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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.

We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.

The wife is stunning to say the least.....

The husband is in a wheel chair.

Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would be too but maybe it's a fantasy of theirs.

I wouldn't even entertain the idea if I was a man and another guy offered his wife for sex when she wasn't present.

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

I would be sceptical, but I can see it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks by offering you money, it would keep it on a strictly 'business footing'? But then, you know what that makes you..?

If she is as attractive as you suggest, maybe he fears someone who can satisfy her in bed taking her away from him, and it's his way of keeping a form of 'control' over it?

If the scenario is genuine and not a work of fantasy (like that's never been known on here!), then it 'could' work, but personally I wouldn't take money from the guy. Maybe you ought to speak to him again... find out what is behind the offer...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A neighbour, ooh no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would offer you my wife hahaha if I had a nieghbour like you only thing is she probably wouldn't come back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would be sceptical, but I can see it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks by offering you money, it would keep it on a strictly 'business footing'? But then, you know what that makes you..?

If she is as attractive as you suggest, maybe he fears someone who can satisfy her in bed taking her away from him, and it's his way of keeping a form of 'control' over it?

To be honest I felt a bit embarrassed.

Was rather shocked. Didn't really feel comfortable having the conversation with him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see"

Would you honestly take his money, fuck his wife and be cool with it.?

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"I would be sceptical, but I can see it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks by offering you money, it would keep it on a strictly 'business footing'? But then, you know what that makes you..?

If she is as attractive as you suggest, maybe he fears someone who can satisfy her in bed taking her away from him, and it's his way of keeping a form of 'control' over it?

To be honest I felt a bit embarrassed.

Was rather shocked. Didn't really feel comfortable having the conversation with him. "

Why not? It could be the start of a mutually beneficial 'arrangement'... but I wouldn't take money of the guy though... be interested to hear how it pans out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod that mate if she is hot get in there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about. "

He doesn't drink alcohol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What's your gut feeling on this op?

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.

He doesn't drink alcohol

Then he clearly understood the offer he was making...? Personally, I wouldn't deliberately go round there and force a conversation, but maybe next time you see him broach the subject again and see if he really was serious... but first think of some ground rules under which you 'might' consider it...?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.

He doesn't drink alcohol

I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say.

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.

He doesn't drink alcohol

I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say."

Quite. It wasn't clear from the OP if the wife was actually present when the offer was made....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him to talk to his wife, also you could give him pointers on pleasing his wife, just cause he in a wheelchair, dont mean no sex life, she would be appalled and embarrassed if she knew, too close to home, dont do it,

Her x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.

He doesn't drink alcohol

I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say.

Quite. It wasn't clear from the OP if the wife was actually present when the offer was made...."

You're quite right but I am excellent at dishing out advice on situations I know very little about based purely on things I've assumed

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.

I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.

With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.

He doesn't drink alcohol

I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say.

Quite. It wasn't clear from the OP if the wife was actually present when the offer was made....

You're quite right but I am excellent at dishing out advice on situations I know very little about based purely on things I've assumed

Aren't we all.... aren't we all...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clarification : Wife wasn't present however got assurance that she was aware and suggested a black guy. The couple live a few houses away from mine.

Not sure if the wife agreed on the terms £££

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre

"Sod that mate if she is hot get in there!"

Totally

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Make sure he knows there is no money back guarantee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.

We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.

The wife is stunning to say the least.....

The husband is in a wheel chair.

Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"

We could do a double up and go 50/50 on the guilt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sod that mate if she is hot get in there!

Totally "

Pronto

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Make sure he knows there is no money back guarantee "

Seriously considering the offer to shag the Misses but not too keen on the money. If he hadn't offered me money I would have followed him to his that evening and done the deed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do it and it goes tits up then they are a couple of doors away from you and it could make your life uncomfortable???...i think it would me x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

It might sound fun to start with .... but im sure eventually the novelty will wear off ... and you will be lumbered with them ... and because you are receiving money .... this could become very tricky ... almost like blackmail ...and they are your neighbours ... so you wont be able to relax .... think hard about it .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might sound fun to start with .... but im sure eventually the novelty will wear off ... and you will be lumbered with them ... and because you are receiving money .... this could become very tricky ... almost like blackmail ...and they are your neighbours ... so you wont be able to relax .... think hard about it ..... "

Good point !

