without profile pics, some black/white/asian/blue, some sub/Dom etc.

So ratios of potential single male meets to any one individual woman could be dramatically different depending upon their preferences.

Single males don't have any preferences do they

Er, "their" preferences refers to both the men and the women

So how would that affect the ratios?

Are you for real?

Because to be a potential meet, for any individual, BOTH party's preferences need to be met.

Examples

10 women, 4 won't meet smokers and 6 will. 100 men, 30 smokers and 70 non-smokers.

The overall ratio is 10:1 men to women.

Assuming all other preferences match, the ratio of potential meets for the women who will meet smokers (and for male smokers) is 6 women to 100 men.

For the women who won't meet smokers (and for male non-smokers) the ratio is 4 women to 70 men.

Taking the men's preferences into account will clearly change those ratios.

Am I for real?

Not sure?

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