But what could go wrong though?

Awkward yes but 'wrong' I doubt.

I will probably pop in for a coffee and see how we get on I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit close to home to me to be honest but if it doesn't bother the 3 of you then why not!!

Maybe just say the money is your only issue with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.

We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.

The wife is stunning to say the least.....

The husband is in a wheel chair.

Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"

Just do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.

We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.

The wife is stunning to say the least.....

The husband is in a wheel chair.

Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"

Win, win, win

Maybe he had to offer it to make it a transaction rather than emotional

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By *axtanMan
over a year ago

los Cristianos now

Just fuck her! !

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre

"Just fuck her! !"

Agree with earlier comment. You're over thinking it mate. Just do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds a bit close to home to me to be honest but if it doesn't bother the 3 of you then why not!!

Maybe just say the money is your only issue with it x "

Money is the issue, I have admitted that. Makes it seem a bit "formal".

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre

"Sounds a bit close to home to me to be honest but if it doesn't bother the 3 of you then why not!!

Maybe just say the money is your only issue with it x

Money is the issue, I have admitted that. Makes it seem a bit "formal".

When you eventually do it, will you pop a few pics on here for us mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.

We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.

The wife is stunning to say the least.....

The husband is in a wheel chair.

Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"
look if you're feeling guilty take the money give her one and then give money to me problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be a set up

Do you like prison food op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It could be a set up

Do you like prison food op "

I will seek legal advice before rather than after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see

Would you honestly take his money, fuck his wife and be cool with it.?

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hell yeah get her hooked and get them paying direct debit once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fab would suit them

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I'd definitely want a sit down chat with everyone present to make sure it's all legit between them.

If you don't need the money and would prefer to do it pro bono (pun intended

) so there's no pressure or obligation then say that to them.

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By *pen_minded_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see"

What this guy said!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd definitely want a sit down chat with everyone present to make sure it's all legit between them.

If you don't need the money and would prefer to do it pro bono (pun intended

) so there's no pressure or obligation then say that to them. "

Yeah pro bono

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see

Would you honestly take his money, fuck his wife and be cool with it.?

hell yeah get her hooked and get them paying direct debit once a month

I would prefer a standing order

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like fab would suit them "

Not before I have my dirty way with her ! Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other alternative let me fuck her you watch and I will take the money ,its a win win

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Other alternative let me fuck her you watch and I will take the money ,its a win win

I'm not into watching m8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just imagine....hubby really fancies you and while your at it with hes mrs he suddenly finds out he can walk and jumps on your back and bums your hole. You never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If his wife is nice and she confirmed it I'd tell him it's free what time Sunday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just imagine....hubby really fancies you and while your at it with hes mrs he suddenly finds out he can walk and jumps on your back and bums your hole. You never know

How dramatic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Other alternative let me fuck her you watch and I will take the money ,its a win win

I'm not into watching m8.

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oh well close your eyes then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say you're happy to discuss with both of them but don't want any money for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just imagine....hubby really fancies you and while your at it with hes mrs he suddenly finds out he can walk and jumps on your back and bums your hole. You never know

How dramatic.

I could say the same about your story....i mean post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money and sex with a hot woman.

Is anyone else confused about what the problem is?

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By *rishmocha2Couple
over a year ago

Beds

Agree with this. If you're not in the sex "business", then why get involved with someone who wants to pay you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money and sex with a hot woman.

Is anyone else confused about what the problem is? "
I am ,offer me money to have sex with you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Money and sex with a hot woman.

Is anyone else confused about what the problem is? "

Try reading the original post that might help. And if you still don't get it don't worry....it well might be you don't understand it, and a lack of understanding leads to confusion

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Not that I've been in this situation, me... I've always avoided crapping on my own doorstep.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.

We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.

The wife is stunning to say the least.....

The husband is in a wheel chair.

Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"

Have a proper conversation with him and find out if he really wants you to have sex with his wife.

He could be serious and unable to fulfill her and thinks this would be a way to provide what she wants/needs.

If he is serious say you would needs to talk to both of them to be sure they are both willing for this to take place and if it did happen that you would not like it to interfer with your friendship.

Mention if there are any doubts it might be better to arrange something with a stranger rather than someone who they would see frequently in daily life.

The three of you are adults and should be able to talk seriously about delicate subjects and reach a conclusion about how to proceed.

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